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Xtasia

Rating: Fun
First time attending Xtasia last night, for the Alt Night. Hosts and staff were very friendly and we met some lovely people throughout the night.

Looking forward to visiting again!


Date: 15 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Fist time visiting Xtasia for the Alt night, the Club is massive and awesome, hopefully be back soon xx

Date: 15 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Always have good nights there, the staff a friendly and prices on the drinks are good prices. Lovely people there every time and we've had no issues.

The rock night was the best one we've been too at a club, and far better than any at the local pubs.


Date: 15 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Attended the Alt night last night.

As always, a great atmosphere, the hosts are chatty and welcoming.

A brilliant club and this is our favourite event by far.


Date: 15 February 2026

Rating: Fun
As our first ever club visit, the alt night was great, there are plenty of options for you to choose for activities, the place is warm and friendly, the staff are a delight.

I would definitely recommend to others, only reasons for not putting fabulous are...

No food (would be nice to have snacks after activities)

Layout of orgy room could be revised perhaps.

Otherwise excellent place, great hosts! Loved it.


Date: 15 February 2026

Rating: OK
Last time we went to this club was over 10 years ago and it looks no different now. Staff are friendly and prices are good. Really needs to have some money spending on it, as not much has been upgraded over the years. I don’t think we would go back as there are clubs that offer similar nights and better atmosphere. Can’t fault the staff and cost of drinks.

Date: 12 February 2026

Rating: Fun
Had a good night at lock and key Saturday, was surprised how much of a attraction crowd there was a proper nice vibe everyone seemed to be enjoying their self’s no judgement

Never got a chance to mingle if you was there pop up say hello


Date: 9 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
What's above fabulous??

Just back from Shamed at Xtasia and it was absolutely bloody brilliant. Our first visit there and was so much fun, especially the females glory hole.

One of the best clubs I've been to for kink play too as so much kit there to use and very well spread out.


Date: 1 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Great night at xtasia on Saturday. Place of full interesting people full of fun . Also in the chill out lounge they had a karaoke ( which I believe is every 3rd Saturday of every month ) great place . Thanks to all the staff for there hard work. See you soon .

Date: 26 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Attended Xtasia for the Newcummers Event. Had a amazing time in the 'play room' surrounded by like minded couples. Also had the added bonus of sex on a car bonnet!!!!!!

Date: 25 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Attended xtasia for the youthful exuberance night for our first evening experience having used the spa facilities a couple of times previously and have to say what a fantastic venue. Great atmosphere with fantastic staff. Will definitely be going again

Date: 19 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Attended YE on 17th loved it served quick lots of fun and enjoyed the pole dancing first time visiting will be back again

Date: 19 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Stayed here, to attend the Youtful exuberance event. As usual check in seemless, great communication from staff, made us feel at ease.

We had a few drinks then went to change for the main event. Security staff greeted us, very nice, professional and relaxed. Entered and met by our hot hosts, friendly and chatty.

We then went down the bar, served quickly and with genuine warmth, staff are a credit to the club.

Then sat back and enjoyed the evening. A lot of very sexy people, everyone gave off a good vibe, and some beautiful sites were seen. Great music and some very hot bootys shaken on the dance floor.

Will attend again. This morning had a really tasty and well prepared breakfast, done by Andy and Leanne, would definitely recommend it.

Thanks to all the staff involved in making this a great weekend xx


Date: 18 January 2026

Rating: Fun
An unforgettable night from start to finish killer music, a crowd that looked way too good to be real, and a pole dance performance so captivating it should probably come with a warning label. Add ridiculously fast bar service and flawless hospitality, and suddenly “just one drink” became a very long, very fun night.

Date: 18 January 2026

Rating: OK
we went to Xtasia on new years eve and was a really good night me and My partner enjoyed are self everyone's we spoke to was nice and we will be going back to Xtasia soon.Xx

Date: 18 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
I’ve never been anyone want to take me

Date: 16 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Attended the Swing Both Ways event @ Flirts which was well attended considering the adverse weather. Great event, great hosts and always good to see BarBitch being as welcoming and fun as always.

Date: 10 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Attended our first Swing both ways event in the Flirts bar and was met with such a warm and fun environment, felt super safe wether you are queer or not and the play areas are always clean and well presented. Had so much fun and can't wait to return!

Date: 10 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Went to ‘Bingo & Burger’ Night at Flirts tonight - hadn’t been for a while, but it didn’t disappoint. A great night, great food, great people, and lots of fun. Really happy with my little prize! Had a brilliant time, thank you.

Date: 7 January 2026

Rating: Fun
Went to FFFF event which was busy considering the time of year. Good crowd and lots of people were making use of the rooms. Good vibe. Some people who came had their cars broken into when parked parallel to the high street so just watch where you park!

Date: 4 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
I attended the Cuckmunity @ Xtasia on Friday 2nd Jan and had a really great experience, not the biggest crowd but with it being immediately after New Year and snowing outside it was impressive so many people were there. The hosts did a fabulous job and were ever attentive all night making sure everything ran smoothly. The club staff were as professional as ever with their reassuring presence.

I am sure this event theme will help move the cuckold vibe to be more mainstream in the lifestyle community.

Thanks again to the management and team for a great start to the New Year.


Date: 4 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
FFFF night was brilliant.....packed with lots of gorgeous couples and the mood was good.

Had fun was another naughty couple and enjoyed watching the two women on the big bed upstairs!

Only downside was I lost one of my favourite earrings....lol!!!


Date: 4 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
FFFF on the 3rd - Super busy night.

Had tons of fun in the dogging area - where we set ourselves up on the picnic table, then the far car.

The chill out area was a busy social area, with lots of talking/laughing having a great time - although not a lot of playing going on.

The corridor & play rooms were rammed, with lots playing & more watching.

We had to queue at the bar which was a first.

Music turned epic on the dancefloor around midnight, with anthem after anthem.

Was a good night. :)


Date: 4 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
I've had the best 4 months since i started coming to Flirts & Xstasia most weekends. The staff are some of the most hardworking and friendly people i've met in the hospitality industry. I cant state enough how welcome amd safe i feel there on my own because of the staff. I love the social side & the spa just as much as the naughty fun to watch. Have been a few times with my partner in crime and had the best time being open and wild, it can be a really hedonistic experience. What i loke most about this club is its lack of pressure to do or be anything youre not comfortable with. You dont have to dress down or be naked in the spa if you choose not too and its not frowned upon. Over time i have become relaxed enough and confident to just strip off, even showered whist having a convo with Cee the front of house main man! Just another Sunday at Flirts! Lol

Date: 2 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
This was our third annual pilgrimage up to Xtasia for New Year's. Every year is such a good nite we keep coming back. The staff are top notch and the guests are always such a great friendly crowd. We enjoy the social side and the dancing as much as the fun we have. See you again soon amd more than likely again next new year's!

Date: 2 January 2026

Rating: Fun
Fab night last couldn't fault it really I would rather go when couples only but that's a personal preference thanks was great.

Date: 1 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Our first NYE at xtasia and it was awsome, the club was packed at the atmosphere was amazing. A brilliant night where you could enjoy a drink and music surrounded by a real friendly crowd.as usual the staff were brilliant.

Date: 1 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
One of the best nights ever! We spent New Year’s Eve at Xtasia and the place was full of beautiful, friendly people with an incredible atmosphere. The party was fantastic, with great music and a hardworking team who kept smiling all night. We had an amazing time, and Paul and Toni took care of us all from beginning to end! They truly put effort into looking after their guests. Thank you for an unforgettable NYE!

Date: 1 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
Wow what a night! Paul and Toni certainly know how to host a NYE party, thanks guys. DJ LoveJay kept the vibe electric and the dance floor full all night, the bar staff did an amazing job of keeping the drinks flowing and the reception team welcomed us all in, kept an eye on things and made sure we all left safely as usual. Can't wait to see what Xtasia has in stotre for us for in 2026 :-)

Date: 1 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
There was only one place for us to celebrate NYE and that was xtasia!! And it did not disappoint,paul and flirt absolutely smashed it.. the best night we've had in ages from the hosts to the DJ,the security and the bar staff you cannot fault this club and we'll see you again soon X

P.s our favourite DJ was unreal he never fails X


Date: 1 January 2026

Rating: OK
Was a nice evening at xtasia last night for NYE. Lots of hot people about!

Date: 1 January 2026

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