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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Never been with an overweight person before but just wondering what’s people’s preferences. Overweight or slim and in shape? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly I do not mind at all. The face seals the deal.
Fat or skinny I'd like to dip my dick in |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
Nottinghamshire |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How overweight we talking?
I’ve been with ‘over weight’ men but they were fit
Fat? No |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
Nottinghamshire |
Being slim isnt always in shape, shape comes in many forms  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
On men I do like both, it's usually the face that attracts me most. As long as they're not extremely over or underweight, i'm good. |
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Tend to sail in the middle. Don’t find slim or overweight attractive in general. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men I’m not attracted to very overweight or very slim. Somewhere in the middle. They don’t have to be gym fit though.
Women I’m only attracted to curvy feminine women. |
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Well if you want to give it a go... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been with both. It didn't make a difference. It's was their minds that did. Someone creative and able to turn on my mind will always be more fun that someone who is just ripped! |
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"Men I’m not attracted to very overweight or very slim. Somewhere in the middle. They don’t have to be gym fit though.
Women I’m only attracted to curvy feminine women. "
 Exactly that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women I’m only attracted to curvy feminine women. "
Interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women I’m only attracted to curvy feminine women.
Interesting "
Why? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women I’m only attracted to curvy feminine women.
Interesting
Why? Lol "
Just wanted to have some kind of social interaction with you. It worked thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women I’m only attracted to curvy feminine women.
Interesting
Why? Lol
Just wanted to have some kind of social interaction with you. It worked thank you "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex was overweight. Prefer larger guys to super slim |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women I’m only attracted to curvy feminine women.
Interesting
Why? Lol
Just wanted to have some kind of social interaction with you. It worked thank you
. Big Nob "
I know I have |
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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago
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Most strong men/rugby build guys class as over weight. I much prefer that to the physique of say a distance runner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never been with an overweight person before but just wondering what’s people’s preferences. Overweight or slim and in shape? "
No preference as been with all types but I would say they need to be strong as I’m a “big” girl!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on the man, ive been with large men but average is my preference. Being a little fit helps. I like the slimmer side of a dad bod if that makes sence. Not into thin men at all xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a deal breaker either way.
I'm more attracted to the face and personally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On men I do like both, it's usually the face that attracts me most. As long as they're not extremely over or underweight, i'm good. "
Yup, this! |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Whomever I find sexy and attractive. It's not completely based on body shape.
One thing is certain, if the face doesn't appeal the rest doesn't matter. |
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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago
Not looking to meet new peeps. |
Been with a man that was alot over weight. He changed his lifestyle and losted
stones. Fair play but I rathered when he was over weight. Wasnt the same at all. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not fussed it’s the person that counts |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
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If I could make a lady I would always choose slim gym fit with toned muscles is perfection for me.
But each person is different and it’s how they carry themselves which is the biggest turn on for me.
The hanging belly fat type lady is not for me but perfect for many other men’s preference.
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I'm overweight, but I don't consider myself fat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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According to BMI charts I’m overweight |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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I'm attracted to athletic men someone you look at and you just know there're fit it's a life style choice it's an overall body shape ( toned ).
I have no idea why but I'm just not attracted to overweight or slim doesn't mean there cant be a friendship. Friendships are good right!
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"According to BMI charts I’m overweight "
I am the same but you tell me how many overweight people could do a 5km in less than 28 mins |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jessica - slim
GB - overweight |
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Size isn't much of an issue. We are drawn to the personality above all else. You can have supermodel lookalikes that have a personality of a doormat. We would walk away even if they laid it on a plate for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"According to BMI charts I’m overweight
I am the same but you tell me how many overweight people could do a 5km in less than 28 mins "
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Just a healthy looking body which has not been neglected is fine for me although i would rather feel a few extra pounds than bones. |
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"According to BMI charts I’m overweight "
I'm obese 
I honestly don't care. Personality, face, then the rest is nice but not super important. |
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"According to BMI charts I’m overweight
I am the same but you tell me how many overweight people could do a 5km in less than 28 mins
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Apparently to bmi i am 3 pounds overweight and people ask me if i eat so its utter bollocks in my opinion . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"According to BMI charts I’m overweight
I am the same but you tell me how many overweight people could do a 5km in less than 28 mins
Apparently to bmi i am 3 pounds overweight and people ask me if i eat so its utter bollocks in my opinion ."
Agreed it doesn’t account for muscle mass etc |
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"According to BMI charts I’m overweight
I am the same but you tell me how many overweight people could do a 5km in less than 28 mins
Apparently to bmi i am 3 pounds overweight and people ask me if i eat so its utter bollocks in my opinion .
Agreed it doesn’t account for muscle mass etc "
Disturbing though i dont have a bit of fat on me and according to them overweight they need to rethink it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer a footballer’s physique to a rugby player’s physique.
Nothing too extreme at either end of the spectrum.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"According to BMI charts I’m overweight
I am the same but you tell me how many overweight people could do a 5km in less than 28 mins
Apparently to bmi i am 3 pounds overweight and people ask me if i eat so its utter bollocks in my opinion .
Agreed it doesn’t account for muscle mass etc Disturbing though i dont have a bit of fat on me and according to them overweight they need to rethink it."
But a withings you will know your muscles mass |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"According to BMI charts I’m overweight
I am the same but you tell me how many overweight people could do a 5km in less than 28 mins
Apparently to bmi i am 3 pounds overweight and people ask me if i eat so its utter bollocks in my opinion .
Agreed it doesn’t account for muscle mass etc Disturbing though i dont have a bit of fat on me and according to them overweight they need to rethink it."
I just studied your pics, for research purposes of course   |
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"I prefer a footballer’s physique to a rugby player’s physique.
Nothing too extreme at either end of the spectrum.
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I love tennis players physique. |
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I (Mrs) am quite a big female so prefer a medium to large build. I find a very slim men make me feel quite self conscious, the only time this changes is when the man is slim but tall.
Lily |
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"According to BMI charts I’m overweight
I am the same but you tell me how many overweight people could do a 5km in less than 28 mins
Apparently to bmi i am 3 pounds overweight and people ask me if i eat so its utter bollocks in my opinion .
Agreed it doesn’t account for muscle mass etc Disturbing though i dont have a bit of fat on me and according to them overweight they need to rethink it.
I just studied your pics, for research purposes of course "
Ditto |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never been with an overweight person before but just wondering what’s people’s preferences. Overweight or slim and in shape? "
in shape towards overweight i find overweight a turn on
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"According to BMI charts I’m overweight
I am the same but you tell me how many overweight people could do a 5km in less than 28 mins
Apparently to bmi i am 3 pounds overweight and people ask me if i eat so its utter bollocks in my opinion .
Agreed it doesn’t account for muscle mass etc Disturbing though i dont have a bit of fat on me and according to them overweight they need to rethink it.
I just studied your pics, for research purposes of course Ditto"
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"I (Mrs) am quite a big female so prefer a medium to large build. I find a very slim men make me feel quite self conscious, the only time this changes is when the man is slim but tall.
Lily"
You dont look big to me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not to fat & not to thin , but just right |
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I only like big althetic men.. So neither them body shapes will make me wet |
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Definitely in shape. Neither of us are attracted to overweight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely slim to curvy, and by curvy I mean a size 10 curvy, not a size 18 dumper truck curvy. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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Not bothered as long as I find them sexy and funny and they don’t want to change me. |
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"Definitely slim to curvy, and by curvy I mean a size 10 curvy, not a size 18 dumper truck curvy. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Prefer slim and in shape, a tad overweight is fine but not obese, I always find height more of an issue than shape with most women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been with both but ladies size 24 up are good |
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I do prefer slimmer men, but not too slim, and some muscles are always nice...but if they haven't got a face that I want to snog then I won't be attracted to them regardless. |
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I prefer curvy women and like men to be small and slim .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer a footballer’s physique to a rugby player’s physique.
Nothing too extreme at either end of the spectrum.
I love tennis players physique. "
Yes! Very nice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer men with a bit of meat on their bones. Cuddly type, with some roundness and softness here and there. |
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"Definitely slim to curvy, and by curvy I mean a size 10 curvy, not a size 18 dumper truck curvy. "
What!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends on the man, ive been with large men but average is my preference. Being a little fit helps. I like the slimmer side of a dad bod if that makes sence. Not into thin men at all xx"
that's me out then lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I gave no preference, as long as their personality draws me in and they are happy in their own skin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends on the man, ive been with large men but average is my preference. Being a little fit helps. I like the slimmer side of a dad bod if that makes sence. Not into thin men at all xx that's me out then lol"
You are my good friend , youve been friend zoned |
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By *ogue78Man
over a year ago
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Personality and a great ass does it for me.... Now which ladies like the dad bod |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
We like couples with similar body types to us.
Larger lady, slim male.  |
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Give me a rugby player/dad bod type any day of the week  |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"Prefer slim and in shape, a tad overweight is fine but not obese, I always find height more of an issue than shape with most women "
You dont like dwarfs then
Nice to see you |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
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Face is what attracts me to someone. Body doesn’t matter..... I do prefer a rugby player to a footballer if I had to choose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Prefer slim and in shape, a tad overweight is fine but not obese, I always find height more of an issue than shape with most women
You dont like dwarfs then
Nice to see you "
Can’t say I know many dwarfs, but no they don’t seem to float my boat and yes good to see you too, hope your holding up in the present situation |
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I’m not into slim guys, or muscular, just a nice inbetween average build. Face, beard and personality are more important to me |
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OP your body is amazing. I don't just like one body type though. Gym fit is hot. But so is curvy.
Hugely overweight doesn't appeal though. But each to their own. I know I'd be too skinny for plenty |
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"I (Mrs) am quite a big female so prefer a medium to large build. I find a very slim men make me feel quite self conscious, the only time this changes is when the man is slim but tall.
LilyYou dont look big to me "
Ow there are people on here who like to remind me that I am not the smallest person quite often  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely slim to curvy, and by curvy I mean a size 10 curvy, not a size 18 dumper truck curvy. "
What last bit wasn't necessary! |
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Again, I couldn't care less. So long as they are a decent human being I'm pretty easy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tend to sail in the middle. Don’t find slim or overweight attractive in general. "
Just as above...attractive face and average body is fine by me (mrs) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In proportion and naughty. Size is a variable
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a few curves usually but not fat as such. Each body has its unique charm innit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Again, I couldn't care less. So long as they are a decent human being I'm pretty easy."
I disagree. Hot as hell and filthy as fuck
Please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never been with an overweight person before but just wondering what’s people’s preferences. Overweight or slim and in shape? "
Slim slim ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Round is a shape isn’t it |
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"Definitely slim to curvy, and by curvy I mean a size 10 curvy, not a size 18 dumper truck curvy. "
No wonder you have hidden your profile. What a comment! Assuming from it you are an Adonis! But I'm doubtful! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely slim to curvy, and by curvy I mean a size 10 curvy, not a size 18 dumper truck curvy.
No wonder you have hidden your profile. What a comment! Assuming from it you are an Adonis! But I'm doubtful!"
Glad you said it haha
I'm fat but prefer men who are stocky to average. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does size matter? You are attracted to who you are attracted too, size is irrelevant |
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"Definitely slim to curvy, and by curvy I mean a size 10 curvy, not a size 18 dumper truck curvy.
No wonder you have hidden your profile. What a comment! Assuming from it you are an Adonis! But I'm doubtful!"
Well said
At a curvy size 22-24, I’d hate to know what his definition of that is? Hmmm, what’s bigger than a dumper truck? Answers on a postcard!! |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
Preston |
If I was specifying I am attracted to men who are slim and toned.
In reality there are so many factors of looks, personality, chat, spark, intelligence, flirting, connecting. Which mean that I'm attracted to people for myriad reasons and size is just part of the whole thing. |
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I'm very overweight myself but I'm comfortable with my size.
I love bodies of all sizes, especially contrasting ones like you'd see from supersized Vs super skinny. Though I always have a soft spot for other big people as I'm a fat admirer too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In pics. or perving on the street I prefer slim (there's always exceptions).
In RL it's the face and how someone presents themself I find more attractive but when it comes down to it if you do what I like in bed, and I do what you like, then I'm not bothered.
Body size is no indication of how good or bad you are in bed. |
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I don’t mind .... I just like them to have an air of confidence and dominance about them.. I’m yet to find any bloke that is sexually more confident than me in the sack or maybe I just need to let them take charge a bit more their belly’s doesn’t really bother me but an air of fitness helps x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm overweight |
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In shape for me, not overly skinny but nicely toned |
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We'd prefer somebody to be a bit on the large side than a bit on the slim side. |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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I don’t really have a preference so long as they have stamina and a personality I have rapport with, whatever gender they are. |
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I like a guy with a bit of meat on him. I'm not a fan of ribs & abs, I like to have the odd cuddle |
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A bit of meat is good! Who likes fucking sticks!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As long as they're not too far to either extreme, I'm not too judgemental about body types. Slim and petite or curvy and voluptuous both have huge appeal! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer in the middle. Too slim/skinny and it puts me off, too big and it puts me off.
If he's skinnier than I am it's a no - I don't want to be the biggest person in the bed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you connect with the person then weight shouldn’t matter. Personality is key for me and obviously some attraction |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not to bothered by weight.
Too slim doesn’t tend to attract my attention but it’s face, personality and chemistry that get to me!
Cheeky smiles especially |
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"Never been with an overweight person before but just wondering what’s people’s preferences. Overweight or slim and in shape? "
I like curves. So someone can be slim but still curvy or larger and still curvy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone's weight or size is literally the last thing either of us is bothered about.
We both find many shapes and sizes attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You will never be everyone's cuppa tea and everyone won't be yours. As long you love yourself and your body the way it is you are never a label such as overweight or slim and if u get yourself a sexual partner who yearns for your body at least just a much as you love your body. #BobsYourUncle #FannysYourAunt #DesiresReachedAndExceeded |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really depends on the person but there has to be a attraction facially, body types not too keen on extreme either way. But everyone is different and variety is the spice of life, attraction comes in many forms x |
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A little overweight is fine. Would rather that than a very skinny male.x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone's weight or size is literally the last thing either of us is bothered about.
We both find many shapes and sizes attractive."
I feel the same way - when I connect with someone their body size is irrelevant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never been with an overweight person before but just wondering what’s people’s preferences. Overweight or slim and in shape? "
Mrs-Prefers toned or slim with no big belly
Mr-Loves curves, have to have a bottom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always like a bit of meat on my bones, and I think enjoying the company of a woman with a fuller figure is just as good as a skinny lady. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not to bothered by weight.
Too slim doesn’t tend to attract my attention but it’s face, personality and chemistry that get to me!
Cheeky smiles especially "
Couldn't have put it better myself X  |
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i prefer tall and healthy looking so he can throw me about a little bit |
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No preference really as long as they have a kind heart and good personality. |
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Face and connection is way more important |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no preference. They need to have a personality and there needs to be a connection. |
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over a year ago
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"A little overweight is fine. Would rather that than a very skinny male.x
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Best news I've heard all day! |
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"No preference really as long as they have a kind heart and good personality."
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By *B69Woman
over a year ago
Wiltshire |
Has to be an attraction and chemistry, I like some meat on the bone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer those rolls and curves.
I want my hands to be able to grab the love handles, feel the weight on my body.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like all types but I prefer in shapes ones. |
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When I was young and shallow, I used to choose my women by the season. Voluptuous Rubenesque women for the cold winter nights, Slim athletic Women for those hot summer nights. And curvy sexy women chosen to suit the spring and Autumn weather.
Now I'm more about what's in her head though..... the mind is def the sexiest organ and if you make a really hot connection, then body shape is largely irrelevant.
Overall curvy is generally more attractive than bony...... |
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Skinny males seem to be very unpopular |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really dont mind |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
"Skinny males seem to be very unpopular "
I love toned, slim bodies with good definition.
I can’t do overweight, overhanging belly or dad bods. Just can’t.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I like the person it’s know problem |
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Body shape doesn’t matter, what catches me is the connection, eyes and smile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No preference really.
My off fab lover is 6'1 and quite broad all over, probably a stone or so overweight but he carries it well and he's very in proportion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Face and connection is way more important"
This |
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"I prefer in the middle. Too slim/skinny and it puts me off, too big and it puts me off.
If he's skinnier than I am it's a no - I don't want to be the biggest person in the bed "
I sure don't mind being the biggest person in bed. If y'all want to feel small then come cuddle up next to me hehe |
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"I prefer those rolls and curves.
I want my hands to be able to grab the love handles, feel the weight on my body.
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love this |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
It’s all about personality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im a picky bastatd, if youre not going to be the next victoria secret model then ill probably say no |
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"Never been with an overweight person before but just wondering what’s people’s preferences. Overweight or slim and in shape? "
Give it a try. It's the person that counts, not the body shape. |
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I like them to laugh me in to bed. I've been with all shape and size |
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"On men I do like both, it's usually the face that attracts me most. As long as they're not extremely over or underweight, i'm good. "
As usual NSA chick is the voice of reason |
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By *B69Woman
over a year ago
Wiltshire |
"Im a picky bastatd, if youre not going to be the next victoria secret model then ill probably say no "
FFS |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Curvy. Best way to put it is my preference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve never been with a slim slim woman before, always curvaceous women |
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Both of us are larger people. I, Jason, have a belly button that has its own echo . But that doesn't define us.
To me Rhiannon is the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. We have been together over 12 years and she still takes my breath away when she smiles.
Before I got I'll I was a gym boy and shallow as hell. I treated people badly and would love to track those people down and apologize for being a year. Now I k is who I am. I don't rely on looks , thankfully, to meet people and we both find that most who we do meet tend to like us. Being bigger has mafee a better person even if I'm less attractive to others and I'm good with that. I rather have ³ friends that I can make feel good than a thousand lovers who are just an empty experience.
We look for the same in the people we play with. We want fun, friendship and laughter and some people of slimer sizes rely to much on looks rather than personality and heart. That also goes for bigger people but we have found less so.
In the end it's the person, not the size. It's the heart and care rather than an empty experience. Happiness is down to connection and those who judge on size alone miss so much that life has to offer. Be nice to each other . It costs nothing and you might just make someone's day |
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over a year ago
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"It’s all about personality lies your all a our sexy six packs a d whiskey
You don’t know me at all
Busty Belle is actually what I would say is my perfect type.... wow  "
Aww thank you |
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"It’s all about personality lies your all a our sexy six packs a d whiskey
You don’t know me at all
Busty Belle is actually what I would say is my perfect type.... wow
Aww thank you "
Rhiannon and I would definitely have to agree.......wow indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fall in the obese category under bmi standard
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like them tall girls, I like them short girls
I like them brown-haired girls, I like them blonde-haired girls
I like them big girls, I like them skinny girls
I like them carrying a little bitty weight girls |
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In between I would say is a good measure |
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"I fall in the obese category under bmi standard
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You know no intelligent gym goer needs the BMI
Its specifically for the un trained sedentary person
The irony is
The damn thing is mocked but actually for the majority of the sedentary it's a fair indication their health may suffer
Obviously if a human is already training the concept of BMI is redundant
The concept being
Ok your BMI is x and you do zero
Your health could improve by food reduction and more exercise
Dont want to
Happy
Awesome
Truly awesome we only say you may suffer in the future
Personally I dont like to carry more fat than I need
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"It’s all about personality lies your all a our sexy six packs a d whiskey
You don’t know me at all
Busty Belle is actually what I would say is my perfect type.... wow
Aww thank you
Rhiannon and I would definitely have to agree.......wow indeed "
Aww that’s so kind thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a slim guy myself I can tell you that it is definitely not the preference of women from over in my neck of the woods anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a slim guy myself I can tell you that it is definitely not the preference of women from over in my neck of the woods anyway."
Not really here either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fall in the obese category under bmi standard
You know no intelligent gym goer needs the BMI
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This.
I'm in the extremely/morbidly obese category.
Perfect example of it being bullshit.
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"I fall in the obese category under bmi standard
You know no intelligent gym goer needs the BMI
Its specifically for the un trained sedentary person
The irony is
The damn thing is mocked but actually for the majority of the sedentary it's a fair indication their health may suffer
Obviously if a human is already training the concept of BMI is redundant
The concept being
Ok your BMI is x and you do zero
Your health could improve by food reduction and more exercise
Dont want to
Happy
Awesome
Truly awesome we only say you may suffer in the future
Personally I dont like to carry more fat than I need
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I see your logic but I think the BMI is b*llocks at my lowest weight 7s 2, I was told I was obese. I just laughed at the woman said “so if I cut my boobs of will that but me in your normal scale and make you happy”. It’s the most unhealthy I’ve ever felt and was skin and bone.
I can laugh it off, always have, tell them to do one, but most take it to heart and stress about it and then go on ridiculous diets to right something that isn’t wrong |
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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago
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I find it hilarious that the majority of the guys saying that they are overweight are dad bods if that much can be said.
I'm overweight, but I've never ever been with a woman that I couldn't satisfy both in and out of bed!
It's all about confidence, however, if I'm not your cup of tea, that's your problem lol, there's plenty of fish in the sea and I only ask once.
I don't have a specific body type, I've been with super slim to large women, any woman is good as long as there is chemistry on both ends...
But these are just my 2 cents.
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It genuinely depends on who we are attracted too, generally we go for a fit/average body type but we have seen a few women that are of the fuller figure that are gorgeous and would definitely be our cup of tea |
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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago
Witney |
"I fall in the obese category under bmi standard
You know no intelligent gym goer needs the BMI
Its specifically for the un trained sedentary person
The irony is
The damn thing is mocked but actually for the majority of the sedentary it's a fair indication their health may suffer
Obviously if a human is already training the concept of BMI is redundant
The concept being
Ok your BMI is x and you do zero
Your health could improve by food reduction and more exercise
Dont want to
Happy
Awesome
Truly awesome we only say you may suffer in the future
Personally I dont like to carry more fat than I need
I see your logic but I think the BMI is b*llocks at my lowest weight 7s 2, I was told I was obese. I just laughed at the woman said “so if I cut my boobs of will that but me in your normal scale and make you happy”. It’s the most unhealthy I’ve ever felt and was skin and bone.
I can laugh it off, always have, tell them to do one, but most take it to heart and stress about it and then go on ridiculous diets to right something that isn’t wrong "
BMI is definitely bollocks. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I see your logic but I think the BMI is b*llocks at my lowest weight 7s 2, I was told I was obese. I just laughed at the woman said “so if I cut my boobs of will that but me in your normal scale and make you happy”. It’s the most unhealthy I’ve ever felt and was skin and bone.
I can laugh it off, always have, tell them to do one, but most take it to heart and stress about it and then go on ridiculous diets to right something that isn’t wrong "
Sorry, but I don't believe that, that is my current weight and I'm 5'1, or it was until I lost a further 5lbs since working from home, and my BMI then was 18!
So for someone to say you were obese at that weight is not believable. |
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"Skinny males seem to be very unpopular
I love toned, slim bodies with good definition.
I can’t do overweight, overhanging belly or dad bods. Just can’t.
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I see your logic but I think the BMI is b*llocks at my lowest weight 7s 2, I was told I was obese. I just laughed at the woman said “so if I cut my boobs of will that but me in your normal scale and make you happy”. It’s the most unhealthy I’ve ever felt and was skin and bone.
I can laugh it off, always have, tell them to do one, but most take it to heart and stress about it and then go on ridiculous diets to right something that isn’t wrong
Sorry, but I don't believe that, that is my current weight and I'm 5'1, or it was until I lost a further 5lbs since working from home, and my BMI then was 18!
So for someone to say you were obese at that weight is not believable."
You believe what you like but I know what I was told on three separate occasions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see your logic but I think the BMI is b*llocks at my lowest weight 7s 2, I was told I was obese. I just laughed at the woman said “so if I cut my boobs of will that but me in your normal scale and make you happy”. It’s the most unhealthy I’ve ever felt and was skin and bone.
I can laugh it off, always have, tell them to do one, but most take it to heart and stress about it and then go on ridiculous diets to right something that isn’t wrong
Sorry, but I don't believe that, that is my current weight and I'm 5'1, or it was until I lost a further 5lbs since working from home, and my BMI then was 18!
So for someone to say you were obese at that weight is not believable.
You believe what you like but I know what I was told on three separate occasions "
BMI doesn’t take into account muscle mass. By the logic of BMI every single bodybuilder with under 5% fat would be obese. It’s an illogical and outdated scale. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just checked mine..
36.7 hahaaa |
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Struggle with the weight issue myself... However one of the many things I love about this scene is that sexiness is far more linked to self belief than traditional views of hot or not... Much healthier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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32.5, I should be in poor health based on that, however, not the case |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like slim, similar to my body really, and curvaceous. I don't like fabulous or muscle bodies. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
Many people fall into the friends category as everyone has something special about them.
For me when I look at someone its about life style chooses. Are they similar to me or would I drive them round the bend.
I'm just not attracted to men that are overweight or the new dad bod thingy. I have no idea why its just the way it is.
I need to be attracted physically to someone other wise we make great friends.
Athletic in body and mind over 5ft 10 with hair and teeth.
Where are you hidding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to be attracted to younger guys as unfortunately, and no fault of their own, but a lot of guys on here aged 50+ do not have the physique/hair/teeth that I want to meet with. Just my preference |
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"I tend to be attracted to younger guys as unfortunately, and no fault of their own, but a lot of guys on here aged 50+ do not have the physique/hair/teeth that I want to meet with. Just my preference "
Everyone has a preference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can fluctuate from a 6 pack in the summer to being abit over weight in the winter so understand people's body change, think that's why I am more drawn to personality and the way a person carries themself. |
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I'm over weight curvy but will definitely start healthy eating next week |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many people fall into the friends category as everyone has something special about them.
For me when I look at someone its about life style chooses. Are they similar to me or would I drive them round the bend.
I'm just not attracted to men that are overweight or the new dad bod thingy. I have no idea why its just the way it is.
I need to be attracted physically to someone other wise we make great friends.
Athletic in body and mind over 5ft 10 with hair and teeth.
Where are you hidding "
Athletic like a shot putter you mean? |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I can fluctuate from a 6 pack in the summer to being abit over weight in the winter so understand people's body change, think that's why I am more drawn to personality and the way a person carries themself. "
Nice glutes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like slim. |
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