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Fit men are untrustworthy!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently women prefer middle aged men to have a dad-bod! If they are too fit, they are untrustworthy!
Discuss?  "
I agree coming from the 40 year old with a dad bod |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends what you mean by trustworthy OP.
Agree that trust is on the inside nothing to do with physical characteristics. Although one could argue if they look great , it gives an ego boost , which can lead to being untrustworthy.
As for me - I try to be as transparent as possible. Best way to be - I can't be asked with the extra stress if rem_mbering what I told to whom lol
Ps not that there are alot of whom LOL |
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Yeah i call bullshit. If any woman thinks like that i think its more down to her own insecurities over that if a guy is fit/gym fit that hell be running around after other women and have women running after him and he wont say no. Trustworthyness doesnt depend on your body type |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I disagree. My experience is older dad bod men are the ones in flux, wondering what they're doing with their lives, wondering what sex is like with younger women/not their partner/another man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pretty sure Mr Adventure is fit and not untrustworthy. There are men out there with dad bods who are up to all sorts of no good. Never judge a book by its cover |
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"Yeah i call bullshit. If any woman thinks like that i think its more down to her own insecurities over that if a guy is fit/gym fit that hell be running around after other women and have women running after him and he wont say no. Trustworthyness doesnt depend on your body type "
Exactly this. Reminds me of guys who loved how you looked when you met but when you get together they want you to stop going to the gym, dressing up and wearing make up, etc  . |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
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"Apparently women prefer middle aged men to have a dad-bod! If they are too fit, they are untrustworthy!
Discuss? "
Age and body aside I think that anyone can be untrustworthy. But a person with a toned physique and appears over confident and arrogant as they admire themselves too much and on ego trips. No thsnks. Lol |
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"Yeah i call bullshit. If any woman thinks like that i think its more down to her own insecurities over that if a guy is fit/gym fit that hell be running around after other women and have women running after him and he wont say no. Trustworthyness doesnt depend on your body type "
Yeah - but it can also be viewed this way:
The more attractive/better shape you’re in - the more opportunities you have to have sex with others.
Some will turn down all those opportunities, some won’t.
People who are less appealing to others will have less opportunities to have sex - thus someone looking for a potential partner may feel more secure with them! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apparently women prefer middle aged men to have a dad-bod! If they are too fit, they are untrustworthy!
Discuss?
Age and body aside I think that anyone can be untrustworthy. But a person with a toned physique and appears over confident and arrogant as they admire themselves too much and on ego trips. No thsnks. Lol "
Couldn't possibly be that they hate the way they look so much that they're constantly trying to achieve an unattainable goal now could it?  |
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It's funny isn't it, the things people think you can infer from body type.
It fascinates me that loads of people insist that looks are way down the list when it comes to choosing a partner but really nearly everyone takes them into account one way or another.
Is trust just about whether your partner will have sex with someone else or not? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apparently women prefer middle aged men to have a dad-bod! If they are too fit, they are untrustworthy!
Discuss? "
That’s just like saying a fit woman is untrusting. No one can assume.
I actually think a fit well looked after man , also wants to look after his woman! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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M here. Just putting it out there. But Do you think its because men with a toned figure may get more attention than a men who haven't therefore perceived as being untrustworthy. Just a thought as i too have the body of a God and am trustworthy..... it just so happens to be buddha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think that there's a perception that those with fit bodies are arrogant because they stay in shape and can therefore "get" with anyone they want, hence the lack of trustworthiness. |
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"I think that there's a perception that those with fit bodies are arrogant because they stay in shape and can therefore "get" with anyone they want, hence the lack of trustworthiness."
It might be but I've met plenty of arrogant people who I wouldn't class as fit at all. |
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"I think that there's a perception that those with fit bodies are arrogant because they stay in shape and can therefore "get" with anyone they want, hence the lack of trustworthiness."
Yeah and there's a percentage of those who feel unattractive and can easily have their head turned by anyone who pays them any attention because of the temporary confidence boost it brings. |
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"I think that there's a perception that those with fit bodies are arrogant because they stay in shape and can therefore "get" with anyone they want, hence the lack of trustworthiness.
Yeah and there's a percentage of those who feel unattractive and can easily have their head turned by anyone who pays them any attention because of the temporary confidence boost it brings. "
Just reread it and you said perception not percentage. #dyslexicproblems |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that there's a perception that those with fit bodies are arrogant because they stay in shape and can therefore "get" with anyone they want, hence the lack of trustworthiness.
Yeah and there's a percentage of those who feel unattractive and can easily have their head turned by anyone who pays them any attention because of the temporary confidence boost it brings. "
This is what is was trying to say earlier. But you guys said it better than I |
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When you train consistently a man's testosterone levels are gonna be higher than the norm, therefore usually equals a higher sex drive but that has nothing to do with being faithful or unfaithful. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Apparently women prefer middle aged men to have a dad-bod! If they are too fit, they are untrustworthy!
Discuss?
Is the opinion from middle aged women? Can they be trusted? "
Its from a poll on breakfast telly today, I dont agree but thought I would open up a discussion about it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When you train consistently a man's testosterone levels are gonna be higher than the norm, therefore usually equals a higher sex drive but that has nothing to do with being faithful or unfaithful. "
So if women train consistently is the same true? |
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"When you train consistently a man's testosterone levels are gonna be higher than the norm, therefore usually equals a higher sex drive but that has nothing to do with being faithful or unfaithful.
So if women train consistently is the same true?"
Couldnt speak for all women but i know when i do train consistent my sex drive goes up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"M here. Just putting it out there. But Do you think its because men with a toned figure may get more attention than a men who haven't therefore perceived as being untrustworthy. Just a thought as i too have the body of a God and am trustworthy..... it just so happens to be buddha "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you train consistently a man's testosterone levels are gonna be higher than the norm, therefore usually equals a higher sex drive but that has nothing to do with being faithful or unfaithful.
So if women train consistently is the same true?
Couldnt speak for all women but i know when i do train consistent my sex drive goes up"
I'd imagine it's more to do with endorphins than testosterone but I could be wrong, I'm not a doctor |
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"Isn’t it more the fact they some women think that if a guy is fit he will eventually go off them and run away with the latest model ? Our insecurities are more to blame than a guys six pack "
Probs a bit of both. Motive and opportunity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I disagree. My experience is older dad bod men are the ones in flux, wondering what they're doing with their lives, wondering what sex is like with younger women/not their partner/another man. "
Yes I agree with this  Middle-aged men going bi does seem to be a phenomenon. |
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"When you train consistently a man's testosterone levels are gonna be higher than the norm, therefore usually equals a higher sex drive but that has nothing to do with being faithful or unfaithful.
So if women train consistently is the same true?
Couldnt speak for all women but i know when i do train consistent my sex drive goes up
I'd imagine it's more to do with endorphins than testosterone but I could be wrong, I'm not a doctor "
Women can see a temporary rise in testosterone after weight training but not a permanent one like men. |
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"When you train consistently a man's testosterone levels are gonna be higher than the norm, therefore usually equals a higher sex drive but that has nothing to do with being faithful or unfaithful.
So if women train consistently is the same true?
Couldnt speak for all women but i know when i do train consistent my sex drive goes up
I'd imagine it's more to do with endorphins than testosterone but I could be wrong, I'm not a doctor
Women can see a temporary rise in testosterone after weight training but not a permanent one like men. "
Permanent is perhaps the wrong word. I mean men's testosterone levels are consistently higher but with women it's only for a short period after training and then it wears off. |
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"When you train consistently a man's testosterone levels are gonna be higher than the norm, therefore usually equals a higher sex drive but that has nothing to do with being faithful or unfaithful.
So if women train consistently is the same true?
Couldnt speak for all women but i know when i do train consistent my sex drive goes up
I'd imagine it's more to do with endorphins than testosterone but I could be wrong, I'm not a doctor
Women can see a temporary rise in testosterone after weight training but not a permanent one like men. "
Whatever it is im not complaining and neither is himself lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you train consistently a man's testosterone levels are gonna be higher than the norm, therefore usually equals a higher sex drive but that has nothing to do with being faithful or unfaithful.
So if women train consistently is the same true?
Couldnt speak for all women but i know when i do train consistent my sex drive goes up
I'd imagine it's more to do with endorphins than testosterone but I could be wrong, I'm not a doctor
Women can see a temporary rise in testosterone after weight training but not a permanent one like men.
Permanent is perhaps the wrong word. I mean men's testosterone levels are consistently higher but with women it's only for a short period after training and then it wears off. "
Thanks Dr. Lacey |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If this is the case why am I not on all womens hot list and loved by all I have a dad bod I'm in my mid 30s and I'm trust worthy. And I'm most certainly not fit lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If this is the case why am I not on all womens hot list and loved by all I have a dad bod I'm in my mid 30s and I'm trust worthy. And I'm most certainly not fit lol.
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I thought you were added to everyone's hotlist by default, like Tom on Myspace |
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"When you train consistently a man's testosterone levels are gonna be higher than the norm, therefore usually equals a higher sex drive but that has nothing to do with being faithful or unfaithful.
So if women train consistently is the same true?
Couldnt speak for all women but i know when i do train consistent my sex drive goes up
I'd imagine it's more to do with endorphins than testosterone but I could be wrong, I'm not a doctor
Women can see a temporary rise in testosterone after weight training but not a permanent one like men.
Permanent is perhaps the wrong word. I mean men's testosterone levels are consistently higher but with women it's only for a short period after training and then it wears off. "
It's the same for men isn't it? Training raises testosterone but only for a matter of hours at most. |
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"When you train consistently a man's testosterone levels are gonna be higher than the norm, therefore usually equals a higher sex drive but that has nothing to do with being faithful or unfaithful.
So if women train consistently is the same true?
Couldnt speak for all women but i know when i do train consistent my sex drive goes up
I'd imagine it's more to do with endorphins than testosterone but I could be wrong, I'm not a doctor
Women can see a temporary rise in testosterone after weight training but not a permanent one like men.
Whatever it is im not complaining and neither is himself lol"
Yeah I'm horny as fuck after the gym too  . Apparently eating more protein can increase women's testosterone levels too so could be another factor if you're doing so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If this is the case why am I not on all womens hot list and loved by all I have a dad bod I'm in my mid 30s and I'm trust worthy. And I'm most certainly not fit lol.
I thought you were added to everyone's hotlist by default, like Tom on Myspace "
if only that was the case |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a dad bod and I am proud of it, but not as proud as being genuine with all on FAB.
I have found over time from my rugby playing days to my sideline days that there is little or no point in lying to anyone just be who you are and that way everyone enjoys it all. Not saying I lied when I was younger just cared more about what I looked like.
Shall I get my coat.....TAXI!! |
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"When you train consistently a man's testosterone levels are gonna be higher than the norm, therefore usually equals a higher sex drive but that has nothing to do with being faithful or unfaithful.
So if women train consistently is the same true?
Couldnt speak for all women but i know when i do train consistent my sex drive goes up
I'd imagine it's more to do with endorphins than testosterone but I could be wrong, I'm not a doctor
Women can see a temporary rise in testosterone after weight training but not a permanent one like men.
Permanent is perhaps the wrong word. I mean men's testosterone levels are consistently higher but with women it's only for a short period after training and then it wears off.
It's the same for men isn't it? Training raises testosterone but only for a matter of hours at most. "
No it can increase your testosterone levels long term too but only for men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that there's a perception that those with fit bodies are arrogant because they stay in shape and can therefore "get" with anyone they want, hence the lack of trustworthiness.
Yeah and there's a percentage of those who feel unattractive and can easily have their head turned by anyone who pays them any attention because of the temporary confidence boost it brings. "
100% right. It should be noted that those with gym fit bodies got fit for a reason. Personally I didn't like the way I looked and appreciate the any attention I can now get |
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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago
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"Yeah i call bullshit. If any woman thinks like that i think its more down to her own insecurities over that if a guy is fit/gym fit that hell be running around after other women and have women running after him and he wont say no. Trustworthyness doesnt depend on your body type
Yeah - but it can also be viewed this way:
The more attractive/better shape you’re in - the more opportunities you have to have sex with others.
Some will turn down all those opportunities, some won’t.
People who are less appealing to others will have less opportunities to have sex - thus someone looking for a potential partner may feel more secure with them! Xx"
I was trying to think of a way to write this down but you did it perfectly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most middle aged men who message me on here are married AND with a dad bod. So not trustworthy at all. "
You beat me to it! This
If men are fit they are still on the market. Once they have a woman in the kitchen there's no need to exercise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apparently women prefer middle aged men to have a dad-bod! If they are too fit, they are untrustworthy!
Discuss? "
Are you saying we all have to have a dad-bod in order to look trustworthy? This is a discrimination against fit men |
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I will tell you something. Does anyone (not fit) know how much effort need to be done to be fit in this times, where u have rubish food around? It make me sick see profile of hubby(by big H) lases only fit guys... That's why they untrusted... Or maybe im wrong fck knows |
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"I will tell you something. Does anyone (not fit) know how much effort need to be done to be fit in this times, where u have rubish food around? It make me sick see profile of hubby(by big H) lases only fit guys... That's why they untrusted... Or maybe im wrong fck knows "
Hubby big H? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Cunts and cocks come in all shapes and sizes! Watch out for the ones who declare they're harmless because nobody would fancy them or say they're the nicest men or women on fab, because honestly who fuck would say that and why would they say it, huh.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Isn’t it more the fact they some women think that if a guy is fit he will eventually go off them and run away with the latest model ? Our insecurities are more to blame than a guys six pack "
I’d guess women probably want fitter ripped guys for casual fucks then guys they tend to go for stable relationships with
The sex appeal for the random rides and the thrill of the score but maybe would settle for something more normal and less to worry about other women attracting him |
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