OK so I have bought a site membership for the first time in ages and when I go to see who's looked at you I can see TV's and MM couples.
Whilst I am not bothered that they look, why does Fab deem it fit to show me these even though I have them blocked from contacting me as it is not what I am interested in.
Seems like the who's viewed me should reflect what I am looking for as I have no interest |
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"OK so I have bought a site membership for the first time in ages and when I go to see who's looked at you I can see TV's and MM couples.
Whilst I am not bothered that they look, why does Fab deem it fit to show me these even though I have them blocked from contacting me as it is not what I am interested in.
Seems like the who's viewed me should reflect what I am looking for as I have no interest"
Because it is "Who's looked at me" not whose looked at me who I might possibly be interested in. |
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"OK so I have bought a site membership for the first time in ages and when I go to see who's looked at you I can see TV's and MM couples.
Whilst I am not bothered that they look, why does Fab deem it fit to show me these even though I have them blocked from contacting me as it is not what I am interested in.
Seems like the who's viewed me should reflect what I am looking for as I have no interest
Because it is "Who's looked at me" not whose looked at me who I might possibly be interested in."
There's your answer, OP. |
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I get that it is who's looked at me, but as paying member and that facility being made available to me why do I want o see people who have looked at me who I have no interest in.
it's yet more crap to wade through, makes it easier not knowing |
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A lot of people have filters which prevent demographics they do want to meet (often single guys) contacting them. Because they wish to initiate contact.
So filters and actually looking for don't always match. |
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By *ucka39Man 19 weeks ago
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"I get that it is who's looked at me, but as paying member and that facility being made available to me why do I want o see people who have looked at me who I have no interest in.
it's yet more crap to wade through, makes it easier not knowing"
Take it with a pinch of salt, but with those words it's exactly what most women feel/think. It's harmless and well expected given the type of site this is. Doesn't bother me as a straight male |
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By *bi HaiveMan 19 weeks ago
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There not many TV or MM profiles on site in comparison to any other demographic. They crop up on mine every now and then, but as I have message filters in place a look is all that will ever happen.
A view means nothing. Especially given that most single women and couples are likely browsing in stealth mode, so you'll never know when they look.
The only thing that signifies any interest is a message or a wink. Nobody knows if they'll be interested in you til they look, so don't read anything into the fact that someone has. |
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"I get that it is who's looked at me, but as paying member and that facility being made available to me why do I want o see people who have looked at me who I have no interest in.
it's yet more crap to wade through, makes it easier not knowing"
Calling people crap to wade through. Classy. |
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"OK so I have bought a site membership for the first time in ages and when I go to see who's looked at you I can see TV's and MM couples.
Whilst I am not bothered that they look, why does Fab deem it fit to show me these even though I have them blocked from contacting me as it is not what I am interested in.
Seems like the who's viewed me should reflect what I am looking for as I have no interest"
Most people view in Ninja mode, especially women, because we don’t want to be bombarded with wierd/aggressive messages just because we looked at a profile. So, the list isn’t reflective of the full picture. Typically those who are interested message/wink (if that’s their thing). |
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I just wasn't aware until I paid.
Was clearly oblivious to all this going on even though I have been on and off here for quite a few years.
Like some posters have said, I will just forget that feature is there, much easier  |
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"I get that it is who's looked at me, but as paying member and that facility being made available to me why do I want o see people who have looked at me who I have no interest in.
it's yet more crap to wade through, makes it easier not knowing
Calling people crap to wade through. Classy. "
I was referring to the feature, you made the assumption I meant the people not me. |
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