Xtasia

Rating: Fabulous
	We had such a fantastic experience at Xtasia & the hotel from start to finish. The night itself was amazing — brilliant music, a great crowd and such a fun atmosphere. The staff made us feel safe and comfortable throughout, which makes such a difference in this type of environment. Everything was well managed and relaxed. We also spent the afternoon in the spa, which was really lovely. It was a little quiet but it was nice & peaceful. The next morning, however, we realised our very distinctive car key (if you have the same car you'd think it was yours) was missing. We had no way of contacting the couple we’d spent time with and genuinely thought we were facing up to £1,000 replacement bill. What happened next was incredible. The staff immediately stepped in — checking CCTV, walking through our movements from the night before, identifying the couple involved, obtaining their contact details and calling them directly. The cleaner & staff even checked the bins, smoking area and the nightclub itself to rule everything out. Without their help this would have been a very expensive and stressful situation. Instead, it cost us just £20 for an Uber to collect the key. They kept us calm, brought us complimentary tea and coffee and went completely above and beyond what anyone could reasonably expect. Exceptional customer service, an amazing atmosphere, and a team that genuinely cares about their guests. We are so grateful — thank you for turning a stressful situation into such a positive memory. Date: 1 March 2026

Rating: Fabulous

We had such a fantastic experience at Xtasia & the hotel from start to finish.

The night itself was amazing — brilliant music, a great crowd and such a fun atmosphere. The staff made us feel safe and comfortable throughout, which makes such a difference in this type of environment. Everything was well managed and relaxed.

We also spent the afternoon in the spa, which was really lovely. It was a little quiet but it was nice & peaceful.

The next morning, however, we realised our very distinctive car key (if you have the same car you'd think it was yours) was missing. We had no way of contacting the couple we’d spent time with and genuinely thought we were facing up to £1,000 replacement bill.

What happened next was incredible. The staff immediately stepped in — checking CCTV, walking through our movements from the night before, identifying the couple involved, obtaining their contact details and calling them directly. The cleaner & staff even checked the bins, smoking area and the nightclub itself to rule everything out.

Without their help this would have been a very expensive and stressful situation. Instead, it cost us just £20 for an Uber to collect the key.

They kept us calm, brought us complimentary tea and coffee and went completely above and beyond what anyone could reasonably expect.

Exceptional customer service, an amazing atmosphere, and a team that genuinely cares about their guests. We are so grateful — thank you for turning a stressful situation into such a positive memory.

Date: 1 March 2026

Rating: OK
	Another great night at xtasia for us at the wild temptations event last night. Without a doubt our favourite club. Fantastic hosts and staff as always. Date: 28 February 2026

Rating: Fun
	Had a lovely afternoon in Flirts- Staff were so friendly, they went above and beyond. Spa was clean and well set up. Playroom had nice feel had options to play privately open the curtains. Bar prices are good and is nice and relaxed. Perfect for daytime fun, I am now looking forward to trying the club xx Date: 25 February 2026

Rating: Fun
	Visited Flirts for the first time today. The staff are amazing and showed us around the main club, we had a few drinks and played in the cinema, great place to spend a few hours during the day. We will definitely be going back to Flirts and the main club. If any couples want to arrange a daytime meet there, let us know. Date: 21 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	We have been to events at the club itself on a couple of weekends now and they don't disappoint! additionally, have also attended Flirts bar a few times and can equally say that the staff at both venues are friendly and approachable and ensure that it's a welcoming and safe environment to be sociable and enjoy playing with other members. While we have not been able to try all the facilities yet, there are plenty of different areas in which to indulge in your particular kink with reasonable prices at the bars and for the accommodation and membership. The website has a pretty comprehensive events calendar and we hope to see more of you in the future, as will certainly be back. Date: 17 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous

We have been to events at the club itself on a couple of weekends now and they don't disappoint! additionally, have also attended Flirts bar a few times and can equally say that the staff at both venues are friendly and approachable and ensure that it's a welcoming and safe environment to be sociable and enjoy playing with other members.

While we have not been able to try all the facilities yet, there are plenty of different areas in which to indulge in your particular kink with reasonable prices at the bars and for the accommodation and membership. The website has a pretty comprehensive events calendar and we hope to see more of you in the future, as will certainly be back.

Date: 17 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	This was our first time at Xtasia, on the recommendation of many people, and we were not disappointed! We attended the ‘it wasn’t a phase’ night and it was incredible, from the club and the lovely staff, to the club itself and the night, it was brilliant, we can’t wait to return! Date: 16 February 2026

Rating: Fun
	Our 3rd visit to Xtasia and our 2nd visit to the Alt night. Its a fantastic club night with a great bunch of people, all having fun and enjoying themselves. Its got such a good energy and is not one to miss. Staff are always friendly and attentive. We will definitely be back :) Date: 16 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Our first time at xtasia on the 14th for Valentine’s great venue will definitely be back soon lol Date: 16 February 2026

Rating: Fun
	First time attending Xtasia last night, for the Alt Night. Hosts and staff were very friendly and we met some lovely people throughout the night. Looking forward to visiting again! Date: 15 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Fist time visiting Xtasia for the Alt night, the Club is massive and awesome, hopefully be back soon xx Date: 15 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Always have good nights there, the staff a friendly and prices on the drinks are good prices. Lovely people there every time and we've had no issues. The rock night was the best one we've been too at a club, and far better than any at the local pubs. Date: 15 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Attended the Alt night last night. As always, a great atmosphere, the hosts are chatty and welcoming. A brilliant club and this is our favourite event by far. Date: 15 February 2026

Rating: Fun
	As our first ever club visit, the alt night was great, there are plenty of options for you to choose for activities, the place is warm and friendly, the staff are a delight. I would definitely recommend to others, only reasons for not putting fabulous are... No food (would be nice to have snacks after activities) Layout of orgy room could be revised perhaps. Otherwise excellent place, great hosts! Loved it. Date: 15 February 2026

Rating: Fun

As our first ever club visit, the alt night was great, there are plenty of options for you to choose for activities, the place is warm and friendly, the staff are a delight.

I would definitely recommend to others, only reasons for not putting fabulous are...

No food (would be nice to have snacks after activities)

Layout of orgy room could be revised perhaps.

Otherwise excellent place, great hosts! Loved it.

Date: 15 February 2026

Rating: OK
	Last time we went to this club was over 10 years ago and it looks no different now. Staff are friendly and prices are good. Really needs to have some money spending on it, as not much has been upgraded over the years. I don’t think we would go back as there are clubs that offer similar nights and better atmosphere. Can’t fault the staff and cost of drinks. Date: 12 February 2026

Rating: Fun
	Had a good night at lock and key Saturday, was surprised how much of a attraction crowd there was a proper nice vibe everyone seemed to be enjoying their self’s no judgement Never got a chance to mingle if you was there pop up say hello Date: 9 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	What's above fabulous?? Just back from Shamed at Xtasia and it was absolutely bloody brilliant. Our first visit there and was so much fun, especially the females glory hole. One of the best clubs I've been to for kink play too as so much kit there to use and very well spread out. Date: 1 February 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Great night at xtasia on Saturday. Place of full interesting people full of fun . Also in the chill out lounge they had a karaoke ( which I believe is every 3rd Saturday of every month ) great place . Thanks to all the staff for there hard work. See you soon . Date: 26 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Attended Xtasia for the Newcummers Event. Had a amazing time in the 'play room' surrounded by like minded couples. Also had the added bonus of sex on a car bonnet!!!!!! Date: 25 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Attended xtasia for the youthful exuberance night for our first evening experience having used the spa facilities a couple of times previously and have to say what a fantastic venue. Great atmosphere with fantastic staff. Will definitely be going again Date: 19 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Attended YE on 17th loved it served quick lots of fun and enjoyed the pole dancing first time visiting will be back again Date: 19 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Stayed here, to attend the Youtful exuberance event. As usual check in seemless, great communication from staff, made us feel at ease. We had a few drinks then went to change for the main event. Security staff greeted us, very nice, professional and relaxed. Entered and met by our hot hosts, friendly and chatty. We then went down the bar, served quickly and with genuine warmth, staff are a credit to the club. Then sat back and enjoyed the evening. A lot of very sexy people, everyone gave off a good vibe, and some beautiful sites were seen. Great music and some very hot bootys shaken on the dance floor. Will attend again. This morning had a really tasty and well prepared breakfast, done by Andy and Leanne, would definitely recommend it. Thanks to all the staff involved in making this a great weekend xx Date: 18 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous

Stayed here, to attend the Youtful exuberance event. As usual check in seemless, great communication from staff, made us feel at ease.

We had a few drinks then went to change for the main event. Security staff greeted us, very nice, professional and relaxed. Entered and met by our hot hosts, friendly and chatty.

We then went down the bar, served quickly and with genuine warmth, staff are a credit to the club.

Then sat back and enjoyed the evening. A lot of very sexy people, everyone gave off a good vibe, and some beautiful sites were seen. Great music and some very hot bootys shaken on the dance floor.

Will attend again. This morning had a really tasty and well prepared breakfast, done by Andy and Leanne, would definitely recommend it.

Thanks to all the staff involved in making this a great weekend xx

Date: 18 January 2026

Rating: Fun
	An unforgettable night from start to finish killer music, a crowd that looked way too good to be real, and a pole dance performance so captivating it should probably come with a warning label. Add ridiculously fast bar service and flawless hospitality, and suddenly “just one drink” became a very long, very fun night. Date: 18 January 2026

Rating: OK
	we went to Xtasia on new years eve and was a really good night me and My partner enjoyed are self everyone's we spoke to was nice and we will be going back to Xtasia soon.Xx Date: 18 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	I’ve never been anyone want to take me Date: 16 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Attended the Swing Both Ways event @ Flirts which was well attended considering the adverse weather. Great event, great hosts and always good to see BarBitch being as welcoming and fun as always. Date: 10 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Attended our first Swing both ways event in the Flirts bar and was met with such a warm and fun environment, felt super safe wether you are queer or not and the play areas are always clean and well presented. Had so much fun and can't wait to return! Date: 10 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	Went to ‘Bingo & Burger’ Night at Flirts tonight - hadn’t been for a while, but it didn’t disappoint. A great night, great food, great people, and lots of fun. Really happy with my little prize! Had a brilliant time, thank you. Date: 7 January 2026

Rating: Fun
	Went to FFFF event which was busy considering the time of year. Good crowd and lots of people were making use of the rooms. Good vibe. Some people who came had their cars broken into when parked parallel to the high street so just watch where you park! Date: 4 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	I attended the Cuckmunity @ Xtasia on Friday 2nd Jan and had a really great experience, not the biggest crowd but with it being immediately after New Year and snowing outside it was impressive so many people were there. The hosts did a fabulous job and were ever attentive all night making sure everything ran smoothly. The club staff were as professional as ever with their reassuring presence. I am sure this event theme will help move the cuckold vibe to be more mainstream in the lifestyle community. Thanks again to the management and team for a great start to the New Year. Date: 4 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous

I attended the Cuckmunity @ Xtasia on Friday 2nd Jan and had a really great experience, not the biggest crowd but with it being immediately after New Year and snowing outside it was impressive so many people were there. The hosts did a fabulous job and were ever attentive all night making sure everything ran smoothly. The club staff were as professional as ever with their reassuring presence.

I am sure this event theme will help move the cuckold vibe to be more mainstream in the lifestyle community.

Thanks again to the management and team for a great start to the New Year.

Date: 4 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	FFFF night was brilliant.....packed with lots of gorgeous couples and the mood was good. Had fun was another naughty couple and enjoyed watching the two women on the big bed upstairs! Only downside was I lost one of my favourite earrings....lol!!! Date: 4 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous
	FFFF on the 3rd - Super busy night. Had tons of fun in the dogging area - where we set ourselves up on the picnic table, then the far car. The chill out area was a busy social area, with lots of talking/laughing having a great time - although not a lot of playing going on. The corridor & play rooms were rammed, with lots playing & more watching. We had to queue at the bar which was a first. Music turned epic on the dancefloor around midnight, with anthem after anthem. Was a good night. :) Date: 4 January 2026

Rating: Fabulous

FFFF on the 3rd - Super busy night.

Had tons of fun in the dogging area - where we set ourselves up on the picnic table, then the far car.

The chill out area was a busy social area, with lots of talking/laughing having a great time - although not a lot of playing going on.

The corridor & play rooms were rammed, with lots playing & more watching.

We had to queue at the bar which was a first.

Music turned epic on the dancefloor around midnight, with anthem after anthem.

Was a good night. :)

Date: 4 January 2026

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