Straight Couple

Couple in Darwen, North West, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 6 hours ago

As the profile hasn't been updated for many years (about 8 tbh), thought I would take a bit of time to bring it up to date.

We entered the world of swinging about 10 years ago when curiosity got the better of us, having been together at that point for 35 years,and married for 29 of them. Over a number of years we had a number of experiences (both social and sexual) that we thoroughly enjoyed. Then, just one bad meet brought everything to a close. Sad but the reality is it was a disaster for continuing the appetite. However, we are still here, which suggests we are still interested, even after a number of years without meets.

We are both straight and did like to socialise in order to get to know people. In this respect, we have found a few drinks in a pub, or a meal in a restaurant, are both good ways to chat and, hopefully, get along with any prospective swing partners. If everyone is then happy to take things forward (and only if EVERYONE is happy), we could then move forward. This could be at ours, yours, or even a night away. I think it's more likely to occur at a second arranged meet somewhere.

If we have all decided to take the plunge then we have, in the past, enjoyed full swap. Initially, we did start off as separate room swappers but warmed to the idea of same room activity over a period of time. At this point though, we would also consider the idea of soft swapping as that kind of scenario can also lead to a very naughty, erotic and enjoyable encounter.

Generally speaking, we enjoyed meeting people of our own age or slightly younger (but not to young lol). Following our bad experience, we would only now meet with married couples like ourselves but may also entertain the idea of meeting with a single (or married) man.

We would also not like the idea of meeting people who are too close to home. At least 10 miles away please for obvious reasons lol.

In terms of likes, we both like to look and smell nice for any meeting and we enjoy being with others who are the same.

We like to chat, flirt a bit, get to know each other and, hopefully, build up a bit of an erotic atmosphere that has all parties looking forward to move forward. We are realistic though, and understand that sometimes you get together for a social meeting and for whatever reason it doesn't progress. We do not see this as timewasting in any shape of form. It just happens sometimes and people need to accept this if it does.

Obviously, we don't set out for this to occur and very much want to see that 4 way sexual attraction that takes things on to the next stage.

So, a bit about us individually.

We are both professionals who have enjoyed the idea of growing older ever so slightly disgracefully lol x

Opening (Male): tall, no hair, reasonably attractive (he hopes), grooms in the right places for play meets - loves a sexy lady who dresses to impress. In the bedroom, enjoys giving oral, and loves to know the lady is getting pleasure from the experience.

Minds (Female): gorgeous, large breasts, great legs, manicured, pedicured, hollywood waxed for playing - enjoys being the focus of attention of another male and likes to dress smartly, making an effort for all meets. In the bedroom, loves receiving oral. Particularly enjoys slow sensual sex and has a bit of a girth craving (if it's on offer lol).

We still haven't yet done single males but I feel this is something we just have to try at some stage. Having said that, single males who send short messages and/or messages without pics we probably wouldn't even consider meeting.

We are not club people having had one experience of it and feeling that it was totally devoid of sexiness and eroticism and feeling it resembled some kind of unsexy mechanical meat market.

So, if after reading our newly updated profile, we sound like your 'bag' so to speak, please don't hesitate to send us a wink to show you're interested or even make contact (we don't bite lol) and we could then start off by exchanging a few messages, and then face pics ... and then, who knows ...

We will reply to messages from people who have put some thought into them (which is most messages we get). We do get the odd abrupt message though and that doesn't really do it for us, so we may not reply.

To finish, just like to wish all genuine people on here very best wishes in attempting to find what you're looking for. We know this isn't always as easy as it seems.

Openingmindsx

Opening

61 years old, Straight

6'1" 185cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Minds

59 years old, Straight

5'8" 173cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Women
Aged from 25 to 59
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Cuckolding, Group Sex, Oral, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Soft Swing, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

Verified Genuine Profile

*kip69 (62), Couple on 28 July 2015 by Meeting in person:
Met for a social meet, lovely couple, lots of laughs hit it off right away. Cant wait till friday for hopefully some hot and horny fun. Thanks once again Steve and Lorna xx

*hiskyandwine (63), Couple on 28 March 2015 by Meeting in person:
Met with this lovely couple for a social several weeks ago. Yesterday we had a second meeting at a hotel to take 'events' a little further and we were not dissappointed. After a good dinner with entertaining conversation, we all had a FAB-ulous evening full of naughty, active, sexy fun. We would both love a third meeting if the opportunity presents. Steve & Helen xxx.

*hiskyandwine (63), Couple on 8 March 2015 by Meeting in person:
Met this genuine couple at a local pub last night, no awkwardness, the chat was easy and the hours flew by. So much so that we were the last to leave! We are looking forward to meeting again, with more in mind than just chatting next time.

*emptress21 (58), Couple on 8 February 2015 by Meeting in person:
Thank you both for a lovely second meeting. As ever, you were wonderful company and we thoroughly enjoyed taking things further x

*emptress21 (58), Couple on 3 January 2015 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely couple for a social meet. Really enjoyed their company finding them friendly, genuine and true to their profile. It was a true pleasure to meet them both and would love to meet again to take things further x

*ngelnfrog (55), Couple on 28 December 2014 by Meeting in person:
Took this lovely couple to a club for there first time and enjoyed a good night both soon relaxed. And we all had fun and a nice time. Both really friendly and fun to be with Thanks x