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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Say no to someone? I’m too soft ....
I don’t mean in terms of having sex I just mean on here 
I need some good answers as I’m struggling .... without just ignoring someone  "
I always thank them for their message, however you don't match my interests have a lovely day or something along that lines  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Sorry but I don't think we'd be compatible, good luck though.
That’s a good one .... I like that .... it’s hard though as I feel like a cruel twat "
Don't, you can't say yes to everyone. |
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What others have said and when they come back asking why etc I just ignore. There's far too many on here to justify your reasons to and it's your choice at the end of the day.
when there's a lot of thought and effort in a message, that's when I feel bad but tend to relate back to their message and reply with a bit more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fuck off loser.
Do one you ugly fuckwit.
You gotta be kidding me? Really? 
I’d rather put pins in my eyes.
Not if you were the last ....... on Earth.
Then block.
You’re welcome  |
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"Fuck off loser.
Do one you ugly fuckwit.
You gotta be kidding me? Really?
I’d rather put pins in my eyes.
Not if you were the last ....... on Earth.
Then block.
You’re welcome "
Ahhh a student of mine...well mentored. |
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1: Thank you but not for me x
2: You look lovely but not meeting men right now
3: You’re too good for me
4: Not interesting sweetheart
5: Too far away babe
6: Not interested
7: No response
This is what I normally get ... 3 was my favourite |
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Lovely you want to be nice about things. Try to be honest but the "you arent my type" line is weird- unless you have some uber fetish for one very narrow set of aesthetic preferences and only sleep with clones it makes no sense and is really annoying to receive.
"You arent what we are looking for" is fair but generic.
A lot of people just delete or block to avoid having to say "you're ugly". Truth is if you dont feel any sort of buzz from msgs or their pics then sayinh a short and quick "thanks. We are flattered but my partner wasnt attracted to your pics" is a decent way of puttjng it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not for us but thank you for messaging"
This works for us. Sometimes if it's a particularly nice first message then we add a bit more to it, such as "thank you for your compliments", or "thank you for sending a decent message which is quite rare on here". And we end with "hope you continue to enjoy Fab" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Say no to someone? I’m too soft ....
I don’t mean in terms of having sex I just mean on here
I need some good answers as I’m struggling .... without just ignoring someone "
I personally would rather not hear anything back. It communicates the message without words. Plus I wouldn't think less of anyone if they didn't respond, I would just get the picture.
You are clearly a nice person but this can be a very toxic environment and most people are used to it being that way. Ignoring a message would only be the tip of a very ugly big iceberg. And don't forget that negative attention is the only attention that some people get on here so they may be dragging you into an argument because for them it's the only entertainment they are going to get |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuck off loser.
Do one you ugly fuckwit.
You gotta be kidding me? Really?
I’d rather put pins in my eyes.
Not if you were the last ....... on Earth.
Then block.
You’re welcome Ahhh a student of mine...well mentored. "
Learned from Miss Bitch  |
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