Being a couple on here, you wouldn't believe how much we get messaged by single men. On top of that the tactics and sheer determination they use.
After all of that when someone genuin comes along ( call it bad timing) they tend to get the brant of it.
This is even worse for single fems..
Chin up OP.. |
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If I was contacting people outside of their preferences then I might understand it but not if you're contacting in their preferences.
Ah well,chin up as you say   |
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The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for. |
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"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for. "
well regardless of the volume of messages couples get , if a Male fitting their preferences sends a polite message then there's no call for rudeness , a polite no thanks does the same job and doesn't cost anything but we're all different , just brush it off as a lucky escape , would you really want to meet rude people? |
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"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for.
well regardless of the volume of messages couples get , if a Male fitting their preferences sends a polite message then there's no call for rudeness , a polite no thanks does the same job and doesn't cost anything but we're all different , just brush it off as a lucky escape , would you really want to meet rude people? "
Better to find out beforehand indeed. Thanks all for your words of wisdom |
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Because a lot of the woman and couples on here are rude. They get loads of attention from all the blokes on here looking for a quick fuck and then makes them think they're better than the single males on here. |
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"Because a lot of the woman and couples on here are rude. They get loads of attention from all the blokes on here looking for a quick fuck and then makes them think they're better than the single males on here. "
Not all females or couples think they are the dogs bollox thank you. I have said no too many meets stating the person is out of my league......  |
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Ive experienced this on occasion too. Myessages are always thoughtful and worded to show I've read and understood their requirements / preferences and I try to make them both interesting and respectful, but do get really rude responses from time to time. The last one wasn't shy in telling me how I was out of her league and that it was laughable and annoying that someone as ugly as me dared message. For me I just see that as a lucky escape from someone I really wouldn't have wanted to meet. Xxx |
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"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for.
well regardless of the volume of messages couples get , if a Male fitting their preferences sends a polite message then there's no call for rudeness , a polite no thanks does the same job and doesn't cost anything but we're all different , just brush it off as a lucky escape , would you really want to meet rude people? "
Yaaaaaawwwwn... That sense of Fucking entitlement |
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I never had a rude reply on here. Its hard being a single male but i always get a polite no thanks or they dont reply which i take as a polite no thanks. |
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"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for.
well regardless of the volume of messages couples get , if a Male fitting their preferences sends a polite message then there's no call for rudeness , a polite no thanks does the same job and doesn't cost anything but we're all different , just brush it off as a lucky escape , would you really want to meet rude people?
Yaaaaaawwwwn... That sense of Fucking entitlement"
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Because I have a life outside of here and if I was to reply to every message there would be no time for anything else . Also some males see a reply as a way in if starting a conversation ... what bit of no thanks so they not understand ??? And if you start your message with i would love to give you a right seeing to ... that deffo don’t get a reply ....
Too many men see this as a sex site it’s not ... they have a sense of entitlement that all the fems on here will drop their knickers as soon as they send a message or two ....
Sorry but that’s not how it works ...
If you get no reply just block and move on ....
Then you know not to contact them again .,, |
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"Because I have a life outside of here and if I was to reply to every message there would be no time for anything else . Also some males see a reply as a way in if starting a conversation ... what bit of no thanks so they not understand ??? And if you start your message with i would love to give you a right seeing to ... that deffo don’t get a reply ....
Too many men see this as a sex site it’s not ... they have a sense of entitlement that all the fems on here will drop their knickers as soon as they send a message or two ....
Sorry but that’s not how it works ...
If you get no reply just block and move on ....
Then you know not to contact them again .,,"
100% correct! I've seen the kind of messages some of my friends get and it's embarrassing. A rejection isn't a personal thing, just down to attraction or the quality of the message, but either way we should take a 'no' with a bit of class and not over think it. |
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"Because a lot of the woman and couples on here are rude. They get loads of attention from all the blokes on here looking for a quick fuck and then makes them think they're better than the single males on here. Not all females or couples think they are the dogs bollox thank you. I have said no too many meets stating the person is out of my league...... "
Agreed there are a few who are normal down to earth who don't let all the attention get to there head and you defo seem like one |
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"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for.
well regardless of the volume of messages couples get , if a Male fitting their preferences sends a polite message then there's no call for rudeness , a polite no thanks does the same job and doesn't cost anything but we're all different , just brush it off as a lucky escape , would you really want to meet rude people?
Yaaaaaawwwwn... That sense of Fucking entitlement"
 that was a rude reply |
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It's not just rejection responses that are rude, there were a couple on here who would send vile messages slating bigger people because they were gym fit
Every time they were reported they would make a new profile.
If it helps, it's not personal, just someone with an axe to grind against a lifestyle they clearly don't understand |
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"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for.
well regardless of the volume of messages couples get , if a Male fitting their preferences sends a polite message then there's no call for rudeness , a polite no thanks does the same job and doesn't cost anything but we're all different , just brush it off as a lucky escape , would you really want to meet rude people?
Yaaaaaawwwwn... That sense of Fucking entitlement
that was a rude reply "
It sure was Gorgeous, these things get tedious & I have zero tolerance. Yeah I could move on but what the value be of a thread where 100% agree & express the same sentiment, that would make us all sheep... Baaaa |
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"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for.
well regardless of the volume of messages couples get , if a Male fitting their preferences sends a polite message then there's no call for rudeness , a polite no thanks does the same job and doesn't cost anything but we're all different , just brush it off as a lucky escape , would you really want to meet rude people?
Yaaaaaawwwwn... That sense of Fucking entitlement
that was a rude reply
It sure was Gorgeous, these things get tedious & I have zero tolerance. Yeah I could move on but what the value be of a thread where 100% agree & express the same sentiment, that would make us all sheep... Baaaa"
Coming from one of the rudest profiles on Fab... says it all |
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"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for.
well regardless of the volume of messages couples get , if a Male fitting their preferences sends a polite message then there's no call for rudeness , a polite no thanks does the same job and doesn't cost anything but we're all different , just brush it off as a lucky escape , would you really want to meet rude people?
Yaaaaaawwwwn... That sense of Fucking entitlement
that was a rude reply
It sure was Gorgeous, these things get tedious & I have zero tolerance. Yeah I could move on but what the value be of a thread where 100% agree & express the same sentiment, that would make us all sheep... Baaaa
Coming from one of the rudest profiles on Fab... says it all"
They won't shag you mate |
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"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for.
well regardless of the volume of messages couples get , if a Male fitting their preferences sends a polite message then there's no call for rudeness , a polite no thanks does the same job and doesn't cost anything but we're all different , just brush it off as a lucky escape , would you really want to meet rude people?
Yaaaaaawwwwn... That sense of Fucking entitlement
that was a rude reply
It sure was Gorgeous, these things get tedious & I have zero tolerance. Yeah I could move on but what the value be of a thread where 100% agree & express the same sentiment, that would make us all sheep... Baaaa
Coming from one of the rudest profiles on Fab... says it all
They won't shag you mate "
Good. I don't want them to lol |
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.....just smile and move on. 