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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
For me with other men it's more an are they on my wavelength and do I get on with them thing than a physical one so in that respect I guess they are similar to me in a way - and as such probably answers the first question although the thought of "doing" myself is a bit weird  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me with other men it's more an are they on my wavelength and do I get on with them thing than a physical one so in that respect I guess they are similar to me in a way - and as such probably answers the first question although the thought of "doing" myself is a bit weird "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do myself whenever I play 
I am attracted to a variety of ladies as I will find something sexy and alluring about many women. I am actually much more fussy with my male lovers.
Having said that my ideal female type could be similar to me but a more petite version. I love the classic curves, boobs, hips, small waist, beautiful legs and small feet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"doing myself" brings into question the ethics behind cloning and the quality of life for the clone for my own sexual gratification...
But yeah, sure, if we're both up for it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Guy me would do Sophie but Sophie wouldn't do guy me
Gives new meaning to go fuck yourself thats for sure  "
Ah that’s interesting! Whether TVs etc would!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""doing myself" brings into question the ethics behind cloning and the quality of life for the clone for my own sexual gratification...
But yeah, sure, if we're both up for it "
Haha that made me chuckle! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to be more attracted with people who have similar traits, but at the same time, the difference can be really attractive all the same.
I'm a strong believer that it is about how connected you are to the other person's energy rather than what's given to you at face value x |
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"Guy me would do Sophie but Sophie wouldn't do guy me
Gives new meaning to go fuck yourself thats for sure
Ah that’s interesting! Whether TVs etc would!
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I've seen a few clips of a rather well hung TS doing herself and it was pretty damned impressive  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Guy me would do Sophie but Sophie wouldn't do guy me
Gives new meaning to go fuck yourself thats for sure
Ah that’s interesting! Whether TVs etc would!
I've seen a few clips of a rather well hung TS doing herself and it was pretty damned impressive "
Blimey! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The people I’ve met are very different to each other, and none were like me at all. I haven’t met that many men sexually so that isn’t a good indicator. However I’ve felt an attraction to men who are similar to me and as for whether I’d do myself...yeah for sure I would. If it were possible it would mean I might actually have sex every once in a while |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The people I’ve met are very different to each other, and none were like me at all. I haven’t met that many men sexually so that isn’t a good indicator. However I’ve felt an attraction to men who are similar to me and as for whether I’d do myself...yeah for sure I would. If it were possible it would mean I might actually have sex every once in a while "
I notice I’m attracted to women with a similar to figure to me. Just made me think when I just sent a pic showing a couple of things I’d just bought from love honey and I said shame the women doesn’t come with the outfits! He said the same. She had a very similar figure to me. |
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"The people I’ve met are very different to each other, and none were like me at all. I haven’t met that many men sexually so that isn’t a good indicator. However I’ve felt an attraction to men who are similar to me and as for whether I’d do myself...yeah for sure I would. If it were possible it would mean I might actually have sex every once in a while
I notice I’m attracted to women with a similar to figure to me. Just made me think when I just sent a pic showing a couple of things I’d just bought from love honey and I said shame the women doesn’t come with the outfits! He said the same. She had a very similar figure to me. "
If I were you I’d do you |
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"The people I’ve met are very different to each other, and none were like me at all. I haven’t met that many men sexually so that isn’t a good indicator. However I’ve felt an attraction to men who are similar to me and as for whether I’d do myself...yeah for sure I would. If it were possible it would mean I might actually have sex every once in a while
I notice I’m attracted to women with a similar to figure to me. Just made me think when I just sent a pic showing a couple of things I’d just bought from love honey and I said shame the women doesn’t come with the outfits! He said the same. She had a very similar figure to me.
If I were you I’d do you "
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"The people I’ve met are very different to each other, and none were like me at all. I haven’t met that many men sexually so that isn’t a good indicator. However I’ve felt an attraction to men who are similar to me and as for whether I’d do myself...yeah for sure I would. If it were possible it would mean I might actually have sex every once in a while
I notice I’m attracted to women with a similar to figure to me. Just made me think when I just sent a pic showing a couple of things I’d just bought from love honey and I said shame the women doesn’t come with the outfits! He said the same. She had a very similar figure to me.
If I were you I’d do you "
Although what’s strange is I’m really not over confident with my figure but it’s what I like on other people! Go figure!  |
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I don't have a specific type of woman, I'm attracted to all sorts. The type that *really* gets me going is butch and alternative, spikes or shaved head, muscular. *Swing sits in a puddle*
I can't pull this off myself alas |
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"I don't have a specific type of woman, I'm attracted to all sorts. The type that *really* gets me going is butch and alternative, spikes or shaved head, muscular. *Swing sits in a puddle*
I can't pull this off myself alas "
No I can’t imagine you with that look. You’re quite feminine. |
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"I don't have a specific type of woman, I'm attracted to all sorts. The type that *really* gets me going is butch and alternative, spikes or shaved head, muscular. *Swing sits in a puddle*
I can't pull this off myself alas
No I can’t imagine you with that look. You’re quite feminine. "
I've bloody tried |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably not but that's because of the way I see myself. I wouldn't look at someone I fancied and think they looked like me because I don't find myself attractive.
Personality wise, yes I would, even though I'm a pain in the arse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably not but that's because of the way I see myself. I wouldn't look at someone I fancied and think they looked like me because I don't find myself attractive.
Personality wise, yes I would, even though I'm a pain in the arse. "
But what a lovely arse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably not but that's because of the way I see myself. I wouldn't look at someone I fancied and think they looked like me because I don't find myself attractive.
Personality wise, yes I would, even though I'm a pain in the arse.
But what a lovely arse "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Probably not but that's because of the way I see myself. I wouldn't look at someone I fancied and think they looked like me because I don't find myself attractive.
Personality wise, yes I would, even though I'm a pain in the arse. "
You’ve an amazing figure! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The people I’ve met are very different to each other, and none were like me at all. I haven’t met that many men sexually so that isn’t a good indicator. However I’ve felt an attraction to men who are similar to me and as for whether I’d do myself...yeah for sure I would. If it were possible it would mean I might actually have sex every once in a while
I notice I’m attracted to women with a similar to figure to me. Just made me think when I just sent a pic showing a couple of things I’d just bought from love honey and I said shame the women doesn’t come with the outfits! He said the same. She had a very similar figure to me.
If I were you I’d do you
Although what’s strange is I’m really not over confident with my figure but it’s what I like on other people! Go figure! "
That is strange how we can see the beauty of our reflection in others but can’t see it in ourselves. Projective identification... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The people I’ve met are very different to each other, and none were like me at all. I haven’t met that many men sexually so that isn’t a good indicator. However I’ve felt an attraction to men who are similar to me and as for whether I’d do myself...yeah for sure I would. If it were possible it would mean I might actually have sex every once in a while
I notice I’m attracted to women with a similar to figure to me. Just made me think when I just sent a pic showing a couple of things I’d just bought from love honey and I said shame the women doesn’t come with the outfits! He said the same. She had a very similar figure to me.
If I were you I’d do you
Although what’s strange is I’m really not over confident with my figure but it’s what I like on other people! Go figure!
That is strange how we can see the beauty of our reflection in others but can’t see it in ourselves. Projective identification..."
It is strange. It honestly surprises me how much attention I get on here. I know most of them are idiots and it goes over my head but from genuine people. I put it down to being with the same person for 28 years. I’m just not used to it. I’ve gotten more confident along the way though I think x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The people I’ve met are very different to each other, and none were like me at all. I haven’t met that many men sexually so that isn’t a good indicator. However I’ve felt an attraction to men who are similar to me and as for whether I’d do myself...yeah for sure I would. If it were possible it would mean I might actually have sex every once in a while
I notice I’m attracted to women with a similar to figure to me. Just made me think when I just sent a pic showing a couple of things I’d just bought from love honey and I said shame the women doesn’t come with the outfits! He said the same. She had a very similar figure to me.
If I were you I’d do you
Although what’s strange is I’m really not over confident with my figure but it’s what I like on other people! Go figure!
That is strange how we can see the beauty of our reflection in others but can’t see it in ourselves. Projective identification...
It is strange. It honestly surprises me how much attention I get on here. I know most of them are idiots and it goes over my head but from genuine people. I put it down to being with the same person for 28 years. I’m just not used to it. I’ve gotten more confident along the way though I think x"
There is no doubt our self esteem is tied up with how we have been esteemed by others, particularly long term partners. I started viewing myself differently about 6 or so years ago. Just before I started using the forum. I still have wobbles when I’m feel a bit self-pitying, but on the whole I have a much stronger self- perception than I did. My self-deprecation for a long time has been more about humour, than about how I really feel about myself, except during wobbles |
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"The people I’ve met are very different to each other, and none were like me at all. I haven’t met that many men sexually so that isn’t a good indicator. However I’ve felt an attraction to men who are similar to me and as for whether I’d do myself...yeah for sure I would. If it were possible it would mean I might actually have sex every once in a while
I notice I’m attracted to women with a similar to figure to me. Just made me think when I just sent a pic showing a couple of things I’d just bought from love honey and I said shame the women doesn’t come with the outfits! He said the same. She had a very similar figure to me.
If I were you I’d do you
Although what’s strange is I’m really not over confident with my figure but it’s what I like on other people! Go figure!
That is strange how we can see the beauty of our reflection in others but can’t see it in ourselves. Projective identification...
It is strange. It honestly surprises me how much attention I get on here. I know most of them are idiots and it goes over my head but from genuine people. I put it down to being with the same person for 28 years. I’m just not used to it. I’ve gotten more confident along the way though I think x
There is no doubt our self esteem is tied up with how we have been esteemed by others, particularly long term partners. I started viewing myself differently about 6 or so years ago. Just before I started using the forum. I still have wobbles when I’m feel a bit self-pitying, but on the whole I have a much stronger self- perception than I did. My self-deprecation for a long time has been more about humour, than about how I really feel about myself, except during wobbles "
Don’t get me wrong it wasn’t how I was treated. I was very happy. I think it’s just you get used to the same person and it’s a bit omg someone else is gonna see me naked! When only one person had for so long. I know what I mean! Difficult to explain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea out of morbid curiosity.
Well... I do have a thing for curvy brunettes 
So do I....and blondes...and blue rinses "
and red heads. In fact any colour hair is fine by me as is no hair at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The people I’ve met are very different to each other, and none were like me at all. I haven’t met that many men sexually so that isn’t a good indicator. However I’ve felt an attraction to men who are similar to me and as for whether I’d do myself...yeah for sure I would. If it were possible it would mean I might actually have sex every once in a while
I notice I’m attracted to women with a similar to figure to me. Just made me think when I just sent a pic showing a couple of things I’d just bought from love honey and I said shame the women doesn’t come with the outfits! He said the same. She had a very similar figure to me.
If I were you I’d do you
Although what’s strange is I’m really not over confident with my figure but it’s what I like on other people! Go figure!
That is strange how we can see the beauty of our reflection in others but can’t see it in ourselves. Projective identification...
It is strange. It honestly surprises me how much attention I get on here. I know most of them are idiots and it goes over my head but from genuine people. I put it down to being with the same person for 28 years. I’m just not used to it. I’ve gotten more confident along the way though I think x
There is no doubt our self esteem is tied up with how we have been esteemed by others, particularly long term partners. I started viewing myself differently about 6 or so years ago. Just before I started using the forum. I still have wobbles when I’m feel a bit self-pitying, but on the whole I have a much stronger self- perception than I did. My self-deprecation for a long time has been more about humour, than about how I really feel about myself, except during wobbles
Don’t get me wrong it wasn’t how I was treated. I was very happy. I think it’s just you get used to the same person and it’s a bit omg someone else is gonna see me naked! When only one person had for so long. I know what I mean! Difficult to explain. "
I think for me it was I lost sight of myself as a sexual being and that I could be attractive to others. I had become more like comfortable slippers |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The people I’ve met are very different to each other, and none were like me at all. I haven’t met that many men sexually so that isn’t a good indicator. However I’ve felt an attraction to men who are similar to me and as for whether I’d do myself...yeah for sure I would. If it were possible it would mean I might actually have sex every once in a while
I notice I’m attracted to women with a similar to figure to me. Just made me think when I just sent a pic showing a couple of things I’d just bought from love honey and I said shame the women doesn’t come with the outfits! He said the same. She had a very similar figure to me.
If I were you I’d do you
Although what’s strange is I’m really not over confident with my figure but it’s what I like on other people! Go figure!
That is strange how we can see the beauty of our reflection in others but can’t see it in ourselves. Projective identification...
It is strange. It honestly surprises me how much attention I get on here. I know most of them are idiots and it goes over my head but from genuine people. I put it down to being with the same person for 28 years. I’m just not used to it. I’ve gotten more confident along the way though I think x
There is no doubt our self esteem is tied up with how we have been esteemed by others, particularly long term partners. I started viewing myself differently about 6 or so years ago. Just before I started using the forum. I still have wobbles when I’m feel a bit self-pitying, but on the whole I have a much stronger self- perception than I did. My self-deprecation for a long time has been more about humour, than about how I really feel about myself, except during wobbles
Don’t get me wrong it wasn’t how I was treated. I was very happy. I think it’s just you get used to the same person and it’s a bit omg someone else is gonna see me naked! When only one person had for so long. I know what I mean! Difficult to explain.
I think for me it was I lost sight of myself as a sexual being and that I could be attractive to others. I had become more like comfortable slippers "
Yes I get that. I sort of forgot about “me”. I was too busy bringing kids up. We both worked hard, we had a child with issues. I think maybe I lost me for a while. |
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"The people I’ve met are very different to each other, and none were like me at all. I haven’t met that many men sexually so that isn’t a good indicator. However I’ve felt an attraction to men who are similar to me and as for whether I’d do myself...yeah for sure I would. If it were possible it would mean I might actually have sex every once in a while
I notice I’m attracted to women with a similar to figure to me. Just made me think when I just sent a pic showing a couple of things I’d just bought from love honey and I said shame the women doesn’t come with the outfits! He said the same. She had a very similar figure to me.
If I were you I’d do you
Although what’s strange is I’m really not over confident with my figure but it’s what I like on other people! Go figure!
That is strange how we can see the beauty of our reflection in others but can’t see it in ourselves. Projective identification...
It is strange. It honestly surprises me how much attention I get on here. I know most of them are idiots and it goes over my head but from genuine people. I put it down to being with the same person for 28 years. I’m just not used to it. I’ve gotten more confident along the way though I think x
There is no doubt our self esteem is tied up with how we have been esteemed by others, particularly long term partners. I started viewing myself differently about 6 or so years ago. Just before I started using the forum. I still have wobbles when I’m feel a bit self-pitying, but on the whole I have a much stronger self- perception than I did. My self-deprecation for a long time has been more about humour, than about how I really feel about myself, except during wobbles
Don’t get me wrong it wasn’t how I was treated. I was very happy. I think it’s just you get used to the same person and it’s a bit omg someone else is gonna see me naked! When only one person had for so long. I know what I mean! Difficult to explain.
I think for me it was I lost sight of myself as a sexual being and that I could be attractive to others. I had become more like comfortable slippers
Yes I get that. I sort of forgot about “me”. I was too busy bringing kids up. We both worked hard, we had a child with issues. I think maybe I lost me for a while. "
yep...became a human doing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I had a mental block on the idea of finding myself attractive for a long time. Or anyone finding me attractive. Shrug. I got over it."
I know what you mean. I did for a while. It was a bit like how can he find me attractive? Look at him!. That was a while ago though. I’m ok with it now more. |
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"I had a mental block on the idea of finding myself attractive for a long time. Or anyone finding me attractive. Shrug. I got over it.
I know what you mean. I did for a while. It was a bit like how can he find me attractive? Look at him!. That was a while ago though. I’m ok with it now more. "
Oh I thought I was hideously ugly. Self esteem shit.
I'm alright |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I had a mental block on the idea of finding myself attractive for a long time. Or anyone finding me attractive. Shrug. I got over it.
I know what you mean. I did for a while. It was a bit like how can he find me attractive? Look at him!. That was a while ago though. I’m ok with it now more.
Oh I thought I was hideously ugly. Self esteem shit.
I'm alright "
You’re definitely not ugly swing. And I’ve met you in person. I get it though. The old you need to love yourself first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hell yes! I’d definitely do me; I’d push my head between my thighs before riding myself silly like a rodeo horse! Yee haw!!!!  "
I never had you down as a cowboy. You could leave your hat on for sure |
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"Hell yes! I’d definitely do me; I’d push my head between my thighs before riding myself silly like a rodeo horse! Yee haw!!!! "
I’d ride you silly like a rodeo horse |
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"I had a mental block on the idea of finding myself attractive for a long time. Or anyone finding me attractive. Shrug. I got over it.
I know what you mean. I did for a while. It was a bit like how can he find me attractive? Look at him!. That was a while ago though. I’m ok with it now more.
Oh I thought I was hideously ugly. Self esteem shit.
I'm alright
You’re definitely not ugly swing. And I’ve met you in person. I get it though. The old you need to love yourself first. "
Absolutely. And thank you.
Work on yourself and the rest will follow. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I had a mental block on the idea of finding myself attractive for a long time. Or anyone finding me attractive. Shrug. I got over it.
I know what you mean. I did for a while. It was a bit like how can he find me attractive? Look at him!. That was a while ago though. I’m ok with it now more.
Oh I thought I was hideously ugly. Self esteem shit.
I'm alright
You’re definitely not ugly swing. And I’ve met you in person. I get it though. The old you need to love yourself first.
Absolutely. And thank you.
Work on yourself and the rest will follow."
Definitely. x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm going to try and explain this in a succinct way without my usual waffling.
The women I find attractive are those who possess traits that I think, on some level, I want to have. So confident women who are comfortable with who they are, vulnerabilities, quirks and all. I like women who are intelligent and caring and amusingly quick witted with a dry sense of humour, something I hope I'm like one day. Aesthetically, there's not a particular type I go for - I like women who are smaller and bigger than me. I do have a soft spot for women who are a bit individual in their dress sense. I love mixed race women with curves (like my metamour is beautiful) but I don't think I'm one of the attractive ones (not in a fishing way, more realistic). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm going to try and explain this in a succinct way without my usual waffling.
The women I find attractive are those who possess traits that I think, on some level, I want to have. So confident women who are comfortable with who they are, vulnerabilities, quirks and all. I like women who are intelligent and caring and amusingly quick witted with a dry sense of humour, something I hope I'm like one day. Aesthetically, there's not a particular type I go for - I like women who are smaller and bigger than me. I do have a soft spot for women who are a bit individual in their dress sense. I love mixed race women with curves (like my metamour is beautiful) but I don't think I'm one of the attractive ones (not in a fishing way, more realistic)."
You have that “thing” though Meli. Hard to explain but a presence. Like someone who walks into a room and everyone turns around. Your demeanour, your voice maybe. |
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"I'm going to try and explain this in a succinct way without my usual waffling.
The women I find attractive are those who possess traits that I think, on some level, I want to have. So confident women who are comfortable with who they are, vulnerabilities, quirks and all. I like women who are intelligent and caring and amusingly quick witted with a dry sense of humour, something I hope I'm like one day. Aesthetically, there's not a particular type I go for - I like women who are smaller and bigger than me. I do have a soft spot for women who are a bit individual in their dress sense. I love mixed race women with curves (like my metamour is beautiful) but I don't think I'm one of the attractive ones (not in a fishing way, more realistic).
You have that “thing” though Meli. Hard to explain but a presence. Like someone who walks into a room and everyone turns around. Your demeanour, your voice maybe. "
Oh her voice is just smooth as silk |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm going to try and explain this in a succinct way without my usual waffling.
The women I find attractive are those who possess traits that I think, on some level, I want to have. So confident women who are comfortable with who they are, vulnerabilities, quirks and all. I like women who are intelligent and caring and amusingly quick witted with a dry sense of humour, something I hope I'm like one day. Aesthetically, there's not a particular type I go for - I like women who are smaller and bigger than me. I do have a soft spot for women who are a bit individual in their dress sense. I love mixed race women with curves (like my metamour is beautiful) but I don't think I'm one of the attractive ones (not in a fishing way, more realistic).
You have that “thing” though Meli. Hard to explain but a presence. Like someone who walks into a room and everyone turns around. Your demeanour, your voice maybe. "
Sexy is probably the word. Some people just “are” |
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"Probably not but that's because of the way I see myself. I wouldn't look at someone I fancied and think they looked like me because I don't find myself attractive.
Personality wise, yes I would, even though I'm a pain in the arse.
You’ve an amazing figure!"
Bless you lovely! So do you! |
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"I'm going to try and explain this in a succinct way without my usual waffling.
The women I find attractive are those who possess traits that I think, on some level, I want to have. So confident women who are comfortable with who they are, vulnerabilities, quirks and all. I like women who are intelligent and caring and amusingly quick witted with a dry sense of humour, something I hope I'm like one day. Aesthetically, there's not a particular type I go for - I like women who are smaller and bigger than me. I do have a soft spot for women who are a bit individual in their dress sense. I love mixed race women with curves (like my metamour is beautiful) but I don't think I'm one of the attractive ones (not in a fishing way, more realistic).
You have that “thing” though Meli. Hard to explain but a presence. Like someone who walks into a room and everyone turns around. Your demeanour, your voice maybe. "
That's really lovely, thank you Nora. It's weird how there's such a dissonance between how we perceive ourselves to be and others do. You have a lovely figure and hopefully one day you'll truly realise that. x |
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I find twinkly eyes mesmerising and irrisistable... in a club i would melt for a brunette /redhead, similar to me ... But i am very annoying, so i definitely don't want to meet me haha
Although i would like to suck my own boobs 
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"I'm going to try and explain this in a succinct way without my usual waffling.
The women I find attractive are those who possess traits that I think, on some level, I want to have. So confident women who are comfortable with who they are, vulnerabilities, quirks and all. I like women who are intelligent and caring and amusingly quick witted with a dry sense of humour, something I hope I'm like one day. Aesthetically, there's not a particular type I go for - I like women who are smaller and bigger than me. I do have a soft spot for women who are a bit individual in their dress sense. I love mixed race women with curves (like my metamour is beautiful) but I don't think I'm one of the attractive ones (not in a fishing way, more realistic).
You have that “thing” though Meli. Hard to explain but a presence. Like someone who walks into a room and everyone turns around. Your demeanour, your voice maybe.
That's really lovely, thank you Nora. It's weird how there's such a dissonance between how we perceive ourselves to be and others do. You have a lovely figure and hopefully one day you'll truly realise that. x"
It really is. We do often perceive ourselves so different to how others do. I don’t hate how I look, it’s not a fishing thing. I could do with losing a bit of weight but I can do something about that! I think a few years ago it was more a confidence thing in that perhaps I didn’t realise I was attractive to other people as I hadn’t really taken much notice in the past. And it took me by surprise I guess x |
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"I'm going to try and explain this in a succinct way without my usual waffling.
The women I find attractive are those who possess traits that I think, on some level, I want to have. So confident women who are comfortable with who they are, vulnerabilities, quirks and all. I like women who are intelligent and caring and amusingly quick witted with a dry sense of humour, something I hope I'm like one day. Aesthetically, there's not a particular type I go for - I like women who are smaller and bigger than me. I do have a soft spot for women who are a bit individual in their dress sense. I love mixed race women with curves (like my metamour is beautiful) but I don't think I'm one of the attractive ones (not in a fishing way, more realistic).
You have that “thing” though Meli. Hard to explain but a presence. Like someone who walks into a room and everyone turns around. Your demeanour, your voice maybe. "
You're like sunshine in a person. |
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"I'm going to try and explain this in a succinct way without my usual waffling.
The women I find attractive are those who possess traits that I think, on some level, I want to have. So confident women who are comfortable with who they are, vulnerabilities, quirks and all. I like women who are intelligent and caring and amusingly quick witted with a dry sense of humour, something I hope I'm like one day. Aesthetically, there's not a particular type I go for - I like women who are smaller and bigger than me. I do have a soft spot for women who are a bit individual in their dress sense. I love mixed race women with curves (like my metamour is beautiful) but I don't think I'm one of the attractive ones (not in a fishing way, more realistic).
You have that “thing” though Meli. Hard to explain but a presence. Like someone who walks into a room and everyone turns around. Your demeanour, your voice maybe.
You're like sunshine in a person. "
Yes that’s a good way of putting it. She just has this aura about her. |
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I wouldnt say similar, but there are features I enjoy in myself which I seek in others, unconsciously perhaps as I don't think about it before hand. Much more fussy about women I find attractive. But mostly put off by their personalities rather than looks.
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"I'm a bi sexual male love to have nawty weekend meets with Bi couples love cock and pussy xx my place or yours "
Oi you! I’ll send you the bill for placing adverts in my thread! |
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"I'm a bi sexual male love to have nawty weekend meets with Bi couples love cock and pussy xx my place or yours
Oi you! I’ll send you the bill for placing adverts in my thread!"
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That's a good question I think yes as I do prefer a curvier lady like myself, but on the other hand I like the geek and goth look which is not me, most woman turn me on to be fair |
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We've always said it's about meeting laid back, very open minded people that want to take what they enjoy or fantasize about to a higher level. Despite anything else. Meeting others that can help each other to reach certain ecstasies without judgment is a beautiful thing x |
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Variety is the spice of life, I might go for an alternative girl but never one who looks like me, I certainly go for opposites, for me it's a personality thing that will attract me most rather than a particular body shape or hair colour. Xxx |
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Ooh good question...not really thought about it. Yes I would but thinking about it I have gone more for the quiet, deep thinking individual so me, but without the crazy party dance side, though there was that guy in tight joddies, knee length riding boots with spurs...never see me in that and posh too so...excuse side tracked briefly. Yes I would but more the quiet, sassy sexy me than the party side of me. BUT thats me now, in the sense that my party fun dance side has diminished due to all this crap so now I prefer silence to party. Its all pretty fkd up...in summary..yes but only the silent thinker side of myself. |
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