| We have been visiting Chams in Darlaston for some years now and can only say it gets better. The staff are top notch and Nic (owner) often comes round, has a friendly chat and always asks if things are ok. He constantly spends money on the place improving and keeping up the standards you and us expect. We were shocked to read that a couple describe their visit as "the worst two hours of their lives" due to the fact they were followed by single guys. They didn't say which club you were in as you come from Newport. That aside, whichever club, you should feel safe and have fun. Another point which you didn't mention, is that, at no point did you tell these single guys NO! If we are in any area of the club and are approached by single guys, we just raise one hand and say "no thanks" and it always works for us. You can't expect these guys to be mind readers. We would have thought, that after so many years of swinging, you'd be up to speed with the protocol and procedures to follow should you feel unwanted pressures. We also couldn't help noticing, you mentioned these guys were old "coffin dodgers" . If this was the case, why did your boyfriend find the need to lock himself in the toilet rather than stand up for you, tell them where to get off and then report them to staff! Don't let this sorry saga put you off, just adopt an attitude of, we're hear to enjoy ourselves and if we don't want to play....we won't! AND MAKE YOUR POSTION CLEAR FOR GOODNESS SAKE!
Date: 19 August 2013
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