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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago
merthyr |
"Because sometimes a guy has used my real name or gone into tacky details about our encounter. Also if a user leaves their veri for you is deleted but it remains counted as a veri. "
Now that's my reason too much detail x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wheb I was meeting I always used to show mine but I had a load of shit off a woman once for meeting a bloke she had met etc so I just decided it to be a lot less hassle to keep them private. I didn't really need other people knowing who I had met etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because I don’t want a paper trail. Last time around men couldn’t get meets because they’d met me and I was too umm slutty apparently. Even though I always played safe and it’s you know a swingers site.  |
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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago
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We have spotted people we see in Vanilla life on here, what we get up to is our private business, we don't ask for any and haven't for a long time. We have all we need to get invites and everything we get up to is kept private.
That's just us mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately some get jealous & send unsolicited messages to those leaving them.
This. Far too often also."
Far too much of this goes on, we just leave them to it. If someone takes the time to write something nice we'll show it. We do tend to mix n match what we show nowadays, based on what we're looking for X |
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"Because sometimes a guy has used my real name or gone into tacky details about our encounter. Also if a user leaves their veri for you is deleted but it remains counted as a veri. "
We post most of our veris & we like to see veris as it gives us a better idea of what someone is looking for.
However agreed, we do hide veris where too much private info has been revealed or the veri is a bit tacky! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep mine private because I don't have any
WHAT!!??!!
I'm feeling for you now ??
Why I can't come to whacky weekend  "
Just meet someone at a social then You’ll get verified |
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"So just wondering why do folk 'hide' verifications?"
I only show the ones I’m happy to be associated with. The people who haven’t earned a repeat performance I don’t show. That’s my personal reason, but I know that if you block/are blocked by someone who’s left you a veri, it’ll still be on your total number but you can’t display it. I think if they delete their profile the same happens but I’m not sure. |
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"Oh, this isn’t a reason why some of mine are hidden, but I did get shit off a guy once because “you met him and he’s a state, why won’t you meet me?”"
...I've been that 'state' before (though I recall the description being waaaay more colourful)
Bonkers. |
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"Oh, this isn’t a reason why some of mine are hidden, but I did get shit off a guy once because “you met him and he’s a state, why won’t you meet me?”
That's awful 'horses for courses ai' x"
I just thought it was rude and disrespectful to me as well as the guy in question, and not the way to convince me to give him a chance! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's about privacy and decency. What happened to a worl of where a gentleman doesn't kiss and tell? Plus I've noticed a lot of veris are just not real or haven't actually happened so they are worthless. |
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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago
merthyr |
"Oh, this isn’t a reason why some of mine are hidden, but I did get shit off a guy once because “you met him and he’s a state, why won’t you meet me?”
That's awful 'horses for courses ai' x
I just thought it was rude and disrespectful to me as well as the guy in question, and not the way to convince me to give him a chance!"
Totally agree x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I show some of mine sometimes , sometimes none of them , sometimes all of them.
For me its up to the person whos profile it is . Their profile they put on there what they like..... simple  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep mine private because I don't have any
WHAT!!??!!
I'm feeling for you now ??
Why I can't come to whacky weekend "
That's not necessarily a negative  |
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"And those who don't leave a veri 
Seems rude not to do that, especially if you took the time to verify them."
Yeah, I find that very annoying. I always return a veri even if I don’t have much positive to say and have to keep it a bit bland. |
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"And those who don't leave a veri
Seems rude not to do that, especially if you took the time to verify them.
Yeah, I find that very annoying. I always return a veri even if I don’t have much positive to say and have to keep it a bit bland."
Suspect yours to me would read 'Punctual and didn't smell too bad'.  |
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"Wheb I was meeting I always used to show mine but I had a load of shit off a woman once for meeting a bloke she had met etc so I just decided it to be a lot less hassle to keep them private. I didn't really need other people knowing who I had met etc"
This is my biggest reason on my single profile, i hide all my play ones for the exact same reason x |
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