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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Like how does the daddy thing work. Who are these lucky blokes who manage to secure the role...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like it, K calls me it. That's about it

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

They are men who enjoy it who meet others who enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you know, you know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sex is happening, she moans harder daddy, you cum.

That's how it works.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like how does the daddy thing work. Who are these lucky blokes who manage to secure the role... "

What do you want to know?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s just so weird.........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Find a little who is looking for a daddy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're watching TV, she says "Pass me the remote daddy", you cum.

That's how it works."

FTFY

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Like totally like the idea.. it sits well with me.. but the role of a daddy.. is to what... the girl want someone to look to also... to learn from.. I’m super curious.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sex is happening, she moans harder daddy, you cum.

That's how it works."

Ohhh.. He knows

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like totally like the idea.. it sits well with me.. but the role of a daddy.. is to what... the girl want someone to look to also... to learn from.. I’m super curious. "

Depends on the people and their dynamic. For some it's just a word that gets used in the bedroom because they find it hot, for others it might be part of a D/s dynamic; anywhere in between.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I meet someone regularly that's older than me but no way would I see him as a daddy role thing that just creeps me out and i know were all different and it actually doesn't mean daddy but NO

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sex is happening, she moans harder daddy, you cum.

That's how it works."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I meet someone regularly that's older than me but no way would I see him as a daddy role thing that just creeps me out and i know were all different and it actually doesn't mean daddy but NO

See that’s more the petite girl and bigger bloke. Don’t get me wrong size difference is a huge turn on. Just this girl I met started calling me daddy and I was a bit stumped how to respond lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're eating cheesecake, she scoops some on her finger, smears across her bum and says lick me daddy", you cum.

That's how it works.

FTFY

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want a daddy

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"You're eating cheesecake, she scoops some on her finger, smears across her bum and says lick me daddy", you cum.

That's how it works.

FTFY

Thank you!"

Accurate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're eating cheesecake, she scoops some on her finger, smears across her bum and says lick me daddy", you cum.

That's how it works.

FTFY

Thank you!

Accurate "

I'll bring the cheesecake

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By *inkerbell67Woman over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Its messed up ,if someone wants to call you daddy .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its messed up ,if someone wants to call you daddy ."

#SorryNotSorry

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By *etcplCouple over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I meet someone regularly that's older than me but no way would I see him as a daddy role thing that just creeps me out and i know were all different and it actually doesn't mean daddy but NO

See that’s more the petite girl and bigger bloke. Don’t get me wrong size difference is a huge turn on. Just this girl I met started calling me daddy and I was a bit stumped how to respond lol"

Best response is to tell her to stop misbehaving and go tidy her room or you will tell her mother about her wicked ways and will stop her pocket money!

Thats usually end scene for me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They are men who enjoy it who meet others who enjoy it

Exactly...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My husband and I have had a dd/lg dynamic for nearly 8 years now, it works for us

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By *iger-NWMan over a year ago

Preston

What about liking granddads?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is only one guy who I’ve met who I wanted to call it but generally doesn’t do anything for me. I didn’t actually call him it but he did call me baby girl and it was hot. He said someone recently called him it and it freaked him out a bit but said he never felt it would freak him out with me, guess it’s down to dynamic.

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

Kinky role play , enjoy the fun ,

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By *eyond PurityCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

https://youtu.be/e1nD0rWnJ04

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By *ecretlivesCouple over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

It's a word in a dynamic. For getting the right headspace.

Think of the positive associations. The word is also about nurture, uncondititional love compassion and protection beyond sex.

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By *adetMan over a year ago

South of Ipswich

It's the main reason I tend to meet older guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He's a kink shamer. ^

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book."

You may not agree with it, but that is no reason to kink shame.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book."

The term "Daddy" is most commonly used during sex in the form of Sub and Dom, not a roleplay thing.

It's a sense of the man being the boss or in charge of

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By *kblueeyesCouple over a year ago

kilkenny

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book."

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By *urflrCouple over a year ago

wirral

We’ve played around with it a bit, dunno where it came from. It’s totally opposite to our usual dynamic and isn’t a regular thing. I’m usually Domme but first time he called me Baby Girl I went weak at the knees

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By *urflrCouple over a year ago

wirral

"It's a word in a dynamic. For getting the right headspace.

Think of the positive associations. The word is also about nurture, uncondititional love compassion and protection beyond sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

The term "Daddy" is most commonly used during sex in the form of Sub and Dom, not a roleplay thing.

It's a sense of the man being the boss or in charge of

When I have fun with a Tgirl we call eachother Sis.

That doesn't mean we are fantasising about being sisters.

Men call eachother Bro.

Words have different meanings

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not for me.

But there is no need to kink shame - a lot of this goes on in the forum these days

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book."

So you're trying to say all those who use these terms, ones on this thread should be either locked up or arrested for the use of a word? If it was a myriad of other words you'd be called a snowflake or that you were woke.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My wife loves the daddy thing, but I'm less into it. I love how turns on it makes her, and I know she previously dated guys a lot older than me, but I'm not 100% into it. When she begs her daddy to fill her up though...well, I always do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My wife loves the daddy thing, but I'm less into it. I love how turns on it makes her, and I know she previously dated guys a lot older than me, but I'm not 100% into it. When she begs her daddy to fill her up though...well, I always do

I think the last sentence sums up this activity as being dubious at best and plain weird at worst. As for kink shaming this is beyond kink and is very sinister in my opinion.

We are still entitled to opinions aren’t we?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book."

You're welcome to report us to the police

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My ex and I tried it before and it never really worked, it just felt weird and forced. With K though, I still wasn't in to it to start with and then she just said it once and it clicked for us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i adore it.. my ex was painfully vanilla. Still great in bed mind, but was just not enough for my personal tastes.

i love being 'Daddys little girl' and his cum slut/fuck toy..

god i love it

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By *ecretlivesCouple over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

I think the last sentence sums up this activity as being dubious at best and plain weird at worst. As for kink shaming this is beyond kink and is very sinister in my opinion.

We are still entitled to opinions aren’t we?"

Opinions should always be free. How you choose to act upon them and express them is the challenge. Sometimes it can just reveal a judgemental attitude and intolerance that is surprising on a site like Fab.

Very useful though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You'll find many who don't understand will not try to either. This is if I may say so one of the primary problems in our society here. Our response(s) though say more our ourselves.

Negativity towards the person or subject will be the norm from many on a vanilla site much like fab.

Shaming will be such a common response too, especially with those who don't know nor have an understanding of the subject. Another natural negative response will be from those who are not naturally submissive so find the role uncomfortable or distasteful, again it's more about themselves.

For those genuinely interested do a Google search and you'll find quite an interesting dynamic often not involving sex or sex isn't the primary reason, unlike the mindset of most on here which again may cloud the way one views it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am very lucky as two people call me daddy, I secured the role by having kids

Although I think you might have meant a different kind of daddy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the last sentence sums up this activity as being dubious at best and plain weird at worst. As for kink shaming this is beyond kink and is very sinister in my opinion.

We are still entitled to opinions aren’t we?

Very useful though.

Unfortunately opinions don’t always agree with each other and yes sometimes that may involve a judgment on a moral or protective issue. An opinion as long as it’s expressed within the context of the debate or discussion and the confines of the law should not be feared.

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

You're welcome to report us to the police

Think he'd better report those who use tail butt plugs you know cause of beastiality, and whilst he's at it people into cosplay you know they dress and act like fictional characters. And where we going to put all these deviants? Please let me know sounds like one hell of a party

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

You're welcome to report us to the police

Sounds like a very fun prison to me

I wonder if Townhouse is up for hosting all of us deviants as a make shift holding pen for all of us deviants

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the last sentence sums up this activity as being dubious at best and plain weird at worst. As for kink shaming this is beyond kink and is very sinister in my opinion.

We are still entitled to opinions aren’t we?

Very useful though.

I'm surprised how surprised people are about how judgemental so many fabbers are. They are no different from others, if anything fab can be a ripe bed for creating judgemental thinking over time.

ultimately being judgmental is a self-esteem problem. By finding something to dislike or condemn about others, we are (a) protecting ourselves from being vulnerable, (b) avoiding our own faults, and (c) inflating our egos with false self-worth.

Many come to fab with high hopes, these can be brought from being popular in the real world, suddenly mr/miss popular meets many many more sith a similar background. Expectations can be dashed quickly, especially in the forums or trying to find someone who meets your expectations or needs or finding it takes far more time than you may have initially though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How many offers if assistance have you had after your post?

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

You're welcome to report us to the police

Sounds like a very fun prison to me

I wonder if Townhouse is up for hosting all of us deviants as a make shift holding pen for all of us deviants

Doesn't it just

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My ex was sexually abused as a 9 year old Child by her Stepdad and even before knowing that, I knew it did nothing for me.

Kinks are all good and well, but it's almost like try to legitimise Paedophilia..... 'pretend they are a child' kinda thing.... If I told someone to lick my dick like a dog, and dress like a furry, I'd expect to be told I was weird, and that it was linked to beastiality.

Most likely my personal experience has affected how I could see this as fun, so just my personal experience based opinion.

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By *ecretlivesCouple over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

I think the last sentence sums up this activity as being dubious at best and plain weird at worst. As for kink shaming this is beyond kink and is very sinister in my opinion.

We are still entitled to opinions aren’t we?

Very useful though.

Agreed, it is better to have all opinions open: it is not unfortunate but important to ensure the freedom still operates. However to conflate opinion with the right to cast judgement (or infer a moral or protective issue) on other peoples behaviour, simply through their consenting choice and use of a word, suggests you want the freedoms you are not willing to afford others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book."

I can't believe anyone could seriously believe this.

What consenting adults do in privacy is their business only.

Some of the things I read on these forums baffle me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are in both a D/s and DDlg dynamic and have been for 5 years. 25 and 60 here so it completely works for us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

What's a snowflake and a woke. No wonder people kept mentioning "woke" as a word they disliked in a word game thread here. I thought they didn't like the word related to awakened. It seems not the case.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the last sentence sums up this activity as being dubious at best and plain weird at worst. As for kink shaming this is beyond kink and is very sinister in my opinion.

We are still entitled to opinions aren’t we?

Very useful though.

I have an opinion on lots of things and as I say sometimes the right to express them can have an ingredient of judgement. For instance I thought those who voted leave in the Brexit referendum were wrong and was constantly judgemental on the motives and methods of the leavers. I have a view on those who prey on the vulnerable via internet scams a judge those people as dreadful specimens of humanity.

In this case I happen to think that the use of certain words, intentions and overt references are wrong. If that is a judgement so be it.

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

Sorry I don't fully understand your question. I used the terms tongue in cheek maybe that didn't come across.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

I can't believe anyone could seriously believe this.

What consenting adults do in privacy is their business only.

Some of the things I read on these forums baffle me.

"
. Couldn’t agree more. There is a massive level of intolerance displayed on all sorts of subjects. The “think as i do or you’re wrong” brigade hiding behind their keyboards are very noisy on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being bi was frowned upon not that long ago. Reading updates and forum posts in here still show how much it's still viewed with old views especially for guys.

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By *adHatter_RestrainedAliceCouple over a year ago

In The Hills

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

You're welcome to report us to the police

Sounds like a very fun prison to me

I wonder if Townhouse is up for hosting all of us deviants as a make shift holding pen for all of us deviants

Doesn't it just

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

You're welcome to report us to the police

Sounds like a very fun prison to me

I wonder if Townhouse is up for hosting all of us deviants as a make shift holding pen for all of us deviants

Doesn't it just

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x"

Saved you space right next to me Alice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want a daddy"

Surprisingly hard to find!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book."

Ok Dad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book."

Feel free to call in the doctors, or the police they do it for me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

You're welcome to report us to the police

Sounds like a very fun prison to me

I wonder if Townhouse is up for hosting all of us deviants as a make shift holding pen for all of us deviants

Doesn't it just

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I see this scenario as 'mummy and daddy' so nothing wrong in that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want a daddy

Surprisingly hard to find!"

Especially good ones... And once you find them... *sigh*... Heaven starts

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

You're welcome to report us to the police

Sounds like a very fun prison to me

I wonder if Townhouse is up for hosting all of us deviants as a make shift holding pen for all of us deviants

Doesn't it just

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

Most definitely, deviants United

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

Feel free to call in the doctors, or the police they do it for me too

Come and sit on daddy's lap.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man over a year ago

Lingfield

Each to their own but having a teenage daughter who I love and cherish and still calls me daddy does make me feel very uneasy when a woman refers to me as daddy in a sexual context. I've come across a few when I've been camming and it makes me very uneasy. However if that's what floats your boat and there's nothing illegal about it then enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

You're welcome to report us to the police

Sounds like a very fun prison to me

I wonder if Townhouse is up for hosting all of us deviants as a make shift holding pen for all of us deviants

Doesn't it just

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

Most definitely, deviants United

Ooo Deviants United!

Imagine a Daddy focus night at one of the clubs

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By *ittle Girl LostWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

If you have zero understanding of kink, you shouldn't be commenting on it. Like I dont understand football, so I say nothing about it

To the op- DD/lg dynamic is a really big kink a huge range within it- im a non age playing little, so I'm extremely submissive and if I have one, my Daddy looks after all of my kink, his kink, and keeps me safe. Some age play, some dont. If you like it, you LOVE it x

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"Sex is happening, she moans stop daddy, you cum.

That's how it works."

FTFY

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

You're welcome to report us to the police

Sounds like a very fun prison to me

I wonder if Townhouse is up for hosting all of us deviants as a make shift holding pen for all of us deviants

Doesn't it just

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

Most definitely, deviants United

Ooo Deviants United!

Imagine a Daddy focus night at one of the clubs

That would be amazing wouldn't it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Each to their own but having a teenage daughter who I love and cherish and still calls me daddy does make me feel very uneasy when a woman refers to me as daddy in a sexual context. I've come across a few when I've been camming and it makes me very uneasy. However if that's what floats your boat and there's nothing illegal about it then enjoy."

Exactly , if it's not for you, it's not for you... Someone wants to prod me with a cattle prod

but that definitely doesn't float my boat, so I'd far rather they found someone who enjoys it.

... If its not fun... Don't do it / Stop

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you have zero understanding of kink, you shouldn't be commenting on it. Like I dont understand football, so I say nothing about it

This all day long. Worse is the guys that message with"ok you have a daddy, can I be your uncle". Now that's creepy shit right there. Zero understanding of what ddlg has at its core

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

You're welcome to report us to the police

Sounds like a very fun prison to me

I wonder if Townhouse is up for hosting all of us deviants as a make shift holding pen for all of us deviants

Doesn't it just

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

Most definitely, deviants United

Ooo Deviants United!

Imagine a Daddy focus night at one of the clubs

That would be amazing wouldn't it "

Sissy cosplay wearing mommy applying to be part of Deviants United

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By *ittle Girl LostWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

Agreed!!!!! Or those that reply ill be your Daddy, I have children- total lack of understanding to that fact this is kink!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

Feel free to call in the doctors, or the police they do it for me too

Come and sit on daddy's lap.

My husband is my daddy, its not something I do with anyone else, =)

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By *adyJayneWoman over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Like totally like the idea.. it sits well with me.. but the role of a daddy.. is to what... the girl want someone to look to also... to learn from.. I’m super curious. "

It's really individual to each person and totally what you make it between you.

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

You're welcome to report us to the police

Sounds like a very fun prison to me

I wonder if Townhouse is up for hosting all of us deviants as a make shift holding pen for all of us deviants

Doesn't it just

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

Most definitely, deviants United

Ooo Deviants United!

Imagine a Daddy focus night at one of the clubs

That would be amazing wouldn't it

Sissy cosplay wearing mommy applying to be part of Deviants United

All are welcome to be part of deviants United

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS over a year ago

Bristol

Not for me, the whole daddy thing puts me off.

I am all for a dominant guys who I will call sir or master or something but daddy just seems wrong.

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By *arlomaleMan over a year ago

darlington

Makes my skin crawl when I see it on profiles

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would lose my hard on instantly if I got called "Daddy" in the bedroom

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

Feel free to call in the doctors, or the police they do it for me too

Come and sit on daddy's lap.

My husband is my daddy, its not something I do with anyone else, =) "

I'll get me coat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

You're welcome to report us to the police

Sounds like a very fun prison to me

I wonder if Townhouse is up for hosting all of us deviants as a make shift holding pen for all of us deviants

Doesn't it just

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

Most definitely, deviants United

Ooo Deviants United!

Imagine a Daddy focus night at one of the clubs

That would be amazing wouldn't it "

Save me a space

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

DD/lg is a power exchange thing, it is as simple as that. Similarly with Master and slave, a power exchange dynamic and nothing to do with illegal slavery.

In broader terms it is roleplay/fantasy, it does not indicate anything deeper. Just like dressing up as schoolgirl/boy/nun or vicar/police officer & villain does not indicate anything more.

To put a different perspective on it - if you watch a crime movie does it mean you want to be a criminal?

There is a huge difference between fantasy and reality, what goes on between two consenting adults is up to them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

Most definitely, deviants United

Ooo Deviants United!

Imagine a Daddy focus night at one of the clubs

That would be amazing wouldn't it

Save me a space

Come squeeze in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

Most definitely, deviants United

Ooo Deviants United!

Imagine a Daddy focus night at one of the clubs

That would be amazing wouldn't it

Save me a space

Come squeeze in

There needs to be Deviants United sign-up thread with qualifications posted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

Most definitely, deviants United

Ooo Deviants United!

Imagine a Daddy focus night at one of the clubs

That would be amazing wouldn't it

Save me a space

Come squeeze in

There needs to be Deviants United sign-up thread with qualifications posted

Surely pictures of lg bottoms would be more appropriate... Guess which bottom belongs to which Daddy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

Most definitely, deviants United

Ooo Deviants United!

Imagine a Daddy focus night at one of the clubs

That would be amazing wouldn't it

Save me a space

Come squeeze in

There needs to be Deviants United sign-up thread with qualifications posted

With a slogan. Deviants and sinners unite?

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By *ittle Girl LostWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

"DD/lg is a power exchange thing, it is as simple as that. Similarly with Master and slave, a power exchange dynamic and nothing to do with illegal slavery.

In broader terms it is roleplay/fantasy, it does not indicate anything deeper. Just like dressing up as schoolgirl/boy/nun or vicar/police officer & villain does not indicate anything more.

To put a different perspective on it - if you watch a crime movie does it mean you want to be a criminal?

There is a huge difference between fantasy and reality, what goes on between two consenting adults is up to them. "

This

Its sad that the fear of the unknown makes people scared or revolted by it, instead of learning and making an informed, educated opinion. Makes me sad as a little that people think kink shaming is acceptable- I dont vanilla shame them, or assume they are dull as ditch water because they like vanilla.

But horses for courses I guess

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

Most definitely, deviants United

Ooo Deviants United!

Imagine a Daddy focus night at one of the clubs

That would be amazing wouldn't it

Save me a space

Come squeeze in

There needs to be Deviants United sign-up thread with qualifications posted

Surely pictures of lg bottoms would be more appropriate... Guess which bottom belongs to which Daddy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely pictures of lg bottoms would be more appropriate... Guess which bottom belongs to which Daddy

That would blow the roof off this place.

There would be no shortage of participants

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There needs to be Deviants United sign-up thread with qualifications posted

With a slogan. Deviants and sinners unite?"

Deviants United World Tour

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

Most definitely, deviants United

Ooo Deviants United!

Imagine a Daddy focus night at one of the clubs

That would be amazing wouldn't it

Save me a space

Come squeeze in

There needs to be Deviants United sign-up thread with qualifications posted

With a slogan. Deviants and sinners unite?"

This is a perfect slogan

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

Most definitely, deviants United

Ooo Deviants United!

Imagine a Daddy focus night at one of the clubs

That would be amazing wouldn't it

Save me a space

Come squeeze in

There needs to be Deviants United sign-up thread with qualifications posted

Surely pictures of lg bottoms would be more appropriate... Guess which bottom belongs to which Daddy

Where's that damn drooling emoji?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"DD/lg is a power exchange thing, it is as simple as that. Similarly with Master and slave, a power exchange dynamic and nothing to do with illegal slavery.

In broader terms it is roleplay/fantasy, it does not indicate anything deeper. Just like dressing up as schoolgirl/boy/nun or vicar/police officer & villain does not indicate anything more.

To put a different perspective on it - if you watch a crime movie does it mean you want to be a criminal?

There is a huge difference between fantasy and reality, what goes on between two consenting adults is up to them.

This

But horses for courses I guess"

It is sad that people in this day and age are not open minded enough to understand that different people have different things they enjoy.

I have a friend that hates coffee and thinks it is abhorrent, but he still makes me a coffee because accepts that I enjoy it and it is not hurting anyone else.

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By *ittle Girl LostWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

"DD/lg is a power exchange thing, it is as simple as that. Similarly with Master and slave, a power exchange dynamic and nothing to do with illegal slavery.

In broader terms it is roleplay/fantasy, it does not indicate anything deeper. Just like dressing up as schoolgirl/boy/nun or vicar/police officer & villain does not indicate anything more.

To put a different perspective on it - if you watch a crime movie does it mean you want to be a criminal?

There is a huge difference between fantasy and reality, what goes on between two consenting adults is up to them.

This

But horses for courses I guess

It is sad that people in this day and age are not open minded enough to understand that different people have different things they enjoy.

I have a friend that hates coffee and thinks it is abhorrent, but he still makes me a coffee because accepts that I enjoy it and it is not hurting anyone else. "

Yesssss, and its the shaming that makes people hide facts about themselves. Be honest, be who you are, take pride in it, and love and harm none

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"DD/lg is a power exchange thing, it is as simple as that. Similarly with Master and slave, a power exchange dynamic and nothing to do with illegal slavery.

In broader terms it is roleplay/fantasy, it does not indicate anything deeper. Just like dressing up as schoolgirl/boy/nun or vicar/police officer & villain does not indicate anything more.

To put a different perspective on it - if you watch a crime movie does it mean you want to be a criminal?

There is a huge difference between fantasy and reality, what goes on between two consenting adults is up to them.

This

But horses for courses I guess

It is sad that people in this day and age are not open minded enough to understand that different people have different things they enjoy.

I have a friend that hates coffee and thinks it is abhorrent, but he still makes me a coffee because accepts that I enjoy it and it is not hurting anyone else. "

Always so wise

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By * and R cple4Couple over a year ago

swansea

It’s not something that we are into but we would never kink shame someone .I like reading about different dynamics as you learn something new everyday..If it’s not for you then just scroll past it’s really not that hard ..

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By *adHatter_RestrainedAliceCouple over a year ago

In The Hills

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

Most definitely, deviants United

Ooo Deviants United!

Imagine a Daddy focus night at one of the clubs

That would be amazing wouldn't it

Save me a space

Come squeeze in

There needs to be Deviants United sign-up thread with qualifications posted

Surely pictures of lg bottoms would be more appropriate... Guess which bottom belongs to which Daddy

this idea

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

Most definitely, deviants United

Ooo Deviants United!

Imagine a Daddy focus night at one of the clubs

That would be amazing wouldn't it

Save me a space

Come squeeze in

There needs to be Deviants United sign-up thread with qualifications posted

Surely pictures of lg bottoms would be more appropriate... Guess which bottom belongs to which Daddy

Now I'm imagining lots of pictures of bums being bent over laps

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

Most definitely, deviants United

Ooo Deviants United!

Imagine a Daddy focus night at one of the clubs

That would be amazing wouldn't it

Save me a space

Come squeeze in

There needs to be Deviants United sign-up thread with qualifications posted

Surely pictures of lg bottoms would be more appropriate... Guess which bottom belongs to which Daddy

Now I'm imagining lots of pictures of bums being bent over laps

With handprints?

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By *assing Fancies xCouple over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

It's not our thing

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

Most definitely, deviants United

Ooo Deviants United!

Imagine a Daddy focus night at one of the clubs

That would be amazing wouldn't it

Save me a space

Come squeeze in

There needs to be Deviants United sign-up thread with qualifications posted

Surely pictures of lg bottoms would be more appropriate... Guess which bottom belongs to which Daddy

Now I'm imagining lots of pictures of bums being bent over laps

With handprints?"

Even better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think I'd best be taken to the dungeon's now

Alice x

Saved you space right next to me Alice

Ooo can I join the line up

Most definitely, deviants United

Ooo Deviants United!

Imagine a Daddy focus night at one of the clubs

That would be amazing wouldn't it

Save me a space

Come squeeze in

There needs to be Deviants United sign-up thread with qualifications posted

Surely pictures of lg bottoms would be more appropriate... Guess which bottom belongs to which Daddy

Now I'm imagining lots of pictures of bums being bent over laps

With handprints?

Even better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m a daddy in a kinky relationship and that doesn’t make me a paedophile (my baby girl is actually older than me).

I deliver hard spankings which would scare many and that doesn’t make me a wife beater.

I also play other games which cannot be mentioned here.

They are specific dynamics which develop between consenting adults. They may not be to everybody’s taste but they are enjoyable to the people involved and that should be enough.

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By *ittle Girl LostWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I’m a daddy in a kinky relationship and that doesn’t make me a paedophile (my baby girl is actually older than me).

I deliver hard spankings which would scare many and that doesn’t make me a wife beater.

I also play other games which cannot be mentioned here.

They are specific dynamics which develop between consenting adults. They may not be to everybody’s taste but they are enjoyable to the people involved and that should be enough. "

I was older than my last Daddy too

People suck

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

"I’m a daddy in a kinky relationship and that doesn’t make me a paedophile (my baby girl is actually older than me).

I deliver hard spankings which would scare many and that doesn’t make me a wife beater.

I also play other games which cannot be mentioned here.

They are specific dynamics which develop between consenting adults. They may not be to everybody’s taste but they are enjoyable to the people involved and that should be enough. "

This!... People enjoy different things and if you’re consenting adults then there should be no shaming...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If people educated themselves before commenting I think it would help.

It’s easy to look at a kink and judge it, but we all like different things.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If people educated themselves before commenting I think it would help.

It’s easy to look at a kink and judge it, but we all like different things.

Well said, little one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If people educated themselves before commenting I think it would help.

It’s easy to look at a kink and judge it, but we all like different things.

Well said, little one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like how does the daddy thing work. Who are these lucky blokes who manage to secure the role... "

It works differently for different people. But I’d say that it’s a dynamic which develops between two personalities, two person who seek complementary things. I like control and can be quite authoritative in the bedroom. My babygirl likes to be looked after and abandon any form of responsibility.

Sometimes, like a petulant child, she defies me, she pushes my button and I have to assert my authority physically or otherwise. It’s the battle for power aspect of it.

Other times I may listen, comfort and advise. I might wash her hair or share other such intimate non sexual moments. It’s the nurturing figure aspect of it.

It really is different for each people.

In my experience such dynamics develop overtime and are not labels that you decide to use When you wake up one morning.

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

Just call me the Daddy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just call me the Daddy

Been waiting all day for your comment

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"I’m a daddy in a kinky relationship and that doesn’t make me a paedophile (my baby girl is actually older than me).

I deliver hard spankings which would scare many and that doesn’t make me a wife beater.

I also play other games which cannot be mentioned here.

They are specific dynamics which develop between consenting adults. They may not be to everybody’s taste but they are enjoyable to the people involved and that should be enough. "

Same in nearly a decade older, I in no way look remotely child like. So many misconceptions and assumptions

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"Just call me the Daddy

Been waiting all day for your comment

Your welcome, now on all 4 pls

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't like it. It's wierd I can't say it during sex. Anything else goes I can't bring myself to even try.

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By *ools and the brainCouple over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Like how does the daddy thing work. Who are these lucky blokes who manage to secure the role... "

I think it's super creepy and odd.

The trend sends out the wrong Signal .

Its definitely not something I feel comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like how does the daddy thing work. Who are these lucky blokes who manage to secure the role...

I think it's super creepy and odd.

The trend sends out the wrong Signal .

Its definitely not something I feel comfortable with.

What signal does it send?

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By *ittle Girl LostWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Like how does the daddy thing work. Who are these lucky blokes who manage to secure the role...

I think it's super creepy and odd.

The trend sends out the wrong Signal .

Its definitely not something I feel comfortable with.

Thats because you have no idea what it is about, it doesn't send out the wrong signal, to a little it is the perfect signal

I think judgement should only come with knowledge, dont judge what you dont understand

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like how does the daddy thing work. Who are these lucky blokes who manage to secure the role...

I think it's super creepy and odd.

The trend sends out the wrong Signal .

Its definitely not something I feel comfortable with.

What signal does it send?"

It’s quite clear that some view this dynamic as unacceptable for the reasons rehearsed above and it’s equally clear that some have no issue with the scenario. Each are entitled to put their opinions and the right to reply.

Nobody has the right not to be offended and there will always be judgement on sensitive issues such as this topic.

That’s what expressions of speech are about or have I lost the plot?

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Like how does the daddy thing work. Who are these lucky blokes who manage to secure the role...

I think it's super creepy and odd.

The trend sends out the wrong Signal .

Its definitely not something I feel comfortable with.

Thats because you have no idea what it is about, it doesn't send out the wrong signal, to a little it is the perfect signal

I think judgement should only come with knowledge, dont judge what you dont understand "

That's unfair

Perhaps we do not understand the dynamic you personally enjoy however

The way you and others may enjoy is most certainly not the only way the dynamic is projected

For example daily young lady profiles advertising for daddies and they most certainly are referring for payment

I reason "daddy" means many things to many people

I'm positive in many cases it's a healt6fun innocent dynamic however it's wrong to condemn a person's impression of the dynamic and wrongly suggest they dont understand as they are not aware of your interpretation of the daddy dynamic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like how does the daddy thing work. Who are these lucky blokes who manage to secure the role...

I think it's super creepy and odd.

The trend sends out the wrong Signal .

Its definitely not something I feel comfortable with.

Thats because you have no idea what it is about, it doesn't send out the wrong signal, to a little it is the perfect signal

I think judgement should only come with knowledge, dont judge what you dont understand "

I know very little about quantum and molecular physics but it doesn’t stop me questioning aspects of the science and making a value judgement on what I am being told.

Similarly I know little about Scientology but what I have read my head tells me it’s weird. That is my right.

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By *ittle Girl LostWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Like how does the daddy thing work. Who are these lucky blokes who manage to secure the role...

I think it's super creepy and odd.

The trend sends out the wrong Signal .

Its definitely not something I feel comfortable with.

Thats because you have no idea what it is about, it doesn't send out the wrong signal, to a little it is the perfect signal

I think judgement should only come with knowledge, dont judge what you dont understand

That's unfair

Perhaps we do not understand the dynamic you personally enjoy however

The way you and others may enjoy is most certainly not the only way the dynamic is projected

For example daily young lady profiles advertising for daddies and they most certainly are referring for payment

I reason "daddy" means many things to many people

You are very very mistaken. Sugar Daddies are what you are thinking of, or piggies. Not anyone in the DD/lg dynamic. I would be highly offended if it weren't for the fact you are a random stranger that does not have a clue- you have basically just called me a whore

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like how does the daddy thing work. Who are these lucky blokes who manage to secure the role...

I think it's super creepy and odd.

The trend sends out the wrong Signal .

Its definitely not something I feel comfortable with.

What signal does it send?

Nobody has the right not to be offended and there will always be judgement on sensitive issues such as this topic.

That’s what expressions of speech are about or have I lost the plot?"

That doesn’t tell me which signal it sends.

And of course everyone can express their opinion. But it can be done in a non-judgmental, not insulting manner. Especially when this opinion is not properly educated on the subject at hand.

You think I’m creepy, that’s fine by me.

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan over a year ago

London

It can’t be put into words

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By *ittle Girl LostWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

I really can't be doing with closed minded kink shamers

I should have remembered how beige the vanilla's are, and not spoken out at all

Vanilla people you're right, its weird and creepy and we just do it for money

I'm out

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

"Like how does the daddy thing work. Who are these lucky blokes who manage to secure the role...

I think it's super creepy and odd.

The trend sends out the wrong Signal .

Its definitely not something I feel comfortable with.

Thats because you have no idea what it is about, it doesn't send out the wrong signal, to a little it is the perfect signal

I think judgement should only come with knowledge, dont judge what you dont understand

I know very little about quantum and molecular physics but it doesn’t stop me questioning aspects of the science and making a value judgement on what I am being told.

Similarly I know little about Scientology but what I have read my head tells me it’s weird. That is my right."

To use your science analogy... some of the responses here have been the equivalent of Flat Earthers, condemning people without actually knowing a thing about what they’re talking about

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Like how does the daddy thing work. Who are these lucky blokes who manage to secure the role...

I think it's super creepy and odd.

The trend sends out the wrong Signal .

Its definitely not something I feel comfortable with.

Thats because you have no idea what it is about, it doesn't send out the wrong signal, to a little it is the perfect signal

I think judgement should only come with knowledge, dont judge what you dont understand

That's unfair

Perhaps we do not understand the dynamic you personally enjoy however

The way you and others may enjoy is most certainly not the only way the dynamic is projected

For example daily young lady profiles advertising for daddies and they most certainly are referring for payment

I reason "daddy" means many things to many people

No I have not

Did you not read what I wrote

I clearly gave balance

Did you miss the bit where

A I said it a healthy and fun dynamic

I said there are many confusing projections one being a sugar daddy shortened to daddy and it was fairly explicit I illustrated that was not you

DO NOT PROJECT FALSE WORDS OR THOUGHTS onto my post thank you

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

For me being in little space means escapism from being highly strung and anxious. In day to day life I'm a worrier and worry over the smallest of details. Sometimes I need a break from it so I hand over all responsibility and control to M, it doesn't even need to be in a sexual way. I just need to vent the anxiety. If that level of trust in someone to look after you when you're struggling is creepy to you then so be it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like how does the daddy thing work. Who are these lucky blokes who manage to secure the role...

I think it's super creepy and odd.

The trend sends out the wrong Signal .

Its definitely not something I feel comfortable with.

What signal does it send?

Nobody has the right not to be offended and there will always be judgement on sensitive issues such as this topic.

That’s what expressions of speech are about or have I lost the plot?

That doesn’t tell me which signal it sends.

And of course everyone can express their opinion. But it can be done in a non-judgmental, not insulting manner. Especially when this opinion is not properly educated on the subject at hand.

You think I’m creepy, that’s fine by me."

I never said I thought you were or are creepy. As far as I can see I have insulted no one in my posts?

Opinions and judgement are, on occasions, intertwined and this it appears is one of those occasions. The connection with sex and parenthood is bound to cause a reaction and people will form judgements on such sensitive issues. You are being somewhat naive to think that a post on such issues would not be the subject of opinions.

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By *ary Mary not so hairyWoman over a year ago

Tamworth

Lol sounds like a lot of jealous men on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like how does the daddy thing work. Who are these lucky blokes who manage to secure the role...

I think it's super creepy and odd.

The trend sends out the wrong Signal .

Its definitely not something I feel comfortable with.

Thats because you have no idea what it is about, it doesn't send out the wrong signal, to a little it is the perfect signal

I think judgement should only come with knowledge, dont judge what you dont understand

I know very little about quantum and molecular physics but it doesn’t stop me questioning aspects of the science and making a value judgement on what I am being told.

Similarly I know little about Scientology but what I have read my head tells me it’s weird. That is my right.

To use your science analogy... some of the responses here have been the equivalent of Flat Earthers, condemning people without actually knowing a thing about what they’re talking about"

See below.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me it is not about having a difference of opinion or expressing that but how some people do that is the thing I take issue with.

I could say that people who think that DDlg is some how wrong and perverse are narrow minded hypocritical bigots who’s own fantasies and kinks are wrong and abhorrent.

However that is not fair because their kinks are not mine and whilst I may not get them, I respect their choice.

The OP asked how it worked and people have explained that. It is apparent that people don’t understand it, some have said it is simply not for them and some feel it necessary to vilify those that do.

By all means express an opinion but have the common decency to express it in a way that is not deliberately offensive to other.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love hearing "daddy" when I'm pleasuring a woman. Just sends tingles through my cock.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like how does the daddy thing work. Who are these lucky blokes who manage to secure the role...

I think it's super creepy and odd.

The trend sends out the wrong Signal .

Its definitely not something I feel comfortable with.

What signal does it send?

Nobody has the right not to be offended and there will always be judgement on sensitive issues such as this topic.

That’s what expressions of speech are about or have I lost the plot?

That doesn’t tell me which signal it sends.

And of course everyone can express their opinion. But it can be done in a non-judgmental, not insulting manner. Especially when this opinion is not properly educated on the subject at hand.

You think I’m creepy, that’s fine by me.

I never said I thought you were or are creepy. As far as I can see I have insulted no one in my posts?

What I find interesting is that nobody comments on the posts like mine or Frida’s where we explain what this dynamic is to us ie the posts which try and answer the OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like how does the daddy thing work. Who are these lucky blokes who manage to secure the role...

I think it's super creepy and odd.

The trend sends out the wrong Signal .

Its definitely not something I feel comfortable with.

What signal does it send?

Nobody has the right not to be offended and there will always be judgement on sensitive issues such as this topic.

That’s what expressions of speech are about or have I lost the plot?

That doesn’t tell me which signal it sends.

And of course everyone can express their opinion. But it can be done in a non-judgmental, not insulting manner. Especially when this opinion is not properly educated on the subject at hand.

You think I’m creepy, that’s fine by me.

I never said I thought you were or are creepy. As far as I can see I have insulted no one in my posts?

What I find interesting is that nobody comments on the posts like mine or Frida’s where we explain what this dynamic is to us ie the posts which try and answer the OP"

This is a circular discussion

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Like how does the daddy thing work. Who are these lucky blokes who manage to secure the role...

I think it's super creepy and odd.

The trend sends out the wrong Signal .

Its definitely not something I feel comfortable with.

What signal does it send?

Nobody has the right not to be offended and there will always be judgement on sensitive issues such as this topic.

That’s what expressions of speech are about or have I lost the plot?

That doesn’t tell me which signal it sends.

And of course everyone can express their opinion. But it can be done in a non-judgmental, not insulting manner. Especially when this opinion is not properly educated on the subject at hand.

You think I’m creepy, that’s fine by me.

I never said I thought you were or are creepy. As far as I can see I have insulted no one in my posts?

What I find interesting is that nobody comments on the posts like mine or Frida’s where we explain what this dynamic is to us ie the posts which try and answer the OP"

Because they don't want to listen I'm happy enough for someone to ask a question based on what I've written. But no it's easier to vilify people with no understanding of what the dynamic is or wanting to either. It's easier to call as per thread "weird, messed up, should be sectioned/arrested, we're legitamising paedophilia and we make people's skin crawl" and all this we take on the chin because people don't want to listen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just call me the Daddy

Been waiting all day for your comment

Your welcome, now on all 4 pls

Yes Daddy

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By *he AmbassadorMan over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

I'm currently getting unwanted msgs from someone less than 10 years younger than me, starts every msg with Hey Daddy,or Daddyo

Not my bag at all,

And is starting to annoy me a bit TBH.

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By *ensuallover1000Man over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Carlin 4737 - ‘I’m the daddy now!’

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Carlin 4737 - ‘I’m the daddy now!’"

Prisons have a Daddy, i.e. top guy who gets people beat up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s more age or sub Dom than body weight

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"I'm currently getting unwanted msgs from someone less than 10 years younger than me, starts every msg with Hey Daddy,or Daddyo

Not my bag at all,

And is starting to annoy me a bit TBH. "

I get baby girl ones unfortunately too. Which drives me up the wall. I politely tell them to stop it. Even if you're not into the kink it is rude to use honorifics without permission

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By *he AmbassadorMan over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"I'm currently getting unwanted msgs from someone less than 10 years younger than me, starts every msg with Hey Daddy,or Daddyo

Not my bag at all,

And is starting to annoy me a bit TBH.

I get baby girl ones unfortunately too. Which drives me up the wall. I politely tell them to stop it. Even if you're not into the kink it is rude to use honorifics without permission "

Couldn't imagine starting or ending a msg to someone with that,,

I'd feel like I'd get a virtual Slap across the ear lol

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"I'm currently getting unwanted msgs from someone less than 10 years younger than me, starts every msg with Hey Daddy,or Daddyo

Not my bag at all,

And is starting to annoy me a bit TBH.

I get baby girl ones unfortunately too. Which drives me up the wall. I politely tell them to stop it. Even if you're not into the kink it is rude to use honorifics without permission

Couldn't imagine starting or ending a msg to someone with that,,

I'd feel like I'd get a virtual Slap across the ear lol

They do it's ridiculous, they then seem surprised when I tell them off it's as though they were expecting a doormat lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me it is not about having a difference of opinion or expressing that but how some people do that is the thing I take issue with.

I could say that people who think that DDlg is some how wrong and perverse are narrow minded hypocritical bigots who’s own fantasies and kinks are wrong and abhorrent.

However that is not fair because their kinks are not mine and whilst I may not get them, I respect their choice.

By all means express an opinion but have the common decency to express it in a way that is not deliberately offensive to other. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm currently getting unwanted msgs from someone less than 10 years younger than me, starts every msg with Hey Daddy,or Daddyo

Not my bag at all,

And is starting to annoy me a bit TBH. "

Why don't you explain and tell them if it continues, you might not continue the contact ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are a daddy and little couple, it's about care giving and protection. Nicely balanced with punishments to keep her bratty ass in line and funishments just because they are fun lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *adyJayneWoman over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Just call me the Daddy

Daddy?

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By *ionelhutzMan over a year ago

liverpool

"Its messed up ,if someone wants to call you daddy ."

Not in the slightest

No one is getting hurt.

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By *ecretlivesCouple over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

To littles everywhere, brats, princesses, attention seekers, cubs, kitties and the host of others (inc DL.)

Ignore the grumpies. They are not your Dd or your CG, so their opinions mean nothing.

Just remember, when life gets tough, you always know where you are with a stuffie.

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"To littles everywhere, brats, princesses, attention seekers, cubs, kitties and the host of others (inc DL.)

Ignore the grumpies. They are not your Dd or your CG, so their opinions mean nothing.

Just remember, when life gets tough, you always know where you are with a stuffie.

this, was actually thinking off all the negative words used on this thread to describe the dynamic so to counter balance. The dynamic gives me a sense of peace

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple over a year ago

Newcastle

One of the things I really enjoy about being on fab is that I get to talk to people about their experiences and kinks. While it may be something that doesn't appeal to me I am interested in different people's takes on things and what it means to them personally.

I was actually talking to someone this week about this dynamic and when he broke it down for me I had a better understanding of it and could see certain elements that would appeal to me. I personally wouldn't be comfortable with using 'daddy' but it's personal preference as it is with any other name calling that people like to use during sex. Doesn't need to cross over into the real world.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book."

Welcome to the wonderful, non-judgemental, open-minded world of fabswingers.

It should go without saying that there are many people who would regard you participating in a site like this - let alone any physical activity that might arise from it - as being abnormal and in need of censure and penalty of some kind.

Bear that in mind.

I'll qualify that by saying that I have never adopted this term or had it used - but I'm not about to start pronouncing judgement on those who have.

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By *heNYCSausageMan over a year ago

Everton

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By *heNYCSausageMan over a year ago

Everton

I was asked a while back on here if I fancied being a daddy by someone who I’d been talking to, didn’t know how to respond!!! Don’t think it’s for me haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Wow. Thanks for all the positive replies. A genuine question and soo much to read.

The shakers should really note I wasn’t asking for permission... or an opinion on if its right or not...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any woman who calls the guy daddy needs sectioning in my book.

Any bloke who wants to be called daddy needs arresting in the same book.

Welcome to the wonderful, non-judgemental, open-minded world of fabswingers.

Bear that in mind.

I'll qualify that by saying that I have never adopted this term or had it used - but I'm not about to start pronouncing judgement on those who have."

And also consider: would you choose to live in a society that DOES arrest and section adults who, in their private lives and with mutual consent, choose how they want to experience their sex lives, which in turn is one fraction of who they are as a person? Because if so, by all means experience it by declaring yourself homosexual and moving to, say, Russia or a number of African countries - just as examples, there are others. You'll have an absolute hoot..!

And before claiming those as 'backward, illiberal' countries or anything like that, consider: before 1967 - yes, nineteen sixty fucking seven! - that was still illegal in THIS country.

I would like to think we have made progress since then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I don’t get it I find it disturbing but I do understand some people enjoy and get off on the dynamic

My pal told me like this her husband and the father of her children is daddy, he looks after her and the kids she’s lucky enough to be a stay home mum and he earns enough so she can do this, she had gotten so used to just calling him daddy around the house one night it slipped out during sex and they both got off on it, he started calling her baby in the bedroom now he just calls her baby all the time. I’m so used to hearing them call each other daddy and baby when she told me about how she came to be baby I was slightly shocked but then i was like actually I still think it’s cute

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By * and R cple4Couple over a year ago

swansea

"One of the things I really enjoy about being on fab is that I get to talk to people about their experiences and kinks. While it may be something that doesn't appeal to me I am interested in different people's takes on things and what it means to them personally.

Mrs x"
Same I love learning new things even at my age and even tho it’s not our thing we would never kink shame someone .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow. Thanks for all the positive replies. A genuine question and soo much to read.

The shakers should really note I wasn’t asking for permission... or an opinion on if its right or not... "

Their permission or their opinions: the former is not needed and the latter is irrelevant.

I am neutral on the subject but the sanctimonious, censorious attitudes this kind of thing brings out I find is needing addressing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've learnt you don't mention kink on Fab. For a site that is supposed to be open minded it is incredibly judgemental.

A Daddy to me, in a kink sense, is more than just a word. It is a specific role. It is not necessarily about age play and nothing do with parenting. It is a caregiver role, someone who is caring.

It is just a word. If you have ever called someone baby was it because you were imagining a baby? No, it's a term of affection. Daddy is the same.

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"To littles everywhere, brats, princesses, attention seekers, cubs, kitties and the host of others (inc DL.)

Ignore the grumpies. They are not your Dd or your CG, so their opinions mean nothing.

Just remember, when life gets tough, you always know where you are with a stuffie.

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By *igmaMan over a year ago

Yorkshire

There needs to be Deviants United sign-up thread with qualifications posted

With a slogan. Deviants and sinners unite?

Deviants United World Tour

Is this a thing now?

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"If I told someone to lick my dick like a dog, and dress like a furry, I'd expect to be told I was weird, and that it was linked to beastiality.

Hate to break it to you but puppy play is very much a thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I told someone to lick my dick like a dog, and dress like a furry, I'd expect to be told I was weird, and that it was linked to beastiality.

Hate to break it to you but puppy play is very much a thing. "

Ooo and pony play

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