it is becoming more weired, worrying, its not all about showing off your hand skills, and playing with the pleasure dummy or comfort blanket, its about getting the right balance in swinging.
Cautious is the word now. |
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"even if they all had decent profiles there's no way we could fuck them all anyway.
i turn down loads of great guys with decent profiles."
 , your services to helping guys should be awarded a MBE |
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"So many guys are moaning about the site. Have they asked them seleve's why.
I think less cock pics. more polite manners, what do you think.??? "
Unreasonable expectations is my thoughts along with expecting to much of everyone they contact, assuming too much and not taking the hint. |
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"even if they all had decent profiles there's no way we could fuck them all anyway.
i turn down loads of great guys with decent profiles.
, your services to helping guys should be awarded a MBE"
lol. serving myself too though. |
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"So many guys are moaning about the site. Have they asked them seleve's why.
I think less cock pics. more polite manners, what do you think.???
Unreasonable expectations is my thoughts along with expecting to much of everyone they contact, assuming too much and not taking the hint."
I agree. Knock back sometimes also make people aggresive and then behave immaturely... |
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"So many guys are moaning about the site. Have they asked them seleve's why.
I think less cock pics. more polite manners, what do you think.??? "
No it's just the " I want, so I want it now" entitlement attitude of life today;
No concept of waiting for something, or working for it;
It's just got to be handed on a plate .... |
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over a year ago
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The ones who complain forget the fact that they are just one in hundreds, if not more, guys on the site.
They also expect too much too soon, and complain that it's "rude" for a woman not to reply when the reality is the poor woman has about 200 messages in her inbox all from single men who will go on to moan when their message is deleted! |
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Off course there not going to answer you, if there getting like 200 messages a day or a week, arrogance is going to be playing role, have you had 200 messages in one go, let's see how your going to feel, your going to feel special, that's why I say guys don't messages, unless your really sure they like you. Don't put your self down |
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"Guys go on strike, don't meet, or leave the site just make it for women and couples, let them miss you, let them beg you to come back "
Thats ok, I swing both ways so I have no problem with that. Also, female only meetings always smell sweeter, its true!! |
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"So many guys are moaning about the site. Have they asked them seleve's why.
I think less cock pics. more polite manners, what do you think.??? "
.... I'm not wasting my time replying to a blank profiles.. If I see there's no pic, then I'll delete! ... The guys want effortless free sex.. So why do they expect people on here to even care what they think! Lol |
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"So many guys are moaning about the site. Have they asked them seleve's why.
I think less cock pics. more polite manners, what do you think.??? "
I completely agree. I'm new to this site. Joined five weeks ago, but been on holiday for three. Half the men on here are either obsessed with their cock or they think we are. I don't particularly care for the way they speak about women either. Piece of meat comes to mind. I stopped my messages literally minutes after I joined as I got loads of messages with cock pictures and messages asking for a shag. I haven't even put a picture up yet. All they knew was that I was female (my hubby never got a mention) and in my forties. I could have looked like a monster and behaved like one. They would not have cared. |
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Men have always used it for thinking, id say theyd probably think if it doed the talking too , theyd claim they were multitasking, trouble is , by the time they thought about it and said their little speech, the todgers taken the night off, to watch rude tube or red tube, or got stuck in the kettle. |
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over a year ago
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"So many guys are moaning about the site. Have they asked them seleve's why.
I think less cock pics. more polite manners, what do you think.??? "
Spot on'.  |
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Polly16 you are absolutely right they moan about us not answering back why would we when they are disrespectful and most of the time we get hundreds of messages daily and _mber gambler you so right they treat you like a piece of meat and expect sex or you to meet at the drop of a hat it doesnt work like tat with me.
Cock pics do my head in if I wanted to see them I'd ask i dont want to see them full stop. I specifically said on my profile i don't want to see them yet they still send them. When they are in my area passing through they want to meet even if they never talked to me before. Not going to happen ever.
I've a select few I play wi and that's all I don't go wi all and sundry.
They verbally abuse you when you say no aswell seems most can't take no for an answer.
They say your not a proper bbw cos you dont like anal I never will have it again does nothing for me only cause pain. I only meet gents not men into quickies. Respect is essential |
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"Polly16 you are absolutely right they moan about us not answering back why would we when they are disrespectful and most of the time we get hundreds of messages daily and _mber gambler you so right they treat you like a piece of meat and expect sex or you to meet at the drop of a hat it doesnt work like tat with me.
Cock pics do my head in if I wanted to see them I'd ask i dont want to see them full stop. I specifically said on my profile i don't want to see them yet they still send them. When they are in my area passing through they want to meet even if they never talked to me before. Not going to happen ever.
I've a select few I play wi and that's all I don't go wi all and sundry.
They verbally abuse you when you say no aswell seems most can't take no for an answer.
They say your not a proper bbw cos you dont like anal I never will have it again does nothing for me only cause pain. I only meet gents not men into quickies. Respect is essential "
Respect to you!!
I'm going to copy and paste this into my profile!!
Of course, no one reads them so... finger on the block button.
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"Polly16 you are absolutely right they moan about us not answering back why would we when they are disrespectful and most of the time we get hundreds of messages daily and _mber gambler you so right they treat you like a piece of meat and expect sex or you to meet at the drop of a hat it doesnt work like tat with me.
Cock pics do my head in if I wanted to see them I'd ask i dont want to see them full stop. I specifically said on my profile i don't want to see them yet they still send them. When they are in my area passing through they want to meet even if they never talked to me before. Not going to happen ever.
I've a select few I play wi and that's all I don't go wi all and sundry.
They verbally abuse you when you say no aswell seems most can't take no for an answer.
They say your not a proper bbw cos you dont like anal I never will have it again does nothing for me only cause pain. I only meet gents not men into quickies. Respect is essential "
Goodness me! Having just read this it's no wonder the nice single guys don't have much chance on here!
It annoys me when I hear people saying how women are "rude" when they don't answer - read the FAQs for goodness sake! The other one is people turning nasty when they get a "no thanks" - is there any need for that? If I ever get a "no thanks" I always politely accept them and thank them for actually messaging me! Given the fact that the ladies probably have 200+ messages unanswered, the fact that they have gone to the trouble of picking my message out and replying to it, even if to say no, actually makes me feel honoured!
Unfortunately you do get those who persist and who won't take no for an answer. Do they really think that you'll suddenly change your mind by being like that? If anything, it reinforces the fact why you don't want to meet them in the first place!
And that "not a proper BBW because you don't like anal" statement? Er....what the heck?! Never heard that one before, what's that all about?!
Take no notice of the idiots good lady, you can easily block them, and don't let the shallow sods cloud your judgement, make you feel insecure or change your preferences - you are who you are, and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise!!! x |
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Oh you are SPOT ON! worded perfectly.
Even us TV/TS's get this not quite to your extent, but it drives me insane! I just leave the block all males filter in place now. Just beyond fed up.
So no, more power to you!
Its like they are doing me a favour by blessing me with their mess and i should be thankful for their attention, not to mention at the beck n call.
NO!
Rant over, calm thoughts... |
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No need to moan...just get on with meets and make sure they're the type who like to come back for more. If it's a fuck n go type then politely decline. Happy fabbing and there are plenty on here. |
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"Unfortunately you do get those who persist and who won't take no for an answer. Do they really think that you'll suddenly change your mind by being like that? If anything, it reinforces the fact why you don't want to meet them in the first place!"
A Blooming men!!!!!
Amen!
Go on pester me some more, go on, it turns me on and makes me want you more.... |
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""Unfortunately you do get those who persist and who won't take no for an answer. Do they really think that you'll suddenly change your mind by being like that? If anything, it reinforces the fact why you don't want to meet them in the first place!"
A Blooming men!!!!!
Amen!
Go on pester me some more, go on, it turns me on and makes me want you more...."
Some people eh?! |
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"Shortbutnice I really like you and polly16 you seem really down to earth men and take nonsense
I wouldnt say no if ye lived closer"
Thank you good lady, compliments always appreciated, you just carry on being you and I'm sure everything will work out for the best - you will be the one who comes out smiling while the idiots who put you down will still be trying to work their "charm" elsewhere! x |
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"Thing is a lot of the men on here have joined because they are so socially inept that they couldn't get a shag if they owned a private jet with twenty whores on it..
H"
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over a year ago
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"So many guys are moaning about the site. Have they asked them seleve's why.
I think less cock pics. more polite manners, what do you think.??? "
I have not come across many impolite single men on fab, and I love cocks pics as long as the cocks are nice and the photos well taken. I think that the problem with some single guys is that they think that a two line message will get them a guaranteed free fuck and feel disgruntled when it doesn't. Just as in the real world you only get results out by putting effort in. |
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"So many guys are moaning about the site. Have they asked them seleve's why.
I think less cock pics. more polite manners, what do you think.???
I have not come across many impolite single men on fab, and I love cocks pics as long as the cocks are nice and the photos well taken. I think that the problem with some single guys is that they think that a two line message will get them a guaranteed free fuck and feel disgruntled when it doesn't. Just as in the real world you only get results out by putting effort in. "
Fully agree |
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I just got a message from a guy tat talked a BiT to me before I don't suppose you're free for action in the next hour or so what do u think I am he's 32 think he'd know better |
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"I just got a message from a guy tat talked a BiT to me before I don't suppose you're free for action in the next hour or so what do u think I am he's 32 think he'd know better"
...better than who? Age has nothing to do with maturity. |
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They shud have respect no matter way age they are and another one said I know I'm nothinking an older bbw but I would love to fuck the chubby butt of ya wat kind of first message is tat to anyone it's disgraceful |
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"They shud have respect no matter way age they are and another one said I know I'm nothinking an older bbw but I would love to fuck the chubby butt of ya wat kind of first message is tat to anyone it's disgraceful "
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"The ones who complain forget the fact that they are just one in hundreds, if not more, guys on the site.
They also expect too much too soon, and complain that it's "rude" for a woman not to reply when the reality is the poor woman has about 200 messages in her inbox all from single men who will go on to moan when their message is deleted! "
OMG a guy who is great and understands the girls and couples side... Can we make you a mod |
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Some women moan too. I've blocked a couple of women who were constantly putting up ranting negative status updates in my local feed. This is about fun, I don't want to see negative crap from negative people. The site is what you make it, you cannot blame anyone else for a lack of success. |
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well after reading all up dates on the topic moaning, I have come out with conclusion, I was right, moaning as they cant have when they want, brought up to say I would like would make meeting a whole lot better.
thank you for all who joined in.
happy swinging,
oh by the way its made me a stronger person in the learning process of meeting.  |
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"well after reading all up dates on the topic moaning, I have come out with conclusion, I was right, moaning as they cant have when they want, brought up to say I would like would make meeting a whole lot better.
thank you for all who joined in.
happy swinging,
oh by the way its made me a stronger person in the learning process of meeting. "
Good to hear... |
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"Guys go on strike, don't meet, or leave the site just make it for women and couples, let them miss you, let them beg you to come back "
And when they do beg I'll fly back via Hog-Air shall I? Or would it be quicker to ice-skate through hell?  |
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"Off course there not going to answer you, if there getting like 200 messages a day or a week, arrogance is going to be playing role, have you had 200 messages in one go, let's see how your going to feel, your going to feel special, that's why I say guys don't messages, unless your really sure they like you. Don't put your self down "
But if you don't message, how will you know if they like you? If only there was something on Fab that showed you liked someone and they could show you they liked you back too, and with almost minimal effort. Even if they got 100s of them a day... Damn they've missed a trick there! |
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"So many guys are moaning about the site. Have they asked them seleve's why.
I think less cock pics. more polite manners, what do you think.??? "
Completely agree. Had two messages from the same guy tonight, half hour apart saying "message me" pretty much nothing else of substance and certainly nothing to make us want to chat more or meet!! |
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"See a lot more moaning from couples to be honest. Even more off putting from them, than from a guy."
Well half of a couple is a guy so maybe that's why... Pretty much everyone moans in reality though, it's just about different things. Men moan that women are too picky. Women moan that men are rude/crude/uninteresting. Couples moan about both these things as well as other couples. It only seems to be the same sex couples that don't do any moaning! |
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