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over a year ago
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I have never shared but I think I have the ability to without a problem arising
No it's not because I don't care etc etc
Experiences
I thrive on experiences and learning
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Mr does, most definitely. He says he loves knowing how much I am enjoying myself, and others are enjoying themselves with me, but always with the knowledge that I will come back home to him. 
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Not really. I admire the men who allow their loved ones to enjoy others...jealous of them really.
Even play friends on here sometimes gave me a twinge.
More security and openness seems to help but yet to have felt that.
Its obv a personal thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to think off my self as inbween
Single but yes if I had a partner then yes I love to share love to hear what nighty stuff they got up to
Would hope they were the same |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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Depends, not in a romantic sense but yes in a sexual sense.
I have and will again enjoy watching a partner enjoy sex with me and other people.
Even coming home after having sex with someone else.
It is about the energy that you create together and maintaining the energy for claim back sex together.
So yes, I do enjoy to sexualy share.
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"All like to share? Interested in the difference, after reading the women thread..."
Sharing as in moresums ? Sharing as he has a pass ?
In a relationship or swinging "friends"
So many variants , I didn't get the other thread either ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest I think most men like to share their women.
But most women don't like to share their men.
Male posting BTW."
I’d be surprised if that was the case tbh... I think mostly guys are possessive... but I certainly appreciate the guys that share.. hot as fuck...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All like to share? Interested in the difference, after reading the women thread...
Sharing as in moresums ? Sharing as he has a pass ?
In a relationship or swinging "friends"
So many variants , I didn't get the other thread either ... "
In whichever sense you like |
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It's none of my business what "friends" do ...and I like moresums ...
In a relationship , I like to play together and apart, so if agreeable ...pass for both works for me.
So yes sharing is caring for me  |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"It's none of my business what "friends" do ...and I like moresums ...
In a relationship , I like to play together and apart, so if agreeable ...pass for both works for me.
So yes sharing is caring for me "
Taxi to Hampshire please.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first "outside the norm" experience was when I was 19 and my partner said I could sleep with her but she had 4 other men on the go. She was 38.
I agreed and the relationship commenced. We lived together quite quickly and we both had lovers. In the 10 years we were together there were 14. It went wrong when she started doing secretive things and purely by chance, making the bed, I found out. Her reaction was poor and the relationship ended in Divorce.
We would never come from one bed to our own bed and have sex. We always showered.
My most memorable lover was a lady who was bisexual and lived with her girlfriend. We never had a 3 sum or watched each other. We respected the preference of the time.
Amazingly I went from that relationship to one which is now sexless, hence being on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it's a swinging or fwb relationship then it's none of my business what the other person does, doesn't bother me at all beyond the sexual health aspect but equally I'm not turned on by knowing about it.
In a serious and committed relationship, no. I think there's only a few people who can keep the green eyed monster at bay in that situation and I'm not one of them. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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The same response as for women; some do, some don’t, some say that they do but actually get pissy if they’re expected to.
With guys I’ve found that swinging is great if they’re getting MFF’s or attention but if their partner gets more or are expected to fulfil her fantasies, that’s when their egos get bruised |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In general no im ultra competitive sharing goes against who i am but i am generous but whats mine is mine whats yours is minethis is my world your all just in my head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it's a swinging or fwb relationship then it's none of my business what the other person does, doesn't bother me at all beyond the sexual health aspect but equally I'm not turned on by knowing about it.
In a serious and committed relationship, no. I think there's only a few people who can keep the green eyed monster at bay in that situation and I'm not one of them."
Learning how to harness the green eyed monster is key. That little niggle of jealousy I've found to be a total turn on... discomfort is balanced by intense horniess and over time that balance just shifts more to horn. Takes time.
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I (Rick) do not have a problem sharing Cazz and we have had some great meets with single guys,however Cazz is not sure how she would feel about me having full sex with with another women, hence why we are a soft swing couple with other couples.
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It always amazes me on a swinging site how many people don't 'share'! Is it insecurities in themselves or the relationship that put them off sharing?
Genuinely interested as I find it relatively easy to separate emotions and sex |
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over a year ago
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"It always amazes me on a swinging site how many people don't 'share'! Is it insecurities in themselves or the relationship that put them off sharing?
Genuinely interested as I find it relatively easy to separate emotions and sex "
For me, it’s certainly insecurities, and struggling to separate the emotions and the sex.
I love seeing him with someone else, I find it really erotic, but that’s if I’m there too. |
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This experience for both of us is to indulge in our fantasies that we can’t do with just the two of us.
We both have fantasies involving guys and girls so it’s all about sharing.
But the sharing is whilst we are together.
We’d not get anything from it at all for a hot wife/husband situation. We want to see us both get pleasure.
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over a year ago
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"It always amazes me on a swinging site how many people don't 'share'! Is it insecurities in themselves or the relationship that put them off sharing?
Genuinely interested as I find it relatively easy to separate emotions and sex
For me, it’s certainly insecurities, and struggling to separate the emotions and the sex.
I love seeing him with someone else, I find it really erotic, but that’s if I’m there too. "
And to expand on that, with having read midnights answer on the other thread, the dynamic you are in can greatly affect the way you are, if I was in a settled committed relationship, I might find it a lot easier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It always amazes me on a swinging site how many people don't 'share'! Is it insecurities in themselves or the relationship that put them off sharing?
Genuinely interested as I find it relatively easy to separate emotions and sex "
I don't understand how you jump to any of those conclusions.
A swing site is used in many different ways by its members. Even the term swinging is understood differently by its members too. Maybe it's more for those who enjoy clubs, group one off meets and the social side etc.
As for me, it's about focusing on the other with no other distractions, no exhibitionism, no feeling of competing of feeling to compete. It's about one on one, a place to immerse myself and give myself to the other and enjoy the other fully, even 3some (mfm) experiences no longer appeal. |
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"It always amazes me on a swinging site how many people don't 'share'! Is it insecurities in themselves or the relationship that put them off sharing?
Genuinely interested as I find it relatively easy to separate emotions and sex "
I can separate emotions from sex these days! Comes with age! But whilst in my 20s my first hubby wanted me to take lovers as did he ! Then for me to relate what went on! But in end backfired on him as I fell in love with my lover and left him for him! X |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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I was thinking about midnights response and my own experiences.
In the past It didn't bother me to share.
It depends on the relationship, fwb,then what they do is completely up to them but looking at it from a relationship, which I'm not in anyway, at my age:
"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together" (quoted taken from midnight)
I like watching and being involved in play with a partner and othersnas this does excite me and turn me on.
Separately, although it didn't bother me in the past, I think in a reltionship I would like just to play together.
I'm not delving into being seperated by distance.
Although i'm fickle so I might change my mind again in 30 seconds.
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In a heterosexual relationship I’m monogamous, will still go out dressed but just for socials no sex at all. So for a long term relationship I prefer to be quite vanilla with my partner.
However if she decided that she wanted to experiment with her sexuality or other kinky scenarios, well we only live once, so why deny new experiences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was thinking about midnights response and my own experiences.
In the past It didn't bother me to share.
It depends on the relationship, fwb,then what they do is completely up to them but looking at it from a relationship, which I'm not in anyway, at my age:
"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together" (quoted taken from midnight)
I like watching and being involved in play with a partner and othersnas this does excite me and turn me on.
Separately, although it didn't bother me in the past, I think in a reltionship I would like just to play together.
I'm not delving into being seperated by distance.
Although i'm fickle so I might change my mind again in 30 seconds.
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I guess as well, what is a relationship? Where is it's boundaries... Ooo i might start another thread! |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"I was thinking about midnights response and my own experiences.
In the past It didn't bother me to share.
It depends on the relationship, fwb,then what they do is completely up to them but looking at it from a relationship, which I'm not in anyway, at my age:
"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together" (quoted taken from midnight)
I like watching and being involved in play with a partner and othersnas this does excite me and turn me on.
Separately, although it didn't bother me in the past, I think in a reltionship I would like just to play together.
I'm not delving into being seperated by distance.
Although i'm fickle so I might change my mind again in 30 seconds.
I guess as well, what is a relationship? Where is it's boundaries... Ooo i might start another thread! "
That's another good question, define a relationship. You have my brain working today midnight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mr does, most definitely. He says he loves knowing how much I am enjoying myself, and others are enjoying themselves with me, but always with the knowledge that I will come back home to him.
Mrs kf x"
This except that I would be much less bothered about whether the other party enjoyed themselves with her.
As long as she thoroughly enjoyed it and came home to me emotionally and we can reclaim each other. It would be just as important for me to feel her reclaim me as for me to reclaim her. |
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"I was thinking about midnights response and my own experiences.
In the past It didn't bother me to share.
It depends on the relationship, fwb,then what they do is completely up to them but looking at it from a relationship, which I'm not in anyway, at my age:
"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together" (quoted taken from midnight)
I like watching and being involved in play with a partner and othersnas this does excite me and turn me on.
Separately, although it didn't bother me in the past, I think in a reltionship I would like just to play together.
I'm not delving into being seperated by distance.
Although i'm fickle so I might change my mind again in 30 seconds.
I guess as well, what is a relationship? Where is it's boundaries... Ooo i might start another thread! That's another good question, define a relationship. You have my brain working today midnight."
You can see why i don't sleep much  |
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