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Yes, we certainly will if it feels right for all of us. No use putting restrictions on yourself for nothing, but that said we never go anywhere with the expectation of playing - it's just a bonus if we do. |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
Kingston upon Thames |
"Yes, we certainly will if it feels right for all of us. No use putting restrictions on yourself for nothing, but that said we never go anywhere with the expectation of playing - it's just a bonus if we do. "
we use the policy ... chat, flirt and very often fuck ... in a club environment
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"Would you ...?
Have you ?
Have you ever met anyone on a night out or at a party and... well gone straight to theirs or to yours and fucked the night away ?
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Yes to all and it’s always fucking amazing or dreadfully awful. No in between for me |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Yes I have, it’s entirely dependant on the dynamic of a meet and the connection you have with that person there’s no rules when it comes to meeting someone new, just go with the flow and have fun xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I have a couple of time ended up in bed first meet with someone never planned too just seem to go with the flow but always good to speak with someone first to find out there likes dislikes to make it more amazing  |
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Yes, Yes and Yes - but it all depends on the situation and person at the time. I have no expectations until we both 'know' its going to happen.
Most memorable chance meeting was a US Airlines Air Stewardess in a bar in London, from laughing at her trying to connect to wi-fi by walking around holding her laptop in the air, to leaving her room at 7am, it was a great night |
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I’ve never had a one night stand in the real world - not my thing.
On FAB, as a single I chatted to people for quite a while before I’ve met them so it’s never felt like a one night stand scenario…I feel the experience is better when a connection has been made.
As a couple we do the same - we chat to people and ensure we all fit and have that connection.
Except in a scenario where I’m surprising C, then she’ll have no involvement.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, Yes and Yes - but it all depends on the situation and person at the time. I have no expectations until we both 'know' its going to happen.
Most memorable chance meeting was a US Airlines Air Stewardess in a bar in London, from laughing at her trying to connect to wi-fi by walking around holding her laptop in the air, to leaving her room at 7am, it was a great night "
Lucky devil, I used to stay in hotels close to Heathrow and on the odd occasion when either Chinese airways came in or Emirates always a nice stewardess standing waiting around the bar area to chat up and maybe take back to her room |
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"I’ve never had a one night stand in the real world - not my thing.
On FAB, as a single I chatted to people for quite a while before I’ve met them so it’s never felt like a one night stand scenario…I feel the experience is better when a connection has been made.
As a couple we do the same - we chat to people and ensure we all fit and have that connection.
Except in a scenario where I’m surprising C, then she’ll have no involvement.
K"
"I chatted to people for quite a while before I’ve met them so it’s never felt like a one night stand scenario…I feel the experience is better when a connection has been made."
This is me too |
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Only ever after a fair amount of getting to know someone by messaging for weeks prior to the meet/date. I've never had sex with someone having just met them on a night out either. I think there's only one person I've ever had sex with the first time I met them without having spoken before that day and it was a friend's husband at a club. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes I have done but like posters above only after I've spoken to someone for a fair amount of time. It wouldn't be a case of straight to a hotel room, more I'd meet for a social and if things felt "right" it would be a natural progression. |
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"Yes I have, it’s entirely dependant on the dynamic of a meet and the connection you have with that person there’s no rules when it comes to meeting someone new, just go with the flow and have fun xx"
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I have done but like posters above only after I've spoken to someone for a fair amount of time. It wouldn't be a case of straight to a hotel room, more I'd meet for a social and if things felt "right" it would be a natural progression."
I'll cancel the booking then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I have done but like posters above only after I've spoken to someone for a fair amount of time. It wouldn't be a case of straight to a hotel room, more I'd meet for a social and if things felt "right" it would be a natural progression."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes isn’t that a given. I don’t mind a quick social to make sure I am who I am but I wouldn’t meet someone without the chance to move over to some fun. Otherwise what’s the point it’s a swinging site not a dating site.
Don’t get me wrong though I do love attending socials as in proper social events, these are quite fun and great to get to know people and enjoy the social part of the scene. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, with the right person. I tend to talk to people a lot on here before I get to the point of meeting and it's generally not hard to tell if the chemistry is there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Normally, I'd say no never but, I nearly did yesterday... Started off as a social but we were both wanting more of each other... Shame I had to get kids otherwise I'm sure lots of fun would have been had lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I have done but like posters above only after I've spoken to someone for a fair amount of time. It wouldn't be a case of straight to a hotel room, more I'd meet for a social and if things felt "right" it would be a natural progression."
Also this for me too. I’ve never done a fuck and go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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met the hubby via love@lycos
originally it was just a fuck session in the back of his car, after 2 weeks of not being apart realised it was more series
17 years later, married and 3 kids and still going strong
so yeah, yeah and yeah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I’ve never been one for one night stands but I’ve had a meet after talking to someone for a while and met them and spent the weekend together due to distance |
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All depends on how things go. Have done and also politely declined, normally where to much alcohol has been involved and didn't want it to be a d*unken mistake/disappointing performance for any body involved |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you ...?
Have you ?
Have you ever met anyone on a night out or at a party and... well gone straight to theirs or to yours and fucked the night away ?
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Yeah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you ...?
Have you ?
Have you ever met anyone on a night out or at a party and... well gone straight to theirs or to yours and fucked the night away ?
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Yes to all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you ...?
Have you ?
Have you ever met anyone on a night out or at a party and... well gone straight to theirs or to yours and fucked the night away ?
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Yes. |
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Once.. years ago I met a woman whilst out drinking, she was visiting from another country and was going back home the next day. We had awesome chemistry, began kissing in the bar and she invited back to her hotel for a night of hot sex.. was meant to be a one night stand but we ended up in a ltr for the next 8 months! We still talk now luckily it was a positive experience  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you ...?
Have you ?
Have you ever met anyone on a night out or at a party and... well gone straight to theirs or to yours and fucked the night away ?
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Yes. It's how I met my wife. I talked to her so much she fucked me to get me to shut up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes
Yes
No.... because things like that don't happen in the real world to women who look like me."
Really? If we'd been chatting at a party... Your looks, combined with a personality I like, would have me wanting you straight away lol |
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Yes but there’s no expectations of play on any date - it’s about reading the subtle signals like if a woman is sucking your cock while you’re driving to her house…. That’s probably a good indicator….. but there’s never an expectation. |
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"Would you ...?
Have you ?
Have you ever met anyone on a night out or at a party and... well gone straight to theirs or to yours and fucked the night away ?
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I go to clubs and rarely even know their names, before having sex.. However I wouldn't ever go back to anyones house x |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes
Yes
No.... because things like that don't happen in the real world to women who look like me.
Really? If we'd been chatting at a party... Your looks, combined with a personality I like, would have me wanting you straight away lol"
Ahh.... the exception that proves the rule.
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Some straight off have said I live alone and the house is empty so we've finished our drinks and headed their but once through the door just chewing the face of each other and still kept it social with few drinks and odd play until we got to the point. |
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"Would you ...?
Have you ?
Have you ever met anyone on a night out or at a party and... well gone straight to theirs or to yours and fucked the night away ?
I go to clubs and rarely even know their names, before having sex.. However I wouldn't ever go back to anyones house x"
You’d have to know my name to remember it |
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"Yes, we certainly will if it feels right for all of us. No use putting restrictions on yourself for nothing, but that said we never go anywhere with the expectation of playing - it's just a bonus if we do. we use the policy ... chat, flirt and very often fuck ... in a club environment "
Perfect approach, we just need to be in the same Club at the same time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, we certainly will if it feels right for all of us. No use putting restrictions on yourself for nothing, but that said we never go anywhere with the expectation of playing - it's just a bonus if we do. "
This!
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my youth, probably more often that not. In more recent years I always arrange a social first. That said, one of those ended in a lovely sex session, and the other would have, had we not been in such a public area. Meet two was rabbit city..I like to chat quite a while before meets though. |
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Yes to all
Sometimes the sexual chemistry/urge is just to much. Met a lady from here on an organised social after a few drinks and some very sexual flirtation we went straight to my room and ripped each others clothes off |
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