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By *sianManc OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
The age old fab magic trick performed by many females on this site.
They read your message, they read your profile, they reply in positive sparkles.
The stage is alight, as you reply back to them in the hope that this is the show to take you to vegas!
Suddenly from nowehere she reads the message, doesnt reply and remains silent.
You wonder why as the magic trick ceases to continue.
This age old fab magic show seems to have occurred to me this time once again.
So females out there why would you do this to someone so sweet as I lol
Why do the females here, read a message sent to them, read the profile, respond positively and in kind, but then once you reply they read and stay silent?
They dont delete but stay silent.
you write again but they stay silent.
any thoughts? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i do this all the time and its nothing personal
i maybe just cant be bothered chatting at that moment snd then in a few days when i go back to it i think nah im over it if there was a spark i would have replied at the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's an ego trip, there was a new report on it, women joining dating sights just to see if they could pull but never actually going on a date, men aren't far behind lol |
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By *sianManc OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"What sort of messages do you send in the first place?
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A nice cordial message specific to the individual and their profile as I read all profiles anyway.
They or in this case "she" responded in kind complimenting me and my profile so I then replied (however 7hours later as life does happen) and since then ive had nothing but read and silence from her. Not even deleting to my messages, merely read and silence.
Just found that odd. |
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People have lives outside FAB OP, it's easy to open a message and think yes I'll reply, then life gets in the way.
Don't read too much into it
If they are interested they will get back to you, in their own time
Jo x  |
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"When you say they reply, are they engaging in conversation, or just saying thank you to a compliment you originally sent? "
This ^^^^^ I often said polite replies and have a little chit chat but theres no real spark or connection so it runs cold. A lot of fellas seem to assume if we have a conversation I'll immediately meet up, even in the current lockdown, and that frustrates me so I stop talking. Or very quickly I get "what are you looking for" though I've answered on my profile or "what do you want to try" which always puts me off a little, talking so intimately with someone I've just met.
I'm a friendly lady, but I'm not going to go home with just anyone  |
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By *sianManc OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"When you say they reply, are they engaging in conversation, or just saying thank you to a compliment you originally sent?
This ^^^^^ I often said polite replies and have a little chit chat but theres no real spark or connection so it runs cold. A lot of fellas seem to assume if we have a conversation I'll immediately meet up, even in the current lockdown, and that frustrates me so I stop talking. Or very quickly I get "what are you looking for" though I've answered on my profile or "what do you want to try" which always puts me off a little, talking so intimately with someone I've just met.
I'm a friendly lady, but I'm not going to go home with just anyone "
I replied it was engaging not polite. |
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By *arksxMan
over a year ago
Leicester / London |
Because you are just realising (most) women are (usually) more emotionally driven?
look at the responses from women here.
Sounds as like you are expecting a logical response of...I messages her so of course she should message me back.
Tldr: emotionally intelligence improves your responses |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield |
I've have that happen on occasions, I tend to assume that either she just lost interest, though it often seems odd to just lose interest in a conversation you were interested in, or she got distracted, went away, did something else, and when she comes back a while later 200 more messages have flooded into her inbox and drown out the conversation we'd managed to get going.
I'd like to think if I were having a conversation with someone that seemed to be going somewhere, then even amongst all the one-liners I'd remember it, and so I'm that easily forgotten then it's for the best anyway.
Best just not to overthink it though, move on and don't dwell on it. |
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I give it a couple of days, if I don't here anything at all, block and move on. Nothing personal, it just saved me trying them again and having the same outcome.
If the convo goes on over a few days back and fort then starts to Peter out, I'll probably give it more time but eventually, again, block and move on.
Don't fret about it, just remind yourself most women, couples an TV/TS ladies get swamped with messages. I have every sympathy with them. Honest.  |
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I was sort of agreeing with you for some and then you said they don’t reply and so you send another message!.....Erm no, if they don’t reply then just accept it and move on, don’t think sending another message is going to endear yourself to them...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The age old fab magic trick performed by many females on this site.
They read your message, they read your profile, they reply in positive sparkles.
The stage is alight, as you reply back to them in the hope that this is the show to take you to vegas!
Suddenly from nowehere she reads the message, doesnt reply and remains silent.
You wonder why as the magic trick ceases to continue.
This age old fab magic show seems to have occurred to me this time once again.
So females out there why would you do this to someone so sweet as I lol
Why do the females here, read a message sent to them, read the profile, respond positively and in kind, but then once you reply they read and stay silent?
They dont delete but stay silent.
you write again but they stay silent.
any thoughts?"
You are picking the wrong girls! |
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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago
wiltshire |
"i do this all the time and its nothing personal
i maybe just cant be bothered chatting at that moment snd then in a few days when i go back to it i think nah im over it if there was a spark i would have replied at the time "
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
Perhaps there was a lull of incoming mail when you first made contact, so they replied positively to you and perhaps to some others to encourage some flow. Once the deluge re-started, your contribution wasn't needed anymore. Just a thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or perhaps they saw something shiny and forgot 
Now this makes total sense....
It's totally a thing, well it is in my world anyway "
Njfflers, the lot of you..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What sort of messages do you send in the first place?
A nice cordial message specific to the individual and their profile as I read all profiles anyway.
They or in this case "she" responded in kind complimenting me and my profile so I then replied (however 7hours later as life does happen) and since then ive had nothing but read and silence from her. Not even deleting to my messages, merely read and silence.
Just found that odd."
So your life happens
Perhaps hers did too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sure we've all been there. Recently had his with a couple. She/they did not reply so I've got rid. If they're interested they can message me. You've just got to learn to accept this scenario. |
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