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Now I really like these..... but I think they may be a bit marmite. Am I alone or is this a liked kink.
Is it a male orientated thing or are there ladies who like the look and the concept and use.
I different styles too but nobody has come up with a strong magnetic switchable solution yet.
What is missing if you like them |
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"Idiotic tbh in my humble opinion ."
That's quite a strong statement. How is someone an idiot for liking this?
Surely it's no different to liking latex for example, or any number of things that the ordinary person doesn't wear/use?
You may find it very strange, not for you, scary, funny even. But none of those things makes the individual that does like it, an idiot, just different to yourself. |
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"Idiotic tbh in my humble opinion .
That's quite a strong statement. How is someone an idiot for liking this?
Surely it's no different to liking latex for example, or any number of things that the ordinary person doesn't wear/use?
You may find it very strange, not for you, scary, funny even. But none of those things makes the individual that does like it, an idiot, just different to yourself."
Eh what does in my humble opinion mean ....a less long winded explanation then yours me thinks.. |
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"Idiotic tbh in my humble opinion .
That's quite a strong statement. How is someone an idiot for liking this?
Surely it's no different to liking latex for example, or any number of things that the ordinary person doesn't wear/use?
You may find it very strange, not for you, scary, funny even. But none of those things makes the individual that does like it, an idiot, just different to yourself.Eh what does in my humble opinion mean ....a less long winded explanation then yours me thinks.."
I guess it means you know you are going to be judgemental and rude, but try to excuse and do it anyway? |
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"Idiotic tbh in my humble opinion ."
We are idiots. Neither of us were into them and even found them a turn-off.
Yet, somehow, over time that changed and they became something to tick off our list. Now we both love it - the look and feel. |
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over a year ago
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Looks daft, but then so do a lot of things. Each to their own, but not for us right now. As we've found, never say never. I (Mrs) often say no to a lot of things and over time I change my mind. |
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"Idiotic tbh in my humble opinion .
That's quite a strong statement. How is someone an idiot for liking this?
Surely it's no different to liking latex for example, or any number of things that the ordinary person doesn't wear/use?
You may find it very strange, not for you, scary, funny even. But none of those things makes the individual that does like it, an idiot, just different to yourself.Eh what does in my humble opinion mean ....a less long winded explanation then yours me thinks..
I guess it means you know you are going to be judgemental and rude, but try to excuse and do it anyway?"
Exactamondo....next. |
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I first though they were a bit strange but then I've since seen photos on here and thought actually that looks quite good. I don't know if I ever would though,I think I would personally feel to silly and we would just end up in hysterics  |
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"Mentioning butt plugs and marmite in the same sentence makes me clench just a little. There are better lubes available  "
Not quiet the point I was trying to get across tbh but maybe a grated wedge of ginger is your thing....?? |
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over a year ago
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"Mentioning butt plugs and marmite in the same sentence makes me clench just a little. There are better lubes available
Not quiet the point I was trying to get across tbh but maybe a grated wedge of ginger is your thing....??"
"Fire in the hole"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a purple and white one.
It matches a couple of my outfits and feels great.
I like the feel of it in my balloon knot, plus I like the feel of the fluffiness stroking the back of my thigh when I walk.
Idiotic, I'd say not. But calling someone idiotic for liking something that doesn't hurt them or anyone else.... well, in MY humble opinion, I'd say that qualifies.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've a few butt plugs, some are pretty jewel ones and I've a lovely red fox tail butt plug. When Im in DOM/sub play I get tasks to wear it. Its lovely and fun too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a bunny tail and I do like it "
Love my little pink bunny one. Have latex ears, actually bought years before, so love dressing up for Easter in them them xx |
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"Now I really like these..... but I think they may be a bit marmite. Am I alone or is this a liked kink.
Is it a male orientated thing or are there ladies who like the look and the concept and use.
I different styles too but nobody has come up with a strong magnetic switchable solution yet.
What is missing if you like them"
I like them a lot, I have a grey cat tail, a fox tail and a bunny tail.
There are some magnetic options on offer, but I've yet to try them. |
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"Now I really like these..... but I think they may be a bit marmite. Am I alone or is this a liked kink.
Is it a male orientated thing or are there ladies who like the look and the concept and use.
I different styles too but nobody has come up with a strong magnetic switchable solution yet.
What is missing if you like them
I like them a lot, I have a grey cat tail, a fox tail and a bunny tail.
There are some magnetic options on offer, but I've yet to try them."
You have a magnetised arse? Men are drawn to it? |
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"Now I really like these..... but I think they may be a bit marmite. Am I alone or is this a liked kink.
Is it a male orientated thing or are there ladies who like the look and the concept and use.
I different styles too but nobody has come up with a strong magnetic switchable solution yet.
What is missing if you like them
I like them a lot, I have a grey cat tail, a fox tail and a bunny tail.
There are some magnetic options on offer, but I've yet to try them.
You have a magnetised arse? Men are drawn to it?"
Very funny
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Horny as fuck.
The subject comes up every couple of days lately.
It’s almost replaced the bareback threads but my views are always consistent.
Butt plug tails on ladys... big yes from me.
Sam tender
Butt plug tail fan. |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"Now I really like these..... but I think they may be a bit marmite. Am I alone or is this a liked kink.
Is it a male orientated thing or are there ladies who like the look and the concept and use.
I different styles too but nobody has come up with a strong magnetic switchable solution yet.
What is missing if you like them
I like them a lot, I have a grey cat tail, a fox tail and a bunny tail.
There are some magnetic options on offer, but I've yet to try them.
You have a magnetised arse? Men are drawn to it?"
So are women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do the furry thing once in a while (but then we do a lot of other kinks as well) so racoon tail plug here.
Racoons are so much fun. They steal stuff, interact with pets, climb things and hey, have opposable thumbs lol
Our pics of that are available on a well known fet site |
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"We do the furry thing once in a while (but then we do a lot of other kinks as well) so racoon tail plug here.
Racoons are so much fun. They steal stuff, interact with pets, climb things and hey, have opposable thumbs lol
Our pics of that are available on a well known fet site "
A raccoon is a great creature! ^_^
I love a furry tail and this thread has reminded me I want to invest in one! |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
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"I have a bunny tail and I do like it
Love my little pink bunny one. Have latex ears, actually bought years before, so love dressing up for Easter in them them xx"
Next investment is a fox tail |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Pet play has a complexity that I suspect some people don’t understand, there is often projection from lack of personal understanding.
I think it is odd that some like kink, some like vanilla. Both are right, just not in the eyes of the other party. |
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"Now I really like these..... but I think they may be a bit marmite. Am I alone or is this a liked kink.
Is it a male orientated thing or are there ladies who like the look and the concept and use.
I different styles too but nobody has come up with a strong magnetic switchable solution yet.
What is missing if you like them
I like them a lot, I have a grey cat tail, a fox tail and a bunny tail.
There are some magnetic options on offer, but I've yet to try them."
May I suggest a tail shot in your public profile would be a wonderful idea |
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"Pet play has a complexity that I suspect some people don’t understand, there is often projection from lack of personal understanding.
I think it is odd that some like kink, some like vanilla. Both are right, just not in the eyes of the other party."
Very strange perhaps but I dont think of them as pet play at all. 8n fact, pet play doesnt work for me probably because its straying into a role play which I can never get my head around or get excited about it.
I just think they look amazing and flicks a switch in my head. The other huge switch flicker is female breasts with a horizontal nipple bar piercing.
I have no idea why as I am not really into piercings at all but that just drives me wild. |
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"Idiotic tbh in my humble opinion ."
This site is for most kinds of fetish /most kinds of pleasures /taboos. One person's hedonism is different to the next. No need for you to be rude about it after all the first picture on you profile has a statement stamped on it..... be kind????   |
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"Idiotic tbh in my humble opinion .
This site is for most kinds of fetish /most kinds of pleasures /taboos. One person's hedonism is different to the next. No need for you to be rude about it after all the first picture on you profile has a statement stamped on it..... be kind???? "
Haha just seen the ‘be kind’ comment. Be kind unless you like a foxtail butt plug the you’re an idiot. It is each to there own. I personal find furry butt plugs cute n playful whereas I’m not in to latex. Swings and roundabouts |
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over a year ago
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"Never used one.any good? "
All depends really, gives you an added bit of aesthetic to a butt plug. Gives you a sexy feeling like a really nice set of lingerie |
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Haha just seen the ‘be kind’ comment. Be kind unless you like a foxtail butt plug the you’re an idiot. It is each to there own. I personal find furry butt plugs cute n playful whereas I’m not in to latex. Swings and roundabouts "
Funny, I love the look of rubber and PVC but rubber makes me heave. Leather om the other hand...... |
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"Horrible bloody things, shame when your browsing stunning profile, then you come to a picture of one of those hanging out of her arse, not for me I’m afraid "
But you've found a thread that's 27 weeks old and commented on tail butt plugs |
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over a year ago
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"I would love one.... but when I went to buy one i was overwhelmed with how many were actually real fur 
Ewww "
I know.. I decided againt buying even a fake one, because it would add to the demand |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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"I would love one.... but when I went to buy one i was overwhelmed with how many were actually real fur
Ewww
I know.. I decided againt buying even a fake one, because it would add to the demand "
You would be super cute with a bunny tail one  mine is not real fyi |
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"I would love one.... but when I went to buy one i was overwhelmed with how many were actually real fur
Ewww
I know.. I decided againt buying even a fake one, because it would add to the demand "
Dont get me wrong I think they look hot 
But the real fur thing is a real boner kill |
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"I would love one.... but when I went to buy one i was overwhelmed with how many were actually real fur
Ewww
I know.. I decided againt buying even a fake one, because it would add to the demand "
Same with bobble hats too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a friend who is a very sexy redhead, she wears a foxtail, and fur ears headband, and she looks stunning. They look like they could really be part of her instead of an accessory. |
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over a year ago
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We have a decent collection of butt plugs, from fluffy bunny tails and jewels in all sorts of colours , but we also have a foxes tail, which does look cool too , and is very sexy |
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"We have a decent collection of butt plugs, from fluffy bunny tails and jewels in all sorts of colours , but we also have a foxes tail, which does look cool too , and is very sexy "
Ordered a jewel one today and have pink bunny one x |
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"I think I'd just laugh if a partner had one, but if you like butt plugs, doe sit matter whether it's a furry one or a sparkly one?"
Of course u cant swish a jewel one round! And u cant lift a jewel one to fuck x |
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"Totally awful and looks stupid
You forgot to put "in my opinion"
I did not really forget though did I???
Ahh, so in that case you really are just rude
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Nahhhh, he's just signed his own fan death certificate |
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Different take from a BDSM play angle, nice little game or to be worn out and about under a longish skirt of dress,
A) jeopardy of ensuring it’s got to stay in or everyone around will know
B) mental control thing of only the two of us knows what’s under your dress...
Great fun to the open minded |
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"I prefer seeing foxtails on foxes.
I'm not sure that I would feel sexy with a bit of fake fur dangling out of my arse. But each to their own. "
...And some prefer seeing fur coats on animals (as in one of your public pics)
Rather than implying an anti fur motif and with some fairly obvious contradictions its probably better to look at it as the desire to take on attributes of animals we admire.
Human history is crammed with zoomorphic behaviour (feedback if a better word known). Wearing of fur and symbols of animals as a projection and internalisation of power, fear, sexuality etc through to modern popular culture, anime, Disney: one of the most successful films of all time features giant blue creatures with tails and cat ears/eyes being operated by "humans" (Avatar anyone?)
Children adore the zoomorphic; one could almost say it is innate. Adults may consciously reject this behaviour *because* of this childhood association (or just not like butt plugs).
Do you try to get your cat to play with the ps4? No you pull a bit of string till they pounce. You think of what THEY like, how they behave, and act accordingly. For some wearing a tail and ears is the same - getting into the headspace or mindset.
It clearly polarises and is seen as an acceptable target for such disparaging comments. We are animals. Perhaps behaving like one on both sides of the discussion is hardly surprising.
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"I prefer seeing foxtails on foxes.
I'm not sure that I would feel sexy with a bit of fake fur dangling out of my arse. But each to their own.
...And some prefer seeing fur coats on animals (as in one of your public pics)
Rather than implying an anti fur motif and with some fairly obvious contradictions its probably better to look at it as the desire to take on attributes of animals we admire.
Human history is crammed with zoomorphic behaviour (feedback if a better word known). Wearing of fur and symbols of animals as a projection and internalisation of power, fear, sexuality etc through to modern popular culture, anime, Disney: one of the most successful films of all time features giant blue creatures with tails and cat ears/eyes being operated by "humans" (Avatar anyone?)
Children adore the zoomorphic; one could almost say it is innate. Adults may consciously reject this behaviour *because* of this childhood association (or just not like butt plugs).
Do you try to get your cat to play with the ps4? No you pull a bit of string till they pounce. You think of what THEY like, how they behave, and act accordingly. For some wearing a tail and ears is the same - getting into the headspace or mindset.
It clearly polarises and is seen as an acceptable target for such disparaging comments. We are animals. Perhaps behaving like one on both sides of the discussion is hardly surprising.
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Can't see anything disparaging there. She's expressed her feelings on the matter and not commented on other people  |
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I think they're a bit silly to be honest and would find it difficult not to find wearing one or anyone else wearing one funny.
But everyone to their own thing.
Sex should be a bit funny right |
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"Sad to see so many freely kink shaming. Perhaps a bit more self love than self-abuse would help...
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Think its water of a ducks back! It is to me anyways! I love my foxy tail and that's all that matters ! X |
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"I think I'd just laugh if a partner had one, but if you like butt plugs, doe sit matter whether it's a furry one or a sparkly one?
Of course u cant swish a jewel one round! And u cant lift a jewel one to fuck x
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Swishing is very important...
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"I think I'd just laugh if a partner had one, but if you like butt plugs, doe sit matter whether it's a furry one or a sparkly one?
Of course u cant swish a jewel one round! And u cant lift a jewel one to fuck x
Swishing is very important...
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Ofcourse ! x |
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"I prefer seeing foxtails on foxes.
I'm not sure that I would feel sexy with a bit of fake fur dangling out of my arse. But each to their own.
...And some prefer seeing fur coats on animals (as in one of your public pics)
Rather than implying an anti fur motif and with some fairly obvious contradictions its probably better to look at it as the desire to take on attributes of animals we admire.
Human history is crammed with zoomorphic behaviour (feedback if a better word known). Wearing of fur and symbols of animals as a projection and internalisation of power, fear, sexuality etc through to modern popular culture, anime, Disney: one of the most successful films of all time features giant blue creatures with tails and cat ears/eyes being operated by "humans" (Avatar anyone?)
Children adore the zoomorphic; one could almost say it is innate. Adults may consciously reject this behaviour *because* of this childhood association (or just not like butt plugs).
Do you try to get your cat to play with the ps4? No you pull a bit of string till they pounce. You think of what THEY like, how they behave, and act accordingly. For some wearing a tail and ears is the same - getting into the headspace or mindset.
It clearly polarises and is seen as an acceptable target for such disparaging comments. We are animals. Perhaps behaving like one on both sides of the discussion is hardly surprising.
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In no way was I being disparaging, simply expressing my opinion. These days it seems like one can't make a single comment without being pulled on it. What people like to do privately in the bedroom is entirely their business and people pretending to be a dog or any animal is their sexual preference, their choice. It just doesn't do it for me. I should be able to speak negatively of someone's kink interest without being called disparaging! P.S. My coat is fake fur. |
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"I prefer seeing foxtails on foxes.
I'm not sure that I would feel sexy with a bit of fake fur dangling out of my arse. But each to their own.
...And some prefer seeing fur coats on animals (as in one of your public pics)
Rather than implying an anti fur motif and with some fairly obvious contradictions its probably better to look at it as the desire to take on attributes of animals we admire.
Human history is crammed with zoomorphic behaviour (feedback if a better word known). Wearing of fur and symbols of animals as a projection and internalisation of power, fear, sexuality etc through to modern popular culture, anime, Disney: one of the most successful films of all time features giant blue creatures with tails and cat ears/eyes being operated by "humans" (Avatar anyone?)
Children adore the zoomorphic; one could almost say it is innate. Adults may consciously reject this behaviour *because* of this childhood association (or just not like butt plugs).
Do you try to get your cat to play with the ps4? No you pull a bit of string till they pounce. You think of what THEY like, how they behave, and act accordingly. For some wearing a tail and ears is the same - getting into the headspace or mindset.
It clearly polarises and is seen as an acceptable target for such disparaging comments. We are animals. Perhaps behaving like one on both sides of the discussion is hardly surprising.
In no way was I being disparaging, simply expressing my opinion. These days it seems like one can't make a single comment without being pulled on it. What people like to do privately in the bedroom is entirely their business and people pretending to be a dog or any animal is their sexual preference, their choice. It just doesn't do it for me. I should be able to speak negatively of someone's kink interest without being called disparaging! P.S. My coat is fake fur. "
I can assure u I dont wear my fox or bunny tail pretending to b a dog or bunny! I just love the way it feels/looks! x |
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"I prefer seeing foxtails on foxes.
I'm not sure that I would feel sexy with a bit of fake fur dangling out of my arse. But each to their own.
...And some prefer seeing fur coats on animals (as in one of your public pics)
Rather than implying an anti fur motif and with some fairly obvious contradictions its probably better to look at it as the desire to take on attributes of animals we admire.
Human history is crammed with zoomorphic behaviour (feedback if a better word known). Wearing of fur and symbols of animals as a projection and internalisation of power, fear, sexuality etc through to modern popular culture, anime, Disney: one of the most successful films of all time features giant blue creatures with tails and cat ears/eyes being operated by "humans" (Avatar anyone?)
Children adore the zoomorphic; one could almost say it is innate. Adults may consciously reject this behaviour *because* of this childhood association (or just not like butt plugs).
Do you try to get your cat to play with the ps4? No you pull a bit of string till they pounce. You think of what THEY like, how they behave, and act accordingly. For some wearing a tail and ears is the same - getting into the headspace or mindset.
It clearly polarises and is seen as an acceptable target for such disparaging comments. We are animals. Perhaps behaving like one on both sides of the discussion is hardly surprising.
In no way was I being disparaging, simply expressing my opinion. These days it seems like one can't make a single comment without being pulled on it. What people like to do privately in the bedroom is entirely their business and people pretending to be a dog or any animal is their sexual preference, their choice. It just doesn't do it for me. I should be able to speak negatively of someone's kink interest without being called disparaging! P.S. My coat is fake fur.
I can assure u I dont wear my fox or bunny tail pretending to b a dog or bunny! I just love the way it feels/looks! x"
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For those who are putting them down. That's coll that you don't like them, not everyone can like everything.
To me tho, it's no different to wearing a pair of silky stocking or something that feels good against your skin.
It's not about how it looks as much as how it feels. It's not about pretending I'm a fox or getting off on any kind of role play. It feels nice in my balloon knot and soft and strokey against my legs. Simple as that.
I'd not tell someone they looked stupid if they wore leather, or a corset or a wig or whatever the hell they felt good in or fancied at the time. I don't understand dressing as a baby and that’s cool. I'll not berate it, condemn it or judge it. If it was something that wasn't for me, it's merely something that wasn't for me.
Kink shaming is so unnecessary when it's something you simply wear.
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"For those who are putting them down. That's coll that you don't like them, not everyone can like everything.
To me tho, it's no different to wearing a pair of silky stocking or something that feels good against your skin.
It's not about how it looks as much as how it feels. It's not about pretending I'm a fox or getting off on any kind of role play. It feels nice in my balloon knot and soft and strokey against my legs. Simple as that.
I'd not tell someone they looked stupid if they wore leather, or a corset or a wig or whatever the hell they felt good in or fancied at the time. I don't understand dressing as a baby and that’s cool. I'll not berate it, condemn it or judge it. If it was something that wasn't for me, it's merely something that wasn't for me.
Kink shaming is so unnecessary when it's something you simply wear.
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Absolutely and as you've quoted in another thread "everyone is different and what works for one person doesn't work for all" . |
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"I prefer seeing foxtails on foxes.
I'm not sure that I would feel sexy with a bit of fake fur dangling out of my arse. But each to their own.
...And some prefer seeing fur coats on animals (as in one of your public pics)
Rather than implying an anti fur motif and with some fairly obvious contradictions its probably better to look at it as the desire to take on attributes of animals we admire.
Human history is crammed with zoomorphic behaviour (feedback if a better word known). Wearing of fur and symbols of animals as a projection and internalisation of power, fear, sexuality etc through to modern popular culture, anime, Disney: one of the most successful films of all time features giant blue creatures with tails and cat ears/eyes being operated by "humans" (Avatar anyone?)
Children adore the zoomorphic; one could almost say it is innate. Adults may consciously reject this behaviour *because* of this childhood association (or just not like butt plugs).
Do you try to get your cat to play with the ps4? No you pull a bit of string till they pounce. You think of what THEY like, how they behave, and act accordingly. For some wearing a tail and ears is the same - getting into the headspace or mindset.
It clearly polarises and is seen as an acceptable target for such disparaging comments. We are animals. Perhaps behaving like one on both sides of the discussion is hardly surprising.
In no way was I being disparaging, simply expressing my opinion. These days it seems like one can't make a single comment without being pulled on it. What people like to do privately in the bedroom is entirely their business and people pretending to be a dog or any animal is their sexual preference, their choice. It just doesn't do it for me. I should be able to speak negatively of someone's kink interest without being called disparaging! P.S. My coat is fake fur. "
Your comment was a lot less negative than some, and my remark about disparaging was more general on the thread. You did choose an expression (perhaps unintentionally) very similar to a well known anti-fur/PETA phrase, which in the context seemed very harsh. As regards inability to express your opinion, actually you can and did say what you wanted to, and I responded to it. Both opinions equally valid. FTR I did not respond to your opinion (yay/nay to tails) but on the way I perceived you (and others earlier more) felt it necessary to qualify opinion with ridicule, which adds nothing to the debate and just insults those with a different opinion.
People wear a lot of stuff for a lot of reasons. Zoomorphism and anthropomorphism extends and blurs everywhere. Your fake fur coat is part of it. Healthy debate on a fascinating subject. |
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"I prefer seeing foxtails on foxes.
I'm not sure that I would feel sexy with a bit of fake fur dangling out of my arse. But each to their own.
...And some prefer seeing fur coats on animals (as in one of your public pics)
Rather than implying an anti fur motif and with some fairly obvious contradictions its probably better to look at it as the desire to take on attributes of animals we admire.
Human history is crammed with zoomorphic behaviour (feedback if a better word known). Wearing of fur and symbols of animals as a projection and internalisation of power, fear, sexuality etc through to modern popular culture, anime, Disney: one of the most successful films of all time features giant blue creatures with tails and cat ears/eyes being operated by "humans" (Avatar anyone?)
Children adore the zoomorphic; one could almost say it is innate. Adults may consciously reject this behaviour *because* of this childhood association (or just not like butt plugs).
Do you try to get your cat to play with the ps4? No you pull a bit of string till they pounce. You think of what THEY like, how they behave, and act accordingly. For some wearing a tail and ears is the same - getting into the headspace or mindset.
It clearly polarises and is seen as an acceptable target for such disparaging comments. We are animals. Perhaps behaving like one on both sides of the discussion is hardly surprising.
In no way was I being disparaging, simply expressing my opinion. These days it seems like one can't make a single comment without being pulled on it. What people like to do privately in the bedroom is entirely their business and people pretending to be a dog or any animal is their sexual preference, their choice. It just doesn't do it for me. I should be able to speak negatively of someone's kink interest without being called disparaging! P.S. My coat is fake fur.
Your comment was a lot less negative than some, and my remark about disparaging was more general on the thread. You did choose an expression (perhaps unintentionally) very similar to a well known anti-fur/PETA phrase, which in the context seemed very harsh. As regards inability to express your opinion, actually you can and did say what you wanted to, and I responded to it. Both opinions equally valid. FTR I did not respond to your opinion (yay/nay to tails) but on the way I perceived you (and others earlier more) felt it necessary to qualify opinion with ridicule, which adds nothing to the debate and just insults those with a different opinion.
People wear a lot of stuff for a lot of reasons. Zoomorphism and anthropomorphism extends and blurs everywhere. Your fake fur coat is part of it. Healthy debate on a fascinating subject. "
In no way was I ridiculing anybody, I was simply responding to the Op's original question and joining in the debate and shouldn't be accused of any "ism". |
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"Marmite peanut butter is a bit strange."
Not enough marmite in it. It was a fail unless they trying to move haters over towards it.
Marmite and peanut butter been a favourite of mine since childhood. |
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"For those who are putting them down. That's coll that you don't like them, not everyone can like everything.
To me tho, it's no different to wearing a pair of silky stocking or something that feels good against your skin.
It's not about how it looks as much as how it feels. It's not about pretending I'm a fox or getting off on any kind of role play. It feels nice in my balloon knot and soft and strokey against my legs. Simple as that.
I'd not tell someone they looked stupid if they wore leather, or a corset or a wig or whatever the hell they felt good in or fancied at the time. I don't understand dressing as a baby and that’s cool. I'll not berate it, condemn it or judge it. If it was something that wasn't for me, it's merely something that wasn't for me.
Kink shaming is so unnecessary when it's something you simply wear.
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The shaming bit is simple done by someone who doesn't understand, rather admit or enquire about it and become more knowledgeable they turn to bullying to deflect their lack of understanding. It's quite a common thing by those who don't like to be seen as marginal. |
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"I just can’t help but think of how dirty and they get and would probably smell. Can you wash the fur or no?"
Just like any other toys you don't leave them out to get dirty and dusty and clean the plug bit.
I got some lube on the material bit last use, so I took it in the shower with me, gave it a shampoo and condition so it's mega fresh n clean and smells lush too. |
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"I just can’t help but think of how dirty and they get and would probably smell. Can you wash the fur or no?
Just like any other toys you don't leave them out to get dirty and dusty and clean the plug bit.
I got some lube on the material bit last use, so I took it in the shower with me, gave it a shampoo and condition so it's mega fresh n clean and smells lush too."
I just meant for bodily fluids getting in the fur.
Suppose that works |
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"I just can’t help but think of how dirty and they get and would probably smell. Can you wash the fur or no?
Just like any other toys you don't leave them out to get dirty and dusty and clean the plug bit.
I got some lube on the material bit last use, so I took it in the shower with me, gave it a shampoo and condition so it's mega fresh n clean and smells lush too.
I just meant for bodily fluids getting in the fur.
Suppose that works "
Oh, like if it got shat on?
Meh, I'd send it to my mum and sign it from my sister. |
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"Horny as fuck.
The subject comes up every couple of days lately.
It’s almost replaced the bareback threads but my views are always consistent.
Butt plug tails on ladys... big yes from me.
Sam tender
Butt plug tail fan."
Well said Sam tender.
You’re a man after my own heart. 
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"Horny as fuck.
The subject comes up every couple of days lately.
It’s almost replaced the bareback threads but my views are always consistent.
Butt plug tails on ladys... big yes from me.
Sam tender
Butt plug tail fan.
Well said Sam tender.
You’re a man after my own heart.
"
Yes, well said Sam Tender. |
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"Horny as fuck.
The subject comes up every couple of days lately.
It’s almost replaced the bareback threads but my views are always consistent.
Butt plug tails on ladys... big yes from me.
Sam tender
Butt plug tail fan.
Well said Sam tender.
You’re a man after my own heart.
Yes, well said Sam Tender."
Wow... a talking fox |
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"I just can’t help but think of how dirty and they get and would probably smell. Can you wash the fur or no?
Just like any other toys you don't leave them out to get dirty and dusty and clean the plug bit.
I got some lube on the material bit last use, so I took it in the shower with me, gave it a shampoo and condition so it's mega fresh n clean and smells lush too.
I just meant for bodily fluids getting in the fur.
Suppose that works
Oh, like if it got shat on?
Meh, I'd send it to my mum and sign it from my sister. "
Just everything, cum, sweat.. anything. I just picture it getting matted and what not.
Good for pictures though. |
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"Horny as fuck.
The subject comes up every couple of days lately.
It’s almost replaced the bareback threads but my views are always consistent.
Butt plug tails on ladys... big yes from me.
Sam tender
Butt plug tail fan.
Well said Sam tender.
You’re a man after my own heart.
Yes, well said Sam Tender.
Wow... a talking fox "
I don't have fleas and you can tickle my belly for scraps.
Winner! |
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When both parties are into this its fantastic fun, as long as is done properly and care is taken to be clean. I mean no one wants to see a piece of half digested sweetcorn in places they shouldn't be! From experience that kinda kills the moment  |
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"I prefer seeing foxtails on foxes.
I'm not sure that I would feel sexy with a bit of fake fur dangling out of my arse. But each to their own.
...And some prefer seeing fur coats on animals (as in one of your public pics)
Rather than implying an anti fur motif and with some fairly obvious contradictions its probably better to look at it as the desire to take on attributes of animals we admire.
Human history is crammed with zoomorphic behaviour (feedback if a better word known). Wearing of fur and symbols of animals as a projection and internalisation of power, fear, sexuality etc through to modern popular culture, anime, Disney: one of the most successful films of all time features giant blue creatures with tails and cat ears/eyes being operated by "humans" (Avatar anyone?)
Children adore the zoomorphic; one could almost say it is innate. Adults may consciously reject this behaviour *because* of this childhood association (or just not like butt plugs).
Do you try to get your cat to play with the ps4? No you pull a bit of string till they pounce. You think of what THEY like, how they behave, and act accordingly. For some wearing a tail and ears is the same - getting into the headspace or mindset.
It clearly polarises and is seen as an acceptable target for such disparaging comments. We are animals. Perhaps behaving like one on both sides of the discussion is hardly surprising.
In no way was I being disparaging, simply expressing my opinion. These days it seems like one can't make a single comment without being pulled on it. What people like to do privately in the bedroom is entirely their business and people pretending to be a dog or any animal is their sexual preference, their choice. It just doesn't do it for me. I should be able to speak negatively of someone's kink interest without being called disparaging! P.S. My coat is fake fur.
Your comment was a lot less negative than some, and my remark about disparaging was more general on the thread. You did choose an expression (perhaps unintentionally) very similar to a well known anti-fur/PETA phrase, which in the context seemed very harsh. As regards inability to express your opinion, actually you can and did say what you wanted to, and I responded to it. Both opinions equally valid. FTR I did not respond to your opinion (yay/nay to tails) but on the way I perceived you (and others earlier more) felt it necessary to qualify opinion with ridicule, which adds nothing to the debate and just insults those with a different opinion.
People wear a lot of stuff for a lot of reasons. Zoomorphism and anthropomorphism extends and blurs everywhere. Your fake fur coat is part of it. Healthy debate on a fascinating subject.
In no way was I ridiculing anybody, I was simply responding to the Op's original question and joining in the debate and shouldn't be accused of any "ism". "
... the two "ism" are certainly not accusations, just words used in polite circles well beyond Fab! Enough said. |
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