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By *bbeyh OP Woman
over a year ago
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Hey everyone
I logged in this evening to loads of messages so read through them all asvi do, checking out the profiles.
I then get a message from a couple (who I was going to reply to) that stated
"How dare you not reply after meeting them, we are better than them"
When I tried to reply it says I'm blocked, I'm just a bit hurt as I didn't deserve to be treated like that and what the hell makes them think they better than someone else.
Sorry for the rant but is this normal? |
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As harsh as this sounds....you'll learn that people will call you all sorts, send you vile messages, block you, abuse you the whole 9 yards just for being you!
Read a message and reply = abuse
Read and don't reply = abuse
Don't read = abuse
Add a new pic = abuse!
There are some wonderful people on here though they are just hidden amongst the nutters, fakes and general tw@ts!
Don't take it to heart I'm sure there'll be a few of us to compliment you shortly! X |
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By *bbeyh OP Woman
over a year ago
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Thanks guys, I've only met two couples but one has already left after a real bad experience but we still texting and the others were really nice genuine down to earth people so I just thought it was harsh how they thought they were 'better' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As harsh as this sounds....you'll learn that people will call you all sorts, send you vile messages, block you, abuse you the whole 9 yards just for being you!
Read a message and reply = abuse
Read and don't reply = abuse
Don't read = abuse
Add a new pic = abuse!
There are some wonderful people on here though they are just hidden amongst the nutters, fakes and general tw@ts!
Don't take it to heart I'm sure there'll be a few of us to compliment you shortly! X"
I totally agree, you cant do right for doing wrong..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok x"
If you go onto the conversation you had with him, you can also block him, this stops him from being unable to unblock you & try to mail you again (ive had this done to me & its how I learnt).. Good luck babe & dont let the bastards get you down..  |
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By *bbeyh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"As harsh as this sounds....you'll learn that people will call you all sorts, send you vile messages, block you, abuse you the whole 9 yards just for being you!
Read a message and reply = abuse
Read and don't reply = abuse
Don't read = abuse
Add a new pic = abuse!
There are some wonderful people on here though they are just hidden amongst the nutters, fakes and general tw@ts!
Don't take it to heart I'm sure there'll be a few of us to compliment you shortly! X
I totally agree, you cant do right for doing wrong.. "
Their loss as I was going to reply lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As harsh as this sounds....you'll learn that people will call you all sorts, send you vile messages, block you, abuse you the whole 9 yards just for being you!
Read a message and reply = abuse
Read and don't reply = abuse
Don't read = abuse
Add a new pic = abuse!
There are some wonderful people on here though they are just hidden amongst the nutters, fakes and general tw@ts!
Don't take it to heart I'm sure there'll be a few of us to compliment you shortly! X
I totally agree, you cant do right for doing wrong..
Their loss as I was going to reply lol"
Hopefully he'l read this on the forums then b'cuz as far as I can see its his loss..  |
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
The South |
"Hey everyone
I logged in this evening to loads of messages so read through them all asvi do, checking out the profiles.
I then get a message from a couple (who I was going to reply to) that stated
"How dare you not reply after meeting them, we are better than them"
When I tried to reply it says I'm blocked, I'm just a bit hurt as I didn't deserve to be treated like that and what the hell makes them think they better than someone else.
Sorry for the rant but is this normal?"
There are some very odd couples here with a very high opinion of themselves and their self worth.
Thankfully they make themselves known very quickly and are then easily avoided.
Sorry to hear you've had a crap PM experience. Hope your inbox is now full of love.
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By *olphinmoonCouple
over a year ago
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Hey beautiful just block and move on!
You do get nutters on here and infact the couples seem to be more nuts than the singles but you will soon out the wheat from the chaff!
Just keep being you as we are all here for our own individual experiences |
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Agree with the comments above.
When we first joined we had a similar experience.
So now just read all messages and delete and block the ones that are abusive and block the sender.
Thankfully don t get many these days
Just always remember its only words and words can t hurt you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Delete, block, forget....
Repeat....
You'll quickly get used to it   "
The only thing I'd add to this sound advice is, cast it out of your mind as quickly as you delete X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are strange people on here, I winked and fab a pick, read the profile before message and noticed they don't meet married men so I didn't message, I then had a message ripping into me because they dont met married men, didn't ask to meet lol,.
Don't worry you will have loads more. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just move on and dont worry about them OP.
I've seen it all on here over the years and you will get those who think they are gods gift and that you should meet them and you will get others who are abusive even when you are polite.
on a more positive note I would say that the nice people out weigh the negative people on here and it shouldn't have any effect on how you choose to have fun.
P.S. raise your age range |
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Unfortunately there are a fair few entitled nut jobs on here. You’ll soon develop a thick skin and learn to treat them appropriately. Be grateful you didn’t meet them. Imagine the fallout if you met socially and decided against taking it further  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Hey everyone
I logged in this evening to loads of messages so read through them all asvi do, checking out the profiles.
I then get a message from a couple (who I was going to reply to) that stated
"How dare you not reply after meeting them, we are better than them"
When I tried to reply it says I'm blocked, I'm just a bit hurt as I didn't deserve to be treated like that and what the hell makes them think they better than someone else.
Sorry for the rant but is this normal?"
Unfortunately, nothing surprises here as the site can attract both the lovely and the vicious and unhinged. It does come with a steep learning curve.
Don't let it knock you Op. At the end of the day, they're complete strangers in a virtual environment. |
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"Ok x
If you go onto the conversation you had with him, you can also block him, this stops him from being unable to unblock you & try to mail you again (ive had this done to me & its how I learnt).. Good luck babe & dont let the bastards get you down.. "
I love doing this, i turn the blocker into the blockee. haha take that block back at you  |
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"Hey everyone
I logged in this evening to loads of messages so read through them all asvi do, checking out the profiles.
I then get a message from a couple (who I was going to reply to) that stated
"How dare you not reply after meeting them, we are better than them"
When I tried to reply it says I'm blocked, I'm just a bit hurt as I didn't deserve to be treated like that and what the hell makes them think they better than someone else.
Sorry for the rant but is this normal?"
In what way do they mean better though? Quiet obviously there not on about their sparkling personality are they. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"Hey everyone
I logged in this evening to loads of messages so read through them all asvi do, checking out the profiles.
I then get a message from a couple (who I was going to reply to) that stated
"How dare you not reply after meeting them, we are better than them"
When I tried to reply it says I'm blocked, I'm just a bit hurt as I didn't deserve to be treated like that and what the hell makes them think they better than someone else.
Sorry for the rant but is this normal?"
Egos, get bruised unfortunately we all have our standards and when people get "selective" manners and pride goes out the window, just the way of the world. |
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
The South |
"Hey everyone
I logged in this evening to loads of messages so read through them all asvi do, checking out the profiles.
I then get a message from a couple (who I was going to reply to) that stated
"How dare you not reply after meeting them, we are better than them"
When I tried to reply it says I'm blocked, I'm just a bit hurt as I didn't deserve to be treated like that and what the hell makes them think they better than someone else.
Sorry for the rant but is this normal?"
We would love to show you that not all couples are such arses.
Alas, we're wayyyyyyyyyyyy too old for you.
Sad face.
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Think you had a lucky escape not meeting them ....Who you meet is your business and who do they think they are to say there better than anyone ...Majority of people here are lovely genuine people but there’s always the odd idiot ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't worry for longer than the 10 seconds it takes to counter block them.
You are going to have zero trouble finding the hottest couples and fems on the site for playtime.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure you'll have lot's of guys offering to take you now.
I think you should check with Chams though as I'm not sure if you have to be 21 to get in xx |
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By *bbeyh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm sure you'll have lot's of guys offering to take you now.
I think you should check with Chams though as I'm not sure if you have to be 21 to get in xx"
Really? It's an adult club I'm an adult, only just but I am lol |
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OP haters gonna hate. 
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Not verified by meet, just photo verified.
Maybe their frustrated after 3 months with no meets x
I replied and blocked 