Heavy Metal Hedonism

Man in Derby, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 4 days ago

Alternative and proud, looking for some good times to satisfy the hedonist in me. Started by mocking 50 Shades, and now looking for The Dirt. It's all about that rock n roll lifestyle, right? I'm a giver and taker, love to please just as much as be pleased.

Kinky to a degree, Dominant and primal usually, but not keen on locking down any boxes just yet. I can be found on Fet if you know where to look! Demisexual, aromantic, polyamourous. Mostly. Derby city center based, own flat, and close enough to the Attic.

I ain't skinny, and I'm not super tall, but I like to think once the ice is broken I'm fun enough to be around. Grower not shower, if you get my drift. It's all about the girth with me.

Love and live for my music. If spending a night with the music turned up chilling sounds like the second best thing to do with your evening, we'll probably get on.

I have a weakness for girls shorter than myself with raven hair and glasses. If they're alternative, into impact play, and just as hedonistic, that's a bonus.

Life is too short, and I'm open minded enough to roll with most things, so if you like the sound of this, hit me up!

I don't have Whatsapp, so you can rest assured I won't be trying you on that! Snapchat or Kik when I trust you maybe.

What have we got to lose?

Soon, people!

Ben

47 years old, Straight

5'9" 175cm
Large
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 50
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Cannot travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cybersex, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Phone Sex, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports, Webcams

Verified Genuine Profile

*ittleMissCali (49), Woman on 25 January 2020 by Meeting in person:
Bumped into this gentleman at the attic recently.... very respectful although a bit shy x nice to have met you x

*usty6969 (55), Woman on 2 September 2019 by Meeting in person:
Met the lovely Ben again sat night as always a pleasure to chat with him and had the pleasure of meet his lady friend too who was really nice had a lovely time chatting with them both hope to see u again some time xxx

*usty6969 (55), Woman on 1 July 2019 by Meeting in person:
Met Mel and Jamie's sexy friend last night lovely polite guy who no doubt I'll bump into again. Was great to meet u honey see u soon xxxx

*oobookitty (48), Woman on 30 June 2019 by Meeting in person:
Known this lovely gent for a very long time, lost touch and it was great to see him and catch up again. Wicked sense of humour, great conversation and a genuinely sexy good guy. Hope to see him again soon M x

*ovely Cummings (52), Woman on 2 October 2014 by Meeting in person:
Genuine guy, have known him a little for a while. Polite, little shy sometimes but wicked & naughty in the right measures.

Friends

Tem (41), Woman
Vixxsin (30), Woman
Rosie (55), Woman
Jess (46), Woman
S (40), Woman