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over a year ago
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If 0 is gay and 100 is straight and 50 is exactly bi, whereabouts are you on the scale.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely 100 |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
on the road to nowhere in particular |
110 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If 0 is gay and 100 is straight and 50 is exactly bi, whereabouts are you on the scale. "
75 |
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By *andj17Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"If 0 is gay and 100 is straight and 50 is exactly bi, whereabouts are you on the scale. "
What are you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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85 |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Right now probably about 70ish? It sort of slides up and down the scale though a lot. |
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I’m about a 75. Mr is a level 50. |
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"If 0 is gay and 100 is straight and 50 is exactly bi, whereabouts are you on the scale. "
100...
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It varies but I suppose around 70.
I am definitely bi but don't think that I would be happy in a standard relationship with a woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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10-20. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If 0 is gay and 100 is straight and 50 is exactly bi, whereabouts are you on the scale.
What are you? "
Yes, I’m on the spectrum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im curious.. depends on how horny i am and circumstance.
If in bed with a guy and we were watching porn and it was 2 girls id find it hot.
If i was in a club, being fucked by a guy and a woman went to kiss me id probs go for it..
If i was 'in the zone' kinda horny and her pussy appeared in my face pretty sure id tuck in..
So very curious.. So id go 70% straight |
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Dressed I’d say 40 - as a Man I’m not that attracted to other guys unless they’re really feminine. So in male form 80  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Right now probably about 70ish? It sort of slides up and down the scale though a lot."
What’s the lowest it’s been ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight. |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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"Right now probably about 70ish? It sort of slides up and down the scale though a lot.
What’s the lowest it’s been ? "
101 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight. "
Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
It's a sliding scale but somewhere in the 80-90 range mostly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It changes with the wind for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Orientation about 70
Experience 99.5
Actual sexuality right now - Wanker
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm straight
It doesn't need a number |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
51% 
Maybe 52%  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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99 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say 95. There are certain guys you can't help but go "what a handsome bastard" |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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"If 0 is gay and 100 is straight and 50 is exactly bi, whereabouts are you on the scale. "
Interesting thread OP, perfect on Fab from a cohort sampling survey perspective!
Interesting people averaging around 70 to 80 straight. I would be too... 70-80 for men, 20-30 for women.
Kinsey would be proud of your curiosity young man! |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
100% of a hundred  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm straight
It doesn't need a number "
100 then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would say 95. There are certain guys you can't help but go "what a handsome bastard" "
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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70 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If 0 is gay and 100 is straight and 50 is exactly bi, whereabouts are you on the scale.
Interesting thread OP, perfect on Fab from a cohort sampling survey perspective!
Interesting people averaging around 70 to 80 straight. I would be too... 70-80 for men, 20-30 for women.
Kinsey would be proud of your curiosity young man!"
I dunno who Kinsey is, but he’s got excellent taste. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the moment about 90? Depends on the situation though I think .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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50 |
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About a 100 given i don't meat a very convincing shemale somewhere down the line |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say 95. There are certain guys you can't help but go "what a handsome bastard"
Thank you "
No worries, gorgeous |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would say 95. There are certain guys you can't help but go "what a handsome bastard"
Thank you
No worries, gorgeous "
Don’t make me slide down the scale! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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60 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have the experience to not think I'm 100. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't have the experience to not think I'm 100."
Neither have bi curious people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100 without any shadow of a doubt.
Strickly dickly! |
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Depends.
Usually on what prison i'm in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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95 ish for me |
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I am probably right in the middle. But it isn't that simple.
There have been times in my life when I was close to 0. Others I was 100.
It is like asking are you top or bottom, the truth is that I have, and will, enjoy both.
And then you have to differentiate between love and sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am probably right in the middle. But it isn't that simple.
There have been times in my life when I was close to 0. Others I was 100.
It is like asking are you top or bottom, the truth is that I have, and will, enjoy both.
And then you have to differentiate between love and sex."
So 50 then |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Right now probably about 70ish? It sort of slides up and down the scale though a lot.
What’s the lowest it’s been ? "
0% before it crept up during my ermmm adventurous years. I thought men were incredibly unattractive and couldn't fathom why women would get so ridiculous over a pair of thighs and a dangly thing between it. Maybe 0% is a bit low. 5%? I was gay as gay could be though. |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I dunno who Kinsey is, but he’s got excellent taste."
Alfred Charles Kinsey (June 23, 1894 – August 25, 1956) was an American biologist, professor of entomology and zoology, and sexologist who, in 1947, founded the Institute for Sex Research at Indiana University, previously known as the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction. He is best known for writing Sexual Behavior in the Human Male (1948) and Sexual Behavior in the Human Female (1953), also known as the Kinsey Reports, as well as the Kinsey scale. Kinsey's research on human sexuality, foundational to the field of sexology, provoked controversy in the 1940s and 1950s. His work has influenced social and cultural values in the United States as well as internationally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have the experience to not think I'm 100.
Neither have bi curious people."
Touche my good fellow. I can't say I'm at all curious. |
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I'm around 80
K is 100.
The 80 may drop post-covid, and I'm reminded of what I've been missing
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe around 75 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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45.5
Yes I'm bi but usually only in a mmf situation but recently looking at guys and tv/ts a bit more,
I like cock but LOVE pussy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100 all the way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 85 for me |
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0.5, there's leeway for a woman with a big strap on xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It varies but I suppose around 70.
I am definitely bi but don't think that I would be happy in a standard relationship with a woman. "
Same here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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80 |
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50.
I am 100% bi.
Crave sex with ladies and gents.
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"Depends.
Usually on what prison i'm in. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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75-85 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am exactly wherever it is that i fancy at any given time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am exactly wherever it is that i fancy at any given time. "
There’s always one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 85 I reckon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am exactly wherever it is that i fancy at any given time.
There’s always one."
I can relate to this
I have no interest in dating women and don’t fancy women but have had sexual interaction with couples in a club because I fancied it at the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Where on the scale would you put me OP? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Where on the scale would you put me OP? "
I wouldn’t have a clue, do I can’t answer, this thread is about where you would put yourself on the scale. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where on the scale would you put me OP?
I wouldn’t have a clue, do I can’t answer, this thread is about where you would put yourself on the scale. "
I'm edging somewhere in the 20-25 region I'd say, although faced with a good showtune, I'm a definite 5 |
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"Where on the scale would you put me OP?
I wouldn’t have a clue, do I can’t answer, this thread is about where you would put yourself on the scale. "
We can all make a stab at where we are, it is down to personal desires & sometimes experience 
B - 60% (experience)
M - 90% (interest, mainly sharing B!) |
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By *ayTTV/TS
over a year ago
Porthmadog |
50% best of both worlds xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Where on the scale would you put me OP?
I wouldn’t have a clue, do I can’t answer, this thread is about where you would put yourself on the scale.
I'm edging somewhere in the 20-25 region I'd say, although faced with a good showtune, I'm a definite 5 "
Ah crap, I was going to say 20-30, but I thought you were trying to catch me out, saying my scale was bullshit or something!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100.
I appreciate the aesthetics of a beautiful female form, but it doesn't turn me on |
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I’m probably about a 60 as it’s been awhile since I’ve been with a women I hope it’s like riding a bike and I haven’t forgotten what to do .
My husband is more like a 85 as he’s curious and hasn’t had the chance but is something we are looking forward to trying .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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75 |
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mood dependant I guess.
Anywhere from 65-90% for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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50 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say I flit between 40-60 these days...
Lu |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight.
Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight."
No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities! |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
I'd like to be a 50 but in reality it's about 15.
I love looking at ladies admiring how pretty they look and the clothes they wear. Just don't have sex with them very often |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably 90. Never say never kind of guy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight.
Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.
No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!"
That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Currently around 95 - when I'm active maybe closer to 75 |
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Between 70-80..in play scenarios only |
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I think it needs complex numbers in my case... Possibly even quarternions... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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50.
I am bi. |
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50 although only in the right situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Approaching 50 fast (from 100 lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight.
Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.
No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!
That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex. "
Asexuality has a spectrum too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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50 but can easily drop to 40 with the right woman |
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By *dhollieTV/TS
over a year ago
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I’m not sure where I fit on the spectrum I guess I’d say I’m bisexual I enjoy lots of things about dressing not just a sexual thing either sometimes it’s nice to just out on nice clothes and make an effort and lady’s underwear is much much prettier than men’s but at the same time I enjoy being a guy and wouldn’t want to transition to being a women I like the best of both worlds so I guess I’m greedy
If I had to say a number then probably smack in the middle . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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89% wanna save for myself 11% of time I mastrubate |
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"What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight.
Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.
No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!
That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex. "
Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case. |
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99 (Ian Somerhalder is just so beautiful!)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Based on that scale I would 25% but that’s only because there’s no room there for demisexuality.
(To save you a google trip, that’s sexual attraction based on emotional connection I.e. I can find anyone sexually attractive if I have built that connection with them) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 85? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight.
Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.
No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!
That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.
Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case. "
Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Errrm I'm probably around 70.
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Always entertaining
Continuum is probably a better word as spectrum has pretty firm boundaries and you would be hard pushed to see one part start or stop.
The spectrum of the mind?
(100 score and yet watch and wank as men/women cum in porn? Enjoy watching but not doing is 100 ?)
Based on What they have done? (opportunity is not best illustration of previous or future intent)
or What they would do if circumstances were right?
(fear of Fab judgement removed, right people, right environment, understanding that sex does not determine who you are)
and what people are like when NOT under influence of a raging horn...
And to those who go ahhha so Where do YOU sit? We would say Somewhere on the continuum, depending on the above |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm around 70% |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a sliding scale dependent on my mood on the day, but if I have to put a number on it 55/45 |
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Hard to put a number I am situationally bi I dont especially find men attractive but i like to be naked with other people who ever they are in a group or solo |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always entertaining
Continuum is probably a better word as spectrum has pretty firm boundaries and you would be hard pushed to see one part start or stop.
The spectrum of the mind?
(100 score and yet watch and wank as men/women cum in porn? Enjoy watching but not doing is 100 ?)
Based on What they have done? (opportunity is not best illustration of previous or future intent)
or What they would do if circumstances were right?
(fear of Fab judgement removed, right people, right environment, understanding that sex does not determine who you are)
and what people are like when NOT under influence of a raging horn...
And to those who go ahhha so Where do YOU sit? We would say Somewhere on the continuum, depending on the above "
Spectrum is perfectly fine, you can slide up and down the spectrum, you can be 0 one minute and 100 the next, if I asked where on the continuum are you, that would be overly complicated for a thread. The only boundaries on the spectrum are both the extremes of sexuality. Remember you’re on a site with 3 sexuality options to click. |
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"Always entertaining
Continuum is probably a better word as spectrum has pretty firm boundaries and you would be hard pushed to see one part start or stop.
The spectrum of the mind?
(100 score and yet watch and wank as men/women cum in porn? Enjoy watching but not doing is 100 ?)
Based on What they have done? (opportunity is not best illustration of previous or future intent)
or What they would do if circumstances were right?
(fear of Fab judgement removed, right people, right environment, understanding that sex does not determine who you are)
and what people are like when NOT under influence of a raging horn...
And to those who go ahhha so Where do YOU sit? We would say Somewhere on the continuum, depending on the above
Spectrum is perfectly fine, you can slide up and down the spectrum, you can be 0 one minute and 100 the next, if I asked where on the continuum are you, that would be overly complicated for a thread. The only boundaries on the spectrum are both the extremes of sexuality. Remember you’re on a site with 3 sexuality options to click."
Very true only 3 which we know doesnt even cover the biological options let alone personal statements! Accept that in a thread 'spectrum' by its limitations may be more useful to define, but a continuum is actually more appropriate by its recognition of indeterminate boundaries, and the possibility that you can go in one direction and end up back where you started! (waves goodbye as climbs back in pedant box and closes lid) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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D at about 90, K around the 50 mark |
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I'm about a 98.
Hannah I would estimate at somewhere around 70-80.
Luke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 75 probably.
I am bi, but for every 100 men I’d sleep with there is only really 1 woman. I’m picky! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight.
Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.
No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!
That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.
Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case. "
That's only one aspect of asexuality.
There are few people on here who say they are demisexual. From reading the forums, there's probably many more who don't realise there's a term for it.
"Most people can feel sexually attracted to random people whom they meet in public or at work or school. In some cases, this is based purely on physical attraction and comes from simply seeing the person.
In contrast, a demisexual will only feel sexual attraction toward a person once they have had the chance to develop a strong emotional bond with them. If they feel a sexual attraction toward a person, they may choose to engage in sexual activity with them, but the urge is often weaker. In some cases, it may never develop, despite the emotional connection.
In other words, an emotional bond does not guarantee that the person will have any sexual desire, but it is necessary for them even to consider sexual activity.
The emotional bond that a demisexual person feels does not necessarily need to be romantically inclined. The bond could be due to a close and otherwise platonic relationship with another person." |
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"What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight.
Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.
No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!
That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.
Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.
Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.
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Asexuality is way, way more complicated than that and can mean different things to different people. In fact, there's a whole spectrum within Asexuality and not just one way: A sliding scale if you like.
Its not correct to say that people who identify on that scale just have no or little interest in sex because that's not factually correct. Some do, some don't. It's can be complicated, just like with any other sexuality.
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"What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight.
Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.
No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!
That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.
Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.
That's only one aspect of asexuality.
There are few people on here who say they are demisexual. From reading the forums, there's probably many more who don't realise there's a term for it.
"Most people can feel sexually attracted to random people whom they meet in public or at work or school. In some cases, this is based purely on physical attraction and comes from simply seeing the person.
In contrast, a demisexual will only feel sexual attraction toward a person once they have had the chance to develop a strong emotional bond with them. If they feel a sexual attraction toward a person, they may choose to engage in sexual activity with them, but the urge is often weaker. In some cases, it may never develop, despite the emotional connection.
In other words, an emotional bond does not guarantee that the person will have any sexual desire, but it is necessary for them even to consider sexual activity.
The emotional bond that a demisexual person feels does not necessarily need to be romantically inclined. The bond could be due to a close and otherwise platonic relationship with another person.""
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight.
Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.
No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!
That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.
Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.
Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.
Asexuality is way, way more complicated than that and can mean different things to different people. In fact, there's a whole spectrum within Asexuality and not just one way: A sliding scale if you like.
Its not correct to say that people who identify on that scale just have no or little interest in sex because that's not factually correct. Some do, some don't. It's can be complicated, just like with any other sexuality.
I identify on that scale, and I'm here and I'm doing OK. "
So if they have interest in sex, they then overlap onto the spectrum I started then. |
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"What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight.
Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.
No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!
That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.
Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.
That's only one aspect of asexuality.
There are few people on here who say they are demisexual. From reading the forums, there's probably many more who don't realise there's a term for it.
"Most people can feel sexually attracted to random people whom they meet in public or at work or school. In some cases, this is based purely on physical attraction and comes from simply seeing the person.
In contrast, a demisexual will only feel sexual attraction toward a person once they have had the chance to develop a strong emotional bond with them. If they feel a sexual attraction toward a person, they may choose to engage in sexual activity with them, but the urge is often weaker. In some cases, it may never develop, despite the emotional connection.
In other words, an emotional bond does not guarantee that the person will have any sexual desire, but it is necessary for them even to consider sexual activity.
The emotional bond that a demisexual person feels does not necessarily need to be romantically inclined. The bond could be due to a close and otherwise platonic relationship with another person."
*takes of glasses, pinches bridge of nose, puts glasses back on* "
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" That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.
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Asexuality is way, way more complicated than that and can mean different things to different people. In fact, there's a whole spectrum within Asexuality and not just one way: A sliding scale if you like.
Its not correct to say that people who identify on that scale just have no or little interest in sex because that's not factually correct. Some do, some don't. It's can be complicated, just like with any other sexuality.
I identify on that scale, and I'm here and I'm doing OK.
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So if they have interest in sex, they then overlap onto the spectrum I started then. "
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Some will, some won't, but I do.
Id put myself between 0 and 100 but it changes. It really is a sliding scale.
Oh, to fit into a box, that would be so much easier.
Interesting thread
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Update: I may have dropped to 98% - I just saw a YouTube clip of Hugh Jackman  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Update: I may have dropped to 98% - I just saw a YouTube clip of Hugh Jackman "
He’s way to manly for me, I like my men to look like women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Update: I may have dropped to 98% - I just saw a YouTube clip of Hugh Jackman "
Yup, Hugh is going to have that effect on you. Watching him dance in greatest showman is better than porn |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Update: I may have dropped to 98% - I just saw a YouTube clip of Hugh Jackman
Yup, Hugh is going to have that effect on you. Watching him dance in greatest showman is better than porn "
Ew I hate The Greatest Showman it's worse than all of these sexual elitist folk 
Hugh needs to stay as Wolverine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m only ghey on Fridays.
Does the spectrum allow for one day a week gheys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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65 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100 straight but 100 experimental |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m only ghey on Fridays.
Does the spectrum allow for one day a week gheys?"
Yeah, by my reckoning that’s 14.28% gay |
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By *yphodMan
over a year ago
London |
Probably only a 10. I can appreciate a good looking man and if with a couple I have to like the look of the man as well as woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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70 straight but can be persuaded to venture that 30 for the right woman and situation. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m only ghey on Fridays.
Does the spectrum allow for one day a week gheys?"
Simple slide it down to 0 when you fancy some cock action, then back up to 100 when you get home to the missus. |
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Update: I’ve just dropped to 97%.
Yep.....Joe Manganiello this time....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say about 90. I like to look at boobs. But that's it for me and girls lol |
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By *100Man
over a year ago
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Probably 90 since I’ve been on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m only ghey on Fridays.
Does the spectrum allow for one day a week gheys?
Simple slide it down to 0 when you fancy some cock action, then back up to 100 when you get home to the missus."
stop labelling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m only ghey on Fridays.
Does the spectrum allow for one day a week gheys?
Simple slide it down to 0 when you fancy some cock action, then back up to 100 when you get home to the missus.
stop labelling "
I’ll know to start a continuum next time |
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"What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight.
Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.
No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!
That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.
Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.
Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.
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That is one type of asexuality but isn't true for all asexuals. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight.
Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.
No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!
That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.
Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.
Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.
That is one type of asexuality but isn't true for all asexuals. "
Surely that’s the fundamental of being asexual, not being interested in sex. |
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"What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight.
Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.
No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!
That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.
Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.
Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.
That is one type of asexuality but isn't true for all asexuals.
Surely that’s the fundamental of being asexual, not being interested in sex."
No its lack of sexual attraction to other people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight.
Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.
No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!
That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.
Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.
Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.
That is one type of asexuality but isn't true for all asexuals.
Surely that’s the fundamental of being asexual, not being interested in sex.
No its lack of sexual attraction to other people. "
Which results in them not being interested in sex. |
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" That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.
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Asexuality is way, way more complicated than that and can mean different things to different people. In fact, there's a whole spectrum within Asexuality and not just one way: A sliding scale if you like.
Its not correct to say that people who identify on that scale just have no or little interest in sex because that's not factually correct. Some do, some don't. It's can be complicated, just like with any other sexuality.
I identify on that scale, and I'm here and I'm doing OK.
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So if they have interest in sex, they then overlap onto the spectrum I started then.
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Some will, some won't, but I do.
Id put myself between 0 and 100 but it changes. It really is a sliding scale.
Oh, to fit into a box, that would be so much easier.
Interesting thread
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Are you demisexual? Or prefer not to say? |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
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over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 27/11/20 20:21:56]"
Has it gone up or down since you deleted ? |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
It's less a linear scale for me. More like a... *Thinks*
A sphere maybe? Although that's not the right shape either.
It's not just about who you have sex with, it's about who you are attracted to, because attraction can be emotional, physical or intellectual.
My husband is asexual. He's tactile and desires sexual gratification. He just doesn't like/get/understand sex. We have it very rarely when he initiates it, but it's not generally his thing. But he'll happily have a wank.
Me, couldn't give two hoots about wanking, sure it's needed sometimes but for me its like... A single McNugget shitty, bad and not gonna satisfy but puts you in.
Who do I interact with physically, it's very fluid, it can be anyone that turns my head. For a multitude of reasons.
Although girls nice to look at than boys. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"[Removed by poster at 27/11/20 20:21:56]
Has it gone up or down since you deleted ?"
I realised my answer was too glib and actually wanted to answer it properly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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85
Will suck a cock but not attracted to guys |
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"What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight.
Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.
No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!
That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.
Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.
Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.
That is one type of asexuality but isn't true for all asexuals.
Surely that’s the fundamental of being asexual, not being interested in sex.
No its lack of sexual attraction to other people.
Which results in them not being interested in sex."
Not necessarily true. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight.
Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.
No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!
That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.
Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.
Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.
That is one type of asexuality but isn't true for all asexuals.
Surely that’s the fundamental of being asexual, not being interested in sex.
No its lack of sexual attraction to other people.
Which results in them not being interested in sex.
Not necessarily true. "
Not being interested in sex, doesn’t mean they don’t have sex, but they have sex for other reasons other than being sexually attracted to someone. |
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"What about other sexualities?
I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.
Relationship wise I am straight.
Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.
No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!
That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.
Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.
Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.
That is one type of asexuality but isn't true for all asexuals.
Surely that’s the fundamental of being asexual, not being interested in sex.
No its lack of sexual attraction to other people.
Which results in them not being interested in sex.
Not necessarily true.
Not being interested in sex, doesn’t mean they don’t have sex, but they have sex for other reasons other than being sexually attracted to someone."
Like being horny. |
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" That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.
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Asexuality is way, way more complicated than that and can mean different things to different people. In fact, there's a whole spectrum within Asexuality and not just one way: A sliding scale if you like.
Its not correct to say that people who identify on that scale just have no or little interest in sex because that's not factually correct. Some do, some don't. It's can be complicated, just like with any other sexuality.
I identify on that scale, and I'm here and I'm doing OK.
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So if they have interest in sex, they then overlap onto the spectrum I started then.
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Some will, some won't, but I do.
Id put myself between 0 and 100 but it changes. It really is a sliding scale.
Oh, to fit into a box, that would be so much easier.
Interesting thread
Are you demisexual? Or prefer not to say? "
I'm demisexual, but I used to identify as aromantic - Grey A. Gotta love that sliding scale.
At a very basic level, it just takes the right person and their mind to turn me on. I always look for a connection.
And I love sex.
But I'm very definitely on the asexual spectrum.
And that's ok.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 65.. Sometimes a 10 sometimes 100 |
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over a year ago
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Good Sexuality spectrum everyone |
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