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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

When did swinging become such a selfish lifestyle?

More and more groups being created that have segregation to suit themselves. This seems to be the same with certain club hosts that I’ve been to recently. Swinging is not about that. Genuine lifestylers are respectful and inclusive as we have a common interest. We may not be attracted to everyone but we’re always in my experience been inclusive and social.

I have a few groups that i run and everyone is invited as long as everyone one is respectful then the more the merrier. Age, sexual orientation, gender, size.

The lifestyle should be for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with you. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree with you. X

I 2nd this..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't understand. What groups. X

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By *ite -meWoman over a year ago

my house

"I agree with you. X

I 2nd this.. "
I 3rd

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By *ad Influence..Couple over a year ago

Port Talbot

"When did swinging become such a selfish lifestyle?

I have a few groups that i run and everyone is invited as long as everyone one is respectful then the more the merrier. Age, sexual orientation, gender, size.

The lifestyle should be for everyone. "

This

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By *ing-louisMan over a year ago

Merthyr

"I don't understand. What groups. X"

A walking group that limited the number of single males. He got arsey then backtracked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't understand. What groups. X

A walking group that limited the number of single males. He got arsey then backtracked. "

When did i backtrack. Please explain?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm sorry that me limiting numbers of people on a walk I organised has caused you such offence that you felt the need to start a thread aimed at me.

Maybe I could come along to 1 of the inclusive groups you run to learn a thing or 2 about how they should be properly organised? Please send me an invite to your next event

Thanks,

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm sorry that me limiting numbers of people on a walk I organised has caused you such offence that you felt the need to start a thread aimed at me.

Maybe I could come along to 1 of the inclusive groups you run to learn a thing or 2 about how they should be properly organised? Please send me an invite to your next event

Thanks,

Mrs x"

The post was not aimed at you. Its happening frequently. Take it as you wish. Feel free to come on our next club invasion. I post the group name up and details when we decide where to go next. Ill keep you informed

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly

"When did swinging become such a selfish lifestyle?

I have a few groups that i run and everyone is invited as long as everyone one is respectful then the more the merrier. Age, sexual orientation, gender, size.

The lifestyle should be for everyone. "

In every event organised men are limited.

Just like private parties that are posted here!

I have however when organised events had people say to me "I'm not going if they are going?" And vice versa.

I would never be made to choose who went or who didn't.

All this couple tried to do is organise a walking social and again people take offence.

If you don't like something it's simple just don't reply to it.

I personally find it quiet sad and childish that then a thread is made about them!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"When did swinging become such a selfish lifestyle?

I have a few groups that i run and everyone is invited as long as everyone one is respectful then the more the merrier. Age, sexual orientation, gender, size.

The lifestyle should be for everyone.

In every event organised men are limited.

Just like private parties that are posted here!

I have however when organised events had people say to me "I'm not going if they are going?" And vice versa.

I would never be made to choose who went or who didn't.

All this couple tried to do is organise a walking social and again people take offence.

If you don't like something it's simple just don't reply to it.

I personally find it quiet sad and childish that then a thread is made about them!!!!

This thread is not directed at them at all.

However that original post stated everyone welcome. No limits were stated or anything. The limits were added later, due to parking etc. I also highlighted and wished them well on many occasions so hardly child like.

I guess clarity in the original post would have helped.

But i still stand by that the scene has become less inclusive in public events. Its all im saying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When did swinging become such a selfish lifestyle?

I have a few groups that i run and everyone is invited as long as everyone one is respectful then the more the merrier. Age, sexual orientation, gender, size.

The lifestyle should be for everyone.

In every event organised men are limited.

Just like private parties that are posted here!

I have however when organised events had people say to me "I'm not going if they are going?" And vice versa.

I would never be made to choose who went or who didn't.

All this couple tried to do is organise a walking social and again people take offence.

If you don't like something it's simple just don't reply to it.

I personally find it quiet sad and childish that then a thread is made about them!!!!

This thread is not directed at them at all.

I guess clarity in the original post would have helped.

But i still stand by that the scene has become less inclusive in public events. Its all im saying. "

I agree, i was about to add my name as it did state everyone welcome which was refreshing, i thought chris replies were very polite too.

Im up for any walking groups if theres no restrictions. I get that there are some males who only add their name for one thing even though it states its a walking group, that does ruin it for the genuine ones sadly.

I love walking and hope there will be future groups that cater for everyone x

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly

"When did swinging become such a selfish lifestyle?

I have a few groups that i run and everyone is invited as long as everyone one is respectful then the more the merrier. Age, sexual orientation, gender, size.

The lifestyle should be for everyone.

In every event organised men are limited.

Just like private parties that are posted here!

I have however when organised events had people say to me "I'm not going if they are going?" And vice versa.

I would never be made to choose who went or who didn't.

All this couple tried to do is organise a walking social and again people take offence.

If you don't like something it's simple just don't reply to it.

I personally find it quiet sad and childish that then a thread is made about them!!!!

This thread is not directed at them at all.

I guess clarity in the original post would have helped.

But i still stand by that the scene has become less inclusive in public events. Its all im saying.

I agree, i was about to add my name as it did state everyone welcome which was refreshing, i thought chris replies were very polite too.

I love walking and hope there will be future groups that cater for everyone x"

It was their first time to organise something.

And within seconds of them putting up their status this thread was made!

At all organised event most fabbers are excluded in one way or another wether it be no verifications,no play meets and so on even most are excluded from kik groups they join them then are booted out as numerous threads have said on occasions!

So why haven't you jumped on these threads before?

Fab is a choice & people choose what they do in here.

It's ment to be fun for adults!

Like I said before if you don't like something then leave them to it!

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Like I said before if you don't like something then leave them to it!

He doesn't have to, he can call out anything he thinks is unjust .... by the sounds of the post above yours he was polite when doing it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lets just leave it tthere. Were all entitled to an opinion but its been taken as a dig by other also.

Not my intention and not directed at a single previous post.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let’s be honest you wanted to go on the walk to follow that women’s sexy ass so when she declined more single men you got a bit shitty as you wouldn’t see the ass lol

Your a man we know how you work

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Let’s be honest you wanted to go on the walk to follow that women’s sexy ass so when she declined more single men you got a bit shitty as you wouldn’t see the ass lol

Your a man we know how you work

Actually no. Ive met the female part of this couple at a social. No issue at all but you can carrying on stirring the pot big boy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No pot to stir even bigger boy

Just an observation thats it and peace

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