Just a quick one really to thank all of you that's offered your well wishes, support and understanding over these last few months. I know I've not been the easiest person to deal with and my miserable has been like a black cloud of doom.
There's no denying it's been a very volatile and testing time for me, my mental health and my heart.
I had a breakthrough today (I think)
I know I still have some way to go but for the first time in months I've felt like I CAN move forward.
I released a lot of anger and resentment that I knew was holding me hostage, and no, I don't feel great, but I do feel like a weight has been lifted.
So again, thank you.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm really happy to read this OP. You're human and you're grieving for the end of something, I'm not going to (and I doubt anyone else will) hold that against you. I'm thrilled that you're beginning to move forward. Baby steps and all that.  |
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"I'm really happy to read this OP. You're human and you're grieving for the end of something, I'm not going to (and I doubt anyone else will) hold that against you. I'm thrilled that you're beginning to move forward. Baby steps and all that. "
I am, and a huge part of the frustration of grief is not being able to say what you want to or need to. Having a huge anvil on your chest of thoughts, feelings and words that need to be heard.
I had my voice today and it really has helped. |
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Be kind to yourself please
You WILL find your happy
Of that I have no doubt
In the meantime allow yourself to be miserable and angry. Im more than happy to listen to your angry
Anytime x |
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It's cliche but time is a healer and day by day, week by week no matter what the hurt is it will ease but you should always take the time and opportunity to talk, let out those emotions so they don't overwhelm you.
Keep moving forward peach |
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I am 2 years on from a similar situation, and you will find your way, time creates distance from it and eventually you will realise that you really are okay now xx |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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You know what I think my dear friend - this is the first step on a new path that has opened up and each step you take you'll put it further and further behind you and emerge stronger and better from the bewilderness - you got this, and have done so much these past few months that you should be proud of yourself for - but you know any time you need a companion on that path just to help you past the tricky bits all you gotta do is whistle and Jiminy will come running |
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"Just a quick one really to thank all of you that's offered your well wishes, support and understanding over these last few months. I know I've not been the easiest person to deal with and my miserable has been like a black cloud of doom.
There's no denying it's been a very volatile and testing time for me, my mental health and my heart.
I had a breakthrough today (I think)
I know I still have some way to go but for the first time in months I've felt like I CAN move forward.
I released a lot of anger and resentment that I knew was holding me hostage, and no, I don't feel great, but I do feel like a weight has been lifted.
So again, thank you.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a quick one really to thank all of you that's offered your well wishes, support and understanding over these last few months. I know I've not been the easiest person to deal with and my miserable has been like a black cloud of doom.
There's no denying it's been a very volatile and testing time for me, my mental health and my heart.
I had a breakthrough today (I think)
I know I still have some way to go but for the first time in months I've felt like I CAN move forward.
I released a lot of anger and resentment that I knew was holding me hostage, and no, I don't feel great, but I do feel like a weight has been lifted.
So again, thank you.
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This is great to hear! |
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I had a breakthrough today (I think)
I know I still have some way to go but for the first time in months I've felt like I CAN move forward.
I released a lot of anger and resentment that I knew was holding me hostage, and no, I don't feel great, but I do feel like a weight has been lifted.
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Well done - often the most difficult challenges we face are the limits we impose on ourselves.
Look at all the warmth, affection and frienship on this thread. Harnesses it and keep striving so you can feel great.
You are a complete stranger to me - but seeing you break some of the chains that have been holding you down brings me a bigger and better smile that the hottest of hot photos. 
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honestly it means the world.
There are so so many people like me as far as friends/family goes.
Miles away from family, only friends they have locally are actually colleagues
Then you have the friends, local or otherwise that came from Fabland. A group you never expected in your wildest dreams to bond with, share highs and lows with.
Some friendships extend beyond this platform, some stay here.
For some of us, you lot ARE our support network.
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