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Hey all, I am relatively new here and a little shy and possibly naive, but I am trying to establish the best way to get my first meet with someone decent, which does not involve attending a social event, club, or cam playing. I am a private person so those things scare the hell out of me.
Any good advice would be appreciated x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey all, I am relatively new here and a little shy and possibly naive, but I am trying to establish the best way to get my first meet with someone decent, which does not involve attending a social event, club, or cam playing. I am a private person so those things scare the hell out of me.
Any good advice would be appreciated x"
As a woman on here you probably have many messages, so just chat and see who catches your eye. you will soon work out who is genuine or not. Hope it works out for you without getting messed around. x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hey all, I am relatively new here and a little shy and possibly naive, but I am trying to establish the best way to get my first meet with someone decent, which does not involve attending a social event, club, or cam playing. I am a private person so those things scare the hell out of me.
Any good advice would be appreciated x
As a woman on here you probably have many messages, so just chat and see who catches your eye. you will soon work out who is genuine or not. Hope it works out for you without getting messed around. x"
Thank you for the advice. Lot to be said for gut instinct I guess  |
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Welcome to drop me a line for a bit of hand holding. Can be daunting.
I find chatting to someone is important to me. Usually use Kik or on here as it avoids sharing your phone number with someone you may not be sure of. X
All the usual safety things for on line dating them apply. Meet somewhere you feel safe. Let someone know where you're going x |
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"Welcome to drop me a line for a bit of hand holding. Can be daunting.
I find chatting to someone is important to me. Usually use Kik or on here as it avoids sharing your phone number with someone you may not be sure of. X
All the usual safety things for on line dating them apply. Meet somewhere you feel safe. Let someone know where you're going x "
Thanks for this lovely lady, appreciate your advice and all sensible |
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If I were a single woman on here I'd probably block all single males and only message those that caught my eye with tasteful pictures and a well written profile.
Then follow the good advice already sent. |
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"could be worth messaging other single fems for advice on reliable, genuine single males or couples depending on what you are looking for."
That's a good idea actually. I notice a lot of men I have viewed so far either don't have current verification, or just a summary showing so cannot read about them to get an idea, or see who they have met. Maybe I am being a little picky in saying that, but it has to be right for me. |
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"If I were a single woman on here I'd probably block all single males and only message those that caught my eye with tasteful pictures and a well written profile.
Then follow the good advice already sent. "
I hadn't even thought of that. Thank you. In fact that would stop messages and time wasting too |
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"If I were a single woman on here I'd probably block all single males and only message those that caught my eye with tasteful pictures and a well written profile.
Then follow the good advice already sent. "
Exactly this X |
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"If I were a single woman on here I'd probably block all single males and only message those that caught my eye with tasteful pictures and a well written profile.
Then follow the good advice already sent.
Exactly this X"
We'd third this.. do your own searching, gut instinct, good veris and the second you think your getting messed around block, forget and move on to someone else.. and the other great bit of advice given by someone above is always meet for a social in a busy location like a city/town centre cafe first.. hopefully you'll have a great time here and find what your looking for. X |
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I know you said you dont like socials, but honestly thats the best way to mingle, make friends and suss out the guys.
It can be a little daunting going on your own the first time, but if you chat to some ladies who are going to one, they will meet up beforehand and walk in together.
Everyone is very friendly, and you will soon be wondering why you hadnt been to one before lol x |
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"I know you said you dont like socials, but honestly thats the best way to mingle, make friends and suss out the guys.
It can be a little daunting going on your own the first time, but if you chat to some ladies who are going to one, they will meet up beforehand and walk in together.
Everyone is very friendly, and you will soon be wondering why you hadnt been to one before lol x"
Couldn’t agree more hun x |
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"I know you said you dont like socials, but honestly thats the best way to mingle, make friends and suss out the guys.
It can be a little daunting going on your own the first time, but if you chat to some ladies who are going to one, they will meet up beforehand and walk in together.
Everyone is very friendly, and you will soon be wondering why you hadnt been to one before lol x
Couldn’t agree more hun x"
The ladies are right |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Welcome to drop me a line for a bit of hand holding. Can be daunting.
This is kind. CC76 - Ceridwen is among the very best of human beings. She'll help you. x"
Aww that’s a sweet thing to say Sir, thank you x |
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