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I hope you achieve this I 'think' MrD enjoys when I do it!! I love doing it anyway, several times a week.
On a serious note, there is nothing worse than wanting to achieve something sexually and not getting there. The head takes over and the body wont comply.
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"I hope you achieve this I 'think' MrD enjoys when I do it!! I love doing it anyway, several times a week.
On a serious note, there is nothing worse than wanting to achieve something sexually and not getting there. The head takes over and the body wont comply.
Oh yes i forgot the bit about the mind overthinking it all. And the body just not playing alonh
MsD"
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"I hope you achieve this I 'think' MrD enjoys when I do it!! I love doing it anyway, several times a week.
On a serious note, there is nothing worse than wanting to achieve something sexually and not getting there. The head takes over and the body wont comply.
Oh yes i forgot the bit about the mind overthinking it all. And the body just not playing alonh
MsD"
Tell me about it..bloody story of my sexual life. Overthinking is my middle name! Kinda frustrating. |
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"I hope you achieve this I 'think' MrD enjoys when I do it!! I love doing it anyway, several times a week.
On a serious note, there is nothing worse than wanting to achieve something sexually and not getting there. The head takes over and the body wont comply.
Oh yes i forgot the bit about the mind overthinking it all. And the body just not playing alonh
MsD
Tell me about it..bloody story of my sexual life. Overthinking is my middle name! Kinda frustrating. "
Not just Kinda its bloody frustrating |
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over a year ago
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"I have honestly never reached an orgasam from having my cock sucked. Anyone else have this issue.?
Any tips or tricks so i can achieve this."
Are you able to orgasm in other ways? |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Climaxing from a bj is the absolute best feeling  In some ways, even more intense than through intercourse.
Sorry you haven't experienced this yet Op 
To all the ladies who enjoy gracing us with this pleasure, a big THANK YOU.
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"I have honestly never reached an orgasam from having my cock sucked. Anyone else have this issue.?
Any tips or tricks so i can achieve this.
Are you able to orgasm in other ways?"
Yes . But i do last a fair while. Which my partners have always loved |
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"I quite regularly make guys cum from BJ unintentionally as part of foreplay. It’s very disappointing for me, but apparently should be a compliment haha"
And your in Scotland. that's typical of my luck |
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"I quite regularly make guys cum from BJ unintentionally as part of foreplay. It’s very disappointing for me, but apparently should be a compliment haha
And your in Scotland. that's typical of my luck "
Haha soz n that. |
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"I have honestly never reached an orgasam from having my cock sucked. Anyone else have this issue.?
Any tips or tricks so i can achieve this."
Find someone who’s prepared to take their time and listen to your body. I’ve had a few partners who’ve struggled to climax from a BJ, so we’ve taken our time, had a giggle and communicated about what feels good and ta-da, the elusive climax exploded.  |
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I love it when I make a guy climax from a BJ, it's a great compliment as well as being a turn on for me.
I think the key is communication, and having someone that can read your body and alter things to what you enjoy, rather than having one set way that they suck cock |
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"I have honestly never reached an orgasam from having my cock sucked. Anyone else have this issue.?
Any tips or tricks so i can achieve this.
Find someone who’s prepared to take their time and listen to your body. I’ve had a few partners who’ve struggled to climax from a BJ, so we’ve taken our time, had a giggle and communicated about what feels good and ta-da, the elusive climax exploded. "
Thank you for that nugget  |
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over a year ago
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Fortunately I've never really struggled with this. I do find blowjobs a huge turn on though  Might have something to do with a long term ex who hated giving them, and K's very skilled mouth  |
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I never use till I met my partner.
For me its a case of relaxing and not thinking to much about it.
I normally try and play with my girlfriend at the same time removing my focus on the bj.
Couldn't believe it the first time it happen! |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Rare but yes and wow.
There the odd superwoman out there but for most she will either take the time and effort to learn what makes you come or just do the same as what she always does and wonder why it doesn’t work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doughnut had never come from a blow job before he met me, not saying I'm good at it as I think I'm quite shit but don't think the women he had been with before me has made him feel wanted and needed in the bedroom.
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I had never reached orgasm from oral till about a year ago. Mrs took the time to really understand what worked for me, probably more difficult as I had built it up for so long thinking I couldn't. |
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Same, I really struggle to come from a bj... Love them, enjoy them, but don't come very often from them.
As others have said though... What makes it happen for me is all on the head, and I have a couple of horny scenarios I play in my head which get me over the finish line.. Takes time though |
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I always used to struggle also; more due to me tensing up - almost akin to a sensory overload (it’s such an intense sensation)
My best advice is to simply relax; you should not apply any mental pressure on yourself to cum - which will almost certainly negate the probability of it happening.
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
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"I quite regularly make guys cum from BJ unintentionally as part of foreplay. It’s very disappointing for me, but apparently should be a compliment haha"
I need your magic touch, sertraline has taken a lot of sensitivity from touch and temperature. I've been off it for months now and it's bloody annoying. |
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"Seems to be a FAB thing, I've never encountered in real life
So you've never managed to make a gut cum from blowing?"
What I meant was I e read about it being a challenge for some men o FAB but the guys I've met have never had that issue.
I've always just taken it as a given from my own experience if I'm sucking their cock the man is going to cum.
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"I have honestly never reached an orgasam from having my cock sucked. Anyone else have this issue.?
Any tips or tricks so i can achieve this."
I'm similar, a lot of patience is required and a willing partner, but it's sooo worth the wait!! |
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I've rarely cum from a bj too, women tend to give up after a while and want my cock inside them, which isn't a bad thing?  I'm very much a 'giver', taking more pleasure from seeing my partner enjoy herself, and probably have a mental block by thinking if I cum before she does I've been too self-indulgent? |
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I am genuinely shocked some of ye men havent had it alot. Its mad what you think is very run of the mill and happens frequently, is rare for others.
I do it on MrD about 3 times a week!! Love doing it. Such a rush to make him hard then suck him dry.
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Seems to be a fairly common things. I think for many there is an element of not relaxing enough or possibly being used to too firm of a grip from wanking but for some I think the sensation just doesn't do it for them the same way some women just don't orgasm from or even enjoy oral sex. We're all different. |
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"I've never failed to make a guy cum yet  "
ne neither... they always tell me to stop as they don't want to cum too quick and want to fuck... so maybe op picking the wrong lovers or he's built up a mental block stopping him from enjoying it |
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"Seems to be a fairly common things. I think for many there is an element of not relaxing enough or possibly being used to too firm of a grip from wanking but for some I think the sensation just doesn't do it for them the same way some women just don't orgasm from or even enjoy oral sex. We're all different. "
Hmmm I wonder if this can be reversed
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"Seems to be a fairly common things. I think for many there is an element of not relaxing enough or possibly being used to too firm of a grip from wanking but for some I think the sensation just doesn't do it for them the same way some women just don't orgasm from or even enjoy oral sex. We're all different. Hmmm I wonder if this can be reversed"
Which bit? |
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"I've never failed to make a guy cum yet "
Several women have said this with me and failed miserably.
Some of us just dont cum from oral, just like some women don't |
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"Seems to be a fairly common things. I think for many there is an element of not relaxing enough or possibly being used to too firm of a grip from wanking but for some I think the sensation just doesn't do it for them the same way some women just don't orgasm from or even enjoy oral sex. We're all different. Hmmm I wonder if this can be reversed
Which bit? "
The wanking bit. If I stopped wanking and received more BJ's, would I cum from oral? |
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"Seems to be a fairly common things. I think for many there is an element of not relaxing enough or possibly being used to too firm of a grip from wanking but for some I think the sensation just doesn't do it for them the same way some women just don't orgasm from or even enjoy oral sex. We're all different. Hmmm I wonder if this can be reversed
Which bit?
The wanking bit. If I stopped wanking and received more BJ's, would I cum from oral?"
Possibly. The more sex I have the easier I find it to orgasm with another person. Its to simplistic to say its guaranteed though. |
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It's often a sensitivity problem, I've had the same issue, you can cut down the wanking or abstain from it completely, after around 2 weeks you'll notice a big difference. I did it for 2 weeks when my ex travelled away for a conference, when she came back I blew like a repeating bottle rocket |
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Every guy I have spoken to on fab has said the same thing! Is it just a line the men use to make you try hard and then feel 'special' when they do cum? (Grrrrrr) |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Every guy I have spoken to on fab has said the same thing! Is it just a line the men use to make you try hard and then feel 'special' when they do cum? (Grrrrrr)"
Thank goodness for this reply.....
Thinking I was abnormal, get a lady who knows what she is doing and it’s between a minute and a mile. |
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"Every guy I have spoken to on fab has said the same thing! Is it just a line the men use to make you try hard and then feel 'special' when they do cum? (Grrrrrr)"
Haha I wish it's just as awkward for us, the only way I've done it is through 69'ing the extra stimulation can push you over the edge plus it's only fair if I cum in your mouth you should cum all over mine |
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"Every guy I have spoken to on fab has said the same thing! Is it just a line the men use to make you try hard and then feel 'special' when they do cum? (Grrrrrr)"
Yup, I hold myself back so it never ends!
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I rarely cum from a bj, bit embarrassing sometimes when the lady has been sucking for ages and nothing cums. Not for the lack of wanting to cum. Usually when I cant cum from bj, we go to fucking and then the orgasm for me is very intense and I cum very easily. |
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all about taking time and the fact that the person giving it is enjoying it as much as the man receiving it 
nice one 