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"no thanks, not into helping a guy cheat on his wife " Yes, same here - good clean honest fun over lying and cheating any day! Z | |||
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"black white brown anyone will do xxx lol" Like what he is doing or not...as least he is honest and upfront about it... Would it be worth exploring why you have a sexless marriage...??? Would it be worth working on any problems together as a couple...??? Understand you may not wish to leave due to...circumstances...kids...finances...love...sense of duty..etc Is your wife as unhappy with your sexless marriage as you are...??? Are you in fact, really in a sexless marriage...??? Maybe she just is not having sex with you...and off getting it some where else...just like you are..mmmmm...food for thought...???? | |||
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"cheeky minx xoxoxo " I think you know it's true, only need to look at all the other threads, the word cheat is even mentioned and the thread soon gets closed, or at least turns a little nasty. | |||
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"Feck me, you're getting off very lightly. " Just cant be bothered...he is what he is...and just think he would get off on any more attention... | |||
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"Feck me, you're getting off very lightly. " I was thinking the same thing! Quite a few ladies want to get their hands on his taut...hard...flawless...firm...*cough, cough*. I mean shame on you ladies for wanting to get your hands on this cheats taut...hard...flawless... | |||
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"sorry if anyone is offended at me being married but needs must !!!!" Needs must says that you get help with your marriage...... not your leg over with strangers! | |||
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" I have joined to have fun not marriage guidence. " No..... you've joined to get your leg over because you think swingers are 'easy' This is a swinging site, not cheaters'r'us. And there's a massive difference between swinging and cheating. Swinging is casual sex within an honest environment. Cheating is is casual sex whilst not telling your partner about it. There is a big difference and cheaters should NEVER be labelled as swingers. Thats MY opinion. **Flame war**.......... | |||
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"well well this has got a few people excited, in the wrong manner!! You do not know my personal life or situation so please dont be narrow minded enough to stereotype me. I have joined to have fun not marriage guidence. So if ther are any body out there that likes to have fun and is not offended in me being married then please get in touch. That should give you enough to moan about.. not in that mannner!!! enough to know that" So far you have got off very lightly, take a look around the forums, anyone (especially guys) suggests they are cheating and they are usually torn to bits. ........ Problem is, to so many people, swinging is about honesty, about having fun together as a couple, so you have to expect a few comments not in your favour. | |||
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"well well this has got a few people excited, in the wrong manner!! You do not know my personal life or situation so please dont be narrow minded enough to stereotype me. I have joined to have fun not marriage guidence. So if ther are any body out there that likes to have fun and is not offended in me being married then please get in touch. That should give you enough to moan about.. not in that mannner!!! enough to know that So far you have got off very lightly, take a look around the forums, anyone (especially guys) suggests they are cheating and they are usually torn to bits. ........ Problem is, to so many people, swinging is about honesty, about having fun together as a couple, so you have to expect a few comments not in your favour." Shhuurrruuppp being sensible you!!!! | |||
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"**Flame war**.......... " Have my extinguisher at the ready to put out the flames It's only an average sized one though, so will that be enough? | |||
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"well well this has got a few people excited, in the wrong manner!! You do not know my personal life or situation so please dont be narrow minded enough to stereotype me. I have joined to have fun not marriage guidence. So if ther are any body out there that likes to have fun and is not offended in me being married then please get in touch. That should give you enough to moan about.. not in that mannner!!! enough to know that So far you have got off very lightly, take a look around the forums, anyone (especially guys) suggests they are cheating and they are usually torn to bits. ........ Problem is, to so many people, swinging is about honesty, about having fun together as a couple, so you have to expect a few comments not in your favour. Shhuurrruuppp being sensible you!!!! " I'm trying to be nice and polite. If my partner was to cheat on me like this I would be heartbroken, and so would many other people in relationships here. If I was to cheat my partner, I would be ball broken. I think the OP forgets this site has a lot of couples. | |||
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"I dont think swingers are easy and the 2 women i have met have both been married" Yep ..I'm bored again...so here I am..yawn..yawn... You are what you are...doing what you do...but as well as that you are indiscrete about the personal circumstances of your meets....oh...is there no end to your charms... | |||
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"Actuallyyyyyyyyyyyy.... Having a think after nosing at the photo, it does make me wonder why a woman who is married to a man that looks like that (providing of course the photo is of himself), is not wanting sex. FFS..... I'd be wanting it constantly! Me thinks there's more to this story than is being told!!!!" Well, he may look ok but that doesn't mean he's any good in the sack - perhaps wifey is getting good quality sex eleswhere - lets hope so! Z | |||
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"Actuallyyyyyyyyyyyy.... Having a think after nosing at the photo, it does make me wonder why a woman who is married to a man that looks like that (providing of course the photo is of himself), is not wanting sex. FFS..... I'd be wanting it constantly! Me thinks there's more to this story than is being told!!!!" she may be very aware of his shifty..sneaky...bemeanour...he maybe a serial..vanilla cheater as well...he may have given her a dose..the possibities are endless...and non of them are proving to be an aphrodesiac to his wife...if he in fact has one...??? This Self promotional guy may see this as a strategy...to get more meets than...just being just "another" single guy...who Knows...???? guess its working for him...he is probably in advertising Please dont mistake my posting as anything other than...boredom...and a keen interest in human motivation... genuinely couldn't care less. | |||
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"Actuallyyyyyyyyyyyy.... Having a think after nosing at the photo, it does make me wonder why a woman who is married to a man that looks like that (providing of course the photo is of himself), is not wanting sex. FFS..... I'd be wanting it constantly! Me thinks there's more to this story than is being told!!!! Well, he may look ok but that doesn't mean he's any good in the sack - perhaps wifey is getting good quality sex eleswhere - lets hope so! Z" Actually, I did wonder where Jed was.... he's holed up with the OP's wife ain't he!! eh? eh? | |||
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"Actuallyyyyyyyyyyyy.... Having a think after nosing at the photo, it does make me wonder why a woman who is married to a man that looks like that (providing of course the photo is of himself), is not wanting sex. FFS..... I'd be wanting it constantly! Me thinks there's more to this story than is being told!!!! Well, he may look ok but that doesn't mean he's any good in the sack - perhaps wifey is getting good quality sex eleswhere - lets hope so! Z" Would be funny if the wife was on here too. | |||
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"I dont think swingers are easy and the 2 women i have met have both been married" So that makes it ok does it? The possibility of wrecking 3 marriages instead of just 1 !!!! | |||
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"Actuallyyyyyyyyyyyy.... Having a think after nosing at the photo, it does make me wonder why a woman who is married to a man that looks like that (providing of course the photo is of himself), is not wanting sex. FFS..... I'd be wanting it constantly! Me thinks there's more to this story than is being told!!!! Well, he may look ok but that doesn't mean he's any good in the sack - perhaps wifey is getting good quality sex eleswhere - lets hope so! Z Would be funny if the wife was on here too." She is..lovely woman... "Reddich Hotwife"..seeks well hung Black "bull"...for meets.. iyke sees her regularly | |||
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"Have to say the OP has been honest about being married but do think he has a cheek asking for potential meets to not tell his wife about this,its his choice he is cheating and is his problem. Have to add to us swinging is not about helping married men cheat on their wives as he as he put it he has needs. To us he is on here for all the wrong reasons,thinking that because he is on a swing site then the women on here are going to go with any guy including guys that are cheating." That is the point though, there are women who will play with married men. everyone has a choice of who they play with, he is being honest in what his status is, people can decide from there, and I can assure you, I know women who meet married men, so he may well get meets. | |||
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", and do married women get the same grief for being cheaters on here?" Oh yes | |||
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"aquawoman we should meet up.. imagine because of this post and the comments i have been subjected tooo (hahaha) we end up (us married) getting it on xxx hhahahha " Aaaaahhh...A happy ending...and who said good oldfashioned romance was dead.... ... Told ya...advertising.. With all the (hahaha)ing...I have visions of him ...some kinda bond villian...stroking his cat....a swinging mastermind...plotting his world domination...from Reddich...iyke says Hi to your Mrs.. | |||
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"aquawoman we should meet up.. imagine because of this post and the comments i have been subjected tooo (hahaha) we end up (us married) getting it on xxx hhahahha " Now that would cause ructions lol | |||
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"my apologies your right i should of respected that, Just made me smile next time i'll keep it to myself.. " lol - well if you can't respect your wife .................. | |||
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"ok gona add my 2 pence worth - most of us lie deceive some way or the other here, we infact told quite a few white lies when son found this site on computer. Have to say we meet people as we find them dont want to know their life stories just if we click then good - we want our private/ family life private and respect others - ok saying that comes to mind People who through stones shouldnt live in glass houses " Fair point and if you live in a glass house you certainly shouldn't throw stones - fortunately for us we live in a brick and mortar structure so can fling away with impunity! Z | |||
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"ok gona add my 2 pence worth - most of us lie deceive some way or the other here, we in fact told quite a few white lies when son found this site on computer. Have to say we meet people as we find them don't want to know their life stories just if we click then good - we want our private/ family life private and respect others - ok saying that comes to mind People who through stones shouldnt live in glass houses Fair point and if you live in a glass house you certainly shouldn't throw stones - fortunately for us we live in a brick and mortar structure so can fling away with impunity! Z" Good points here... we are not against meeting anybody as long as they are decent people. There are reasons why people are on this site, reasons why some have affairs.. reasons for just about every form of behaviour.. And all human behaviour makes sense in its context. We are more selective when meeting somebody who is attached (married or not) if there is a somebody might get hurt. So, guess it is a kind of responsible risk assessment and it is not OUR needs that matter there but the ones of the person(s) we plan to meet. It is - for us - a practical solution and need no labelling anybody as cheater or victim or hell knows what Live and let live, eh? | |||
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"Live and let live, eh? " No. When the partner finds out (and I have no doubt she will), I hope that the person/people who have chosen to play with the cheater also see the devastation that cheating can cause. Wrecked homes, marriages, broken children, financial ruin etc. I also hope they see the humiliation and total heartbreak that cheating causes and the complete anialation of any self respect and confidence. At that point........ I hope they look at their guilt (if they aren't totally amoral) and decided it's better to keep out of the way of cheaters. | |||
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"Live and let live, eh? No. When the partner finds out (and I have no doubt she will), I hope that the person/people who have chosen to play with the cheater also see the devastation that cheating can cause. Wrecked homes, marriages, broken children, financial ruin etc. I also hope they see the humiliation and total heartbreak that cheating causes and the complete anialation of any self respect and confidence. At that point........ I hope they look at their guilt (if they aren't totally amoral) and decided it's better to keep out of the way of cheaters. " while i can empathise with the emotional interpretation of other peoples actions,and i am really not making lght of yourr post, personally do not feel the need to judge or label people at any time,and certainly not without knowing all the circumstances . | |||
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"theres me thinking i'll join this site because people will be open minded .. how wrong was i... you are such bad ambassadors for this site . i think your small mindeness should stop there/now" We are open minded - some will be ok with what you are doing others wont be - but that is life here and in vanilla life too! We are all here for our own reasons - just like you are too so not bad ambassadors just each to their own! | |||
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"theres me thinking i'll join this site because people will be open minded .. how wrong was i... you are such bad ambassadors for this site . i think your small mindeness should stop there/now" That only shows you more for what you are, you expected people here, many married people here to just accept you, and put off for your own selfish needs, too many people here, those marriage vows mean a lot, swinging together IS open minded, swinging without the knowledge of your partner who you once felt enough to take those vows is NOT open minded, but very selfish. Open minded does not mean to accept everything, where does the line stop, for most, kids and animals are a no no, does that make them not open minded, for many,cheating or helping those to cheat is a no no too. Like I said, there is sites dedicated to those married that want to have their cake and eat it, they might be more open minded to your predicament. | |||
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"like i said you could be in a position where you are being narrow minded / you dont know my situatioon and i dont want to share it with you xx" You don't share your position then people can only jump to conclusions, much of the time it wont be in favour of you. That's the choice you take, here, as with many parts in life, you reap what you sow. | |||
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"if you need and it helps this post and stops or answers your questions/slagging ////.. the reason i am on here is for lust passsion fun nothink more nothink lesss, i do not promiss more or less. The true reason is have not had regular sex with my wife for 2 years i have but at most 1 evry month. She has been very depressed, manic, biop,and for 5 weeks sectioned a normal sexy lovley woman when i met her ... i could bore you if you are decent you will under stand that you have pissed me off enough with your small mindedness for me to divulge this information. this site and the NICE people i have met are inadvetainly helping my marriage .. i dont exspect you small minded TW**s to understand" oh, in that case, come and shag Ms Rooney, I would love to add to that depression your wife suffers, never know it may take her over the edge eh, then you can play as much as you like without the fear of someone telling her. My Mum suffered depression for years, my Dad did similar to you, oh no wait a minute, no he didn't, he actually helped her the best he could, he was either at work, getting a few hours rest rather than a full night or doing housework and meals whilst my Mum suffered her worst. That my friend is a Man, a real Man, not a lying, cheating, selfish, nasty piece of work like your good self. Open minded, don't make me laugh. Sorry but what you are doing is now even more pathetic in my eyes, anyone that you do meet must have a heart of stone. If you can't handle your relationship then do the right thing and get out, at least people will understand she needs support if you leave. | |||
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"theres me thinking i'll join this site because people will be open minded .. how wrong was i... you are such bad ambassadors for this site . i think your small mindeness should stop there/now" I think you're naive if that's what you thought!! Where do you think the people on Fab come from: Planet Swing?!! No, planet earth and ALL manner of life is here! Read some of the threads ie political correctness, bi-curious etc you'll see the type of people that are here. As in all areas of life some people will live up to your expectation, others wont. You've found people to play with you on this site, you'll find others that wont touch you with a barge pole! You can't expect most married couples to invite a married man cheating on his wife into their maritial bed surely?!! What you do is not my business and it really shouldn't be any one elses either, but you can't force yourself on people that don't want to play with you! | |||
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"if you need and it helps this post and stops or answers your questions/slagging ////.. the reason i am on here is for lust passsion fun nothink more nothink lesss, i do not promiss more or less. The true reason is have not had regular sex with my wife for 2 years i have but at most 1 evry month. She has been very depressed, manic, biop,and for 5 weeks sectioned a normal sexy lovley woman when i met her ... i could bore you if you are decent you will under stand that you have pissed me off enough with your small mindedness for me to divulge this information. this site and the NICE people i have met are inadvetainly helping my marriage .. i dont exspect you small minded TW**s to understand oh, in that case, come and shag Ms Rooney, I would love to add to that depression your wife suffers, never know it may take her over the edge eh, then you can play as much as you like without the fear of someone telling her. My Mum suffered depression for years, my Dad did similar to you, oh no wait a minute, no he didn't, he actually helped her the best he could, he was either at work, getting a few hours rest rather than a full night or doing housework and meals whilst my Mum suffered her worst. That my friend is a Man, a real Man, not a lying, cheating, selfish, nasty piece of work like your good self. Open minded, don't make me laugh. Sorry but what you are doing is now even more pathetic in my eyes, anyone that you do meet must have a heart of stone. If you can't handle your relationship then do the right thing and get out, at least people will understand she needs support if you leave. " Well said Wayne. I just wonder what the hell will happen when his wife finds out. God help the poor woman. If she is depressed now, I I only hope and pray that what he is doing won't push her over the edge. I have never, in all my years of swinging, seen such selfishness and egoism as I have now, and it makes me so sad that swinging, such and open and honest hobby, can be infested with such moral degredation and ethical ineptitude. | |||
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