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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You probably are just not their type that's all.
Profile wise you haven't helped yourself with using heavily filtered pictures.
Been on for 9 months with no meets at all, not even cam or social which screams to many this is a fake female profile.
Then lastly your profile text shouts out you are looking for more than swinging/sex which there is nothing wrong with that but this is definitely the wrong site Oo openly soun like you're after a relationship as many aren't after that.
We wish you all the best x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP I'm not sure what you mean exactly by hate you but if men are taking the piss out of you it is probably because you are nor far off 50 and your profile is full of photos with snapchat filters on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No I don’t look different in flesh well except for the ears lol and I don’t have filters to change my face at all it’s just bunny or cats ears added for a bit of fun but I guess some don’t like that but that’s down to choice I guess |
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"No I don’t look different in flesh well except for the ears lol and I don’t have filters to change my face at all it’s just bunny or cats ears added for a bit of fun but I guess some don’t like that but that’s down to choice I guess"
So, when you say guys hate you, what do you mean?
Are they abusive because you turn them down for a meet?
Or are they abusive in their first message, if so, what do they say? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes that’s right when I turn them down or don’t message back being as I get loads of messages and can’t possibly message everyone "
So men dont hate you they just hate rejection, it's not a new thing on fab, it's usually newish members that abuse women or couples because they are frustrated at the lack of action, but experienced members know u wont be everyones cup of tea and just move on, if u get abuse block and move on but dont take it personally it's not you that's the problem it's their attitude and lack of experience 
Good luck for the future and dont let it get to you  |
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"Yes that’s right when I turn them down or don’t message back being as I get loads of messages and can’t possibly message everyone "
Ok.
So, they dont like rejection.
Its not you they hate, its the fact that they probably get turned down a lot, and are frustrated, I wouldnt let it bother you.
The book "Uncle Marts handy hints and tips for swingers" gives this advice on the subject.
"Dont respond, just block them. Set your message filters so that guys cant message you. You can still look for guys yourself, and message the ones that you like."
Sounds like good advice to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes that’s right when I turn them down or don’t message back being as I get loads of messages and can’t possibly message everyone "
Thats the norm for all women
Block single guys and only message who you want to  |
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By *copioMan
over a year ago
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Maybe when you arrange to meet and they turn up and you don’t and don’t even have the decency to even say you can’t make it or even changed your mind . But that is not hate it’s just feeling messed about |
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"Maybe when you arrange to meet and they turn up and you don’t and don’t even have the decency to even say you can’t make it or even changed your mind . But that is not hate it’s just feeling messed about "
the plot thickens... popcorn?
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"Maybe when you arrange to meet and they turn up and you don’t and don’t even have the decency to even say you can’t make it or even changed your mind . But that is not hate it’s just feeling messed about the plot thickens... popcorn?"
Oh oh lol |
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"Maybe when you arrange to meet and they turn up and you don’t and don’t even have the decency to even say you can’t make it or even changed your mind . But that is not hate it’s just feeling messed about the plot thickens... popcorn?"
Only if it's the toffee stuff  |
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I’d love to play hehe x
