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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Looking at clubs to go to, (I know the single male is frowned upon in many)
Just looking for advice on best Mids west or east club to give ago and any other advice welcome too! |
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"Looking at clubs to go to, (I know the single male is frowned upon in many)
Just looking for advice on best Mids west or east club to give ago and any other advice welcome too! "
Forget the stigma of single males. There are nights designed specifically for you guys and there will be couples and singles looking for single guys on those nights.
Don't go with any expectations other than to be social, get a feel for your surroundings and mix and mingle with people. If anything else happens see it as a bonus.
Be charming, respectful and mingle. If you sit alone in the corner people will think you want to be left alone and not approach you. Hope you have a fantastic first time and maybe we will see you at The VA sometime x |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Looking at clubs to go to, (I know the single male is frowned upon in many)
Just looking for advice on best Mids west or east club to give ago and any other advice welcome too! "
Come to Chams, my mates and I love single men! |
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"Looking at clubs to go to, (I know the single male is frowned upon in many)
Just looking for advice on best Mids west or east club to give ago and any other advice welcome too!
Come to Chams, my mates and I love single men!"
And Xtasia - we seem to be lucky with the clubs "locally". There's also Atlantis in Burslem but I've never been. Same with The Attic in Derby.
It depends on what you're after - dressing like for a nightclub or if you mind walking round in a towel or shorts |
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You should enjoy Atlantis if you go on a Friday night; It's very welcoming.
Same advice as for any club we've been to: Dress well, be friendly, approach couples (and singles) and be nice and of course respectful.
Don't go expecting to play, but if you look your best and you're friendly you have a good chance of some fun. Guys in their 30s tend to get on well, from what we've seen (those in their early 20s seem to struggle!)
If you sit waiting for couples to approach you, you might be waiting a long time!
Also do try to pick up on the vibe of whether a couple are enjoying your company - if you think they are, do ask if they fancy playing tonight. If they say no, then don't spend the entire night lurking by them hoping they'll change their minds.
Great way to pick up some face-to-face verifications from people who you've chatted to and who have liked you. Ask for their fab profile (almost everyone at clubs has one!) |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I was going to suggest Atlantis Evolution in Burslem, but I see someone else has beaten me to it. Fridays is newbie night. There are usually a handful of single guys there, and the club doesn't have guys wandering around being a nuisance. It's a relaxed and social atmosphere. Chance to chat and swap fab usernames. Staff are fantastic. People often comment how lovely the regulars are. Check out the club reviews. There are always couples, single girls and single guys there on a Friday. |
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"I was going to suggest Atlantis Evolution in Burslem, but I see someone else has beaten me to it. Fridays is newbie night. There are usually a handful of single guys there, and the club doesn't have guys wandering around being a nuisance. It's a relaxed and social atmosphere. Chance to chat and swap fab usernames. Staff are fantastic. People often comment how lovely the regulars are. Check out the club reviews. There are always couples, single girls and single guys there on a Friday. "
Was waiting for you to pop up!!  |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"I was going to suggest Atlantis Evolution in Burslem, but I see someone else has beaten me to it. Fridays is newbie night. There are usually a handful of single guys there, and the club doesn't have guys wandering around being a nuisance. It's a relaxed and social atmosphere. Chance to chat and swap fab usernames. Staff are fantastic. People often comment how lovely the regulars are. Check out the club reviews. There are always couples, single girls and single guys there on a Friday.
Was waiting for you to pop up!! "
It's me or Andy kinky always recommending Atlantis. About time you came Juniper  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swing clubs really aren't scary. The have normal everyday people in them. The only way to know what it's like is to go. Every club is different. If you want to go then stop worrying, bite the bullet and go see for yourself. It's going to be a marmite moment. Good luck |
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