| I've been going to BGHS irregularly for several years, and have had my best times there in a couple. But I met a lovely mature single woman there recently and had two fab encounters with her. I've also had excellent sex with hot men, many of whom identify as straight and have girlfriends.
BGHS is a very lovely place, and doesn't have the tackiness of some of the older saunas. In the basement a couple of nice saunas, steamrooms, hot large and small tubs, an eight-person Jacuzzi, small pool. Ground floor: pleasant coffee/food bar and lounge area, TV room. The second floor has a set of banquettes, natural light and an outside area. Beyond the door on the first floor is the action: a warren of various sized restrooms, a mirrored stage area, and an open rest area. The staff tend to stay out of here, unless they notice a lot of loiterers in the corridors. There's also a massage room. The only criticisms I have of the place is they've not bothered to put in water fountains or even clocks or timers in the basement, which means you have to trudge upstairs to hydrate or find out how long you've been in the sauna.
If you're a couple and looking for other couples, the best time to go is Saturday and Sunday evenings. If you want single men, you'll probably find most of them on Friday evenings, and Saturday and Sunday afternoons. There are couples there at those times too. If you're not sure what you want, go on Saturday and Sunday mid-afternoon and stay on after the single guys are kicked out. Increasingly I've noticed the men there are more likely to be bi, or at least bi-curious, and I've met several gay men there recently who are tired of gay saunas.
If someone is too pushy or otherwise oversteps the boundaries, you must be clear with them. But the sort of inexcusable behaviour that one of the posters here mentioned is thankfully very rare. Most of the men are pleasant ordinary guys, but there are some strange, cold men who have clearly watched too much porn and have no idea how to talk to anyone, let alone women.
Date: 13 June 2013
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