Looking for someone to go to clubs with (no hookups!)

Woman in Ampthill, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: over a year ago

Been on here before (I was just_-_me but someone else has that now). If you knew me, feel free to verify!

Looking for a few fwbs (meaning actual friends and not just the benefits) to build trust with and go to clubs together. I've attended a few so far, some on my own and others with a friend and definitely find it better to go with someone. Part of the pleasure of swinging comes from sharing it and I don't quite get that feeling when going alone.

Intellect and mental stimulation is what gets me going most, don't just talk sex to me.

I'm a definite sapiosexual and love the social side to swinging. I think it makes any and all sexual interaction that much more fulfilling and tantalising!

Not looking for hook ups. I will only meet through clubs. Any "meet now" messages will just be deleted.

Dear single men: I'm not here for your pleasure, I'm here for mine.

I'm possibly open to dating towards a swinging relationship with the right person.

Send face pic in first message or no reply.

Pro tip: If you're profile has no substance then your message should! (or vice versa)

Just a short bit in what I'm interested in:

I would like to explore more with women on my own/with their partner (although I still feel somewhat inexperienced with women, so be gentle with me haha), I've had one experience with two guys together (mfm) and would love to try more, possibly group play and an orgy at some point when I felt safe to, and with a partner full swap is really great too! (message me if this aligns and tell me what you're interested in too!)

I don't tend to look at winks too often so best way to get my attention is probably through messages, but these can often get backed up for weeks before I can get through them.

28 years old, Bi-curious

5'7" 170cm
Curvy
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Men Women
Aged from 28 to 42
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Group Sex, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Soft Swing, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes

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*adleylemar (34), Man on 10 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
A wonderful lady that knows how to hold herself. Consider yourself lucky if she gives you her time.

*ensualstart (30), Man on 23 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
I've met L a lot over the years. She's a fantastic woman. Very funny, cute as can be and gorgeous. If she's interested in you treat her well!

*he Playgrounds (52), Couple on 7 December 2022 by Meeting in person:
Simply, a truly beautiful lady, so when we are privileged to have this sexy, irresistible, sexual dynamo attend our events, we know our world becomes that bit more brighter, because her presence and persona just shine like a beacon in a sea of sexual diversity and indulgence. Thank you for making our XXXmas CRACKER party a truly beautiful event. Love always... THE PLAYGROUNDS at THE SECRET LOUNGE XXX

*urvalicious Parties (57), Woman on 7 December 2022 by Meeting in person:
Beautiful inside and out. Thank you for attending on saturday it made the night even more special.

*innie 12 (37), Woman on 5 December 2022 by Meeting in person:
Oh this beauty is a sight to behold! Finally got to meet this beautiful lady at The Playgrounds Christmas Party, lovely to chat to, had a good little gossip about the venue during speed dating. Myself and my male friend saw her towards the end of the night getting naughty in one of the rooms..think we were both regretting not asking if we could join the fun! Hope to see you again soon lovely... I'll bring the same perfume again for you hahaha xx

*ugbyBoy13 (44), Man on 5 December 2022 by Meeting in person:
I briefly met, the lovely L at the recent Playground Christmas party. I was fortunate enough to get to speak to her during the Icebreaker, and wow! Definitely my kinda girl! Gutted, I Shied out from asking her and her male friend to join my female friend & me in the rainbow room, as they started to play on one of the Playroom beds. I hope to see L at the next event, where I definitely will not be as shy

*empest2K (46), Man on 4 December 2022 by Meeting in person:
Wow! I did not expect to see L again at the recent Curvalicious Xxxmas Cracker party, so I was both delighted and excited to see her again. She's even more stunning than the first time I met her, and she has a wickedly funny sense of humour too. It was also great seeing L and her male friend having some sexy fun in one of the play rooms. If you ever get a chance to meet L, treat her with respect and you're sure to have a great time!

*inkyorbroken (38), Man on 4 December 2022 by Meeting in person:
I’ve had the pleasure of meeting this wonderful woman a few times, and can guarantee you won’t be disappointed!

*ssexcouple1407 (34), Couple on 27 November 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely lady at VA yesterday. Very friendly and easy to chat to. Enjoyed our hot tub play session.

*abriellaandJack (33), Couple on 13 November 2022 by Meeting in person:
We met Explorerer L on our latest visit to Penthouse - on their Hot Fevers night. We loved getting to know her. L is a gorgeous and funny lady and I'm sure we'll be seeing more of her on club nights. Hope you had a great night. xx

*2019 (38), Man on 8 November 2022 by Meeting in person:
After speaking online and texting on and off for a few years, I finally met this lovely girl in person a couple of times back in the summer, for some very enjoyable (and competitive :P) rounds of crazy golf. She's very easy to talk to and a great listener. Doesn't mind a bit of banter either and has a great sense of humour. Glad to see she's rejoined the Fab community.

*he Playgrounds (52), Couple on 31 October 2022 by Meeting in person:
This outrageously stunning, beautiful lady has never ventured to THE SECRET LOUNGE before, So, it was with the greatest of pleasure that this gorgeous lady came along and supported our new CURVALICIOUS party on Saturday. This lady epitomises what this lifestyle is all about and is an absolute credit to the scene. Thank you for making our parties that bit more special and beautiful XXX THE PLAYGROUNDS at THE SECRET LOUNGE xxx

*attoed (51), Man on 30 October 2022 by Meeting in person:
Great to see this young woman at the playgrounds Halloween bash last night Slipped into the group with ease and great to see her enjoying the party games

*urvalicious Parties (57), Woman on 30 October 2022 by Meeting in person:
What a lovely lady. Had the pleasure of her company at our curvalicious evemt last night. She looked amazing. Treat her with reapect please

*igbicouple12 (55), Couple on 30 October 2022 by Meeting in person:
We met L at the Curvalisious Halloween party at The playgrounds and what a intelligent and very sexy young lady she is, was a pleasure chatting to her and really hope our paths cross again xxx

*empest2K (46), Man on 30 October 2022 by Meeting in person:
I like to consider myself fortunate enough to have had the pleasure of meeting the gorgeous L during my visit to the new Curvalicious BBW event at The Playgrounds. She's a stunningly sexy sapiosexial lady who is funny, friendly and great to be around. Hopefully, our paths will cross again where I can become an ‘explorerer’ of her body as well as her mind ;-)

*onathan2000 (29), Man on 25 October 2022 by Meeting in person:
I have met L before for a coffee a genuinely nice lass and lovely to talk to

*lumberbo1 (42), Man on 23 October 2022 by Webcam:
Love chatting to this stunner the most perfect big boobs cheeky but gorgeous smile an just an all round sort just hope I get my hands on u sometime xx

*essi87 (37), Man on 18 October 2022 by Meeting in person:
Shy sweet girl. Had the pleasure of meeting her a handful of times and have very fond memories of our time together. I have had some incredible blow jobs over the years, however I can honestly say hers were right up there. Treat her with the respect she deserves and you might be lucky enough to get a treat of your own!

*ajesticallyDark (44), Man on 17 October 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met this sexy minx in her previous life as "Justme" looking at hot as ever from her photos. To say that she knows how to please a man is an understatement, what Explorerer can't do with her mouth isn't worth knowing!! As for her insatiable appetite in pursuit of her pleasure, it will certainly blow you away! Treat this woman as she asks and you will be rewarded!! Good to see you back darlin, have fun! X

*ovingtongue (38), Man on 16 October 2022 by Meeting in person:
Used to meet this little treasure on her old profile, wow. Treat her with respect and she will show you the best time. In another life, I would keep her as my wife.

*atandphil (32), Couple on 5 October 2022 by Webcam:
We had the pleasure of having a video chat with the lovely Explorer..very easy to speak to, laid back a very beautiful lady..! Look forward to meeting in person next time xx

*eardedgent95 (29), Man on 2 October 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met the lovely explorerer for a meal and a few drinks. Lovely girl, funny, friendly and a genuine pleasure to meet :)

*-PiratesLife (33), Man on 24 September 2022 by Meeting in person:
Known Explorer for a few years really nice and friendly lady :)

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