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Single men this is why you get a bad name
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"think most like the idea of meetin and wank over the thought of it its a turn on 4 them " yeah i was thinking that myself lol personally the thought is horny but i want meet and skin on skin | |||
"To be honest, we`ve never been let down by a single guy.... but we have been let down by couples. Maybe its not fair to pigeon hole the single guys as unreliable when they`re not all the same. "well you aint asked us we wont let you down  | |||
"This is the fifth time ive tried to organise some single guys to entertain a greedy girl and you wouldnt believe how hard it is!!!! Loads of shit excuses from men who amazingly cant make it!!! Anyone else noticed this ? Its spoiling the name of single males...." Well Matt give me ashout next time I wont let you down | |||
"Lol don't tell me all this negative stuff, I'm in the process of organising a gangbang myself! Good to know though to be wary." Im looking to go to a gangbang  | |||
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"same old gripeing not all us single guys tard with the same brush,Ive been on this site over a year only 2 meets I agree no pics but take a look at some of the pics on here they must all be related they look the same this is syber word what you see is not what your geting in some cases thats why they cant turn up. " You might be right there, last week, 3 of my pics were stolen and replicated!!! | |||
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"Although we've never had the best of luck with single guys, I (ray) could never be one as it takes a lot of guts to turn up and perform " Hi Ray, we were meant to meet a while ago, and sadly you came along while my workload rocketed, hope you and Tia are well | |||
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"Lol don't tell me all this negative stuff, I'm in the process of organising a gangbang myself! Good to know though to be wary." ooooooo really  | |||
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"Although we've never had the best of luck with single guys, I (ray) could never be one as it takes a lot of guts to turn up and perform " Lots of single guys doing that on this site day in day out | |||
"Although we've never had the best of luck with single guys, I (ray) could never be one as it takes a lot of guts to turn up and perform Lots of single guys doing that on this site day in day out "There are indeed and they get big respect for it but there's also lots who waste the limited time many couples have | |||
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"Well said Colin. Think that says it all" I agree well said Colin | |||
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"what is a 'genuine' guy.....is it one wiv a cock????" Tut tut cari | |||
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"omg dont get us started we have invited single men to partys and private play they all want to come (if their wives /girlfriends dont find outlol) but are very unreliable!! too many married men and wannabes on here .excuses like" i can come but can it be between 3 and 4pm?" its better for me in the day etc. ffs single men you are being offered sex!!! " I know I am not the tallest of men, but when you are lying down does it matter. If you invite me I would not let you down  | |||
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"Having read some of the horror stories above I can't believe how lucky we have been. Granted we have only met half a dozen guys over a couple of years but every one of them have turned up and have more or less been exactly what it said on the tin. There was one 1st timer who was a bit like a rabbit in the headlights who should have definitely taken some medication, but apart from that all good. We do have a checklist that would put MI5 to shame, which s out one hell of a lot of timewasters and fantasists. So I guess we are endorsing both sides of this argument. Totally agree there are a ridiculous amount of fantasists who get off on the thought of this lifestyle rather than actually participating, but there are some great people in amongst these idiots who are worth looking for. In our opinion this doesn't just apply to single guys. There are a lot of couples who are just the same. Unless they are all guys pretending to be couples lol...xx" Agree 100% | |||
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"Having read some of the horror stories above I can't believe how lucky we have been. Granted we have only met half a dozen guys over a couple of years but every one of them have turned up and have more or less been exactly what it said on the tin. There was one 1st timer who was a bit like a rabbit in the headlights who should have definitely taken some medication, but apart from that all good. We do have a checklist that would put MI5 to shame, which s out one hell of a lot of timewasters and fantasists. So I guess we are endorsing both sides of this argument. Totally agree there are a ridiculous amount of fantasists who get off on the thought of this lifestyle rather than actually participating, but there are some great people in amongst these idiots who are worth looking for. In our opinion this doesn't just apply to single guys. There are a lot of couples who are just the same. Unless they are all guys pretending to be couples lol...xx"  | |||
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"Hey all! I mentioned a check list on this thread a couple of days ago and have had an amazing amount of requests for it. Below is my response to a couple that asked me for it. I do of course realise posting this will probably mean never meeting another single guy but fuk it lol. No worries! But I have to warn you it will mean very few meets lol. 1: Has to be verified by more than one couple in an actual play situation. Not webcam or phone or met at a social. More than one guarantees it isn't a mate of his doing him a favour lol. 2: Has to have taken the time to read our profile without being prompted to do so. 3: Has to send a clear face pic. No shades or pics the size of a postage stamp. 4: Must be prepared to swap phone numbers. We also tend to arrange to text the guy one evening! This way if he panics he is married. 5: No daytime meets! If that's all he can do he is married. 6: A nice 1st message is an absolute must. You can tell an awful lot about someone if they put a little effort in. 7: Any dirty talk is a no no. At least until we know them well enough and we start it lol. 8: We only meet guys spontaneously so in our case they need to agree to meet at short notice. 9: They need to text us twice on the day we have arranged to meet. Once to confirm they are definitely still coming and again 2 hrs before the time. If I put my slap on and some twat let me down I swear I would hunt them down lol. 10: We call the shots totally. We say where! We say when! Any request to alter the time or venue or date means us cancelling completely. 11: We don't do requests! If they start messaging asking for DP, Anal, Role play or asking me to wear something specific they can fuk right off! There are plenty of women they can pay for that kind of thing lol. 12: NO COCK PICS! 13: NO BUM HOLE PICS...EWWWWWW! 14: Finally when we do actually meet hub has a 10 minute chat with the guy while I am still upstairs getting ready. Any sign of anything that would suggest he will not be completely respectful and considerate and he would be leaving without even meeting me. I know that it sounds completely over the top but it really is a buyers market so to speak and there are plenty who will go that extra mile. I am going to be completely honest now and tell you the control element I have over these guys is all part of the turn on. I like it that they are prepared to go to these kind of lengths to fuk me lol. We also have certain physical requirements that are a personal preference so I will leave that with you lol. I don't mean big cocks though. Genuinely doesn't bother me lol. When we started swinging we never even considered single guys but done right we love it lol. Hope that helps... Emma xxx PS We are nothing like that with couples. It is a totally different scenario. Honestly like chalk and cheese for us. I don't know how to explain it really other than with the single guys I feel like we are the ones doing them the favour. With couples of course it is a mutual thing. We like to form a friendship with couples, with guys its a case of fuk and go lol. Sounds a bit selfish I know but men are so easy when there's pussy on offer lol... Would love to hear your thoughts...You can be honest even if you don't agree. I am never offended lol...xx" Well I as a genuine single man can say I do like what you have said here , works very well for me , and like you say you call the shots , as I say all the ladies do or should ,, Ladies word if final.. us men are very lucky to meet you ladies and couples ... Colin | |||
"Hey all! I mentioned a check list on this thread a couple of days ago and have had an amazing amount of requests for it. Below is my response to a couple that asked me for it. I do of course realise posting this will probably mean never meeting another single guy but fuk it lol. No worries! But I have to warn you it will mean very few meets lol. 1: Has to be verified by more than one couple in an actual play situation. Not webcam or phone or met at a social. More than one guarantees it isn't a mate of his doing him a favour lol. 2: Has to have taken the time to read our profile without being prompted to do so. 3: Has to send a clear face pic. No shades or pics the size of a postage stamp. 4: Must be prepared to swap phone numbers. We also tend to arrange to text the guy one evening! This way if he panics he is married. 5: No daytime meets! If that's all he can do he is married. 6: A nice 1st message is an absolute must. You can tell an awful lot about someone if they put a little effort in. 7: Any dirty talk is a no no. At least until we know them well enough and we start it lol. 8: We only meet guys spontaneously so in our case they need to agree to meet at short notice. 9: They need to text us twice on the day we have arranged to meet. Once to confirm they are definitely still coming and again 2 hrs before the time. If I put my slap on and some twat let me down I swear I would hunt them down lol. 10: We call the shots totally. We say where! We say when! Any request to alter the time or venue or date means us cancelling completely. 11: We don't do requests! If they start messaging asking for DP, Anal, Role play or asking me to wear something specific they can fuk right off! There are plenty of women they can pay for that kind of thing lol. 12: NO COCK PICS! 13: NO BUM HOLE PICS...EWWWWWW! 14: Finally when we do actually meet hub has a 10 minute chat with the guy while I am still upstairs getting ready. Any sign of anything that would suggest he will not be completely respectful and considerate and he would be leaving without even meeting me. I know that it sounds completely over the top but it really is a buyers market so to speak and there are plenty who will go that extra mile. I am going to be completely honest now and tell you the control element I have over these guys is all part of the turn on. I like it that they are prepared to go to these kind of lengths to fuk me lol. We also have certain physical requirements that are a personal preference so I will leave that with you lol. I don't mean big cocks though. Genuinely doesn't bother me lol. When we started swinging we never even considered single guys but done right we love it lol. Hope that helps... Emma xxx PS We are nothing like that with couples. It is a totally different scenario. Honestly like chalk and cheese for us. I don't know how to explain it really other than with the single guys I feel like we are the ones doing them the favour. With couples of course it is a mutual thing. We like to form a friendship with couples, with guys its a case of fuk and go lol. Sounds a bit selfish I know but men are so easy when there's pussy on offer lol... Would love to hear your thoughts...You can be honest even if you don't agree. I am never offended lol...xxWell I as a genuine single man can say I do like what you have said here , works very well for me , and like you say you call the shots , as I say all the ladies do or should ,, Ladies word if final.. us men are very lucky to meet you ladies and couples ... Colin" Well said Colin | |||
