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Absoloutely.
Old fashioned morals, such as always being polite, honesty, paying all debts, respect, and treating others how you would like to be treated yourself. We could go on and on.
Shame morals and values are disappearing. |
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Yes I believe I have morals. Although wanting to enjoy a bit of sexy fun may seem immoral to some. I believe there is a deeper right and wrong. Being right with other people and looking after those less fortunate than myself is where I base mine, not in ancient and irrelevant religious texts. |
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over a year ago
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Of course in every walk of life. I expect to be treated the same way that I treat others. I have never set out to never follow my moral compass.
I also believe that manners are the one thing that cost you nothing.
Integrity is also very important to me. |
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"Of course in every walk of life. I expect to be treated the same way that I treat others. I have never set out to never follow my moral compass.
I also believe that manners are the one thing that cost you nothing.
Integrity is also very important to me."
Surprising how many let go of their integrity here .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course. I treat everyone with respect and kindness until you do something to make it impossible for myself to like you and I'll cut you off. It cost nothing to be nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absoloutely.
Old fashioned morals, such as always being polite, honesty, paying all debts, respect, and treating others how you would like to be treated yourself. We could go on and on.
Shame morals and values are disappearing."
I agree with you 100% |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a cunt, just ask around?
Seriously though, I like to think I'm respectful, open minded and open to change and new ideas of what others believe morals are. I try my best to treat others how I'd like to be treated and I try to stay sane in the face of crazy. Omg the crazy lately on fab.... Peace and love   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know but I don't like to swear lol funny considering I'm on here and people talk about sex and the F word a lot.
I have swore but there's something about it I don't like in a public forum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos,
Musing after a conversation with a friend today.
Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?
Answers in the thread please.
Bhubaysi xx "
Thanks for clarifying Fab is a swingers site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course in every walk of life. I expect to be treated the same way that I treat others. I have never set out to never follow my moral compass.
I also believe that manners are the one thing that cost you nothing.
Integrity is also very important to me.
Surprising how many let go of their integrity here .... "
You know it DC |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos,
Musing after a conversation with a friend today.
Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?
Answers in the thread please.
Bhubaysi xx
Thanks for clarifying Fab is a swingers site"
It’s a swingers site....anything else you need clarification on just ask....! |
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If someone started a question "Even though you are on Fab" I would be looking for the copy of the Dail Mail under the armpit. They like making ridiculous assumptions.
One joy of people in the lifestyle is that they do not generally believe consensual sexual freedom is an issue of morality. |
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"Fabsteroos,
Musing after a conversation with a friend today.
Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?
Answers in the thread please.
Bhubaysi xx "
Morals yes and values. Its hard however to list them all or to know what exactly you are speaking of.
So can you share and elaborate a little more as to the conversation you had with your friend and that way I can know how better to address your thread.
Or simply share what youre morals are to see if mine differ from yours or not?xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Treat others as you would like to be treated, respect a persons privacy, just like gambling when the fun stops stop.
I heard that medical professionals agree that a person(s) addiction to sex is just as bad as alcholoism.
Values are value life, smile for tomorrow may be a better day. |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Fabsteroos,
Musing after a conversation with a friend today.
Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?
Answers in the thread please.
Bhubaysi xx
Morals yes and values. Its hard however to list them all or to know what exactly you are speaking of.
So can you share and elaborate a little more as to the conversation you had with your friend and that way I can know how better to address your thread.
Or simply share what youre morals are to see if mine differ from yours or not?xx"
I don’t wish to share with the thread more of my conversation with my friend and I have indicated in the thread some of my morals. I’m asking if people have them or what they are. It’s not a difficult question. |
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I have morals in swinging lifestyle, yes! Respect people’s day to day lives, don’t push anyone emotionally or sexually, have courage to say no when needed and don’t ever waste people’s time without a reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely yes.
Just because it a swingers site doesn't mean they should disappear, if anything there needs to be complete honesty and open communication, I find it only works that way for me.
Any lies and disrespect are such a turn off |
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"Absolutely yes.
Just because it a swingers site doesn't mean they should disappear, if anything there needs to be complete honesty and open communication, I find it only works that way for me.
Any lies and disrespect are such a turn off "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really understand how being on fab would mean that you have less morals than most other people lol.
Yes, I do, and many of them that are revealed in appropriate situations  |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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"I can’t lie, I’m quite shocked by your wording and the question in general. Particularly the “because you are on fab” as though it suddenly turns everyone into some kind of a villain.
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Yep, that stood out for me as well, My understanding of morals is your own idea of what is right and wrong. One persons moral code may not align with another persons code, and all that indicates is that they are different, not better or worse.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I think I do. I treat others like I like to be treated Is that a moral code? I guess If I were to believe in certain morals I’d be a hypocrite for being in here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos,
Musing after a conversation with a friend today.
Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?
Answers in the thread please.
Bhubaysi xx "
Why should my morals be affected because I'm on Fab?
What a strange take on a question ..
Your morals shouldn't be affected by your lifestyle as its what you live by imo |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos,
Musing after a conversation with a friend today.
Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?
Answers in the thread please.
Bhubaysi xx
Why should my morals be affected because I'm on Fab?
What a strange take on a question ..
Your morals shouldn't be affected by your lifestyle as its what you live by imo"
About sums it up really - don't see what Fab has to do with anything?
To take the definition of morals: "standards of behaviour; principles of right and wrong."
Both of those things apply regardless of my membership here or the crochet circle - they're an intrinsic part of you the person and don't get switched on and off to suit (or at least they shouldn't) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting. In everyday life I have morals, manners and am a good person.
Sexually, I'd be classed as the other woman and have the occasional penchant for the taken. I enjoy things for the taboo and limits pushed. |
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"Fabsteroos,
Musing after a conversation with a friend today.
Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?
Answers in the thread please.
Bhubaysi xx "
What I do consensually in my sex life has nothing to do with morals - it's open, honest and nobody is getting hurt. I don't think the two things are related.
Mrs TMN x |
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"Fabsteroos,
Musing after a conversation with a friend today.
Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?
Answers in the thread please.
Bhubaysi xx "
Pretty much "Don't be a cunt". x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos,
Musing after a conversation with a friend today.
Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?
Answers in the thread please.
Bhubaysi xx
Why should my morals be affected because I'm on Fab?
What a strange take on a question ..
Your morals shouldn't be affected by your lifestyle as its what you live by imo
About sums it up really - don't see what Fab has to do with anything?
To take the definition of morals: "standards of behaviour; principles of right and wrong."
Both of those things apply regardless of my membership here or the crochet circle - they're an intrinsic part of you the person and don't get switched on and off to suit (or at least they shouldn't)"
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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago
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"Absoloutely.
Old fashioned morals, such as always being polite, honesty, paying all debts, respect, and treating others how you would like to be treated yourself. We could go on and on.
Shame morals and values are disappearing."
We are exactly the same and totally agree with you |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
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"I can’t lie, I’m quite shocked by your wording and the question in general. Particularly the “because you are on fab” as though it suddenly turns everyone into some kind of a villain.
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I don’t think that’s what the OP is trying to say...yes, most of us know that our morals are still a part of us whether we’re members of a bingo group or fabswingers, but—let’s not be dishonest between us—some of us DO think that because it’s swinging and it involves sex and “fantasy” even basic decency to a fellow human being flies out of the window. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can’t lie, I’m quite shocked by your wording and the question in general. Particularly the “because you are on fab” as though it suddenly turns everyone into some kind of a villain.
I don’t think that’s what the OP is trying to say...yes, most of us know that our morals are still a part of us whether we’re members of a bingo group or fabswingers, but—let’s not be dishonest between us—some of us DO think that because it’s swinging and it involves sex and “fantasy” even basic decency to a fellow human being flies out of the window."
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"I can’t lie, I’m quite shocked by your wording and the question in general. Particularly the “because you are on fab” as though it suddenly turns everyone into some kind of a villain.
I don’t think that’s what the OP is trying to say...yes, most of us know that our morals are still a part of us whether we’re members of a bingo group or fabswingers, but—let’s not be dishonest between us—some of us DO think that because it’s swinging and it involves sex and “fantasy” even basic decency to a fellow human being flies out of the window."
The operative word there being "some" - my morals don't change just because it's a swinging site or that sex and fantasy are involved and nor do those of anyone else that has said similar it seems |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Interesting. In everyday life I have morals, manners and am a good person.
Sexually, I'd be classed as the other woman and have the occasional penchant for the taken. I enjoy things for the taboo and limits pushed. "
But your moral stance should be the same regardless of whether you are a member of a swingers site not |
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"Interesting. In everyday life I have morals, manners and am a good person.
Sexually, I'd be classed as the other woman and have the occasional penchant for the taken. I enjoy things for the taboo and limits pushed.
But your moral stance should be the same regardless of whether you are a member of a swingers site not"
I behaved this way before fab and shall do so after Fab also I imagine |
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"Fabsteroos,
Musing after a conversation with a friend today.
Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?
Answers in the thread please.
Bhubaysi xx
What I do consensually in my sex life has nothing to do with morals - it's open, honest and nobody is getting hurt. I don't think the two things are related.
Mrs TMN x"
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Morals - a lesson that can be derived from a story of experience
- standards of behaviour; principles of right and wrong
The more experiences I’ve had in life the more I have learned about myself and the world around me. I try my hardest in every situation to be the best me I can pushing to the edge but never beyond. Respectful of everyone around me and the differences that makes stronger together.
I would be lost without my moral compass but that doesn’t mean I won’t have fun testing to make sure it works.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I have morals and I am happy that I do. I tend to keep them to myself however as we are all different and I respect that. If my morals stop me from doing something I would rather that than break my morals and feel bad as I did when I was much younger, much less wise and much more influenced by my labido.
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"Fabsteroos,
Musing after a conversation with a friend today.
Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?
Answers in the thread please.
Bhubaysi xx
Morals yes and values. Its hard however to list them all or to know what exactly you are speaking of.
So can you share and elaborate a little more as to the conversation you had with your friend and that way I can know how better to address your thread.
Or simply share what youre morals are to see if mine differ from yours or not?xx
I don’t wish to share with the thread more of my conversation with my friend and I have indicated in the thread some of my morals. I’m asking if people have them or what they are. It’s not a difficult question. "
Then yes is the answer and same as yours. |
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I’m slightly unsure from the thread what anyone is classing a moral... but aside from trying to be respectful to everyone I have some rules I follow
- No play with anyone cheating
- No private meets with anyone that any of my friends are meeting privately
I’m sure there are more, but it’s late  |
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"I’m slightly unsure from the thread what anyone is classing a moral... but aside from trying to be respectful to everyone I have some rules I follow
- No play with anyone cheating
- No private meets with anyone that any of my friends are meeting privately
I’m sure there are more, but it’s late "
In fact I’ll amend that last one
- No play with anyone my friends meet privately unless they’re there and playing too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fabsteroos,
Musing after a conversation with a friend today.
Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?
Answers in the thread please.
Bhubaysi xx "
I’m curious as to why you think there’s a correlation between the two. Why wouldn’t people on fab have their own moral code? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The morality of being on here does lead to many hours of thought and reflection. I usually justify it by telling myself that life is too short. It’s my secret and I take care to not let it affect my private life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont think I have lower or less morals than others that aren't using Fab to swing, maybe mine are a little looser lol outside of Fab, I think I'm a good judge right and wrong and I try to walk the right path at all times and stay away the wrong one. |
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