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Men will ride anything?

By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

I've read more than one lady's profile that puts out the idea that women are super selective and only "ride" who they want to ride (I actually hate that word lol) but men will ride anyone. I find this a little silly and presumptive. Do any other guys out there think that attitude is dumb? I don't think a guy is necessarily any less selective than a woman. The problem is that the onus is on the man to initiate contact and generally the lady thinks this means he wants to shag her. Ladies, he knows nothing about who you are at that stage so please don't take a simple hello type message as any more than that.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan over a year ago

Tipperary

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Speaking for all men...

Yes. Yes they will.

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By *iquidRavenMan over a year ago

Dublin

Pete Pete Pete. C'mon man. The minute that first text is sent the guy on the other end is thinking of the boom boom room. Why else would a bloke on Fab initiate? Unless it's a private message to do with a forum topic or the like.

If its a random hi to start a convo the end goal is the no pants dance surely. I'm not having I just want to say hi for hi's sake

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By *elle xWoman over a year ago

Doire Theas

Did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride on a tractor

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan over a year ago

Tipperary

"Did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride on a tractor

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me u tractor trailer. Great experience that would be

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman over a year ago

South County Dublin

"Pete Pete Pete. C'mon man. The minute that first text is sent the guy on the other end is thinking of the boom boom room. Why else would a bloke on Fab initiate? Unless it's a private message to do with a forum topic or the like.

If its a random hi to start a convo the end goal is the no pants dance surely. I'm not having I just want to say hi for hi's sake"

Ah now, if that's your intention, g'luck

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By *atherjackhackettMan over a year ago

Tipperary

I agreed with you at first but then I thought well then who are the men sleeping with???

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By *aura200TV/TS over a year ago

Limerick

"Did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride on a tractor

Did you ever get your hole, did you ever get your hole, did you ever get your whole weeks wages

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

"Did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride on a tractor

Thanks Belle...that'll be in my head in the shower in the morning now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No we wont, we have standards too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride on a tractor

Did you ever get your hole, did you ever get your hole, did you ever get your whole weeks wages "

Did you ever get the feel, ever get the feel, ever get the feel of a fiver?

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By *ubal1Man over a year ago

Newry Down

The 'men will shag anything' generalisation is an urban myth that needs to be binned; males and females are both ranged along a continuum., or spectrum of promiscuity

Some women and men will shag anything, whilst others, at the polar opposite of the libido scale never shag anything.

The vast majority, from my experience, are reasonably selective whom they chose to 'accommodate'.

Alcohol can temporarily blur or distort decision-making, but a period of sobriety restores the equilibrium or balance.

In the past, I've been 'invited' to have sex with lots of WO.end, but on those occasions, I chose not to, princiapslly because it would have been a breach of trust; I was in committed long-term relationships, where the issue of sex with other partners had not been discussed or negotiated.

Now that issue would be broached early on in a long-term, but open relationship, together with agreement on BB sex.

Frankly, having the opportunity of sex being handed to me 'on a plate' has never appealed to me.

When I have to 'work' for something, I tend to appreciate it much more; good sex is a meeting of minds and bodies, in that order; mindless sex is quick, perfunctory, thoughtless, distasteful and unsatisfying.

Horses for courses!

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman over a year ago

South County Dublin

"Did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride on a tractor

Did you ever get your hole, did you ever get your hole, did you ever get your whole weeks wages

Did you ever get the feel, ever get the feel, ever get the feel of a fiver?"

Ah, FFS, I don't even know the song and I'm singing it in my head - get out! I'm sorry I ventured back in here now

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan over a year ago

Tipperary

I agreed with you at first but then I thought well then who are the men sleeping with???

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in general men sleep with women they're attracted 2.

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By *elle xWoman over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride on a tractor

Thanks Belle...that'll be in my head in the shower in the morning now "

Sorry BM

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By *oghunter33Woman over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

There's also the proclaimed virtuous-promiscuous, those who are 'not here to shag the whole site'. Wouldn't loose my mind over it just shows that sexual liberation hasn't arrived yet respectively openmindedness is bit limited. Or why would you feel the need to express explicity your 'betterness'?

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By *avidc2019Man over a year ago

dublin

"I've read more than one lady's profile that puts out the idea that women are super selective and only "ride" who they want to ride (I actually hate that word lol) but men will ride anyone. I find this a little silly and presumptive. Do any other guys out there think that attitude is dumb? I don't think a guy is necessarily any less selective than a woman. The problem is that the onus is on the man to initiate contact and generally the lady thinks this means he wants to shag her. Ladies, he knows nothing about who you are at that stage so please don't take a simple hello type message as any more than that."
op great tread hate that word too off course women will only choose who they want to ride!! Hate that word I’m a love making man might I also point out I’m here since 2019 and still haven’t got the ride!! You fabbers work that out,I’ve made many attempts to write good message to women mentioning stuff in there bio saying stuff I seen and liked on there profile but to be honest it’s ratio women to men far to many men!! And it’s very hard to stand out regardless of effort or how selective you are,I’m not here to sleep with lots of women!! I know lots of ppl say that but for me it’s true!! I’m looking for connection passionate kissing fun adventure etc

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman over a year ago

Dublin

What about the messages that explicitly ask you to ride them, straight off the bat, no conversation or pics exchanged whatsoever? Can we take that as an indication that they'd ride anything or is it some sort of trick?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive been called a timewaster for a simple no thanks reply " you just cant win here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well here's my opinion on my own actions here regards this topic through the points mentioned in the opening post

I do think women are selective , so are men .

I dont think men will ride " anyone " l certainly wouldnt, but l did have a long discussion on this point with a lady from fab as the story goes.." once upon a time...."..which she insisted men would which of course l had to defend the mens corner and say they wouldnt.

Yes l would agree if a lady gets any message from a guy here she thinks it means the guy is interested in fucking her, why would he write in the first place BUT if its a PM to a point made on the forum it may well be only a compliment or an agreement on what she posted, yes l have often complimented a lady on her reply or comment with NO other hidden agenda only to compliment her.

And as regards the last point , l do think men know a lot about SOME women here before they write, l say SOME because they have photos up, they say exactly what they're interested in and what they're not interested in on their profile unlike others who have pure blank profiles with no photo or any written profile only the good ol' " face pic in 1st message or instant block " ..which in turn means a " go fuck yourself " thought from me,..these type want Jam on both sides .

So to sum it up on my thoughts here ,l would'nt just " ride " anyone here simply because l look for a mental connection first and not all ladies here are my " type " as in the same way lm not the type some or a lot of ladies here look for either which also proves ladies here wont just " ride " anyone either. Its a jungle here , there are all types moving through it,have fun on your adventures exploring it.

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

"There's also the proclaimed virtuous-promiscuous, those who are 'not here to shag the whole site'. Wouldn't loose my mind over it just shows that sexual liberation hasn't arrived yet respectively openmindedness is bit limited. Or why would you feel the need to express explicity your 'betterness'?

You'll have to translate that into manspeak for me. I'm not sure if you're being nice to me there or not lol.

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

Most definitely you can as far as I am concerned but can you also take it as evidence that all man are like that? I'm not going to judge those guys. They will maybe find the right dance partner but I doubt I would make the same choice they would.

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

"Ive been called a timewaster for a simple no thanks reply " you just cant win here

No thanks? But what was the question?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride on a tractor

No but I did on a Honda 50.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

Yet another idea that belongs in the sweeping generalisation box along with "women are always right".

The word "preference" is used often enough in the forums when a man complains about not getting a reply to a message or that nobody wants to meet him.

Men have preferences too. Some prefer to ride anyone, some don't. The difference being if a man says he is selective/fussy/choosy he gets a "yeah right" response or is lumped into a new fab grouping called the "not all men brigade" as it was called in another thread recently.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

While there is some men like women that like to chat and get to know soneone before they decide on the fun factor

There is a hell of a lot that use the site as dial a ride.

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By *murphMan over a year ago

drogheda

Have met a good few people on here but need to chat make a connection first not everyone wants verification but the amount of fakes on here is huge both female and male

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By *ilthyNightsCouple over a year ago

East / North, Cork

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By *ilthyNightsCouple over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It depends on the circumstances and the reasons for wanting sex for both men and women. If someone hasn't had sex for years then they are likely to be less selective. If someone is looking for a very specific kink then they are likely to be more selective. Some men and some women need sex a lot more (and some a lot less) than others. It's hard to generalise.

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't believe most guys on here will shag just anyone. I do think quite a few send messages when they are horny and it can come across that they will .But when it comes down to meeting they actually wouldn't. I'm sure most people on here have gotten the" hi I'm horny are you "message at some point. Those messages and guys are easy to ignore.

Everyone is on here for their own reason and yes some want just sex and it doesn't matter what the other person is like as it's just sex to them. There are some women who want this also it's not just men and that's fine the site caters for them just as much as it does for people who want to get to know someone first before they meet.

But no I don't believe the majority of men will shag just anyone. Saying that they will is just the typical put down line some use on here the same as when the line every woman on here has an ego and wouldn't get a second look outside of fab is used.

Everyone should just look for whatever they want from fab and concentrate on their own journey rather than what others are doing.

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By *osmicGateMan over a year ago

louth

I ride women like they are donkeys eh aw

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By *atherjackhackettMan over a year ago

Tipperary

My brain needs to be stimulated as well as my cock so no I wouldn't ride everything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Excellent reply

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

I love riiiidin!

Just sayin' like

I'm shocked to see the word "riiiide" (spoken in a Mick the bull Daly voice) getting some hate here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some will, some won't

Some will when wearing beergoggles

Same could be said of women too

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"Some will, some won't

Some will when wearing beergoggles

Same could be said of women too"

Which women?

DM me their numbers please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some will, some won't

Some will when wearing beergoggles

Same could be said of women too

Which women?

DM me their numbers please

Me Mick

And you have my number

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By *xploreingMan over a year ago

dublin

"Some will, some won't

Some will when wearing beergoggles

Same could be said of women too"

Blood can sometimes flow from the brain to the cock through alcoholic influence..

I always remember that song.. "I never went to bed with an ugly woman - but I sure woke up with a few"

substitute men for women in the song and same applies for girls

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"Some will, some won't

Some will when wearing beergoggles

Same could be said of women too

Which women?

DM me their numbers please

Me Mick

And you have my number

Mother of God!

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By *eralt80Man over a year ago

cork

"Did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride on a tractor

Did you ever get a feel, did you ever get a feel, did you ever get a feel of a fiver

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some will, some won't

Some will when wearing beergoggles

Same could be said of women too

Which women?

DM me their numbers please

Me Mick

And you have my number

Mother of God!

Noooo that's not me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Obie Trice real name no gimmicks

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"Some will, some won't

Some will when wearing beergoggles

Same could be said of women too

Which women?

DM me their numbers please

Me Mick

And you have my number

Mother of God!

Noooo that's not me

*searches phone frantically, looking for mysterious number

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By *entleman PoliteMan over a year ago

Mars

I agree, I saw a lad on a pink electric bike.

They ride anything indeed.

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By *iquidRavenMan over a year ago

Dublin

In fairness to OP's og point and as many have said men in general are probably less selective than the women on Fab and life but usually only to an extent

Like someone said its a spectrum. I just imagine there is more dudes on the shag anyone end than there is women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Very well said. After my separation, the last thing I wanted to do was hook up and now I am back open for business I am more selective than I ever thought I would be. I don't even get affected by the knock backs or them attitudes you speak of. Its very much each to their own.

I've just come on the forums and had a laugh with no expectations and the couple of women I have got talking to are class.

Easy peasy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely agree. I'd get up on a low flying crow

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By *oserMan over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"Some will, some won't

Some will when wearing beergoggles

Same could be said of women too

Which women?

DM me their numbers please

Me Mick

And you have my number

Mother of God!

Noooo that's not me

*searches phone frantically, looking for mysterious number

You better find that number Mick

And share it with me

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By *ilverfox74Man over a year ago

dublin offaly

It goes for both sexes. Some men will some ladies will.

Some girls will

Some girls won’t

Some girls need a lot of lovin

And Some girls don’t

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan over a year ago

Tipperary

do I think alot more men then women are on here purely for sex? absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

^^^^^^^ This Exactly. When I first joined & had zero photos on my profile, no veris etc... The amount of mail I was receiving was unreal...a little fked up tbh. My profile was totally blank & some lads were asking `wanna fk now`

Very Strange.

Also a guy told me yesterday he would fk anything he's that horny. Very True, & he was serious

Another Straight Guy told me he was that horny he fked a guy. My reply to that was... So you're obviously Bi... He was adamant that no he wasn't Bi, He's straight...

To all Men, Please do not misinterpret what I am saying here... I am not saying All Men are like this (as in they would fk anything)...But there are the few.

I'm well aware alot of men are very select on who they also.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Very Strange.

Also a guy told me yesterday he would fk anything he's that horny. Very True, & he was serious

Another Straight Guy told me he was that horny he fked a guy. My reply to that was... So you're obviously Bi... He was adamant that no he wasn't Bi, He's straight...

To all Men, Please do not misinterpret what I am saying here... I am not saying All Men are like this (as in they would fk anything)...But there are the few.

I'm well aware alot of men are very select on who they also.

*Select on who they meet.

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By *hyeyesMan over a year ago

meath

I'd ride anything I get my hands on ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd ride anything I get my hands on ??"

^^^^^^^ There's the spoof...I mean proof

Another guy who`d apparently "ride anything"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

#notallmen

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman over a year ago

Dublin

No but I don't think all men are like that. Nor do I think that women are presuming any man who says hello would definitely 100% ride them. Your premise that the idea comes from simple hello messages is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shur look it

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By *hyeyesMan over a year ago

meath

And it's worse when I have drink on me !

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By *oghunter33Woman over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

You'll have to translate that into manspeak for me. I'm not sure if you're being nice to me there or not lol. "

What I'm saying is I've no doubt that men can be as selective and picky as women. But why do we even have to defend the scale of our promiscuity in the first place? Why can we not just live out our sexual life without being put on a scale of sluttyness? Does it really matter how generously we enjoy sex with different partners or not? It all goes back to the ingrained belief of promiscuity is shameful, scandalous, evil etc.

Besides that the statement that the statement 'men would ride anything' is a double judgement not only on men but also on women, it implies that there's women that are no good or lesser for whatever reason.

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

You'll have to translate that into manspeak for me. I'm not sure if you're being nice to me there or not lol.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"I'd ride anything I get my hands on ??"

I can keep my hands off if it increases the chances of a riiiide!

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By *ed_AliceWoman over a year ago

Belfast

" No but I don't think all men are like that. Nor do I think that women are presuming any man who says hello would definitely 100% ride them. Your premise that the idea comes from simple hello messages is wrong. "

Exactly, the hi, how are you messages aren't what give people the impression you mention. It's the "DTF", "I'm horny & nearby", "I'll be in *your location* tonight, fancy a fuck?", "Would you peg me?", first messages that perpetuate the stereotype. (All examples from my inbox yesterday)

Having said that I'm fairly confident that most guys playing the numbers game with copy paste spam - whether it's explicit or more polite, will filter if they get a response.

I think it seems that guys are less selective because many will send out large volumes of first messages & will filter after, whereas I think women apply more filters prior to sending a first message (or responding to one)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if men will ride anything, why do so many refuse to ride me?

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman over a year ago

Dublin

Having said that I'm fairly confident that most guys playing the numbers game with copy paste spam - whether it's explicit or more polite, will filter if they get a response.

Exactly this. I agree with another earlier poster as well that even those messages aren't a guarantee (because a lot of people are all talk and won't end up meeting)... But to say that women get the impression that men aren't selective because they have said hello is just false. We get that impression because men give that impression explicitly in their messages.

Once again, women being blamed for their experience rather than men being blamed for their behaviour.

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By *hyeyesMan over a year ago

meath

Go forth and multiply - sure it's in the bible !

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

"While there is some men like women that like to chat and get to know soneone before they decide on the fun factor

There is a hell of a lot that use the site as dial a ride."

Exactly my point. It just seems that so many ladies on here tar all men with the same brush. We aren't all that way.

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

Very Strange.

Also a guy told me yesterday he would fk anything he's that horny. Very True, & he was serious

Another Straight Guy told me he was that horny he fked a guy. My reply to that was... So you're obviously Bi... He was adamant that no he wasn't Bi, He's straight...

To all Men, Please do not misinterpret what I am saying here... I am not saying All Men are like this (as in they would fk anything)...But there are the few.

I'm well aware alot of men are very select on who they also.

Thank you for understanding what I'm trying to say here

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

Having said that I'm fairly confident that most guys playing the numbers game with copy paste spam - whether it's explicit or more polite, will filter if they get a response.

Once again, women being blamed for their experience rather than men being blamed for their behaviour. "

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

Having said that I'm fairly confident that most guys playing the numbers game with copy paste spam - whether it's explicit or more polite, will filter if they get a response.

Once again, women being blamed for their experience rather than men being blamed for their behaviour. "

Well I sent you a very polite, respectful message a while back just basically saying hi, not asking for anything in particular. Did you assume I wanted to shag you? Do you assume every man who messages you wants to do the naked tango with you immediately? Of course if a man messages you, he has seen something he likes in your profile. If your lucky, he has read something too. The initial contact is just nod across the bar type thing to many men though. He could just be saying I'm here and I'd be honoured if you'd take the time to talk with me to see if you might like me.

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By *ensualandslow321Man over a year ago

Tullamore

Just wondering how men would react if the shoe was on the other foot and they were getting 2/300 messages a day from women. Wonder if they'd raise their expectations and shorten their attention span with all those messages. Betcha we would !!

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By *angtasticallyMan over a year ago

Drogheda

Ride it like you stole it

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"Just wondering how men would react if the shoe was on the other foot and they were getting 2/300 messages a day from women. Wonder if they'd raise their expectations and shorten their attention span with all those messages. Betcha we would !! "

I think the most noticeable thing would be a quadrupling of Pfizer's profits!

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By *ensualandslow321Man over a year ago

Tullamore

I think the most noticeable thing would be a quadrupling of Pfizer's profits!

Very true

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By *entleman PoliteMan over a year ago

Mars

Going for a ride now... she smells a little, hard knees, strong shoulders, hips and crest. When I spank her on the croup she goes faster.

I can ride on her back for hours... lol.

Love Horse riding... lol

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman over a year ago

Dublin

Having said that I'm fairly confident that most guys playing the numbers game with copy paste spam - whether it's explicit or more polite, will filter if they get a response.

Once again, women being blamed for their experience rather than men being blamed for their behaviour.

No I didn't.

Just as an FYI... it's 2pm. I have my filters at MAX MAX MAX capacity - no newbies, nobody without pics, site supporters only etc etc - and I have received, so far today, five first messages (ie have never messaged me before) asking directly if I want to meet. Without any other conversation or seeing a pic or anything. I've been up since 10am so that's one per hour. We're not presuming anything or making shit up. We're reading the messages in our inboxes with our eyeballs.

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By *ed_AliceWoman over a year ago

Belfast

" Well I sent you a very polite, respectful message a while back just basically saying hi, not asking for anything in particular. Did you assume I wanted to shag you? Do you assume every man who messages you wants to do the naked tango with you immediately? Of course if a man messages you, he has seen something he likes in your profile. If your lucky, he has read something too. The initial contact is just nod across the bar type thing to many men though. He could just be saying I'm here and I'd be honoured if you'd take the time to talk with me to see if you might like me. "

Women in this thread (including the poster you were responding to) have explicitly said:

- Not all men

- It's not the polite hello messages that give the impression you speak of

- some women are just as unselective as some men

If you think that women who explicitly state their preferences, boundaries & limits on their profiles are "dumb", "silly" & "presumptuous", maybe you should avoid them. Exercise YOUR preferences, boundaries & limits.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Speaking for all men...

Yes. Yes they will."

You certainly are not speaking for all men so absolutely not.when it comes to being fussy I'm as picky as most of the lady's here are with men.

I could put down on our profile my likes and dislikes like some lady's do but I think thats a little unfair .

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By *atherjackhackettMan over a year ago

Tipperary

No true. No way will you get me on a rollercoaster. Not for love or money.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

The problem with all of this is that people generalise too much. All men are this and all women are that. Humans don't fit into such general categorisations easily.

Not all men are the same.

Not all women are the same.

Having said all that, I still believe, and this is coming from someone who is reasonably selective, that men in general are less selective than women in general.

That may just be nature. Mostly in nature males go out with their seed and lash it into whomsoever will accept it. Females on the other hand, will select the male they think is best suited for prolonging the species.

Personally I'm quite selective about who I talk to and who I'd meet/ride. God I love the word "ride". I do know though that I'd still ride someone that I wouldn't be prepared to sit and have a coffee with. I'm putting that down to biology but maybe it's just me?

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By *rmrs1234Couple over a year ago

Waterford

"The problem with all of this is that people generalise too much. All men are this and all women are that. Humans don't fit into such general categorisations easily.

Not all men are the same.

Not all women are the same.

Having said all that, I still believe, and this is coming from someone who is reasonably selective, that men in general are less selective than women in general.

Mickey loves the ride

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride, did ya ever get a ride on a tractor

Did you ever get your hole, did you ever get your hole, did ever get your whole weeks wages

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"The problem with all of this is that people generalise too much. All men are this and all women are that. Humans don't fit into such general categorisations easily.

Not all men are the same.

Not all women are the same.

Having said all that, I still believe, and this is coming from someone who is reasonably selective, that men in general are less selective than women in general.

Mickey loves the ride

Jaysus, I loves riiiidin!

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman over a year ago

South County Dublin

Having said that I'm fairly confident that most guys playing the numbers game with copy paste spam - whether it's explicit or more polite, will filter if they get a response.

With regards to your last paragraph - I'm sure there are those men who send out volumes of first messages, just like I'm sure there are those men who are selective in the profiles they approach. I know that there can be a gem behind the blandest, most anonymous profile, I'm sure this applies for both women and men.

I do also often wonder how this site would work if the ratio of m:f was reversed? Those women who are more discerning now, with the ratio in their favour, in the profiles they choose to connect/speak with, would they "lower" those standards, for want of a better word, in order to take a chance on a profile, one they wouldn't take a chance on under current circumstances? Would they be more inclined to be the first to message and go on the hunt to be pro-active?

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By *oserMan over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Having said that I'm fairly confident that most guys playing the numbers game with copy paste spam - whether it's explicit or more polite, will filter if they get a response.

I believe they would on all counts

Without offending anyone the ratio balance has allowed a "higher" standard of guy to be the norm for the ladies of fab.

I don't have an issue with this its simply down to supply and demand.

Equally the same would occur if the roles were reversed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The problem with all of this is that people generalise too much. All men are this and all women are that. Humans don't fit into such general categorisations easily.

Not all men are the same.

Not all women are the same.

Having said all that, I still believe, and this is coming from someone who is reasonably selective, that men in general are less selective than women in general.

Well said Mick (the answer is still no)

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't actually think it would make a lot of difference to me.Yes it would be harder to get meets if I was looking for them but I don't think what I am looking for would change or I'd 'lower' my standards .I don't see any point in doing that because you would always feel like you had and that wouldn't be fair on the other person involved.

I have made first contact on here a few times and it doesn't bother me to do so. What's the worst that can happen I get ignored,blocked or told no .It's not the end of the world. It has made me realise tho how hard it can be to write a first message as well .

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"The problem with all of this is that people generalise too much. All men are this and all women are that. Humans don't fit into such general categorisations easily.

Not all men are the same.

Not all women are the same.

Having said all that, I still believe, and this is coming from someone who is reasonably selective, that men in general are less selective than women in general.

Well said Mick (the answer is still no)"

Ah heeeere... Just bend over, will ya ffs!

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By *ed_AliceWoman over a year ago

Belfast

" With regards to your last paragraph - I'm sure there are those men who send out volumes of first messages, just like I'm sure there are those men who are selective in the profiles they approach. I know that there can be a gem behind the blandest, most anonymous profile, I'm sure this applies for both women and men.

I did say many, not all

And I agree with you that some bland profiles hide absolute diamonds

I suspect you'd be right if the ratio was reversed, in that more women might be more pro-active & initiate contact with people that interest them. I think it's what women should be doing anyway. I know I actively look & message first, but only when my interest is piqued & I think there might be compatibility. Sometimes I message just to follow up a forum discussion or let them know I found something funny/interesting on their profile with no interest in anything more.

Would I lower my standards if the ratio was reversed? The bar is pretty fucking low as it is, so I don't know that I would.

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By *affa31Woman over a year ago

Galway

Having said that I'm fairly confident that most guys playing the numbers game with copy paste spam - whether it's explicit or more polite, will filter if they get a response.

I don’t think that would be the case unless you number one concern was your meets appearance. If your criteria for meeting someone is based around clicking with their personality then it doesn’t matter if the ratio is 1:1, 20:1 or 2000:1

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By *ardyboy54321Man over a year ago

Fermanagh

I'd get up on a cracked plate but I do like a bit of a pattern

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By *rmrs1234Couple over a year ago

Waterford

"I'd get up on a cracked plate but I do like a bit of a pattern

Im still waiting

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By *oserMan over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Having said that I'm fairly confident that most guys playing the numbers game with copy paste spam - whether it's explicit or more polite, will filter if they get a response.

But Jaffa, appearance seems to be absolutely no1 based on bio demands and stated preferences.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

"I'd get up on a cracked plate but I do like a bit of a pattern

"
haha that made me laugh

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By *ameswXXXMan over a year ago

Killarney

Am no they won't I won't and any of my male friends won't I have to chat and get to know a woman first and I only like curvey women or bbw or chubby so don't paint all men with the same brush thanks

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By *3nsesMan over a year ago

Dublin

Generally speaking men don't have to worry about their personal safety when meeting a stranger or someone who they don't really know very well. This allows us to focus on getting the ride and prioristising and focusing on that.

For me that is the biggest difference between how the two sexes approach trying to get the ride.

If there was more of a fear element for men from meeting a strangers they'd probably come across as being far more "picky" as well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So...I'm horny, who wants to ride me?

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By *eralt80Man over a year ago

cork

"So...I'm horny, who wants to ride me?"

Meeeeeeeeee!!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"So...I'm horny, who wants to ride me?"

Me, me, me!

Mind you, that depends on which of you it is. Still, I'd nearly ride Lee just to get close to herself!

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By *indenMan over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

As many others have said, it’s not every man, and I’m no oil painting but I certainly wouldn’t have sex with just anyone, just for the sake of having sex, for me there has to be an attraction or connection which can be either physical or otherwise, and rarely will I sleep with someone if only one of those are present, I’m not short of offers but here has to be something emotion for me too.

But some men will ride anyone, and some women will too, and that’s fine if that’s what they want, but I think the unfortunate part is that many of those who think like that think everyone else thinks, or should think that way also.

And that creates another problem for the genuine guys who don’t think that way because the ladies of Fab get so many messages for those who think like that, and express it at times in such a crude manner that they often, due to the volume, or just getting sick of the same stuff find it difficult to put up with it or pick out the genuine guys who ending up not getting replies to polite friendly messages.

I think this puts people off sending the first message and others from replying or even reading messages.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So...I'm horny, who wants to ride me?

Me, me, me!

Mind you, that depends on which of you it is. Still, I'd nearly ride Lee just to get close to herself!

You're on to me Mick! I'll pass on the offer, thanks.

I guess the comment was a bit too forward... maybe too obvious.

Lee

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman over a year ago

South County Dublin

I did say many, not all

And I agree with you that some bland profiles hide absolute diamonds

Would I lower my standards if the ratio was reversed? The bar is pretty fucking low as it is, so I don't know that I would. "

I didn't mean to imply that you said all. I meant to confirm that there are both types

I personally have also been proactive. I'm perfectly happy sending out an introductory message to a profile to find out if there's potential behind it. Got a couple of great socials and meets out of it too

. I do however believe that I personally might put in more work and might approach profiles which don't give away as much if the ratio was reversed. Not because I'm desperate but because I'd be trying to up the chances of success in finding a compatible social/meet.

Would I lower my standards? I'm attracted who I'm attracted to. I still won't have sex with someone who doesn't do it for me - but the initial "courting" on this platform would look different, that's for sure!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

First off sorry I know I’m not from Ireland but saw this post and had to comment . I’ve probably slept with 10 women and 2 guys my whole life .Attraction is the most important thing ,hence pls put face pic in your message . Nice to see guys sticking up for ourselves .Oh and I love Irish women those eyes

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By *affa31Woman over a year ago

Galway

Having said that I'm fairly confident that most guys playing the numbers game with copy paste spam - whether it's explicit or more polite, will filter if they get a response.

But Jaffa, appearance seems to be absolutely no1 based on bio demands and stated preferences.

Maybe for some people but definitely not for me or a lot of people I know. Obviously there needs to be some sort of attraction but personality is key for me anyway.

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By *xplicitMan over a year ago

donegal

Ok, just so we are clear, if the ladies say hello to me I’ll ride them

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

Having said that I'm fairly confident that most guys playing the numbers game with copy paste spam - whether it's explicit or more polite, will filter if they get a response.

Once again, women being blamed for their experience rather than men being blamed for their behaviour.

No I didn't.

It wasn't today. It was a while back. Its irrelevant to this thread anyway I guess but I did.

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

Women in this thread (including the poster you were responding to) have explicitly said:

- Not all men

- It's not the polite hello messages that give the impression you speak of

- some women are just as unselective as some men

I never said or thought that anyone was dumb or silly. Its how they make generalisations that I'm talking about. If anything I've said has caused you offense then read it again and try to give the benefit if the doubt.

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

"Speaking for all men...

Yes. Yes they will.

You certainly are not speaking for all men so absolutely not.when it comes to being fussy I'm as picky as most of the lady's here are with men.

I could put down on our profile my likes and dislikes like some lady's do but I think thats a little unfair . "

BRAVO!

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

"I'd get up on a cracked plate but I do like a bit of a pattern

Im still waiting

Maybe your plate has the wrong type of crack for him, lol

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By *exy mexxxCouple over a year ago

belfast

[Removed by poster at 06/07/21 18:27:15]

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By *ustin-SiderMan over a year ago

Belfast

Did you ever get a ride in a tractor........ ALLLLL flipping day that tune was going through my head. Not good.

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By *atherjackhackettMan over a year ago

Tipperary

Did you ever get it up

Did you ever get it upside down

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman over a year ago

South County Dublin

"I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

Just send loads of copy and paste messages to all the women, men and couples you can muster with "fancy a riiiide?" Someone's bound to get back to you

Report back here, please

(No, you're not part of a social experiment. Partake at your own risk

)

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By *phrodite72Woman over a year ago

dublin/galway

"I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

Over a year on here isnt really new to the place

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

I think most young men would

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By *ustin-SiderMan over a year ago

Belfast

"I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

Just send loads of copy and paste messages to all the women, men and couples you can muster with "fancy a riiiide?" Someone's bound to get back to you

Report back here, please

(No, you're not part of a social experiment. Partake at your own risk

To forgot to mention he should attach cock pics from countless different angles, to the copy and paste messages.

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

"I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

Over a year on here isnt really new to the place "

Well spotted!

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman over a year ago

South County Dublin

"I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

Just send loads of copy and paste messages to all the women, men and couples you can muster with "fancy a riiiide?" Someone's bound to get back to you

Report back here, please

(No, you're not part of a social experiment. Partake at your own risk

)

To forgot to mention he should attach cock pics from countless different angles, to the copy and paste messages."

Ah flip!!! I really did - and I'm sure there's loads still missing those extra to finish wallpapering a room or two

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By *mmmm300Woman over a year ago

cork

I think ride is a great word.

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By *xplicitMan over a year ago

donegal

"I think ride is a great word. "

Here here, after some of the comments I might start the RPS..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't believe most guys on here will shag just anyone. I do think quite a few send messages when they are horny and it can come across that they will .But when it comes down to meeting they actually wouldn't. I'm sure most people on here have gotten the" hi I'm horny are you "message at some point. Those messages and guys are easy to ignore.

Everyone should just look for whatever they want from fab and concentrate on their own journey rather than what others are doing. "

Absolutely Bo.. completely agree.. especially with the last bit their own journey should be the priority..

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By *ed_AliceWoman over a year ago

Belfast

" I never said or thought that anyone was dumb or silly. Its how they make generalisations that I'm talking about. If anything I've said has caused you offense then read it again and try to give the benefit if the doubt."

No offence taken here. I'll admit that you said the attitude was dumb & silly in your OP, not the people, & asked if other men agreed with you. A lot of people are providing context for why some women might make those statements.

To paraphrase another poster- everyone has their own way of using this site & their own expectations. Curate your experience to maximise your enjoyment through your own behaviour because you can't control anyone else's actions on here.

If you don't like the attitudes of some women then pass them by. They likely won't be compatible with you.

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By *ed_AliceWoman over a year ago

Belfast

"I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

Just send loads of copy and paste messages to all the women, men and couples you can muster with "fancy a riiiide?" Someone's bound to get back to you

Report back here, please

(No, you're not part of a social experiment. Partake at your own risk

)

To forgot to mention he should attach cock pics from countless different angles, to the copy and paste messages.

Ah flip!!! I really did - and I'm sure there's loads still missing those extra to finish wallpapering a room or two

I got some spare if you need to finish a room off - do you want dirty clothes on the floor or urinals in the background?

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman over a year ago

South County Dublin

"I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

Just send loads of copy and paste messages to all the women, men and couples you can muster with "fancy a riiiide?" Someone's bound to get back to you

Report back here, please

(No, you're not part of a social experiment. Partake at your own risk

)

To forgot to mention he should attach cock pics from countless different angles, to the copy and paste messages.

Ah flip!!! I really did - and I'm sure there's loads still missing those extra to finish wallpapering a room or two

I got some spare if you need to finish a room off - do you want dirty clothes on the floor or urinals in the background?"

Oh, maybe we can do swapsies

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

Just send loads of copy and paste messages to all the women, men and couples you can muster with "fancy a riiiide?" Someone's bound to get back to you

Report back here, please

(No, you're not part of a social experiment. Partake at your own risk

)

To forgot to mention he should attach cock pics from countless different angles, to the copy and paste messages.

Ah flip!!! I really did - and I'm sure there's loads still missing those extra to finish wallpapering a room or two

I got some spare if you need to finish a room off - do you want dirty clothes on the floor or urinals in the background?

Oh, maybe we can do swapsies

Well I for one would never appreciate a lady sending me a cock pic!

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman over a year ago

South County Dublin

"I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

Just send loads of copy and paste messages to all the women, men and couples you can muster with "fancy a riiiide?" Someone's bound to get back to you

Report back here, please

(No, you're not part of a social experiment. Partake at your own risk

)

To forgot to mention he should attach cock pics from countless different angles, to the copy and paste messages.

Ah flip!!! I really did - and I'm sure there's loads still missing those extra to finish wallpapering a room or two

I got some spare if you need to finish a room off - do you want dirty clothes on the floor or urinals in the background?

Oh, maybe we can do swapsies

Well I for one would never appreciate a lady sending me a cock pic!

Would a sheep do instead

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By *ed_AliceWoman over a year ago

Belfast

"I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

Just send loads of copy and paste messages to all the women, men and couples you can muster with "fancy a riiiide?" Someone's bound to get back to you

Report back here, please

(No, you're not part of a social experiment. Partake at your own risk

)

To forgot to mention he should attach cock pics from countless different angles, to the copy and paste messages.

Ah flip!!! I really did - and I'm sure there's loads still missing those extra to finish wallpapering a room or two

I got some spare if you need to finish a room off - do you want dirty clothes on the floor or urinals in the background?

Oh, maybe we can do swapsies

Well I for one would never appreciate a lady sending me a cock pic!

Oddly, the guys who send them unsolicited really don't appreciate them reciprocated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

Just send loads of copy and paste messages to all the women, men and couples you can muster with "fancy a riiiide?" Someone's bound to get back to you

Report back here, please

(No, you're not part of a social experiment. Partake at your own risk

)

To forgot to mention he should attach cock pics from countless different angles, to the copy and paste messages.

Ah flip!!! I really did - and I'm sure there's loads still missing those extra to finish wallpapering a room or two

I got some spare if you need to finish a room off - do you want dirty clothes on the floor or urinals in the background?

Oh, maybe we can do swapsies

Well I for one would never appreciate a lady sending me a cock pic!

don't tempt me Michael

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

Just send loads of copy and paste messages to all the women, men and couples you can muster with "fancy a riiiide?" Someone's bound to get back to you

Report back here, please

(No, you're not part of a social experiment. Partake at your own risk

)

To forgot to mention he should attach cock pics from countless different angles, to the copy and paste messages.

Ah flip!!! I really did - and I'm sure there's loads still missing those extra to finish wallpapering a room or two

I got some spare if you need to finish a room off - do you want dirty clothes on the floor or urinals in the background?

Oh, maybe we can do swapsies

Well I for one would never appreciate a lady sending me a cock pic!

don't tempt me Michael"

Surley Michael's goal in life is to tempt you,

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

"I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

Just send loads of copy and paste messages to all the women, men and couples you can muster with "fancy a riiiide?" Someone's bound to get back to you

Report back here, please

(No, you're not part of a social experiment. Partake at your own risk

)

To forgot to mention he should attach cock pics from countless different angles, to the copy and paste messages.

Ah flip!!! I really did - and I'm sure there's loads still missing those extra to finish wallpapering a room or two

I got some spare if you need to finish a room off - do you want dirty clothes on the floor or urinals in the background?

Oh, maybe we can do swapsies

Well I for one would never appreciate a lady sending me a cock pic!

Would a sheep do instead

Not a problem

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

Just send loads of copy and paste messages to all the women, men and couples you can muster with "fancy a riiiide?" Someone's bound to get back to you

Report back here, please

(No, you're not part of a social experiment. Partake at your own risk

)

To forgot to mention he should attach cock pics from countless different angles, to the copy and paste messages.

Ah flip!!! I really did - and I'm sure there's loads still missing those extra to finish wallpapering a room or two

I got some spare if you need to finish a room off - do you want dirty clothes on the floor or urinals in the background?

Oh, maybe we can do swapsies

Well I for one would never appreciate a lady sending me a cock pic!

don't tempt me Michael"

I'd be more forgiving if I was sure it wasn't your own cock at least

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

Just send loads of copy and paste messages to all the women, men and couples you can muster with "fancy a riiiide?" Someone's bound to get back to you

Report back here, please

(No, you're not part of a social experiment. Partake at your own risk

)

To forgot to mention he should attach cock pics from countless different angles, to the copy and paste messages.

Ah flip!!! I really did - and I'm sure there's loads still missing those extra to finish wallpapering a room or two

I got some spare if you need to finish a room off - do you want dirty clothes on the floor or urinals in the background?

Oh, maybe we can do swapsies

Well I for one would never appreciate a lady sending me a cock pic!

Would a sheep do instead

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

Just send loads of copy and paste messages to all the women, men and couples you can muster with "fancy a riiiide?" Someone's bound to get back to you

Report back here, please

(No, you're not part of a social experiment. Partake at your own risk

)

To forgot to mention he should attach cock pics from countless different angles, to the copy and paste messages.

Ah flip!!! I really did - and I'm sure there's loads still missing those extra to finish wallpapering a room or two

I got some spare if you need to finish a room off - do you want dirty clothes on the floor or urinals in the background?

Oh, maybe we can do swapsies

Well I for one would never appreciate a lady sending me a cock pic!

Oddly, the guys who send them unsolicited really don't appreciate them reciprocated

In one way I don't mind. The benefit from it is that at least you then know the women who have cocks.

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By *angero3aMan over a year ago

swords

want to try a shag more married woman if any on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't agree. I wouldn't just ride anyone. There has to be attraction and most of all a sense of humour for me.

For all these guys that just go out to ride a woman mean there is a willing female participant which means the same could apply to woman but I wouldn't tar all woman with the same brush and neither should women tar all men with the same brush.

Each too their own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone should just look for whatever they want from fab and concentrate on their own journey rather than what others are doing. "

Well said _ustbo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well Ladies, I guess I'm the only one.

I will ride just about anything, so please take a ticket and I'll get to you as soon as I can

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By *ogladyWoman over a year ago

The bog

"Well Ladies, I guess I'm the only one.

I will ride just about anything, so please take a ticket and I'll get to you as soon as I can

Ah I'm off at the back of the line dammit..

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By *ustin-SiderMan over a year ago

Belfast

"I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

Just send loads of copy and paste messages to all the women, men and couples you can muster with "fancy a riiiide?" Someone's bound to get back to you

Report back here, please

(No, you're not part of a social experiment. Partake at your own risk

)

To forgot to mention he should attach cock pics from countless different angles, to the copy and paste messages.

Ah flip!!! I really did - and I'm sure there's loads still missing those extra to finish wallpapering a room or two

I got some spare if you need to finish a room off - do you want dirty clothes on the floor or urinals in the background?

Oh, maybe we can do swapsies

Well I for one would never appreciate a lady sending me a cock pic!

Oddly, the guys who send them unsolicited really don't appreciate them reciprocated

Have done this several times from couple profile in response to unsolicited pics. When they ask me why I'm sending a cock pic my response is "Well you sent me one of yours so I thought I would send one of mine".

Then they say they are not gay and I tell them neither am I.

The conversations usually don't end so well. *Shrugs*

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By *ustin-SiderMan over a year ago

Belfast

"want to try a shag more married woman if any on here

Thanks for the input to the thread banger. That was very insightful. I'm sure the married ladies will be lining up at your door now, with their panties around their ankles

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By *onesome swingerMan over a year ago

Belfast

Everyone should just look for whatever they want from fab and concentrate on their own journey rather than what others are doing.

Well said _ustbo"

I agree with everything you said Don. I will not shag any woman given the opportunity. It's not a case of having standards, I have preferences, just the same as the majority of women on fab do. It comes down to personal choice as I know that I am not every females cup of tea and I respect that. At the same time not every female on fab is what I'm looking for. The men who would shag any woman for the sake of a quickie shouldn't tar every woman on fab with the same brush and the same applies to the ladies too.

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

"Well Ladies, I guess I'm the only one.

I will ride just about anything, so please take a ticket and I'll get to you as soon as I can

Ah I'm off at the back of the line dammit.."

I can't imagine anyone not having you in their preferences lol

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By *upermanslovechildMan over a year ago

Glasnevin

If its a random hi to start a convo the end goal is the no pants dance surely. I'm not having I just want to say hi for hi's sake"

Well that's not wholeheartedly true now is it? That have been people of conversations started without the intent to get your bit at the end of it, I've talked to two different couples before purely based on their chosen names as a reference to a game series and other people for different matters, so to say every message/conversation initiated by men means they thinking about fucking at the end of it, is bullshit

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By *bsolute gentMan over a year ago

county Cork

"Speaking for all men...

Yes. Yes they will."

No. No they wont.

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By *oxie2021Man over a year ago

Dublin

Well, I’m a man. I am also on Fab. And I am here for my very own reasons. Would I shag/ride absolutely any woman? Not a bloody chance! I never have and I never will!!! There are plenty of men just like me on here, I have no doubt of that whatsoever. Equally, I would concede that there are plenty of men on here who fall into that category of ‘anything with a pulse’. Off the top of my head? Any man who sends a message to a blank profile which has no text or no photos on it… now there’s a generalisation about men from a man. But to say we should all be dumped into that demographic just because we happen to have a cock??? That’s like saying all women are bad drivers, or that no man will ever ask for directions… okay, I’ll give you that last one in fairness?! Those guys are the same guys who would probably ride/shag me too if I threw on a dress… and I don’t mind admitting that I am one ugly woman… god it feels so liberating to admit it! So the next time someone sends you a message that screams ‘“I’ve got my entire sexual education from watching porn”, please don’t generalise us? Just hit the block button, smile, wave, and move on to the next fucking idiot. And that is me recognising that it can be tough and exhausting for genuine women on here as a result of some men’s actions. We (and I speak for my people) are all not the same!

Apart from the directions thing! Two words… Google Maps!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well, I’m a man. I am also on Fab. And I am here for my very own reasons. Would I shag/ride absolutely any woman? Not a bloody chance! I never have and I never will!!! There are plenty of men just like me on here, I have no doubt of that whatsoever. Equally, I would concede that there are plenty of men on here who fall into that category of ‘anything with a pulse’. Off the top of my head? Any man who sends a message to a blank profile which has no text or no photos on it… now there’s a generalisation about men from a man. But to say we should all be dumped into that demographic just because we happen to have a cock??? That’s like saying all women are bad drivers, or that no man will ever ask for directions… okay, I’ll give you that last one in fairness?! Those guys are the same guys who would probably ride/shag me too if I threw on a dress… and I don’t mind admitting that I am one ugly woman… god it feels so liberating to admit it! So the next time someone sends you a message that screams ‘“I’ve got my entire sexual education from watching porn”, please don’t generalise us? Just hit the block button, smile, wave, and move on to the next fucking idiot. And that is me recognising that it can be tough and exhausting for genuine women on here as a result of some men’s actions. We (and I speak for my people) are all not the same!

Apart from the directions thing! Two words… Google Maps!!!

Great. Now I have a vision of you in a dress stuck in my head

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's probably more disturbing is the reference to other human beings as "anything"

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By *oxie2021Man over a year ago

Dublin

Apart from the directions thing! Two words… Google Maps!!!

Great. Now I have a vision of you in a dress stuck in my head

I’m thinking something flattering????

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Apart from the directions thing! Two words… Google Maps!!!

Well said .

P.s google maps can send you up the wrong path too sometimes

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

"What's probably more disturbing is the reference to other human beings as "anything""

Does it exclusively refer to human beings?

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By *ofusplusCouple over a year ago

Limerick

Apart from the directions thing! Two words… Google Maps!!!

Yep

But surely we're safe in generalising that men can't multitask?

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By *oxie2021Man over a year ago

Dublin

Apart from the directions thing! Two words… Google Maps!!!

Yep

But surely we're safe in generalising that men can't multitask?

Sorry guys… I was doing something else there…

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Apart from the directions thing! Two words… Google Maps!!!

Good man for saying it like it is. Good forbid men stand up for themselves from time to time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

GUILTY AS CHARGED… my opening line is “girls will ride who they want and lads will ride ANYONE” if I am one of many stating this then it’s a general assumption but Please don’t let my findings upset you. They are not based on messages, conversations but purely PERSONAL observations that I have noted.

I have met very nice men all who are very selective but I stand by what I’ve seen. One persons general opinion should not cause you personal upset. I’ve had many abusive messages over it but like most profiles , if you don’t like it move on.

A guilty conscience can cause many triggers x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"GUILTY AS CHARGED… my opening line is “girls will ride who they want and lads will ride ANYONE” if I am one of many stating this then it’s a general assumption but Please don’t let my findings upset you. They are not based on messages, conversations but purely PERSONAL observations that I have noted.

A guilty conscience can cause many triggers x

I actually sent you a message regarding your statement!!!

now look what you started!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A guilty conscience can cause many triggers x

I actually sent you a message regarding your statement!!!

now look what you started!!!!

Many have … it’s ok I’ll still stand by my findings

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

Apart from the directions thing! Two words… Google Maps!!!

Yep

But surely we're safe in generalising that men can't multitask?

Not at all

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

A guilty conscience can cause many triggers x

I actually sent you a message regarding your statement!!!

now look what you started!!!!

Many have … it’s ok I’ll still stand by my findings

I feel bad for you. You've not had enough of the good ones approach you. The problem is that the ladies who have very attractive profiles like you, will attract every man. I admit that there are many mutts on here who would get up on the crack of dawn but those who have manners, class and respect don't lead with that idea. You must get to know someone to truly click with them and make the intimacy as good as it can be.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A guilty conscience can cause many triggers x

I actually sent you a message regarding your statement!!!

now look what you started!!!!

Many have … it’s ok I’ll still stand by my findings

Please don’t feel bad for me and please listen to what I am actually saying. My statement was not based on messages of any kind, how could I make such an assumption because somebody sends a crude message.my statement was not a general crack at men but something I witnessed and observed for my self due to a few situations. I wouldn’t be so narrow minded to put all men into one basket.

I have met some of the finest men on fab wil continue to do. I do hope you do too .

Happy fabbing

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By *ofusplusCouple over a year ago

Limerick

You could look at it from an evolution point of view i.e. men's purpose is to spread his seed far and wide, women will be far more selective in choosing good genes for their offspring.

Why would this not carry forward to the present day?

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By *rcher42Man over a year ago

Ennis

"I know this is random but can anyone guide me how to use this website? I'm still new and awful with what I'm to do here.

Over a year on here isnt really new to the place "

Ah it is really. I've only been here in Covid times too and it seems like there's been fuck all happening most of the time I've been here.

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

A guilty conscience can cause many triggers x

I actually sent you a message regarding your statement!!!

now look what you started!!!!

Many have … it’s ok I’ll still stand by my findings

I have met some of the finest men on fab wil continue to do. I do hope you do too .

Happy fabbing "

I'm not here to meet men so I hope that doesn't happen but I appreciate your point.

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By *hyeyesMan over a year ago

meath

Just put ur cock in her ....

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By *eterdunne OP Man over a year ago

leixlip

"Just put ur cock in her ...."

Would you not at least ask her where she'd prefer you to put it before you jam your stumpy hotdog into her?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You could look at it from an evolution point of view i.e. men's purpose is to spread his seed far and wide, women will be far more selective in choosing good genes for their offspring.

Why would this not carry forward to the present day?"

Only lads speaking sense as always.

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By *dfabMan over a year ago

Dunboyne

Ah sure we've no chance

Sure the Feckin rabbits and Womanisers are sucking up all the good orgasms these days, so what chance does a meagre cock have today

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By *dfabMan over a year ago

Dunboyne

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By *dfabMan over a year ago

Dunboyne

Saying that, I should also say, for balance, I've had the greatest orgasm of my life with a glass toy, so maybe ladies aren't essential either

Delightful looking though and I can't help myself

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"You could look at it from an evolution point of view i.e. men's purpose is to spread his seed far and wide, women will be far more selective in choosing good genes for their offspring.

Why would this not carry forward to the present day?

Only lads speaking sense as always."

Well, apart from the fella who said the exact same thing a few days ago!

Yes, me!

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By *xploreingMan over a year ago

dublin

A guilty conscience can cause many triggers x

I realise that your comment is a general one...perhaps it is a fact that some men are more easily persuaded and less discerning at times - equally there are other guys that are very selective.

Males are instinctively hunters.. but some ladies do also have that characteristic too... but much more rare than in men

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By *oghunter33Woman over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"You could look at it from an evolution point of view i.e. men's purpose is to spread his seed far and wide, women will be far more selective in choosing good genes for their offspring.

Why would this not carry forward to the present day?

Only lads speaking sense as always.

Well, apart from the fella who said the exact same thing a few days ago!

Yes, me!

Get used to it McCarthy, there's no respect anymore for the elderly and their wisdom.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is like a finger, pointing away to the moon.

Don't concentrate on the finger, or you will miss all that heavenly glory.

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman over a year ago

South County Dublin

"It is like a finger, pointing away to the moon.

Don't concentrate on the finger, or you will miss all that heavenly glory."

The heavenly glory which is so far out of reach

I prefer the stinkin' finger, it might come in useful

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