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Should I stay or should I go?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you using the forums like The Dice Man?
If you like...yeah"
'If this world is wearing thin
And you're thinking of escape
I'll go anywhere with you
Just wrap me up in chains
But if you try to go alone
Don't think I'll understand
Stay with me, stay with me'
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got to stay man, can't leave me all alone 
You stay too 
Stop encouraging them. The other men want less competition and you're not helping. "
More competition = more desperate men
More desperate men = more shags for me |
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"Are you using the forums like The Dice Man?
If you like...yeah
'If this world is wearing thin
And you're thinking of escape
I'll go anywhere with you
Just wrap me up in chains
But if you try to go alone
Don't think I'll understand
Stay with me, stay with me'
https://youtu.be/zYu3d_dsc40"
Love that song x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided.... |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided...."
That's on them
You do you
Stay x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided....
That's on them
You do you
Stay x"
Im not unhappy im just meh....I only use this site for the forums so its disappointing to be told your no good at it lol |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided....
That's on them
You do you
Stay x
Im not unhappy im just meh....I only use this site for the forums so its disappointing to be told your no good at it lol"
Hide your profile for a day xx |
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided...."
Why do people even do that? What would make someone think I know I’ll randomly tell this person I don’t like them?! These are sad nasty people with no fucking life and you should just take absolutely no notice. I wouldn’t. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided...."
You must have upset the clique. Ignore them.
If you inspire a message like that it usually means they are jealous.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided....
Why do people even do that? What would make someone think I know I’ll randomly tell this person I don’t like them?! These are sad nasty people with no fucking life and you should just take absolutely no notice. I wouldn’t. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided....
Why do people even do that? What would make someone think I know I’ll randomly tell this person I don’t like them?! These are sad nasty people with no fucking life and you should just take absolutely no notice. I wouldn’t. "
I accept that sometimes im not to everyone's taste |
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided....
Why do people even do that? What would make someone think I know I’ll randomly tell this person I don’t like them?! These are sad nasty people with no fucking life and you should just take absolutely no notice. I wouldn’t.
I accept that sometimes im not to everyone's taste"
You really can’t give people like that another thought though. That’s not normal. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided....
Why do people even do that? What would make someone think I know I’ll randomly tell this person I don’t like them?! These are sad nasty people with no fucking life and you should just take absolutely no notice. I wouldn’t.
I accept that sometimes im not to everyone's taste"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided...."
Take a breather and have a bit of time away. Don't let the people who think the forum should only be one way put you off - as the 'rules' state if you don't like a poster's threads then just pass them by.
The more variety there is the better it is. I enjoy your posts and threads and it would be the forum's loss if you stopped.
Not everyone likes what I do but some do and even if no one did it wouldn't stop me from posting.
As long as it stays within forum rules then post what the hell you like. |
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"Hey guys, just post stay or go and by midday which ever has the most votes I will do.....be kind...or dont...x"
I say:
Person stay cause I enjoy your posts
Profile pic reminds me of oasis so let that part go haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you using the forums like The Dice Man?
If you like...yeah
'If this world is wearing thin
And you're thinking of escape
I'll go anywhere with you
Just wrap me up in chains
But if you try to go alone
Don't think I'll understand
Stay with me, stay with me'
https://youtu.be/zYu3d_dsc40
Love that song x"
It is rather good |
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"Hey guys, just post stay or go and by midday which ever has the most votes I will do.....be kind...or dont...x
I say:
Person stay cause I enjoy your posts
Profile pic reminds me of oasis so let that part go haha"
I think he’s got a “young Mickey Rourke” thing going on? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t understand why people do that, it’s so petty and nasty.
You have to remember that it says nothing about you, and everything about them, don’t own that shit, it’s on them.
You have to decide what makes you happy, and don’t worry about other people.
I’m with the hide your account and take a break crowd. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Take some time out, come back when you're happier.
No one on here is liked by everyone and on the same hand no one should put up with abuse or stay and be on here when they are clearly not too happy. |
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided...."
Oh lord.... Just ignore them! Are you really going to base your decision on some random messages from a small number of people on the forums?
I'm pretty sure I'm not on a lot of people's Christmas card lists and that's fine. This isn't real life. This is just an online forum. Who cares if people like you on here. Why put so much energy into thinking about those who don't like you? |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided....
Oh lord.... Just ignore them! Are you really going to base your decision on some random messages from a small number of people on the forums?
I'm pretty sure I'm not on a lot of people's Christmas card lists and that's fine. This isn't real life. This is just an online forum. Who cares if people like you on here. Why put so much energy into thinking about those who don't like you? "
Well said xx
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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Its really not fair to put the “decision” in the hands of others.
Just determine what it is you want to get out of fab and/or the forums and make an informed decision for yourself.
If you want to let others dictate what you do, then you will never be happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided....
Oh lord.... Just ignore them! Are you really going to base your decision on some random messages from a small number of people on the forums?
I'm pretty sure I'm not on a lot of people's Christmas card lists and that's fine. This isn't real life. This is just an online forum. Who cares if people like you on here. Why put so much energy into thinking about those who don't like you?
Well said xx
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There are way to many men on here, so you know my answer |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided...."
That's a really childish thing to do. Now you have to stay. |
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided....
Why do people even do that? What would make someone think I know I’ll randomly tell this person I don’t like them?! These are sad nasty people with no fucking life and you should just take absolutely no notice. I wouldn’t. "
This and double this. Its a very few but loud individuals. The vast majority are good people and enjoy your threads. Don't be bullied out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its really not fair to put the “decision” in the hands of others.
Just determine what it is you want to get out of fab and/or the forums and make an informed decision for yourself.
If you want to let others dictate what you do, then you will never be happy."
I agree with this advice
NBVN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've left here so many time but always come (heaven only knows why). Nasty people like to be Nasty,block them and move on. How many arguments have we had in the past,that didn't make you leave,you stayed here just to wind me up  Do the same to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just do what you want. Pay no attention to the people that send pms and insult you.
Iv had several posters send me messages slagging me off because they don’t like something Iv said. The last one called me A egomaniac, Vile, Dumb, Crass and a fake mother fucking arsehole all within the space of a couple of messages.
Just ignore them. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Do what makes you happy.
If you make your decisions or manage your actions based on the majority opinion, then you will never be happy and neither will they be.
I’ve lost count of the amount of times that people have sent me negative messages or posted abuse about my opinions or threads. I’m not doing it for them though.
If you’re unhappy, then leave, if you enjoy it, then stay. The decision is yours to make |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all go through moments and weeks like this. I know I've almost pressed the delete account quite recently as I felt I was so not suited to here.
Ask yourself what are you getting out of it.
Is it only moments that you don't enjoy it here or is it more?
Why don't you just hide your account and take a week or more from here and if you miss it then stay and make it work for you. If you find you're happier away from here then you've your answer.
Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks to everyone...its very hard because I love the forums, they make me laugh they make me mad but its like having a sore tooth that you can't stop playing with...I think ill stay do the hidden profile thing and just observe the forums without joining in....for awhile....and to all those that said go.....up yours x |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"Thanks to everyone...its very hard because I love the forums, they make me laugh they make me mad but its like having a sore tooth that you can't stop playing with...I think ill stay do the hidden profile thing and just observe the forums without joining in....for awhile....and to all those that said go.....up yours x"
Up my what?  |
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"Thanks to everyone...its very hard because I love the forums, they make me laugh they make me mad but its like having a sore tooth that you can't stop playing with...I think ill stay do the hidden profile thing and just observe the forums without joining in....for awhile....and to all those that said go.....up yours x"
I'm glad you are staying :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided...."
If I listened to all the abuse I’ve had over the years on these here forums I would have left 9 years ago! Fuck’em. |
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided....
If I listened to all the abuse I’ve had over the years on these here forums I would have left 9 years ago! Fuck’em. "
Fuck ‘em all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided....
If I listened to all the abuse I’ve had over the years on these here forums I would have left 9 years ago! Fuck’em.
Fuck ‘em all! "
Kill ‘em all kill ‘em all. ~ Mallory Knox |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
In my experience, if you go there could be trouble , but if you stay it will be double
Seriously stay. Stop being a dick and be nice to her, show sine appreciation and she will suck your cock again like when you first met |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know if anyone as told you this but you resemble the lead singer from The Doors, i can't think of his name.
Jim Morrison
MrMojoRisin I thought more of a Dave Grohl look
Mickey Rourke! "
The hero in a cool as fuck 1970s road movie |
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided....
If I listened to all the abuse I’ve had over the years on these here forums I would have left 9 years ago! Fuck’em.
Fuck ‘em all!
Kill ‘em all kill ‘em all. ~ Mallory Knox "
I’m a pacifist, so no killing pour moi!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided....
If I listened to all the abuse I’ve had over the years on these here forums I would have left 9 years ago! Fuck’em.
Fuck ‘em all! "
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided...."
Well I think that says far more about them than you. And I wouldn’t give them the satisfaction of thinking they’d pushed you away.
Who the fuck do they think they are? Tossbags. The lot of them.
You stay if you want, you leave if you want. But not because some jumped up little fuckwits can’t keep their troglodyte opinions to themselves.
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Hey guys, just post stay or go and by midday which ever has the most votes I will do.....be kind...or dont...x"
Stay.
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided....
If I listened to all the abuse I’ve had over the years on these here forums I would have left 9 years ago! Fuck’em.
Fuck ‘em all!
https://youtu.be/8q78Baj98UY"
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"Ill be honest...a few days ago I had some messages saying how disliked and hated I was in the forums....now I dont block or report because my motto is if I post in forums then I should take whatever people say....but being told by different people how disliked you are in something I enjoy has just got to me and hence the reason I'm undecided...."
Any publicity is good publicity. Personally never heard of you..... So can't be that notorious |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't know if anyone as told you this but you resemble the lead singer from The Doors, i can't think of his name.
Oh he’ll love that, I think you’ve just made a friend for life! "
Think you know me a bit too well lol |
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"I don't know if anyone as told you this but you resemble the lead singer from The Doors, i can't think of his name.
Oh he’ll love that, I think you’ve just made a friend for life!
Think you know me a bit too well lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know if anyone as told you this but you resemble the lead singer from The Doors, i can't think of his name."
I don’t think you saw his picture either? Nothing like him at all… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know if anyone as told you this but you resemble the lead singer from The Doors, i can't think of his name.
I don’t think you saw his picture either? Nothing like him at all… "
A matter of opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're never going to meet the people that have sent you those messages, they don't matter! Hode and return stronger. This site isn't for everyone and everyone can't be into the same pwople. Its just like real life x |
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you were one of the first people that interacted with me when I was brand new to the forums
I like your cheeky playfulness and wouldn’t want you to hide from the forums too 