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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have you gained anything from fab?
Is there anything random fab has helped you with? Anything new you have tried?
For example...I had never driven more than 15 miles away from my house...but due to wanting to meet people I've driven to the other end of the country!
I'd never been on a train on my own or stayed in a hotel alone until I went to the fab social at Heathrow.
How about you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you gained anything from fab?
Is there anything random fab has helped you with? Anything new you have tried?
For example...I had never driven more than 15 miles away from my house...but due to wanting to meet people I've driven to the other end of the country!
I'd never been on a train on my own or stayed in a hotel alone until I went to the fab social at Heathrow.
How about you? "
Never felt I may me happy again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it is fantastic how you can speak to people who you would never ever have known anything about in your life had fab not made you cross paths.
It can take you out of your comfort zone too which is good.
I have made some special friends (and not sex friends).
I am also trying to learn to say fuck it too when things don't turn out how you would have hoped. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some amazing friends, met the gorgeous Inked on here, and have found a confidence I never thought I’d ever have.
Before I joined I had never taken a topless image, never mind a naked one! I didn’t have enough confidence in my figure being desirable. I’d had sex with only three men prior to joining, but the numbers didn’t increase massively as I met Inked not long after joining, haha, but he has helped me explore my bisexuality by supporting me and I can’t get enough of mff/ff meets, haha x
So basically, it’s helped me find me and not be ashamed to enjoy sex x
Viv x
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Well, only 2 social meets in 18 months.. so..
But I remain.. optimistic is too strong a word, but you've got to try. Something wild and incredible could be just around the corner! - I like being switched on to that sensation, and Fab offers it, albeit teasingly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An escape from reality at times. 2 true friends for life that go way beyond fab now. Lucky enough to have had 2 great long term FWB relationships through fab. A few downs on here but mostly ups. And I’ve learnt more on these forums in 2 years than I ever did at school!!
Also to be less trustworthy of people unfortunately  |
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Fab has given me someone else to talk to during lockdown.... its made me feel like I’m gaining new friends and love listening to people’s experiences on here etc
I Also feel more confident and sexier x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"An escape from reality at times. 2 true friends for life that go way beyond fab now. Lucky enough to have had 2 great long term FWB relationships through fab. A few downs on here but mostly ups. And I’ve learnt more on these forums in 2 years than I ever did at school!!
Also to be less trustworthy of people unfortunately "
Wait... you’re back?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"An escape from reality at times. 2 true friends for life that go way beyond fab now. Lucky enough to have had 2 great long term FWB relationships through fab. A few downs on here but mostly ups. And I’ve learnt more on these forums in 2 years than I ever did at school!!
Also to be less trustworthy of people unfortunately
Wait... you’re back? "
Hello sexy lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its helped all through the lockdown. I've met a lot of really nice genuine people on fab. Its also helped me being in more hotels than the guideons bible lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A place to escape to and try to be me somewhere. A place to release some creativity in words. A place to make me smile and, sometimes, to laugh out loud. A place which can be frustrating, annoying and disappointing but one I will stick with.  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Loads...
Friends I truly never expected to make when I joined but who will still be friends long after I leave.
A grudging acceptance that actually, to some, I am attractive, despite my advanced years and general personal meh-ness about my body.
Experiences I could only have dreamed of before signing up.
And a lot more besides |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you gained anything from fab?
Is there anything random fab has helped you with? Anything new you have tried?
For example...I had never driven more than 15 miles away from my house...but due to wanting to meet people I've driven to the other end of the country!
I'd never been on a train on my own or stayed in a hotel alone until I went to the fab social at Heathrow.
How about you? "
I’ve learned that my parents and grandparents are still having sex...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Loads...
Friends I truly never expected to make when I joined but who will still be friends long after I leave.
A grudging acceptance that actually, to some, I am attractive, despite my advanced years and general personal meh-ness about my body.
Experiences I could only have dreamed of before signing up.
And a lot more besides "
You should have learnt that you have touched the lives of many on here with your kind and sage words too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A better understanding of my sexual needs. And I've become better at having conversations around desires, boundaries, sexual history/health.
Also discovered a kink for rope play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I say the best thing I got from Fab Isa wonderful friend that I've now known over 5 years online. Hopefully when this pandemic is over we can meet (he's in England and I'm in the US)"
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you gained anything from fab?
Is there anything random fab has helped you with? Anything new you have tried?
For example...I had never driven more than 15 miles away from my house...but due to wanting to meet people I've driven to the other end of the country!
I'd never been on a train on my own or stayed in a hotel alone until I went to the fab social at Heathrow.
How about you? "
golly gosh that’s surprising ! It’s given me wide eyes for glaring at my phone too long lolol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you gained anything from fab?
Is there anything random fab has helped you with? Anything new you have tried?
For example...I had never driven more than 15 miles away from my house...but due to wanting to meet people I've driven to the other end of the country!
I'd never been on a train on my own or stayed in a hotel alone until I went to the fab social at Heathrow.
How about you? "
Simply lots of casual sex partners. And an easy way to make contact and meet for sex only. I have tried other hookup sites but only ever met one person. I have met dozens on Fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Confidence to try new things, would never of discovered the club scene without Fab
Friends, found some amazing people.
Empowerment - an ex fwb built me up, empowered me, gave me confidence and self belief, I don't settle for less now |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
Fab has given me some good fun, some highs and very bad lows.
It's also brought me some incredible friends, some potential great friends and a very exciting possibility  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A great _iew...
Seriously, I'm much clearer on what I want in a partner, more confident about asking for what I want in a sexual situation.
Conversely, I know through my experiences on here exactly what I DON'T want and I'm more resolute about saying no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The best thing is I met my partner on here 9 years ago we fell in love and have two children now. We have also made some amazing friends people we haven’t played with and some we have but our friendships go beyond that of swinging and I feel blessed to have met likeminded people. |
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Somet relaxed, fun, engaging experiences with great people. A couple of true friends that go way beyond fab; a reminder that my barriers are there for a reason, trusting my gut instinct is still right in this environment; and a never ending list of victims to draw. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pornstar sex.
I’ve played in clubs and at house parties.
My first house party was extremely memorable.
Things were slow to get going, so a lady I had known for about 20 mins started having sex in this room, and I remember looking round to see a writhing, heaving mass of bodies around me.
Unbelievable. |
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Fab gave me more than I thought it would to be honest.
I gained some amazing friends that crossed over into normal life.
I've some really funny stories to carry with me.
I had some pretty unreal experiences and learned no matter how old I get I'm still a bit naïve when it comes to being spun a tale!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The impression that other than me everyone is having lots of sex with lots of people lol. It’s nice to read that people are having a good time and making friends though. |
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"The impression that other than me everyone is having lots of sex with lots of people lol. It’s nice to read that people are having a good time and making friends though. "
It can seem like that but remember this forum is social media, people will often portray their best life, not necessarily their real life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The impression that other than me everyone is having lots of sex with lots of people lol. It’s nice to read that people are having a good time and making friends though.
It can seem like that but remember this forum is social media, people will often portray their best life, not necessarily their real life "
I know, I jest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you gained anything from fab?
Is there anything random fab has helped you with? Anything new you have tried?
For example...I had never driven more than 15 miles away from my house...but due to wanting to meet people I've driven to the other end of the country!
I'd never been on a train on my own or stayed in a hotel alone until I went to the fab social at Heathrow.
How about you? "
It's actually knocked my confidence as I seem to get knock back after knock back... I'm never ever rude, I never ever send dick pic's and I always read the profiles. I know it's difficult for single guys on here but blimey, it's mental!  |
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"It's actually knocked my confidence as I seem to get knock back after knock back... I'm never ever rude, I never ever send dick pic's and I always read the profiles. I know it's difficult for single guys on here but blimey, it's mental! "
This happens a lot. While the highs are amazing, the lows from thinking “she seems nice, let’s write something good” and getting no reply can be demotivating at the very least.
Showing off about the good things is a bit crass, but it is good to notice them for yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you gained anything from fab?
Is there anything random fab has helped you with? Anything new you have tried?
For example...I had never driven more than 15 miles away from my house...but due to wanting to meet people I've driven to the other end of the country!
I'd never been on a train on my own or stayed in a hotel alone until I went to the fab social at Heathrow.
How about you?
It's actually knocked my confidence as I seem to get knock back after knock back... I'm never ever rude, I never ever send dick pic's and I always read the profiles. I know it's difficult for single guys on here but blimey, it's mental! "
Don’t let it get you down mate, it’s just shagging |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you gained anything from fab?
Is there anything random fab has helped you with? Anything new you have tried?
For example...I had never driven more than 15 miles away from my house...but due to wanting to meet people I've driven to the other end of the country!
I'd never been on a train on my own or stayed in a hotel alone until I went to the fab social at Heathrow.
How about you?
It's actually knocked my confidence as I seem to get knock back after knock back... I'm never ever rude, I never ever send dick pic's and I always read the profiles. I know it's difficult for single guys on here but blimey, it's mental!
Don’t let it get you down mate, it’s just shagging "
It got me down for a while but it's okay now. Shagging would be awesome if I bloody got it 
In fact, replies to any messages would be nice! Don't want to shag every bloody female lol |
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"Pornstar sex.
I’ve played in clubs and at house parties.
My first house party was extremely memorable.
Things were slow to get going, so a lady I had known for about 20 mins started having sex in this room, and I remember looking round to see a writhing, heaving mass of bodies around me.
Unbelievable."
She had sex with you or someone else? Sounds hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you gained anything from fab?
Is there anything random fab has helped you with? Anything new you have tried?
For example...I had never driven more than 15 miles away from my house...but due to wanting to meet people I've driven to the other end of the country!
I'd never been on a train on my own or stayed in a hotel alone until I went to the fab social at Heathrow.
How about you?
It's actually knocked my confidence as I seem to get knock back after knock back... I'm never ever rude, I never ever send dick pic's and I always read the profiles. I know it's difficult for single guys on here but blimey, it's mental!
Don’t let it get you down mate, it’s just shagging
It got me down for a while but it's okay now. Shagging would be awesome if I bloody got it
In fact, replies to any messages would be nice! Don't want to shag every bloody female lol"
Get yourself a brass mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The impression that other than me everyone is having lots of sex with lots of people lol. It’s nice to read that people are having a good time and making friends though.
It can seem like that but remember this forum is social media, people will often portray their best life, not necessarily their real life "
Is this the real life or just a fantasy, open your eyes... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The impression that other than me everyone is having lots of sex with lots of people lol. It’s nice to read that people are having a good time and making friends though. "
Don't worry not everyone. I'm proud to be on a sex site and not have a sex life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it is fantastic how you can speak to people who you would never ever have known anything about in your life had fab not made you cross paths.
It can take you out of your comfort zone too which is good.
I have made some special friends (and not sex friends).
I am also trying to learn to say fuck it too when things don't turn out how you would have hoped."
Fuck it |
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Some incredible friends both in real life and others ive yet to meet in person but that I get on really well with.
Acceptance from normal regular people and not tranny chasers which has been amazing and made me feel much better about myself and that im not actually that weird lol.
Fab and many of the people on it have brought me much happiness that I'm truly grateful for so thankyou all of you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fab has brought me some friends mostly online ones but still knead I look forward to interacting with on here it's also opened my kind sexually and given me alot to think about |
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"The impression that other than me everyone is having lots of sex with lots of people lol. It’s nice to read that people are having a good time and making friends though.
Don't worry not everyone. I'm proud to be on a sex site and not have a sex life "
Kinda defeats the whole purpose of joining right?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The impression that other than me everyone is having lots of sex with lots of people lol. It’s nice to read that people are having a good time and making friends though.
Don't worry not everyone. I'm proud to be on a sex site and not have a sex life
Kinda defeats the whole purpose of joining right? "
Not really. Got the forums and if something occurs then it does but I'm not down or bothered if it doesn't. I've been through all the does she/doesn't she like me, why hasn't she replied crap - doesn't get you anywhere. Have fun be yourself and see what happens.
Serendipity.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The impression that other than me everyone is having lots of sex with lots of people lol. It’s nice to read that people are having a good time and making friends though.
Don't worry not everyone. I'm proud to be on a sex site and not have a sex life "
Im not worried |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The impression that other than me everyone is having lots of sex with lots of people lol. It’s nice to read that people are having a good time and making friends though.
Don't worry not everyone. I'm proud to be on a sex site and not have a sex life
Im not worried "
Good because there's no need to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pornstar sex.
I’ve played in clubs and at house parties.
My first house party was extremely memorable.
Things were slow to get going, so a lady I had known for about 20 mins started having sex in this room, and I remember looking round to see a writhing, heaving mass of bodies around me.
Unbelievable.
She had sex with you or someone else? Sounds hot"
Sorry, forgot to add, with me!
I’m not a voyeur! |
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"The impression that other than me everyone is having lots of sex with lots of people lol. It’s nice to read that people are having a good time and making friends though.
Don't worry not everyone. I'm proud to be on a sex site and not have a sex life
Im not worried
Great attitude to have !!
Good because there's no need to be "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One awesome friend
only one friend... poor you "
LOL, I'm quite proud of making one genuine connection on here to be honest. Quantity isn't everything you know  |
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