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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well so far really enjoy browsing around the sight,still finding my feet i guess..realised before i set up my account that it would never be an easy task to get to make friends as a single guy on here, so i,m under no illusions as far as that goes..
its very difficult to actually get to chat to couples or single ladies as i,m asuming that they automatically think the worse of you..obviously i dont think everyone thinks like this but it does make things difficult when it comes to messaging folks..
ive had a couple of polite replies and although there just courteous no thank you's its nice to see that people take time out to reply..manners are important even on a playfull sight like this.
so...what do you girls like when it comes to a first impression message?
its quite a daunting prospect as to what to write,i,m a genuine polite guy,with all my manners intact,and yet i,m still quite shy when it comes to messaging someone for the first time..maybe its the thatw of the rejection,i,m not a cut and paist kind of person,i believe that each profile is individual and should be respectfully messaged to suit. individual..
anyway..i,m free for chats and banter if anyone would like to come say hi..
i might even get the kettl on if you bring the buscuits lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thing is Ricky, you have done good here, but not in your profile,.. you write a good post, yet you have but a couple of lines in your profile, most people will not see this post of yours so all they have to go on is your profile, if you swapped this post for your profile effort you may do better.
People, [not just single guys] just dont understand the importance of the profile, its your sexual C.V., it should tell people about you, what you like, what you dont, what you have to offer to others, and why you are a better bet than the other guy
Add a bit of humour, and you may be heading for the first rung,..as opposed to many others who would expect the world at their feet for a few words like, `I am Bert, if you fancy me call`,.. not quite your profile, but not a long way off it
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi..
what a great post reply,your right about the information ive put in my header.i did have a long one wrote out but i was a bit half hearted as to how it came across..
i know myself well,i consider myself to be not your average horny male that these sight often hold high in the"wierd and not so wonderfull"category..
i,m very genuine and i say that whole heartedly,and yet how to put myself across without sounding pretentious is of some difficulty,as i,m modest and dont want to sound like i,m over exagerating myself to appear to be something i,m not..
i adore sex,i,m passionate about it,and i,m very much a pleaser..it just sounds a little strange to be putting such things in my page to advertise my playfullness..
i,m a little stuck..lol
your reply post did make me see where you was coming from and to be honest i giggled out to myself at the last sentence.."hi i,m bob.."
i want to thank you for your effort and taking time to message me,its very kind of you and its helped turn the disalusioned smile back into a nice one..
many thanks..Rick |
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