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Couple going to Newport Chams - Fri 7th Feb
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Hi all,
We're going to Newport Chams next Friday. If there are any other couples going, or anyone who sees our profile and think's they'd like to meet us, send us a message!
Thanks,
LadyAndTheTruffler xx |
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Both being bi, I’m sure you would find the Saturday night better for you as it’s bi night  |
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I all fairness tho straight people go there on a Sat night.. Just b'cuz its not for you, it doesn't mean everyone would feel the same..
I'm bi & I think a Saturday is a bit much for my liking..
Its about respecting the people around you... |
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"Hi all,
We're going to Newport Chams next Friday. If there are any other couples going, or anyone who sees our profile and think's they'd like to meet us, send us a message!
Thanks,
LadyAndTheTruffler xx"
Theres also a few there this Fri theres a post in the Forums about it 'Chams Bday Bash 7th Feb' if you wanna browse some of them faces.. I hope your made ro feel welcomed.. x |
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"I all fairness tho straight people go there on a Sat night.. Just b'cuz its not for you, it doesn't mean everyone would feel the same..
I'm bi & I think a Saturday is a bit much for my liking..
Its about respecting the people around you... "
'A bit much' in what way?
From personal experience I find the lack of respect comes from heterosexuals who seem totally unaware they're in a Bi and Gay venue.
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I go on both a Friday and a Saturday night and have had good and not so good nights on both.
Only on a Saturday though do I get asked all the time dont you think a Saturday is much better than a Friday night. No I dont, I like both nights.
Its not a competition after all is it. Im just glad there are two nights for me to pick from instead on one |
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"I go on both a Friday and a Saturday night and have had good and not so good nights on both.
Only on a Saturday though do I get asked all the time dont you think a Saturday is much better than a Friday night. No I dont, I like both nights.
Its not a competition after all is it. Im just glad there are two nights for me to pick from instead on one "
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"I all fairness tho straight people go there on a Sat night.. Just b'cuz its not for you, it doesn't mean everyone would feel the same..
I'm bi & I think a Saturday is a bit much for my liking..
Its about respecting the people around you...
'A bit much' in what way?
From personal experience I find the lack of respect comes from heterosexuals who seem totally unaware they're in a Bi and Gay venue.
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Too full, too many people, its too much for 'my liking', I never sed no-one elses, its MY personal opinion... Fridays are a more relaxed environment, thats all.. |
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"I go on both a Friday and a Saturday night and have had good and not so good nights on both.
Only on a Saturday though do I get asked all the time dont you think a Saturday is much better than a Friday night. No I dont, I like both nights.
Its not a competition after all is it. Im just glad there are two nights for me to pick from instead on one "
Plus it's cheaper for single fems and couples on a Friday. |
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Straight, bi or otherwise, Fri or Sat we find the Saturday friendlier, with far more diverse, interesting & tolerant people. Wouldn't stop us going on a Friday but we just know it's never the same, but hey each to their own & I got one am glad certain people stick to Fridays  |
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"I go on both a Friday and a Saturday night and have had good and not so good nights on both.
Only on a Saturday though do I get asked all the time dont you think a Saturday is much better than a Friday night. No I dont, I like both nights.
Its not a competition after all is it. Im just glad there are two nights for me to pick from instead on one "
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"Thanks everyone for feedback.
We've gone alot on Saturday nights so Lady's husband can join us but it's been a long time since we went on a friday X"
fri is a good night hopefully see u there xx |
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"I all fairness tho straight people go there on a Sat night.. Just b'cuz its not for you, it doesn't mean everyone would feel the same..
I'm bi & I think a Saturday is a bit much for my liking..
Its about respecting the people around you...
'A bit much' in what way?
From personal experience I find the lack of respect comes from heterosexuals who seem totally unaware they're in a Bi and Gay venue.
Too full, too many people, its too much for 'my liking', I never sed no-one elses, its MY personal opinion... Fridays are a more relaxed environment, thats all.."
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As my other half said up above, we like both nights a lot - Saturday especially because my girlfriend's husband can come along too, and as we're all either bi or hetero-flexible it's led to some awesome nights.
The only problems I've had with Saturday night usually come from disrespectful single guys or there simply being too many Straight single guys masquerading as Bi or Gay.
On one occasion, my girlfriend once invited a group of 4 or 5 guys over to suck my cock while she watched while we were in one of the open play spaces... but as soon as she said it all of them turned around and fled from the room.
It was pretty bizarre! |
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Surely the same club rules apply whether bi/gay night or not??
Straight and bi both are welcome on a Friday night... I’ve never seen any women or men kicking off when women pleasure eachother, and also had made bi oral experiences with men on a Friday night?
There seems to be an issue with straight men attending on a Saturday? Why is that a problem? |
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"As my other half said up above, we like both nights a lot - Saturday especially because my girlfriend's husband can come along too, and as we're all either bi or hetero-flexible it's led to some awesome nights.
The only problems I've had with Saturday night usually come from disrespectful single guys or there simply being too many Straight single guys masquerading as Bi or Gay.
On one occasion, my girlfriend once invited a group of 4 or 5 guys over to suck my cock while she watched while we were in one of the open play spaces... but as soon as she said it all of them turned around and fled from the room.
It was pretty bizarre!"
perhaps they didn’t fancy you?  or isn’t that allowed for men? |
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I thought the same rules applied at all clubs, at all times, we all have the right to say no? I often walk away from action if the people aren't for me or I'm just not feeling it. Doesn't mean a person isn't of the persuasion you expect. |
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"I thought the same rules applied at all clubs, at all times, we all have the right to say no? I often walk away from action if the people aren't for me or I'm just not feeling it. Doesn't mean a person isn't of the persuasion you expect. "
me too! I’ve also got up and left half way through if things haven’t felt right.. |
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"I thought the same rules applied at all clubs, at all times, we all have the right to say no? I often walk away from action if the people aren't for me or I'm just not feeling it. Doesn't mean a person isn't of the persuasion you expect. "
Now there are words Id never thought Id see |
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"I thought the same rules applied at all clubs, at all times, we all have the right to say no? I often walk away from action if the people aren't for me or I'm just not feeling it. Doesn't mean a person isn't of the persuasion you expect.
Now there are words Id never thought Id see "
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"Straight, bi or otherwise, Fri or Sat we find the Saturday friendlier, with far more diverse, interesting & tolerant people. Wouldn't stop us going on a Friday but we just know it's never the same, but hey each to their own & I got one am glad certain people stick to Fridays "
Dont you mean "I for one am glad"? |
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To clarify, I never actually had a problem with noone wanting to play or anything like that, straight, bi or whatever! I wouldn't actually say that it was a problem, I was wrong to write about that in the same post as where I'd said the other stuff.
When I said disrespectful single guys, I was referring to nights where straight guys have come into the club and protesting or acting disgusted and shaming people for playing bi, despite it being a bi night. I've seen it a few times unfortunately, I don't really know what they were expecting (though I imagine they were hoping they would be getting into a normal swingers club but on the cheap). |
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"To clarify, I never actually had a problem with noone wanting to play or anything like that, straight, bi or whatever! I wouldn't actually say that it was a problem, I was wrong to write about that in the same post as where I'd said the other stuff.
When I said disrespectful single guys, I was referring to nights where straight guys have come into the club and protesting or acting disgusted and shaming people for playing bi, despite it being a bi night. I've seen it a few times unfortunately, I don't really know what they were expecting (though I imagine they were hoping they would be getting into a normal swingers club but on the cheap)."
That makes sense & also had the unfortunate experience on my very 1st Saturday visit, of being in the company of people like that. Hence why I go alone now. Not experienced it since thankfully. Have a wonderfully naughty night both X |
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"Straight, bi or otherwise, Fri or Sat we find the Saturday friendlier, with far more diverse, interesting & tolerant people. Wouldn't stop us going on a Friday but we just know it's never the same, but hey each to their own & I got one am glad certain people stick to Fridays
Dont you mean "I for one am glad"?"
Thank you, you're completely right,thank god I talk better than I type X |
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"Straight, bi or otherwise, Fri or Sat we find the Saturday friendlier, with far more diverse, interesting & tolerant people. Wouldn't stop us going on a Friday but we just know it's never the same, but hey each to their own & I got one am glad certain people stick to Fridays
Dont you mean "I for one am glad"?
Thank you, you're completely right,thank god I talk better than I type X"
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"Surely the same club rules apply whether bi/gay night or not??
Straight and bi both are welcome on a Friday night... I’ve never seen any women or men kicking off when women pleasure eachother, and also had made bi oral experiences with men on a Friday night?
There seems to be an issue with straight men attending on a Saturday? Why is that a problem? "
If straight people want to go to the Greenhouse on a Saturday then that's great as far as I'm concerned,the more diverse the crowd the better.
The problem is *some* (and it's not only the single guys) are openly BI,Gay and Transphobic which leaves me baffled why they they chose to spend their Saturday night at a bisexual event in a gay venue in the first place.
As for Chameleons being a shining beacon of tolerance,really?
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"Surely the same club rules apply whether bi/gay night or not??
Straight and bi both are welcome on a Friday night... I’ve never seen any women or men kicking off when women pleasure eachother, and also had made bi oral experiences with men on a Friday night?
There seems to be an issue with straight men attending on a Saturday? Why is that a problem?
If straight people want to go to the Greenhouse on a Saturday then that's great as far as I'm concerned,the more diverse the crowd the better.
The problem is *some* (and it's not only the single guys) are openly BI,Gay and Transphobic which leaves me baffled why they they chose to spend their Saturday night at a bisexual event in a gay venue in the first place.
As for Chameleons being a shining beacon of tolerance,really?
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I totally agree with you. I’m sure there are women who are also intolerant, however very little gets said about them. I’ve personally experienced it in chams on a Friday, so I know whats it’s like to be made to feel like shit.
Everyone has their kinks, but I personally don’t think people should have to be made to play if they don’t want to? If people are playing in a public room, then surely can’t complain about being watched? Everyone has their own kinks at the end of the day.
If anyone is rude or intolerant then I’d hope a quiet word with the staff may help?
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"Surely the same club rules apply whether bi/gay night or not??
Straight and bi both are welcome on a Friday night... I’ve never seen any women or men kicking off when women pleasure eachother, and also had made bi oral experiences with men on a Friday night?
There seems to be an issue with straight men attending on a Saturday? Why is that a problem?
If straight people want to go to the Greenhouse on a Saturday then that's great as far as I'm concerned,the more diverse the crowd the better.
The problem is *some* (and it's not only the single guys) are openly BI,Gay and Transphobic which leaves me baffled why they they chose to spend their Saturday night at a bisexual event in a gay venue in the first place.
As for Chameleons being a shining beacon of tolerance,really?
I totally agree with you. I’m sure there are women who are also intolerant, however very little gets said about them. I’ve personally experienced it in chams on a Friday, so I know whats it’s like to be made to feel like shit.
Everyone has their kinks, but I personally don’t think people should have to be made to play if they don’t want to? If people are playing in a public room, then surely can’t complain about being watched? Everyone has their own kinks at the end of the day.
If anyone is rude or intolerant then I’d hope a quiet word with the staff may help?
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Its not just at clubs it should also apply to social event too. |
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"Surely the same club rules apply whether bi/gay night or not??
Straight and bi both are welcome on a Friday night... I’ve never seen any women or men kicking off when women pleasure eachother, and also had made bi oral experiences with men on a Friday night?
There seems to be an issue with straight men attending on a Saturday? Why is that a problem?
If straight people want to go to the Greenhouse on a Saturday then that's great as far as I'm concerned,the more diverse the crowd the better.
The problem is *some* (and it's not only the single guys) are openly BI,Gay and Transphobic which leaves me baffled why they they chose to spend their Saturday night at a bisexual event in a gay venue in the first place.
As for Chameleons being a shining beacon of tolerance,really?
I totally agree with you. I’m sure there are women who are also intolerant, however very little gets said about them. I’ve personally experienced it in chams on a Friday, so I know whats it’s like to be made to feel like shit.
Everyone has their kinks, but I personally don’t think people should have to be made to play if they don’t want to? If people are playing in a public room, then surely can’t complain about being watched? Everyone has their own kinks at the end of the day.
If anyone is rude or intolerant then I’d hope a quiet word with the staff may help?
Its not just at clubs it should also apply to social event too. "
well I would hope people don’t expect to have sex at social events and go back to their hotels!
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"Surely the same club rules apply whether bi/gay night or not??
Straight and bi both are welcome on a Friday night... I’ve never seen any women or men kicking off when women pleasure eachother, and also had made bi oral experiences with men on a Friday night?
There seems to be an issue with straight men attending on a Saturday? Why is that a problem?
If straight people want to go to the Greenhouse on a Saturday then that's great as far as I'm concerned,the more diverse the crowd the better.
The problem is *some* (and it's not only the single guys) are openly BI,Gay and Transphobic which leaves me baffled why they they chose to spend their Saturday night at a bisexual event in a gay venue in the first place.
As for Chameleons being a shining beacon of tolerance,really?
I totally agree with you. I’m sure there are women who are also intolerant, however very little gets said about them. I’ve personally experienced it in chams on a Friday, so I know whats it’s like to be made to feel like shit.
Everyone has their kinks, but I personally don’t think people should have to be made to play if they don’t want to? If people are playing in a public room, then surely can’t complain about being watched? Everyone has their own kinks at the end of the day.
If anyone is rude or intolerant then I’d hope a quiet word with the staff may help?
Its not just at clubs it should also apply to social event too. well I would hope people don’t expect to have sex at social events and go back to their hotels!
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I was meaning about intolerant and rude to others |
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