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Blocking. Why does it bother some folk?
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By *evaquit OP Couple
over a year ago
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Are you bothered?
The types who block us aren't the type we would ever meet so we don't care, even if they were it doesn't matter to us as we don't do it for them. Every now and then we see we're blocked, they're prerogative, one of fabs great functions, we use it ourselves. We see it often complained about in threads and especially on statuses but why does it bother people on here so much? |
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"Are you bothered?
The types who block us aren't the type we would ever meet so we don't care, even if they were it doesn't matter to us as we don't do it for them. Every now and then we see we're blocked, they're prerogative, one of fabs great functions, we use it ourselves. We see it often complained about in threads and especially on statuses but why does it bother people on here so much? "
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"Are you bothered?
The types who block us aren't the type we would ever meet so we don't care, even if they were it doesn't matter to us as we don't do it for them. Every now and then we see we're blocked, they're prerogative, one of fabs great functions, we use it ourselves. We see it often complained about in threads and especially on statuses but why does it bother people on here so much? "
Not so much bothered but confused.
We chatted clicked. Said nite nite.
Messaged back to say hi a day or so later and bam I'm blocked.
Like why?
Just be a grownup and ignore my messages lol  |
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"It’s not like you’re going to get blocked by anyone you’d actually get on with lmao. "
Not really. I find some people just do it because they were only seeking online fun. And don't want to have to explain why...
In some cases yes that true. But not always. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I get blocked, I immediately set up another account and message them from that account and rant at them for blocking me.
Then I have to set up yet another account, when the second account gets blocked.
It’s very time consuming, I need an assistant I think   |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"If I get blocked, I immediately set up another account and message them from that account and rant at them for blocking me.
Then I have to set up yet another account, when the second account gets blocked.
It’s very time consuming, I need an assistant I think "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I get blocked, I immediately set up another account and message them from that account and rant at them for blocking me.
Then I have to set up yet another account, when the second account gets blocked.
It’s very time consuming, I need an assistant I think "
Ppl do actually do that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We block so we don't contact them if they're not our cup of tea and also so they don't waste time contacting us.
We couldn't care less if we're blocked, it's a bit of fun on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you bothered?
The types who block us aren't the type we would ever meet so we don't care, even if they were it doesn't matter to us as we don't do it for them. Every now and then we see we're blocked, they're prerogative, one of fabs great functions, we use it ourselves. We see it often complained about in threads and especially on statuses but why does it bother people on here so much? "
It doesn't bother me if I'm blocked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got blocked by a couple of people when I started using the forums and it did bother me a bit because I fancied one of them and we previously chatted in private messages and I thought we got on well.
I guess I was blocked because she didn't get my joke in the forum. I've since toned my jokes down because il probably get blocked by lots of people who will judge me as an offensive person and that isn't my intention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got blocked by a couple of people when I started using the forums and it did bother me a bit because I fancied one of them and we previously chatted in private messages and I thought we got on well.
I guess I was blocked because she didn't get my joke in the forum. I've since toned my jokes down because il probably get blocked by lots of people who will judge me as an offensive person and that isn't my intention. "
So why tell jokes that are likely to be taken that way? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got blocked by a couple of people when I started using the forums and it did bother me a bit because I fancied one of them and we previously chatted in private messages and I thought we got on well.
I guess I was blocked because she didn't get my joke in the forum. I've since toned my jokes down because il probably get blocked by lots of people who will judge me as an offensive person and that isn't my intention. "
You’re better off being completely yourself and having people liking you for you. Trust me on that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you bothered?
The types who block us aren't the type we would ever meet so we don't care, even if they were it doesn't matter to us as we don't do it for them. Every now and then we see we're blocked, they're prerogative, one of fabs great functions, we use it ourselves. We see it often complained about in threads and especially on statuses but why does it bother people on here so much? "
Well this a pointless thread isn’t it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got blocked by a couple of people when I started using the forums and it did bother me a bit because I fancied one of them and we previously chatted in private messages and I thought we got on well.
I guess I was blocked because she didn't get my joke in the forum. I've since toned my jokes down because il probably get blocked by lots of people who will judge me as an offensive person and that isn't my intention.
You’re better off being completely yourself and having people liking you for you. Trust me on that "
Well if you’re going to be offensive, then yeah actually, toning it down is a good idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got blocked by a couple of people when I started using the forums and it did bother me a bit because I fancied one of them and we previously chatted in private messages and I thought we got on well.
I guess I was blocked because she didn't get my joke in the forum. I've since toned my jokes down because il probably get blocked by lots of people who will judge me as an offensive person and that isn't my intention.
So why tell jokes that are likely to be taken that way?"
I didn't expect it to be taken that way. Some people are so serious online. |
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By *evaquit OP Couple
over a year ago
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"If I get blocked, I immediately set up another account and message them from that account and rant at them for blocking me.
Then I have to set up yet another account, when the second account gets blocked.
It’s very time consuming, I need an assistant I think "
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By *evaquit OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Are you bothered?
The types who block us aren't the type we would ever meet so we don't care, even if they were it doesn't matter to us as we don't do it for them. Every now and then we see we're blocked, they're prerogative, one of fabs great functions, we use it ourselves. We see it often complained about in threads and especially on statuses but why does it bother people on here so much?
Well this a pointless thread isn’t it"
Yes! But not all threads need to prove a point. This one passes time like so many on here if not all, it's the interwebs, the chipshop paper of yesterday. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure.
I don’t know whether anyone has ever blocked me.
If they have then I’m sure they have their reasons and good luck to them.
I’ve only ever blocked one person and that’s because I think they bump threads for the drama, for their own personal pleasure at reading people that have little else in their lives currently having an online slanging match.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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doesn't bother me.
your just a pic on my screen until we meet.
sorry to be blunt but you have to have a reality about things.
dreaming does not fill me with ambition |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people block us. It’s most likely we wouldn’t want to talk to them either. So it’s win win. Block anyone who doesn’t appeal to you and it’s saves awkward conversations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you bothered?
The types who block us aren't the type we would ever meet so we don't care, even if they were it doesn't matter to us as we don't do it for them. Every now and then we see we're blocked, they're prerogative, one of fabs great functions, we use it ourselves. We see it often complained about in threads and especially on statuses but why does it bother people on here so much? "
its a negative and negativity isn't good for the ego and ego is high on the agenda for many  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive been blocked by folk ive never spoken to, which is fair, and by folk I have spoken to which again, what ever. Ive also blocked people for various reasons.
What boils my piss is being messaged about something on my profile for example and then they block you so you cant respond to the initial message or block you after they’ve cussed you out for your response to their message.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not something I'll ponder on too much.But I'll confess that if I clock on an unknown profile, and find I'm blocked, I may spend a few moments what I did or why...it passes very quickly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have I blocked you yet?
I will be devastated if you block me! 
Well if you behave yourself it will not happen  "
I don't know how to. I need some training! |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"People are easily offended"
I agree totally op , chatting openly on here gets us blocked lots , mostly by judgemental people and let's just say , Happy days we don't need them in our kinky lifestyle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People are easily offendedI agree totally op , chatting openly on here gets us blocked lots , mostly by judgemental people and let's just say , Happy days we don't need them in our kinky lifestyle "
You’re easily offended aren’t you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only annoys me if I’m blocked before I’ve managed to get the last word in, otherwise I couldn’t give a flying fuck.
I have no idea who’s blocked me, although in the past I could guess from a forum thread that I would end up being blocked by a particular person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only annoys me if I’m blocked before I’ve managed to get the last word in, otherwise I couldn’t give a flying fuck.
I have no idea who’s blocked me, although in the past I could guess from a forum thread that I would end up being blocked by a particular person. "
I have not blocked you and will ever block you! |
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