Experienced Dominant Gentleman

Man in Bury St Edmunds, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 1 month ago

I’m a traditionally trained and very experienced Dominant of many, many years, well before 50SOG made it trendy and before the internet made it easier to find likeminded people... I have had many submissives' during this time, and pushing their buttons/limits has been hugely enjoyable for all...

I seek female submissives of all types, rope bunnies, princesses, baby girls and the all-encompassing brat. If this is you, message me. If it is I who has messaged you, please read my profile carefully and look at my photos.

Women are to be respected and treated with the dignity they deserve. I am an absolute gentleman in public, I treat a lady as a lady should be treated. I will always show respect, and Dominate in a safe environment, pushing only those limits that we have agreed, safe words and check-ins are essential. I can provide a face pic for the right people, a true Dominant never sends dick-pics, please don’t ask… I have a vast array of equipment and have access to a private dungeon.

I am not looking for monogamy, I play with others. I have a female sub who is able to join when invited

First of all, I do not do spur of the moment meets, Ideally, I like to get to know someone first before meeting. I want to know you, your likes, dislikes, limits, hard and soft. I have been in this lifestyle for many years, so I am very experienced without being big-headed or arrogant. Vanilla meets are fine for the fuck and go type of guys, but D/s is different. I think it is imperative to have a good understanding of each other’s needs, wants and desires.

I guess my type is governed by personality more than looks - I'm always polite and never in a rush to meet... Cam and phone sex doesn't do it for me, and I love a real long daytime or evening session... I have varied sexual interests that I'm happy to talk about, and it's the chemistry with whom I'm with that will have a bearing on how we play...

“This isn’t a dating site” but ideally, I like to have a connection with playmates so chances are that you are smart, sassy, and so outwardly respectable that no-one would even guess you’re on here.

I have been on Fab before, I know and understand it well, there are a lot of fakes and weirdo’s, I can usually filter them out.

I can do one off meets, some people like that sort of thing, but I prefer to meet again, things get better with an understanding. Ideally, I am looking for a D/S relationship that transcends the physical. I am looking for mutual respect and affection with a submissive who is prepared to take on regular tasks, to maintain regular contact, to serve with affection and accept my commitment and protection. But please be aware I am not available for monogamy.

I have a professional job (that takes a lot of my time).I adore long D/s unhurried sex and I understand some submissive’s need aftercare. Regarding the physical side of this world, I enjoy restraint (cuffs, ropes, tape), whips/paddles/flogger etc within agreed boundaries, nipple play, delayed orgasm, hair pulling, choking and much more. I love building anticipation and desire.

Winks aren't lazy, wink if you like.

If I block you do not take offence, it just means I won't bother you

If you want to know why my profile name is Moral Dilemma... please ask

Yes, I would like communication with a sub, be it on here, Telegram (much better than Kik) even emails, texts if needed etc. I do find the best communication is by phone (I don’t do cyber or phone sex). I can send my number if you want to withhold… I will ask a lot of questions and do expect some back. I like to get into a person’s mind, control the mind and the body will follow. Any genuine sub will appreciate this.

Moral Dilemma

54 years old, Straight

5'11" 180cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports, Webcams

Verified Genuine Profile

*ustBoots (50), Woman on 21 March 2024 by Meeting in person:
It is quite fascinating how one can feel both totally vulnerable yet totally safe in this gentleman’s presence. This is exactly how he makes me feel. This was the second time meeting this gentleman at The Dungeon and it is blatantly clear that he is very experienced in what he does and has mastered his talents to a fine art. He has equipment that isn’t your bog standard shite and many of his tools bought tears to my eyes but in a good way…….. He is respectful, polite, intelligent, kind (ish) and if you earn the pleasure of receiving his cock and what felt like litres of cum then you are a lucky girl. The bruises are a constant reminder of the pleasures he inflicted upon me and I am excited for our next adventure :-) I will read your instructions with more care next time!! Thank you Sir.

*irsubby (43), Couple on 22 February 2024 by Meeting in person:
Had a great D/s session with Moral Dilemma, probably the best ever. He is very experienced, the most experienced i have ever had the fortune to play with. I consider myself extremely lucky that we have met and played and I hope we can play again ASAP. If you’re a female submissive I suggest you reach out and beg him for his time. Thank you for your energy, time and devious brain :-) xx

*issinggate69 (41), Couple on 1 November 2023 by Meeting in person:
We can only echo and confirm what has previously been said. A true professional and experienced dom with lots of toys but more importantly the skills and knowledge on how to use them. He matched his bio 100%, incredibly respectful (where it counted) attentive, and understanding of the dynamics of meeting a couple with everyone’s needs addressed. Great communication and build up before the meet. It was an absolute pleasure (in many many ways) and we look forward to many more meets.

*arc and Kama (44), Couple on 19 July 2023 by Meeting in person:
We met some time ago in the hotel. I had a scenario to follow with Kama. It went all great, as we agreed before the meeting. Then it built up and went further but within the limits. Great dom.

*oodgirl-89 (33), Woman on 7 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
I met this chap a few weeks back. It was an intense experience that I thoroughly enjoyed. He’s a genuine Dom, lots of experience and quite the bag of tricks. We certainly had a very hot and steamy session. I won’t go into details. But if you are looking for a genuine Dom. Look no further. Can’t wait for our next session now x x

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