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"Definitely been a slump or something this last few days.
Think regulars probably worried about an influx from the tv programme maybe? "
Possibly, plus furloughs are ending, schools are due back, everyone is fed up with social distancing...
Strange times we live in! |
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over a year ago
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"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.
Hoping this wears off soon though!"
I try posting new threads not the same as others but they get ignored. Think people are just in the habit to post the same crap on the same threads. Not bothering again!!! ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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"We always go through these cycles but it always picks back up again.
Stick with it
Her x"
Im still new(ish) so it seems like fun to me. Sure it will wear off soon lol |
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"We always go through these cycles but it always picks back up again.
Stick with it
Her x"
It doesn't. Same things different wording... May try another forum maybe ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"Definitely been a slump or something this last few days.
Think regulars probably worried about an influx from the tv programme maybe?
Possibly, plus furloughs are ending, schools are due back, everyone is fed up with social distancing...
Strange times we live in! "
All good points, people just getting busier again! |
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over a year ago
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"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.
Hoping this wears off soon though!
I try posting new threads not the same as others but they get ignored. Think people are just in the habit to post the same crap on the same threads. Not bothering again!!! "
Yeh ive tried a few times.
I cant take another "what would you do to the person above" or "tits out tuesday"
No offense to those who do, i just get bored if it all |
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"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.
Hoping this wears off soon though!
I try posting new threads not the same as others but they get ignored. Think people are just in the habit to post the same crap on the same threads. Not bothering again!!! "
I have noticed your efforts, sir, and while they light not be something I can / want to engage with I appreciate the effort you're going to.
So don't be disheartened
It's probably because you're not part of this forum clique that definitely does not exist... ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thinking about starting a snog, marry, avoid thread to appease the masses in the mean time "
Make it a snog, fuck, or avoid one and you’ve won the internet. |
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"Thinking about starting a snog, marry, avoid thread to appease the masses in the mean time
Make it a snog, fuck, or avoid one and you’ve won the internet."
I refuse to sell out, I will stick to my principles even if they barely make double figure comments. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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I would say part of it is possibly people are just sick of being on their phone/computer to communicate with people and really just want to see face to face.
Also sometimes keeping up with threads can be hard work when they move so fast etc ![](/icons/rainbow.png) |
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over a year ago
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"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.
Hoping this wears off soon though!
I try posting new threads not the same as others but they get ignored. Think people are just in the habit to post the same crap on the same threads. Not bothering again!!!
Yeh ive tried a few times.
I cant take another "what would you do to the person above" or "tits out tuesday"
No offense to those who do, i just get bored if it all"
Yep... like I said I tried but it always fails. First day back was good and my threads was good but think they've got used to me being back now lol.
Thought it'd be DIFFERENT this time but it's not really. I've met and chatting too some amazing people in the last few days mind so not all bad!! If in left now I've left with a few friends I didn't have so anything from now is a bonus x |
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"Thinking about starting a snog, marry, avoid thread to appease the masses in the mean time
Make it a snog, fuck, or avoid one and you’ve won the internet.
I refuse to sell out, I will stick to my principles even if they barely make double figure comments."
I avoid them threads like coronavirus!! |
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over a year ago
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I might have to Re- release My roller disco thread, I don’t think it got the critical acclaim it deserved on first release, as often happens with ground breaking work, it needs time, for people to catch up, it’s only later the genius is discovered. |
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"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.
Hoping this wears off soon though!
I try posting new threads not the same as others but they get ignored. Think people are just in the habit to post the same crap on the same threads. Not bothering again!!!
I have noticed your efforts, sir, and while they light not be something I can / want to engage with I appreciate the effort you're going to.
So don't be disheartened
It's probably because you're not part of this forum clique that definitely does not exist... "
It does maybe I can start my own clique for people not worthy of the 'popular' people on here ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
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"Definitely been a slump or something this last few days.
Think regulars probably worried about an influx from the tv programme maybe?
Possibly, plus furloughs are ending, schools are due back, everyone is fed up with social distancing...
Strange times we live in!
All good points, people just getting busier again! "
Nothing to do with it... plenty of people on here just going in the same sort of threads each and every day. People post them threads just to get the response. Think there should be something on here where a post or simular is limited to once a week. |
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"Thinking about starting a snog, marry, avoid thread to appease the masses in the mean time
Make it a snog, fuck, or avoid one and you’ve won the internet.
I refuse to sell out, I will stick to my principles even if they barely make double figure comments.
I avoid them threads like coronavirus!! "
Increasingly, so do I, because I keep getting ignored on them. Or anyone I try to flirt with passes on by.
Granted I'm painfully aware that I'm not many people's ideal date, being less of an oil painting and more of an oil slick, but I don't need constant reminding of that fact ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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"Thinking about starting a snog, marry, avoid thread to appease the masses in the mean time
Make it a snog, fuck, or avoid one and you’ve won the internet.
I refuse to sell out, I will stick to my principles even if they barely make double figure comments.
I avoid them threads like coronavirus!!
Increasingly, so do I, because I keep getting ignored on them. Or anyone I try to flirt with passes on by.
Granted I'm painfully aware that I'm not many people's ideal date, being less of an oil painting and more of an oil slick, but I don't need constant reminding of that fact "
Not that mate. Just not in the clique. They say the poster above but people look for friends or the so called popular people. Don't take it personally. ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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I've started a few threads, and they are probably ones that the masses avoid or say are cringe worthy. No matter, we can all avoid the threads we don't like. I've had some great conversations off the back of them. Loads of people have been on here for years so original threads will be hard to think up. I stay in the lighthearted, flirty threads. Too often I've seen words be misread, or taken out of context and people get upset x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Coming soon.....
Does having googly eyes tattooed on your penis turn women on? "
Well I had a fling with a guy who showed me a tattoo on his penis within 10 minutes of meeting him. So maybe |
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"Coming soon.....
Does having googly eyes tattooed on your penis turn women on?
Well I had a fling with a guy who showed me a tattoo on his penis within 10 minutes of meeting him. So maybe"
I gotta know, what was it ? |
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To be serious for a moment - which I know is never a good idea around here - the problem probably isn't the forum, or the content, but the individual's own perception of it.
If you're in a good place mentally it can be joyous and uplifting. If you're in a bad place it can be soul destroying
The forum is what it is, take from it whatever you will
Here endeth the lesson. Go in peace, my children ![](/icons/rainbow.png) |
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"To be serious for a moment - which I know is never a good idea around here - the problem probably isn't the forum, or the content, but the individual's own perception of it.
If you're in a good place mentally it can be joyous and uplifting. If you're in a bad place it can be soul destroying
The forum is what it is, take from it whatever you will
Here endeth the lesson. Go in peace, my children "
He's the wise monkey ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"To be serious for a moment - which I know is never a good idea around here - the problem probably isn't the forum, or the content, but the individual's own perception of it.
If you're in a good place mentally it can be joyous and uplifting. If you're in a bad place it can be soul destroying
The forum is what it is, take from it whatever you will
Here endeth the lesson. Go in peace, my children
He's the wise monkey "
Wise gorilla, thank you very much ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"To be serious for a moment - which I know is never a good idea around here - the problem probably isn't the forum, or the content, but the individual's own perception of it.
If you're in a good place mentally it can be joyous and uplifting. If you're in a bad place it can be soul destroying
The forum is what it is, take from it whatever you will
Here endeth the lesson. Go in peace, my children
He's the wise monkey
Wise gorilla, thank you very much "
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Ultimately the forums are what we each make of them as individuals and doesn't even have to be related to whether you're in a good or bad place currently - personally I'm in a pretty good place generally speaking but am finding them a little tiresome lately - it's either trite nonsense or people taking offence at people holding a different opinion.
It may be related to lockdown, it may be peaks and troughs and this is just a particularly long trough, or it may just be the regular "changing of the guard" that happens as people come and go and I've not particularly warmed to the new guard - whatever it is though, it is what it is and I'm quite happily taking a back seat and post only on things that take my interest, which is less and less.
There are far more important things in life and the forums are after all a tiny percentage of the site. |
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"Ultimately the forums are what we each make of them as individuals and doesn't even have to be related to whether you're in a good or bad place currently - personally I'm in a pretty good place generally speaking but am finding them a little tiresome lately - it's either trite nonsense or people taking offence at people holding a different opinion.
It may be related to lockdown, it may be peaks and troughs and this is just a particularly long trough, or it may just be the regular "changing of the guard" that happens as people come and go and I've not particularly warmed to the new guard - whatever it is though, it is what it is and I'm quite happily taking a back seat and post only on things that take my interest, which is less and less.
There are far more important things in life and the forums are after all a tiny percentage of the site."
there speaks the wise voice |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes. "
Yeah my discussion about the merits of sex whilst dressed as a pixie wearing a Boris mask completely flopped for some reason ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.
Yeah my discussion about the merits of sex whilst dressed as a pixie wearing a Boris mask completely flopped for some reason "
I always miss the good ones ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"To be serious for a moment - which I know is never a good idea around here - the problem probably isn't the forum, or the content, but the individual's own perception of it.
If you're in a good place mentally it can be joyous and uplifting. If you're in a bad place it can be soul destroying
The forum is what it is, take from it whatever you will
Here endeth the lesson. Go in peace, my children
He's the wise monkey "
Indeed he is! Some of the most saccharine popularity validation threads appear when people are at their lowest and need a boost. Nothing wrong with that per sa but not loads of them! |
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"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.
Yeah my discussion about the merits of sex whilst dressed as a pixie wearing a Boris mask completely flopped for some reason "
There's niche and then there's niche Mr. G! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes. "
I like nichè, its more intersting |
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"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.
I like nichè, its more intersting"
Same but I also come on here for fun and not to recieve a load of hate so I stopped talking about lots of things on here a long time ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.
I like nichè, its more intersting
Same but I also come on here for fun and not to recieve a load of hate so I stopped talking about lots of things on here a long time ago. "
Yea but at least your an individual so just carry on being you ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.
Yeah my discussion about the merits of sex whilst dressed as a pixie wearing a Boris mask completely flopped for some reason
There's niche and then there's niche Mr. G! "
What's niche to you though may be normal to some
Actually joking aside you make a very good point some activities do tend to get frowned on or attract the negative type of comments - but when a BDSM thread for example attracts a good positive response that is the kind of thing I enjoy.
Even a decent debate that doesn't descend into offence being taken for holding an opposing opinion can be interesting |
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"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.
I like nichè, its more intersting
Same but I also come on here for fun and not to recieve a load of hate so I stopped talking about lots of things on here a long time ago.
Yea but at least your an individual so just carry on being you "
I am still being me, I just keep lots to myself on here ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.
I like nichè, its more intersting
Same but I also come on here for fun and not to recieve a load of hate so I stopped talking about lots of things on here a long time ago.
Yea but at least your an individual so just carry on being you
I am still being me, I just keep lots to myself on here "
Yea but don’t darling shake it up a bit ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.
Yeah my discussion about the merits of sex whilst dressed as a pixie wearing a Boris mask completely flopped for some reason
There's niche and then there's niche Mr. G!
What's niche to you though may be normal to some
Actually joking aside you make a very good point some activities do tend to get frowned on or attract the negative type of comments - but when a BDSM thread for example attracts a good positive response that is the kind of thing I enjoy.
Even a decent debate that doesn't descend into offence being taken for holding an opposing opinion can be interesting "
Debate is fine but I've had my partners be called paedophiles and people say I must have been abused as a child. |
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"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.
Yeah my discussion about the merits of sex whilst dressed as a pixie wearing a Boris mask completely flopped for some reason
There's niche and then there's niche Mr. G!
What's niche to you though may be normal to some
Actually joking aside you make a very good point some activities do tend to get frowned on or attract the negative type of comments - but when a BDSM thread for example attracts a good positive response that is the kind of thing I enjoy.
Even a decent debate that doesn't descend into offence being taken for holding an opposing opinion can be interesting
Debate is fine but I've had my partners be called paedophiles and people say I must have been abused as a child. "
That's truly awful. It saddens me when people turn nasty x |
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"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.
I like nichè, its more intersting
Same but I also come on here for fun and not to recieve a load of hate so I stopped talking about lots of things on here a long time ago. "
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.
Yeah my discussion about the merits of sex whilst dressed as a pixie wearing a Boris mask completely flopped for some reason
There's niche and then there's niche Mr. G!
What's niche to you though may be normal to some
Actually joking aside you make a very good point some activities do tend to get frowned on or attract the negative type of comments - but when a BDSM thread for example attracts a good positive response that is the kind of thing I enjoy.
Even a decent debate that doesn't descend into offence being taken for holding an opposing opinion can be interesting
Debate is fine but I've had my partners be called paedophiles and people say I must have been abused as a child. "
Yeah I've seen some awful things said on BDSM related threads - the worst being that anyone into it must have mental health issues by someone that when challenged continued to assert that belief
Shaven or hairy threads always seem to descend into people being vile too.
Why people can't just accept others may have different tastes and desires and accept that even though it's not for them, others may like it, is beyond me. |
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"I've started a few threads, and they are probably ones that the masses avoid or say are cringe worthy. No matter, we can all avoid the threads we don't like. I've had some great conversations off the back of them. Loads of people have been on here for years so original threads will be hard to think up. I stay in the lighthearted, flirty threads. Too often I've seen words be misread, or taken out of context and people get upset x"
I've only recently started to to make a conscious effort to comment on the forums but I think you threads have been great fun |
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"I've started a few threads, and they are probably ones that the masses avoid or say are cringe worthy. No matter, we can all avoid the threads we don't like. I've had some great conversations off the back of them. Loads of people have been on here for years so original threads will be hard to think up. I stay in the lighthearted, flirty threads. Too often I've seen words be misread, or taken out of context and people get upset x
I've only recently started to to make a conscious effort to comment on the forums but I think you threads have been great fun"
Thank you for saying that x |
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"I've started a few threads, and they are probably ones that the masses avoid or say are cringe worthy. No matter, we can all avoid the threads we don't like. I've had some great conversations off the back of them. Loads of people have been on here for years so original threads will be hard to think up. I stay in the lighthearted, flirty threads. Too often I've seen words be misread, or taken out of context and people get upset x
I've only recently started to to make a conscious effort to comment on the forums but I think you threads have been great fun
Thank you for saying that x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yup, same old repetitive threads...
Used to be a social place to spark new conversations with people.
Now it's just mostly attention seeking/ego boosting. "
It’s always been like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yup, same old repetitive threads...
Used to be a social place to spark new conversations with people.
Now it's just mostly attention seeking/ego boosting.
It’s always been like that "
She’s back! ![](/icons/s/2/heart.gif) |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Yup, same old repetitive threads...
Used to be a social place to spark new conversations with people.
Now it's just mostly attention seeking/ego boosting.
It’s always been like that "
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Yup, same old repetitive threads...
Used to be a social place to spark new conversations with people.
Now it's just mostly attention seeking/ego boosting. "
So change it then start some interesting threads |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yup, same old repetitive threads...
Used to be a social place to spark new conversations with people.
Now it's just mostly attention seeking/ego boosting.
It’s always been like that
She’s back! "
Not sure how long, but for a little while ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yup, same old repetitive threads...
Used to be a social place to spark new conversations with people.
Now it's just mostly attention seeking/ego boosting.
It’s always been like that
She’s back!
Not sure how long, but for a little while "
You’re worse than me! Good to see you anyway x |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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It can be difficult at times to find amusement, especially with meets still not happening making people frustrated.
All we can do is our little bit to bring joy and happiness to others.
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And squeeze a few bums on the way. ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"Yup, same old repetitive threads...
Used to be a social place to spark new conversations with people.
Now it's just mostly attention seeking/ego boosting.
It’s always been like that
She’s back!
Not sure how long, but for a little while
You’re worse than me! Good to see you anyway x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.
Hoping this wears off soon though!"
Try the phone a friend, there is a million up for grabs.
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"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.
Hoping this wears off soon though!
Try the phone a friend, there is a million up for grabs.
Who you gonna call ? "
Ghostbusters!! Lol x |
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The best advice comes from The Ramones - they decided to play the music they wanted to hear on the radio.
The threads I create are primarily for my own amusement and if other people like them or comment on them great that is a bonus (and I love it when they go off at tangents).
Some of mine die and do the thread drop of shame, some shine for a few brief moments and others soar to the heights. But I keep plugging away.
Don't tailor a thread to the audience. Let the audience find your thread. Post what you'd like to see or talk about.
If you enjoy knitting do a knitting thread.
Use an interest or hobby (other than sex) of yours to connect with people (a good one was Lacey_Red's geek/nerds thread which started a plethora of rpg/geeky/nerd threads).
Observe the world around you and post funny/serious anecdotes of what you see.
Do a nature watch thread (I saw a dead badger on the road yesterday - what road kill have you seen recently?).
If you enjoy reading start a forum book club.
Go niche and talk about the socioeconomic impact of anal fisting amongst stockbrokers.
The forum is not one community but many communities each trying to vie for space. And you never know you might connect with someone you never thought you would connect with.
The only limit is what you can think of. If someone trolls your thread don't engage with the troll.
Hoist the mainsail and have at it. |
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"Yup, same old repetitive threads...
Used to be a social place to spark new conversations with people.
Now it's just mostly attention seeking/ego boosting.
It’s always been like that "
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"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.
Hoping this wears off soon though!
Try the phone a friend, there is a million up for grabs.
Who you gonna call ?
Ghostbusters!! Lol x "
That was removed as an option ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.
Hoping this wears off soon though!
Try the phone a friend, there is a million up for grabs.
Who you gonna call ?
Ghostbusters!! Lol x
That was removed as an option "
I like to break the rules x ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.
Hoping this wears off soon though!
Try the phone a friend, there is a million up for grabs.
Who you gonna call ?
Ghostbusters!! Lol x
That was removed as an option
I like to break the rules x "
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"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.
Hoping this wears off soon though!
Try the phone a friend, there is a million up for grabs.
Who you gonna call ?
Ghostbusters!! Lol x
That was removed as an option
I like to break the rules x "
I have been known to use that line ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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"I see no forum slump
Same here. I've only been posting for a couple of days but now chatting to some lovely people
Hello lovely xxx
And you're one of them "
Amazing hair colour. Wish I could get mine that vibrant x |
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"Over the 14+ years that I've been on here, I've seen things come full circle many times "
I would say the same over the 10 I have been on here.
Probably a rise in the 'I fancy you threads'.
Saying that not seen one of those today ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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Things come and go, holiday periods affect things. Plus the sex rations are likely having a big influence, on top of the big challenge out there affecting everyone in complex ways. Fab as well as the forum are best dipped into at the right times for us and stayed away from when we're not getting what we need |
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"Turnip related posts....we need more of them
I’ll accept radishes and possibly asparagus also
What else"
I’ve never seen a thread devoted exclusively to the awesomeness that are pickled eggs on here..... ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Turnip related posts....we need more of them
I’ll accept radishes and possibly asparagus also
What else
I’ve never seen a thread devoted exclusively to the awesomeness that are pickled eggs on here..... "
Dont eat em |
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"Turnip related posts....we need more of them
I’ll accept radishes and possibly asparagus also
What else
I’ve never seen a thread devoted exclusively to the awesomeness that are pickled eggs on here.....
Dont eat em"
Put them up your bum ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Turnip related posts....we need more of them
I’ll accept radishes and possibly asparagus also
What else
I’ve never seen a thread devoted exclusively to the awesomeness that are pickled eggs on here.....
Dont eat em
Put them up your bum "
No |
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"Turnip related posts....we need more of them
I’ll accept radishes and possibly asparagus also
What else
I’ve never seen a thread devoted exclusively to the awesomeness that are pickled eggs on here..... "
Funnily enough, it was myself who did a thread on them agggeesss ago.
Love em |
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