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Yes, I love stealth as I can look at a profile and not be concerned that person will message me.
I turned it off one weekend and the amount of ‘did you like what you saw’ messages off guys profiles that only had cock pictures on, went through the roof.
No I’ll keep the facility please  |
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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
The right place |
"Would how you use fab change if stealth mode was disabled for all?
Not at all! Would be nice to see I've been viewed by a female for a change though   "
I agree. I’d take it as a compliment to be viewed regularly |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
There's also the issue that I'm proper clumsy and end up in some profiles I don't really want to be in...... when they see you've looked you get the "did you like?" messages and they're not fun. |
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"There's also the issue that I'm proper clumsy and end up in some profiles I don't really want to be in...... when they see you've looked you get the "did you like?" messages and they're not fun."
Yup. Sod that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's also the issue that I'm proper clumsy and end up in some profiles I don't really want to be in...... when they see you've looked you get the "did you like?" messages and they're not fun."
I do that all the time scrolling on the forums damm touch screen phone also sometimes scrolling can hit the delete post button or reply or something |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Definitely. I'm curious so click on profiles if I read an interesting/ridiculous post or I end up going down a veri hole. That would have to stop so I'd probably be a bit more productive. |
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"Why do people use ninja mode?
To perv without looking like perverts. I know I do
This and so they don’t message you saying I seen you looking at me  "
Yes, I'm here for the wolly, not the chat thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people use ninja mode?
To perv without looking like perverts. I know I do
This and so they don’t message you saying I seen you looking at me "
They’ll message you anyway, because you’re incredibly desirable. Ninja mode won’t save you 
And your can still ignore my message, even if you had perved on me in stealth mode lol |
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"Why do people use ninja mode?
To perv without looking like perverts. I know I do
This and so they don’t message you saying I seen you looking at me "
Surely it's better for someone to know you like looking. That is what we are all here for after all! It's easy to get the impression that no one looks at my profile.
Actually, if it was disabled then I would just KNOW that no one is looking! |
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Surely it's better for someone to know you like looking. That is what we are all here for after all! It's easy to get the impression that no one looks at my profile.
Actually, if it was disabled then I would just KNOW that no one is looking! "
But I'm not here to boost someone's ego or encourage yet more unsuitable messages. Some people are nice to look at but I don't want to engage with them or give any impression that that's the case. |
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Surely it's better for someone to know you like looking. That is what we are all here for after all! It's easy to get the impression that no one looks at my profile.
Actually, if it was disabled then I would just KNOW that no one is looking!
But I'm not here to boost someone's ego or encourage yet more unsuitable messages. Some people are nice to look at but I don't want to engage with them or give any impression that that's the case."
Mmm. If I want to interact I'll let you know |
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"People would end up screen shotting profiles so they could re look at them "
Would it come to that?
If I look at people I don't mind them seeing that I have. If they read my profile, see what I am looking for at present, get in contact all the better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people use ninja mode?
To perv without looking like perverts. I know I do
But why do you care?
Because they'll think I'm interested in them, when I'm not. It's just window shopping "
Do you think they won’t find you by other means ? |
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There’s already a thread on these forums of a guy complaining that TV’s are looking at his profile and can he block them.
Not everyone wants certain people viewing them and also multiple views can be wrongly assumed, that you’re interested in that person, when it can be the complete opposite. |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"Why do people use ninja mode?
To perv without looking like perverts. I know I do
This and so they don’t message you saying I seen you looking at me
Surely it's better for someone to know you like looking. That is what we are all here for after all! It's easy to get the impression that no one looks at my profile.
Actually, if it was disabled then I would just KNOW that no one is looking! "
No but we don’t always look at people we want if I look and I’m interested il leave a mark that Iv been there  |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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"Why do people use ninja mode?
To perv without looking like perverts. I know I do
This and so they don’t message you saying I seen you looking at me
They’ll message you anyway, because you’re incredibly desirable. Ninja mode won’t save you
And your can still ignore my message, even if you had perved on me in stealth mode lol "
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Surely it's better for someone to know you like looking. That is what we are all here for after all! It's easy to get the impression that no one looks at my profile.
Actually, if it was disabled then I would just KNOW that no one is looking!
But I'm not here to boost someone's ego or encourage yet more unsuitable messages. Some people are nice to look at but I don't want to engage with them or give any impression that that's the case."
I certainly don't just message anyone who looks at my profile. If someone repeatedly looked but was too shy to get in touch it might be good to say hi though.
Messages are generally a good way of finding out if you like someone and an equally good way of finding that you don't. If more people looked off stealth mode people would not message. It's just because there are only a handful currently due to stealth mode. (or because no one is interested!) |
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"There’s already a thread on these forums of a guy complaining that TV’s are looking at his profile and can he block them.
Not everyone wants certain people viewing them and also multiple views can be wrongly assumed, that you’re interested in that person, when it can be the complete opposite.
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Yes, I'll often see comments in the forums which cause me to go look at the profile, to see if they come across as badly on that... |
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"Why do people use ninja mode?
To perv without looking like perverts. I know I do
But why do you care?
Because they'll think I'm interested in them, when I'm not. It's just window shopping
Do you think they won’t find you by other means ?"
Of course they can "find me" but women have enough to fend off on here, let alone men who assume we're interested in them because we viewed their profile. I get men telling me that they're what I'm looking for because they've decided that they fit the description in my profile text. Imagine how much more entitled they'd be if they saw that I'd seen their profile. No thanks. |
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"Why do people use ninja mode?
To perv without looking like perverts. I know I do
This and so they don’t message you saying I seen you looking at me
Surely it's better for someone to know you like looking. That is what we are all here for after all! It's easy to get the impression that no one looks at my profile.
Actually, if it was disabled then I would just KNOW that no one is looking!
No but we don’t always look at people we want if I look and I’m interested il leave a mark that Iv been there "
I look at people who comment on forums etc but would not want to meet some of them. I don't get messages saying "I noticed you looking!" It's probably different for women. |
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"Why do people use ninja mode?
To perv without looking like perverts. I know I do
This and so they don’t message you saying I seen you looking at me
Surely it's better for someone to know you like looking. That is what we are all here for after all! It's easy to get the impression that no one looks at my profile.
Actually, if it was disabled then I would just KNOW that no one is looking!
No but we don’t always look at people we want if I look and I’m interested il leave a mark that Iv been there
I look at people who comment on forums etc but would not want to meet some of them. I don't get messages saying "I noticed you looking!" It's probably different for women. "
Definitely different for women |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"Why do people use ninja mode?
To perv without looking like perverts. I know I do
This and so they don’t message you saying I seen you looking at me
Surely it's better for someone to know you like looking. That is what we are all here for after all! It's easy to get the impression that no one looks at my profile.
Actually, if it was disabled then I would just KNOW that no one is looking!
No but we don’t always look at people we want if I look and I’m interested il leave a mark that Iv been there
I look at people who comment on forums etc but would not want to meet some of them. I don't get messages saying "I noticed you looking!" It's probably different for women.
Definitely different for women "
Most definitely |
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"Why do people use ninja mode?
To perv without looking like perverts. I know I do
This and so they don’t message you saying I seen you looking at me
Surely it's better for someone to know you like looking. That is what we are all here for after all! It's easy to get the impression that no one looks at my profile.
Actually, if it was disabled then I would just KNOW that no one is looking!
No but we don’t always look at people we want if I look and I’m interested il leave a mark that Iv been there
I look at people who comment on forums etc but would not want to meet some of them. I don't get messages saying "I noticed you looking!" It's probably different for women.
Definitely different for women
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People hide their profiles after I've looked!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people use ninja mode?
To perv without looking like perverts. I know I do
But why do you care?
Because they'll think I'm interested in them, when I'm not. It's just window shopping
Do you think they won’t find you by other means ?
Of course they can "find me" but women have enough to fend off on here, let alone men who assume we're interested in them because we viewed their profile. I get men telling me that they're what I'm looking for because they've decided that they fit the description in my profile text. Imagine how much more entitled they'd be if they saw that I'd seen their profile. No thanks."
Goodness me. You evidently feel very strongly about your right to spy on people without their knowledge. I don’t underestimate the challenges of being a woman on FAB. There is a lot of traffic/noise for you to deal with - my point was merely that I doubt you’d see a significant increase in noise, just because you’d visited a profile.
Of course, what FAB really needs to do is develop a swipe/match functionality , as exists with other “love apps” and then the problems are gone - almost - entirely |
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"Why do people use ninja mode?
To perv without looking like perverts. I know I do
This and so they don’t message you saying I seen you looking at me
Surely it's better for someone to know you like looking. That is what we are all here for after all! It's easy to get the impression that no one looks at my profile.
Actually, if it was disabled then I would just KNOW that no one is looking!
No but we don’t always look at people we want if I look and I’m interested il leave a mark that Iv been there
I look at people who comment on forums etc but would not want to meet some of them. I don't get messages saying "I noticed you looking!" It's probably different for women. "
Imagine how many men slide into our DMs after a forum post. It's different if it's a more personal side conversation/follow up.to something but not when they're blatantly trying to get around profile preferences. Keep it public please!
After my post about Nigg willies yesterday, I had several men with big willies message me. Blatantly peacocking and perhaps hoping for dirty chat judging by their conversation skills. Well they crashed and burned there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people use ninja mode?
To perv without looking like perverts. I know I do
This and so they don’t message you saying I seen you looking at me
Surely it's better for someone to know you like looking. That is what we are all here for after all! It's easy to get the impression that no one looks at my profile.
Actually, if it was disabled then I would just KNOW that no one is looking!
No but we don’t always look at people we want if I look and I’m interested il leave a mark that Iv been there
I look at people who comment on forums etc but would not want to meet some of them. I don't get messages saying "I noticed you looking!" It's probably different for women.
Imagine how many men slide into our DMs after a forum post. It's different if it's a more personal side conversation/follow up.to something but not when they're blatantly trying to get around profile preferences. Keep it public please!
After my post about Nigg willies yesterday, I had several men with big willies message me. Blatantly peacocking and perhaps hoping for dirty chat judging by their conversation skills. Well they crashed and burned there. "
** quickly slides his “tickler” back out of your DM’s ** |
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