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"Should there not be a way to positively discriminate by fitness leveels as well as or instead of just age?"
I always ask the man to prove his stamina. I'm 43 but act like a woman in her 30s in terms of stamina |
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Stamina isnt related to age really... I've fucked many old men who could outlast the guys my age/younger by HOURS.
I've met so many beautiful women over 30 who can fuck better than an 18yr old etc.
It feels like the older you get, the more relaxed and in tune to your body you become.
I wanna be like those 50yr olds who know exactly what they want from their men and can orgasm like a fountain! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well...we do seem to be able to select an age range so there should possibly be also an opportunity to select people we might beinterested in according to their level of fitness. Someone in their 40's 50s' or even 60s' could be it much better shape than someone in their 30s...
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"Well...we do seem to be able to select an age range so there should possibly be also an opportunity to select people we might beinterested in according to their level of fitness. Someone in their 40's 50s' or even 60s' could be it much better shape than someone in their 30s...
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And how would that be determined?
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"Well...we do seem to be able to select an age range so there should possibly be also an opportunity to select people we might beinterested in according to their level of fitness. Someone in their 40's 50s' or even 60s' could be it much better shape than someone in their 30s...some folk will lie so how will you ascertain their fitness before ?
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"Well...we do seem to be able to select an age range so there should possibly be also an opportunity to select people we might beinterested in according to their level of fitness. Someone in their 40's 50s' or even 60s' could be it much better shape than someone in their 30s...
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I am sure people will not admit to being lazy or unfit. Maybe just read veris to give you a rough idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, please can replies stay on the thread?
There’s more to it than just fitness levels. My dad is 52, so to me, I wouldn’t be actively looking to meet people of the same age as him. We all have preferences |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes you are absolutely right. I am just suggesting that other criteria might be useful. Age is only one... but the only one in FAB which is possibly a shame |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes you are absolutely right. I am just suggesting that other criteria might be useful. Age is only one... but the only one in FAB which is possibly a shame"
I see what you mean, and for some it would be helpful but as it’s already been said. Fitness is too subjective |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Seeing as I haven't had sex in years, I would personally prefer someone who doesn't want to go at it like a jack hammer all night, I'd prefer someone to go a bit lightly with a small session here or there  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Seeing as I haven't had sex in years, I would personally prefer someone who doesn't want to go at it like a jack hammer all night, I'd prefer someone to go a bit lightly with a small session here or there "
Well I am sure FAB will help sort that out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Granny. 65 and a half. FIT AS FUCK
gets to the chippy faster than a blue streak .....
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I'd give your sausage a good battering granny and still have enough energy to dip your scampi and eat your pie, and I'm ancient!! |
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Doesn't body description give a bit of an indication. We can describe ourselves as athletic or otherwise, which may help convince others you are fit but photos and a decent description of yourself should be sufficient. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Doesn't body description give a bit of an indication. We can describe ourselves as athletic or otherwise, which may help convince others you are fit but photos and a decent description of yourself should be sufficient."
Yes but everything is relative in the absolute as one says and as we are all deluded most of the time... very misleading... it can be |
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"Granny. 65 and a half. FIT AS FUCK
gets to the chippy faster than a blue streak .....
I'd give your sausage a good battering granny and still have enough energy to dip your scampi and eat your pie, and I'm ancient!!"
I'd puff on your scallops till you wept vinegar you dirty little kebab! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On bumble you can add an option to your profile to say how often you work out. Maybe this is what OP means?"
Not exactly... you might be missing out because of using age ranges which are a poor indicator...sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I negatively discriminate. I don't care if they are within my age range. If I don't fancy them I don't fuck them. "
Fair enough but your published age range limits your possibilities and you will certainly forgo great opportunities to have some fun... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On bumble you can add an option to your profile to say how often you work out. Maybe this is what OP means?
Not exactly... you might be missing out because of using age ranges which are a poor indicator...sometimes."
But some people use age ranges primarily because they don't want to be reminded of children/parents of the same age, not because of fitness levels. |
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"I negatively discriminate. I don't care if they are within my age range. If I don't fancy them I don't fuck them.
Fair enough but your published age range limits your possibilities and you will certainly forgo great opportunities to have some fun..."
Everything on my profile is a lie. I'm not missing any great opportunities. |
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"I negatively discriminate. I don't care if they are within my age range. If I don't fancy them I don't fuck them.
Fair enough but your published age range limits your possibilities and you will certainly forgo great opportunities to have some fun..."
But why are you getting to decide this? People have the right to set their own preferences surely? This would be like me telling a guy who's only into slim women that he's missing out by not giving me a go  just let people like what they like. |
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"I negatively discriminate. I don't care if they are within my age range. If I don't fancy them I don't fuck them.
Fair enough but your published age range limits your possibilities and you will certainly forgo great opportunities to have some fun...
Everything on my profile is a lie. I'm not missing any great opportunities. "
This is a very god point and why age should remain a choice factor...just saying other criteria shuld be avalable if only to narrow down search or expand it in different directions |
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"Should there not be a way to positively discriminate by fitness leveels as well as or instead of just age?"
Just curious
What makes you say you're athletic???
Also you need to realise some ladies just dont like old faces
Are you concerned because by choice people block your age or are you concerned because you cant filter for " fit as fuck" in your searches
Personally I have no issues either way  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fitness level is subjective whereas ages are not "
True but would you not agree that additional pgysical/fitness criteria would possibly add value and certainly help direct searches more accurately? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Should there not be a way to positively discriminate by fitness leveels as well as or instead of just age?
Just curious
What makes you say you're athletic???
Also you need to realise some ladies just dont like old faces
Are you concerned because by choice people block your age or are you concerned because you cant filter for " fit as fuck" in your searches
Personally I have no issues either way "
I guess it is a bit of both...like I I was right into very large girls I would like to be able to search for very large girls equally if a women was only into big dicks she should be able to search for that? |
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"Should there not be a way to positively discriminate by fitness leveels as well as or instead of just age?
I always ask the man to prove his stamina. I'm 43 but act like a woman in her 30s in terms of stamina "
 43. I had no idea you were 43. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stamina isnt related to age really... I've fucked many old men who could outlast the guys my age/younger by HOURS.
I've met so many beautiful women over 30 who can fuck better than an 18yr old etc.
It feels like the older you get, the more relaxed and in tune to your body you become.
I wanna be like those 50yr olds who know exactly what they want from their men and can orgasm like a fountain! "
I agree with you there  |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
To many things are subjective, we can search for age as an example, how many people have the wrong age down? (A few for sure), body types one person's slim is another curvy or athletic or even fabulous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well...we do seem to be able to select an age range so there should possibly be also an opportunity to select people we might beinterested in according to their level of fitness. Someone in their 40's 50s' or even 60s' could be it much better shape than someone in their 30s...
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My age limits are set low because I like younger looking faces, I don't care how fit someone is |
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"On bumble you can add an option to your profile to say how often you work out. Maybe this is what OP means?
Not exactly... you might be missing out because of using age ranges which are a poor indicator...sometimes."
If someone was 55 but as fit as a 25 year old I still wouldn't want to sleep with them though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP are you wanting this implemented because you believe your fitness levels are better than some younger than you? And because you’re filtered out by age for some people?
Accurate pictures are more than enough. |
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"On bumble you can add an option to your profile to say how often you work out. Maybe this is what OP means?
Not exactly... you might be missing out because of using age ranges which are a poor indicator...sometimes.
If someone was 55 but as fit as a 25 year old I still wouldn't want to sleep with them though."
A lot of people I find don’t seem to get this.
Many comments such as “I may be 60 but I could put guys half my age to shame” or similar.
You may be fit body wise, but your age will show in your face as harsh as it may sound...
Some people don’t want to meet 60 year olds regardless of how fast they can run or how heavy they can lift. |
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"On bumble you can add an option to your profile to say how often you work out. Maybe this is what OP means?
Not exactly... you might be missing out because of using age ranges which are a poor indicator...sometimes.
If someone was 55 but as fit as a 25 year old I still wouldn't want to sleep with them though.
A lot of people I find don’t seem to get this.
Many comments such as “I may be 60 but I could put guys half my age to shame” or similar.
You may be fit body wise, but your age will show in your face as harsh as it may sound...
Some people don’t want to meet 60 year olds regardless of how fast they can run or how heavy they can lift. "
This ^^^ it’s people choice for age range nothing to do with fitness |
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"On bumble you can add an option to your profile to say how often you work out. Maybe this is what OP means?
Not exactly... you might be missing out because of using age ranges which are a poor indicator...sometimes.
If someone was 55 but as fit as a 25 year old I still wouldn't want to sleep with them though.
A lot of people I find don’t seem to get this.
Many comments such as “I may be 60 but I could put guys half my age to shame” or similar.
You may be fit body wise, but your age will show in your face as harsh as it may sound...
Some people don’t want to meet 60 year olds regardless of how fast they can run or how heavy they can lift.
This ^^^ it’s people choice for age range nothing to do with fitness "
Exactly, just like some 60yr olds do not wish to meet 30yr olds. |
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By *ineMan
over a year ago
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Isnt life much simpler if people just decide who they want to meet.
Why do some need so many tick boxes and a computer says no approach to relationships.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Isnt life much simpler if people just decide who they want to meet.
Why do some need so many tick boxes and a computer says no approach to relationships...."
Because they think its an online order service! |
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"Well...we do seem to be able to select an age range so there should possibly be also an opportunity to select people we might beinterested in according to their level of fitness. Someone in their 40's 50s' or even 60s' could be it much better shape than someone in their 30s...
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So what exactly propose we all have to take a beep test? come on Mr motivator
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"Seeing as I haven't had sex in years, I would personally prefer someone who doesn't want to go at it like a jack hammer all night, I'd prefer someone to go a bit lightly with a small session here or there "
Seriously ??? ..in years ??... there is no way a sexy lady like you hasn't had sex in years ..unless it was your complete decision not to ...l don't believe that for a second... |
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"On bumble you can add an option to your profile to say how often you work out. Maybe this is what OP means?
Not exactly... you might be missing out because of using age ranges which are a poor indicator...sometimes.
If someone was 55 but as fit as a 25 year old I still wouldn't want to sleep with them though."
A lot of ladies still wouldn't want to sleep with 25 year olds either because of the personalities...to me sleeping with someone is all about the connection which starts in the mind ... regardless of age..the body only goes where the mind takes it...and l'm sure there are loads of ladies that have declined the offers of 25 year olds based on their attitudes... |
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"On bumble you can add an option to your profile to say how often you work out. Maybe this is what OP means?
Not exactly... you might be missing out because of using age ranges which are a poor indicator...sometimes.
If someone was 55 but as fit as a 25 year old I still wouldn't want to sleep with them though.
A lot of people I find don’t seem to get this.
Many comments such as “I may be 60 but I could put guys half my age to shame” or similar.
You may be fit body wise, but your age will show in your face as harsh as it may sound...
Some people don’t want to meet 60 year olds regardless of how fast they can run or how heavy they can lift. "
Yes but even if their age didn't show in their face it's just not something I'm comfortable with because of my parents ages. |
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"On bumble you can add an option to your profile to say how often you work out. Maybe this is what OP means?
Not exactly... you might be missing out because of using age ranges which are a poor indicator...sometimes.
If someone was 55 but as fit as a 25 year old I still wouldn't want to sleep with them though.
A lot of ladies still wouldn't want to sleep with 25 year olds either because of the personalities...to me sleeping with someone is all about the connection which starts in the mind ... regardless of age..the body only goes where the mind takes it...and l'm sure there are loads of ladies that have declined the offers of 25 year olds based on their attitudes..."
Exactly. And it wouldn't matter if they looked older than they were. People choose age ranges for many reasons. I'm often told I'm "missing out" because of mine because someone older might look younger or something along those lines. I don't care and I'm not missing out at all due to not meeting people I don't want to meet . |
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"On bumble you can add an option to your profile to say how often you work out. Maybe this is what OP means?
Not exactly... you might be missing out because of using age ranges which are a poor indicator...sometimes.
If someone was 55 but as fit as a 25 year old I still wouldn't want to sleep with them though.
A lot of people I find don’t seem to get this.
Many comments such as “I may be 60 but I could put guys half my age to shame” or similar.
You may be fit body wise, but your age will show in your face as harsh as it may sound...
Some people don’t want to meet 60 year olds regardless of how fast they can run or how heavy they can lift.
Yes but even if their age didn't show in their face it's just not something I'm comfortable with because of my parents ages."
Absolutely and that’s your right.
Some people do not want to meet someone old enough to be their Dad/Grandad (regardless of fitness level).
That should be respected. |
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"On bumble you can add an option to your profile to say how often you work out. Maybe this is what OP means?
Not exactly... you might be missing out because of using age ranges which are a poor indicator...sometimes.
If someone was 55 but as fit as a 25 year old I still wouldn't want to sleep with them though.
A lot of people I find don’t seem to get this.
Many comments such as “I may be 60 but I could put guys half my age to shame” or similar.
You may be fit body wise, but your age will show in your face as harsh as it may sound...
Some people don’t want to meet 60 year olds regardless of how fast they can run or how heavy they can lift.
Yes but even if their age didn't show in their face it's just not something I'm comfortable with because of my parents ages.
Absolutely and that’s your right.
Some people do not want to meet someone old enough to be their Dad/Grandad (regardless of fitness level).
That should be respected. "
And I've seen others say similar about people theirs children's age. I always find these discussions funny like the people complaining about others age ranges don't think those people have considered the points they're making. They probably have and it doesn't make a difference. |
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"For us, age boundaries on here are not so much to do with the physical but are more about intellectual and sociological compatibility.
Cal"
To be fair I have been lectured and belittled to no end by much older men on The Other Site where you can't set age filters when I've said "thanks but I'm looking for someone closer to my age" (which it also says very clearly on my profile on there). So I wouldn't say maturity and intellect necessarily comes with age haha |
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"For us, age boundaries on here are not so much to do with the physical but are more about intellectual and sociological compatibility.
Cal
To be fair I have been lectured and belittled to no end by much older men on The Other Site where you can't set age filters when I've said "thanks but I'm looking for someone closer to my age" (which it also says very clearly on my profile on there). So I wouldn't say maturity and intellect necessarily comes with age haha"
If it's the site I think you mean it's the bloody worst for it! The entitlement is strong! I don't care if you're the world's most experienced uber Dom . |
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"For us, age boundaries on here are not so much to do with the physical but are more about intellectual and sociological compatibility.
Cal
To be fair I have been lectured and belittled to no end by much older men on The Other Site where you can't set age filters when I've said "thanks but I'm looking for someone closer to my age" (which it also says very clearly on my profile on there). So I wouldn't say maturity and intellect necessarily comes with age haha
If it's the site I think you mean it's the bloody worst for it! The entitlement is strong! I don't care if you're the world's most experienced uber Dom ."
Yes!! Have you had all the classics?
"You're missing out by being so narrow minded"
"You're clearly not a sub"
"You'll never find someone your age with experience"
"Men your age aren't worth shit"
"You stupid immature little girl"
Etc etc... As if I can't decide for myself who I should be sleeping with |
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"For us, age boundaries on here are not so much to do with the physical but are more about intellectual and sociological compatibility.
Cal
To be fair I have been lectured and belittled to no end by much older men on The Other Site where you can't set age filters when I've said "thanks but I'm looking for someone closer to my age" (which it also says very clearly on my profile on there). So I wouldn't say maturity and intellect necessarily comes with age haha
If it's the site I think you mean it's the bloody worst for it! The entitlement is strong! I don't care if you're the world's most experienced uber Dom .
Yes!! Have you had all the classics?
"You're missing out by being so narrow minded"
"You're clearly not a sub"
"You'll never find someone your age with experience"
"Men your age aren't worth shit"
"You stupid immature little girl"
Etc etc... As if I can't decide for myself who I should be sleeping with "
Yep! They treat it almost as some sort of right of passage that you need to play with them to become a "twue sub". How selfless of them to offer the opportunity . |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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"Should there not be a way to positively discriminate by fitness leveels as well as or instead of just age?"
No, I don't think so. My age parameters are set based on multiple factors but basically it comes down to my personal preference.
Having said that, in a club situation I rarely ask anyone their age & make decisions based on personality/looks, so I have occasionally played with people who are below or above the age range I'm looking for on here.
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"For us, age boundaries on here are not so much to do with the physical but are more about intellectual and sociological compatibility.
Cal
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To be fair I have been lectured and belittled to no end by much older men on The Other Site where you can't set age filters when I've said "thanks but I'm looking for someone closer to my age" (which it also says very clearly on my profile on there). So I wouldn't say maturity and intellect necessarily comes with age haha"
It's less about maturity than commonalities, and you're right... age doesn't necessarily mean they're brighter or more mature.
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"Should there not be a way to positively discriminate by fitness leveels as well as or instead of just age?"
Absolutely - I always demand any potential partner to perform a full on SAS style assault course |
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