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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys how about having a space on profile that lists wether a couple or single can meet either day time or night time or both? would save contacting people if they cant meet when u r available.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i agree, wen eva i get mail saying "can meet daytimes"
they might aswell put, the wifes at work u fancy some fun, lol
its a dead give away, also u never see them online from fri to monday lol
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Beg to differ, and I'm not the exception to prove the rule.
But neither of the above posts changes the original point.
For those looking for specific times it could work well (regardless of the reasons why - I work flexible hours) so why not?
OKC
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also, it doesn't necessarily make you a cheating scumbag just because you can meet in the day. I'm a student so often have plenty of free time in the day... and probably less time in the evenings if I'm honest because I'm out spending my hard earned student loan on alcohol!! lol |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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I'm a student and I NEVER have any time in the day!
Sorry hun, but in general (sweeping statement here), if a bloke wants to meet in the day...... he's attached and isn't allowed out at night to play. |
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By *itFunGuyMan
over a year ago
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I see both sides, and at the risk of loosing my nuts I shall now make a small comment.
Theres lots of things that we all like, dislike, can and cant do but if we turned the whole profile into some sort of 'ticked box' checksheet wouldnt it appear more like some insurance type comparison websites?
You have free reign in composition of your profile text, so use it, use it well ... if you are only available during the day then expand on this, if only to assure your potential readers that your not 'playing around'.
A tick/box would be a double edged sword me thinks :S |
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By *itFunGuyMan
over a year ago
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Im in the fortunate position of being able to do what I want, when I want with few exceptions ... as long as I get my lot done I manage my own working time.... Im deemed to be grown up enough by my employer.
But on the note of daytime meets, there is a even naughtier feel to it that adds to the whole experience so I understand where the originator is coming from. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Strange how a swinger site is peopled by so many judgemental people. There are many and varied reasons why married people may be 'cheating' and you will note that I said people and not guys as last time i looked there were quite a few women playing away too. |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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Not judgemental....... just experienced
Ok, I have made a sweeping generalisation but in my 9 years of swinging I have yet to meet more than a couple of people (and I know it's women as well) who swing in the day because the hours are better. I do know of a couple of blokes that work nights but apart from that it is generally because people are cheating.
Regardless of the fact of single male/single female/one half of a couple, it is easier to cheat in the day when the other party isn't at home.
You will never change people's perceptions of those that swing in the day because IN GENERAL, there is nothing to change.
And as for your "There are many and varied reasons why married people may be 'cheating'" line........ I would suggest that is a completely different thread (because from past experience, that thread always disintigrates into all out war).
There is, in my opinion, NO valid reason to cheat...... be it in the daytime or the nighttime.
You can see me as judgemental........ I really don't care what you think. I am entitled to my own OPINION.... because it is just that, MY opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You are of course entitled to your opinion but in my experience it is opinonated people who degenerate forums into all out war with sweeping statements. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I work for myself so can juggle meets to day, evenings and weekends.
Not sure if it's worth the time and effort to have a box for times of meets. After all you can put it in your profile; Only meet during the day... |
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i am a single guy, self employed and can meet 24 -7 if i want.. the tick box sounds a good idea, especially if included in the search engine, so during the day you can just have other potential daytimer's showing.
anything for an easier life eh..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a good idea.
I'm not judgemental on whether, people are married, playin away etc.. that's up to each individual.
If you just write it in your general profile you will still have to read each individual profile.
Any way in which you can shorten the results that meet your requirements is OK with me. For example if your lookin for a black guy when you do a search you end up with all the other guys that don't interest you, so them in the search results are pointless.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well we think its a good idea as we are
a couple that can play daytimes and with young family cant evenings everyone has different situations just because they meet daytime doz not mean there cheating yes sure some are but not all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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agree with the others daytime weekday meets are usually marrieds whose partners do not know they swing. Anyway most profiles tell ya if ppl prefer day or cannot do daytimes. Also always nice to ask whether they can meet either time good way to get chatting |
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