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How often do you post pics to fab?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I see updates all the time with photos on here and I realise I am a shit at doing anything like that. It’s probably because I have never enjoyed taking selfies. I think deep down, it’s something that’s not really appealed to me.
So how often do you post photos?
I know it’s what gets people’s attention, but sometimes I would rather just fade into the background.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before having a baba I’d be constantly in lingerie, taking photos and uploading them at least once a week.
Now I have no time for that, and the men and women of fab are missing out on the Goddess that is me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Before having a baba I’d be constantly in lingerie, taking photos and uploading them at least once a week.
Now I have no time for that, and the men and women of fab are missing out on the Goddess that is me "
When the baba is in bed, get those skimpies out and treat us all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before having a baba I’d be constantly in lingerie, taking photos and uploading them at least once a week.
Now I have no time for that, and the men and women of fab are missing out on the Goddess that is me
When the baba is in bed, get those skimpies out and treat us all "
When he goes to bed, I go to bed  |
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"I see updates all the time with photos on here and I realise I am a shit at doing anything like that. It’s probably because I have never enjoyed taking selfies. I think deep down, it’s something that’s not really appealed to me.
So how often do you post photos?
I know it’s what gets people’s attention, but sometimes I would rather just fade into the background. "
Exactly this - i very rarely add a photo - just cant take a decent one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm feeling good about myself I will upload three or four five times a week. But if I'm feeling like a chubby bunny who ate way too much cake I won't upload at all really.
I'm currently feeling like a chubby bunny but I do love me some cake. |
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"I see updates all the time with photos on here and I realise I am a shit at doing anything like that. It’s probably because I have never enjoyed taking selfies. I think deep down, it’s something that’s not really appealed to me.
So how often do you post photos?
I know it’s what gets people’s attention, but sometimes I would rather just fade into the background. "
I keep meaning to take a few more, but I can never be bothered  |
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"I go through phases of thinking of an idea and taking pics and then other times I can’t be bothered.
It’s nice to keep your pics fresh...
I have plenty of ideas for couples pics... "
Both your pics and status updates are more than enough to make any woman melt!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once for everytime I start a new profile
I’ll bin these when I upload more then use the next ones to start another profile in approx 1 months time.
I’m far too indecisive "
You're telling us |
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"Once for everytime I start a new profile
I’ll bin these when I upload more then use the next ones to start another profile in approx 1 months time.
I’m far too indecisive "
Loving the current avatar  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once for everytime I start a new profile
I’ll bin these when I upload more then use the next ones to start another profile in approx 1 months time.
I’m far too indecisive
Loving the current avatar "
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"I mostly put up pictures for forum challenge, it gives me that push to take pics and ideas too.
Saying that, we haven’t had much challenges lately so it’s just been a few here and there."
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Sometimes none for a fair few weeks or even months, and then whoosh, a whole new page full.
A lot depends on work for me, as most of mine are a result from having a night off and a party for 1. There are times tho where I'll feel consumed by emotion and putting it into a picture almost helps me let it out, I find it cathartic. |
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"I mostly put up pictures for forum challenge, it gives me that push to take pics and ideas too.
Saying that, we haven’t had much challenges lately so it’s just been a few here and there.
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The queen of the forum challenges is here |
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"I mostly put up pictures for forum challenge, it gives me that push to take pics and ideas too.
Saying that, we haven’t had much challenges lately so it’s just been a few here and there.
The queen of the forum challenges is here "
Go on then it should give me the motivation I need |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I mostly put up pictures for forum challenge, it gives me that push to take pics and ideas too.
Saying that, we haven’t had much challenges lately so it’s just been a few here and there.
The queen of the forum challenges is here
Go on then it should give me the motivation I need"
I have a plan.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have got lazy about taking and posting new pics since Covid.
I suppose it’s because we’d post new ones when we were looking for a meet.
There doesn’t seem much point at the moment |
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"I suppose it depends on why you post photos, too. I increasingly see it as a form of self expression. I find it empowering, given my growth in confidence over time."
I post photos in an attempt to sell myself to people I haven't met. I find posting them, and espedially the process of taking them, to be time-consuming, unpleasant and ultimately humiliating.
If there were any way to do this *gestures at the whole of Fab* without taking photos, I would.
It's not a matter of confidence for me; I'm perfectly comfortable stripping naked in front of strangers and having sex with an audience. I just can't bear being reminded of what I actually look like.
I've just imagined every user of Fab all gathered together in a huge room. I've got naked and everyone who's even slightly curious is examining me like mechanics inspecting a used car. Most aren't bothered either way. Quite a few are verbally ripping into the state of me. Maybe one or two even like what they see. I would find this frank and refreshing and infinitely preferable to having to take, select and post photos of myself. |
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"I see updates all the time with photos on here and I realise I am a shit at doing anything like that. It’s probably because I have never enjoyed taking selfies. I think deep down, it’s something that’s not really appealed to me.
So how often do you post photos?
I know it’s what gets people’s attention, but sometimes I would rather just fade into the background. "
On a regular basis, in one of my many outfits and heels |
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"I suppose it depends on why you post photos, too. I increasingly see it as a form of self expression. I find it empowering, given my growth in confidence over time.
I post photos in an attempt to sell myself to people I haven't met. I find posting them, and espedially the process of taking them, to be time-consuming, unpleasant and ultimately humiliating.
If there were any way to do this *gestures at the whole of Fab* without taking photos, I would.
It's not a matter of confidence for me; I'm perfectly comfortable stripping naked in front of strangers and having sex with an audience. I just can't bear being reminded of what I actually look like.
I've just imagined every user of Fab all gathered together in a huge room. I've got naked and everyone who's even slightly curious is examining me like mechanics inspecting a used car. Most aren't bothered either way. Quite a few are verbally ripping into the state of me. Maybe one or two even like what they see. I would find this frank and refreshing and infinitely preferable to having to take, select and post photos of myself. "
I used to rip myself apart.
Now I enjoy the expression, finding angles, conveying certain emotions or things like that. And I do it very much for my own taste.
It's been interesting watching my self confidence evolve.
I'm sure some people think I look terrible. I think their opinion is worth what I paid for it.
For me it's about loving the skin I'm in, to steal the phrase. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Prior to joining fab never took lingerie photos of myself or even wore that much lingerie. In general always disliked photos of myself.
Since joining my body confidence has absolutely soared and I enjoy added new pics every few weeks when the mood takes as it makes me feel good about myself rather than for external validation, although that is appreciated.
It experimental for me at the moment so I’m sure the enthusiasm for photos will wane over time but who knows. |
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"Prior to joining fab never took lingerie photos of myself or even wore that much lingerie. In general always disliked photos of myself.
Since joining my body confidence has absolutely soared and I enjoy added new pics every few weeks when the mood takes as it makes me feel good about myself rather than for external validation, although that is appreciated.
It experimental for me at the moment so I’m sure the enthusiasm for photos will wane over time but who knows."
I find it to persist as part of me loving myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suppose it depends on why you post photos, too. I increasingly see it as a form of self expression. I find it empowering, given my growth in confidence over time.
I post photos in an attempt to sell myself to people I haven't met. I find posting them, and espedially the process of taking them, to be time-consuming, unpleasant and ultimately humiliating.
If there were any way to do this *gestures at the whole of Fab* without taking photos, I would.
It's not a matter of confidence for me; I'm perfectly comfortable stripping naked in front of strangers and having sex with an audience. I just can't bear being reminded of what I actually look like.
I've just imagined every user of Fab all gathered together in a huge room. I've got naked and everyone who's even slightly curious is examining me like mechanics inspecting a used car. Most aren't bothered either way. Quite a few are verbally ripping into the state of me. Maybe one or two even like what they see. I would find this frank and refreshing and infinitely preferable to having to take, select and post photos of myself.
I used to rip myself apart.
Now I enjoy the expression, finding angles, conveying certain emotions or things like that. And I do it very much for my own taste.
It's been interesting watching my self confidence evolve.
I'm sure some people think I look terrible. I think their opinion is worth what I paid for it.
For me it's about loving the skin I'm in, to steal the phrase."
I 100% agree and you look great so should be confident. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Prior to joining fab never took lingerie photos of myself or even wore that much lingerie. In general always disliked photos of myself.
Since joining my body confidence has absolutely soared and I enjoy added new pics every few weeks when the mood takes as it makes me feel good about myself rather than for external validation, although that is appreciated.
It experimental for me at the moment so I’m sure the enthusiasm for photos will wane over time but who knows.
I find it to persist as part of me loving myself"
Exactly, my self love is so much bigger than it ever was. |
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"I suppose it depends on why you post photos, too. I increasingly see it as a form of self expression. I find it empowering, given my growth in confidence over time.
I post photos in an attempt to sell myself to people I haven't met. I find posting them, and espedially the process of taking them, to be time-consuming, unpleasant and ultimately humiliating.
If there were any way to do this *gestures at the whole of Fab* without taking photos, I would.
It's not a matter of confidence for me; I'm perfectly comfortable stripping naked in front of strangers and having sex with an audience. I just can't bear being reminded of what I actually look like.
I've just imagined every user of Fab all gathered together in a huge room. I've got naked and everyone who's even slightly curious is examining me like mechanics inspecting a used car. Most aren't bothered either way. Quite a few are verbally ripping into the state of me. Maybe one or two even like what they see. I would find this frank and refreshing and infinitely preferable to having to take, select and post photos of myself.
I used to rip myself apart.
Now I enjoy the expression, finding angles, conveying certain emotions or things like that. And I do it very much for my own taste.
It's been interesting watching my self confidence evolve.
I'm sure some people think I look terrible. I think their opinion is worth what I paid for it.
For me it's about loving the skin I'm in, to steal the phrase.
I 100% agree and you look great so should be confident."
I appreciate it very much |
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I usually post if I’m feeling horny or needy. Sometimes I want reassurance that people find me attractive. Sometimes I get off on people watching me having sex, so I’ll post a vid or an action shot picture. |
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I really does depend, I like getting involved in the forum challenges. Sometimes I'm feeling rubbish and am attention seeking and looking to boost my confidence a bit. Others times they're pictures I've taken and sent M and then they end up on here.
But my favourite bit about my pictures, is that I'm faking it until I make it with body confidence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really does depend, I like getting involved in the forum challenges. Sometimes I'm feeling rubbish and am attention seeking and looking to boost my confidence a bit. Others times they're pictures I've taken and sent M and then they end up on here.
But my favourite bit about my pictures, is that I'm faking it until I make it with body confidence "
I get you. I think your pics are beautiful and you look great but I completely get the faking it until you make it. It’s taken me a long time to appreciate the body I have & think it’s alright. It’s the one I’ve got so gotta learn to like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see updates all the time with photos on here and I realise I am a shit at doing anything like that. It’s probably because I have never enjoyed taking selfies. I think deep down, it’s something that’s not really appealed to me.
So how often do you post photos?
I know it’s what gets people’s attention, but sometimes I would rather just fade into the background. "
Think you know I have a bit of an addiction to uploading photos  |
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When I'm in the mood
I've never been that comfortable with having my photo taken, and initially it was very much Mr getting me to pose and me rejecting all the pics he had taken! Since I discover selfies, timers, colour filters etc I've started to really enjoy taking pictures of myself. Sometimes I'll get a creative idea and mess around a bit. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
Now, it's Mr I want to get more pictures of!
Mrs TMN x |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
I've found that I'm getting more daring with the photos I both take and sometimes even eventually post. I'd never have thought there would be anything like a full nude of me taken but as it turns out.... yeah. I might not be that confident but fab has certainly helped.
And I'm agreeing with the beautiful Frida. I'm faking it til I make it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did it loads during lockdown, and up until quite recently. Now taking a break, it gets a bit much after a while and there's only so many pics of the same pair of boobs anyone can look at lol |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Did it loads during lockdown, and up until quite recently. Now taking a break, it gets a bit much after a while and there's only so many pics of the same pair of boobs anyone can look at lol "
Id prefer to have them in my hands. |
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"I've found that I'm getting more daring with the photos I both take and sometimes even eventually post. I'd never have thought there would be anything like a full nude of me taken but as it turns out.... yeah. I might not be that confident but fab has certainly helped.
And I'm agreeing with the beautiful Frida. I'm faking it til I make it "
Heck yeah.
For ages all I did was upskirts with petticoats concealing anything.
Maybe I am worth looking at, etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found that I'm getting more daring with the photos I both take and sometimes even eventually post. I'd never have thought there would be anything like a full nude of me taken but as it turns out.... yeah. I might not be that confident but fab has certainly helped.
And I'm agreeing with the beautiful Frida. I'm faking it til I make it
Heck yeah.
For ages all I did was upskirts with petticoats concealing anything.
Maybe I am worth looking at, etc "
You certainly are  |
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Seriously, not too often... I like to keep my hot listers on their toes when I upload new ones as and when the mood takes me
