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You lead a very sad and disappointing life if you are doing this behind you're partners backs..
You are weak.
Selfish.
Coward.
Disloyal.
Vile.
Scumbag.
If you feel the need to not concentrate on you're partner you do not deserve him/her.
If he/she doesn't want this lifestyle and you do.. LEAVE.
If you want excitement. Concentrate on you're better half.
I cannot stand cheaters.
You are lowest of the low and should be ashamed of yourself.
The faithful person will meet someone else and you will realise what you missed.
If you want bacon instead of steak go get it.
As you can tell this subject pisses me off.
No need for it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One advantage of playing with a married person, they are going to keep it low key and not likely to cause any issues...."
The poor partner may cause issues like knocking on your door if he/she finds out.
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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago
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"You lead a very sad and disappointing life if you are doing this behind you're partners backs..
You are weak.
Selfish.
Coward.
Disloyal.
Vile.
Scumbag.
If you feel the need to not concentrate on you're partner you do not deserve him/her.
If he/she doesn't want this lifestyle and you do.. LEAVE.
If you want excitement. Concentrate on you're better half.
I cannot stand cheaters.
You are lowest of the low and should be ashamed of yourself.
The faithful person will meet someone else and you will realise what you missed.
If you want bacon instead of steak go get it.
As you can tell this subject pisses me off.
No need for it.
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Well bloody said lady, coundn't agree more. You just described my ex husband to a t....xx |
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we are on here to have fun together, we cum as a couple, we play as a couple, we source our play nights as a couple, you are scum, you are a lowlife, ditch your partner and then go and have fun, you could be bringing a whole world of hurt to anyone that is stupid enough to play with you while you are cheating, you need to have a good look at yourself, definitely not for us,
move along,
all horny and sensible people who are upfront and honest apply here for naughty naked fun with fully consenting adults |
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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago
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I got stumped by a guy i met on here, the lies he told was horrendous. Not only to me but others he met. Sad pathalogical liar........i was and still am furious......hence why i now rarely meet. I was meeting this vile person for a few years. His wife is better off without him. |
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I've got a misses whom I've been with for 4 yrs, she's not into this scene but as given me permission to live out my fantasies and enjoy this side of my life as long as safe and she doesnt want to know about meets so how do I fair or am I seen as bad as others that play away |
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"Not if youre playing with her consent no.
Most blokes arent though"
Some play with consent and their partner doesn't want to know about it yet other still scorn them and that pisses me off. You could be the most loving partner/husband/wife and have an absolutely fantastic relationship but one or the other may not be sexually adventurous or have no sex drive whatsoever. What is a person supposed to do then? This is a topic that pisses me off when people take the moral high ground yet don't know other members circumstances and tars all with the same brush! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What if you're in a relationship where they have lost interest in physical comfort.
Is it right that by exercising their choice they also make one for you?
I was in that position for a long time and eventually walked. If I had someone on the side, I may have stayed.
It's not always black and white. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What if you're in a relationship where they have lost interest in physical comfort.
Is it right that by exercising their choice they also make one for you?
I was in that position for a long time and eventually walked. If I had someone on the side, I may have stayed.
It's not always black and white."
Well said. There are a lot of people on here who will lay into people for cheating on their partners behind their backs without knowing what the situation is. It's not always black and white and in the broadest generalisation even if your partner gives consent, it's still cheating. You are still having sex with someone who isn't your partner, is that not wrong too?? If you don't like it don't comment on it, plain and simple |
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over a year ago
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Interesting read. I'm not surprised by how many women wouldn't meet a married guy but out of curiosity, how many of you women would knowingly meet a married lady? |
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"Interesting read. I'm not surprised by how many women wouldn't meet a married guy but out of curiosity, how many of you women would knowingly meet a married lady?
I would "
How about a married man? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What if you're in a relationship where they have lost interest in physical comfort.
Is it right that by exercising their choice they also make one for you?
I was in that position for a long time and eventually walked. If I had someone on the side, I may have stayed.
It's not always black and white.
Well said. There are a lot of people on here who will lay into people for cheating on their partners behind their backs without knowing what the situation is. It's not always black and white and in the broadest generalisation even if your partner gives consent, it's still cheating. You are still having sex with someone who isn't your partner, is that not wrong too?? If you don't like it don't comment on it, plain and simple "
People are well within their rights to comment on something they disagree with on a public forum. Not everyone is going to agree with everyone that's life   |
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If you are in a relationship and you consent to it that is not cheating. Cheating is when you lie and blatantly disrespect your partner. I agree there are factors why you would want to stray or have strayed but if you decide to act on that or already have without your partners knowing then you are a cheat. Simples. So, no I would never meet an attached lady |
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"Interesting read. I'm not surprised by how many women wouldn't meet a married guy but out of curiosity, how many of you women would knowingly meet a married lady?
I would
How about a married man? "
Yep x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Interesting read. I'm not surprised by how many women wouldn't meet a married guy but out of curiosity, how many of you women would knowingly meet a married lady?
I would
How about a married man?
Yep x"
Well I appreciate your honesty and consistency |
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"Interesting read. I'm not surprised by how many women wouldn't meet a married guy but out of curiosity, how many of you women would knowingly meet a married lady?
I would
How about a married man?
Yep x
Well I appreciate your honesty and consistency "
Np x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If their honest both male/female part then if they get a response then so be it. Each to their own I say. It's the same as stating a forum about any kind of kink on here! Live and let live if it's not to someone's liking then block or don't reply |
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By *iss-louWoman
over a year ago
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"Not if youre playing with her consent no.
Most blokes arent though
Some play with consent and their partner doesn't want to know about it yet other still scorn them and that pisses me off. You could be the most loving partner/husband/wife and have an absolutely fantastic relationship but one or the other may not be sexually adventurous or have no sex drive whatsoever. What is a person supposed to do then? This is a topic that pisses me off when people take the moral high ground yet don't know other members circumstances and tars all with the same brush!"
No tarring going on at all. You play with people who are ok with it. There are enough about.
Nobodys obliged to meet anyone else no matter what the circumstances |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would never knowingly meet married/attached people on here. Of course you get your liers and that's out of your control. I know how I would feel if it was done to me and how it would rip apart my family so I would never want to be a part of that. I don't care about the reasons behind the person cheating . If you aren't happy leave! I don't bend on this subject and that's my decision and opinion xxmiss |
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"I would never knowingly meet married/attached people on here. Of course you get your liers and that's out of your control. I know how I would feel if it was done to me and how it would rip apart my family so I would never want to be a part of that. I don't care about the reasons behind the person cheating . If you aren't happy leave! I don't bend on this subject and that's my decision and opinion xxmiss "
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I am quite new on here, but use to do a lot about 10/15 years ago with my wife. So soon as she said stop, we stopped. But I was always told to carry on if I wanted to. Its beed a while but I am looking at giving it a go again and we talked about it. Now she was slight bi and we have talked about if I found a lady and she came home would she join in. It was a very shy no. But my wife did say if I do find a lady and they did not like the fact I was married, my wife would be happy to tell them that she was fine with it. |
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Why can't people just be honest with them selfs and others and show some backbone, I was in a unhappy marriage, so I sat her down and told her my feelings, then she said I rather you fuck other women than leave me,I told her straight I won't do that to you not fair on you,so we separated plus we have kids,yes it was heartbreaking and hard ,both of us got through it by helping each other,we get on better now than when we are together ,I have a beautiful partner now that into the same things ,And I've never
been happier and the kids have settled and are happy to and they see my partner as there second mum , so being honest is the best way I feel |
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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago
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"Why can't people just be honest with them selfs and others and show some backbone, I was in a unhappy marriage, so I sat her down and told her my feelings, then she said I rather you fuck other women than leave me,I told her straight I won't do that to you not fair on you,so we separated plus we have kids,yes it was heartbreaking and hard ,both of us got through it by helping each other,we get on better now than when we are together ,I have a beautiful partner now that into the same things ,And I've never
been happier and the kids have settled and are happy to and they see my partner as there second mum , so being honest is the best way I feel"
Now that's what i call a REAL MAN. Well done for doing the right thing and good luck.xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s each to their own surely? Like some people have said, life isn’t black and white. It’s not excusing those who lie or cheat but it’s their decision at the end of the day & also the decision of whoever chooses to meet them.
Some people lie about their age on here, some about their occupation...it takes all sorts on here is what I’ve come to learn. Be too quick to judge and you’ll often be judged yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My opinion is that if there are two consenting adults willing to have some fun then in my opinion that’s fine.
I’m not saying everyone will agree with this but that is just my opinion.
Not here to wreck any relationships etc, but I don’t ask too many questions about personal life etc as the select individual will have their own reasons on why they are on here.
So, personally, I feel, if there are people willing to play, let them play. The main thing is that everyone should respect everyone’s views on why they are on here. Even if they don’t necessarily agree with why they are on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Interesting read. I'm not surprised by how many women wouldn't meet a married guy but out of curiosity, how many of you women would knowingly meet a married lady?
I would "
How many messages have you had since this reply? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn’t seem to be men vs women, it’s about the two people in the equation at the time. Their personal circumstances will dictate what they choose to do - some are for some are against. It’s not as easy as saying all men would happily do it & women wouldn’t |
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Yeah in a nut shell I won't judge you if you do (I do really!) But it is all down to both parties to be open and honest I think, if there are consequences then that's down to those persons. I think men get that reputation as there's so many of us on here and I don't think it's fair to discriminate. All that said I wouldn't knowingly meet an attached lady. |
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"Why can't people just be honest with them selfs and others and show some backbone, I was in a unhappy marriage, so I sat her down and told her my feelings, then she said I rather you fuck other women than leave me,I told her straight I won't do that to you not fair on you,so we separated plus we have kids,yes it was heartbreaking and hard ,both of us got through it by helping each other,we get on better now than when we are together ,I have a beautiful partner now that into the same things ,And I've never
been happier and the kids have settled and are happy to and they see my partner as there second mum , so being honest is the best way I feelNow that's what i call a REAL MAN. Well done for doing the right thing and good luck.xx"
'Real man' what an awful saying and so condescending |
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This post has obviously stirred feelings in some (probably someone who has been cheated on)
We must however remember the nature of this site and that we are all adults. Slating other folks views isn't helpful. We can all have our views without belittling others or making them feel what they do is 'wrong'. If you don't like that a person has a partner then just don't meet them, same as 'out of age range', 'too tall', 'too short' etc.
Be nice to each other and happy swinging xxxxxxx |
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"Interesting read. I'm not surprised by how many women wouldn't meet a married guy but out of curiosity, how many of you women would knowingly meet a married lady?
I would
How many messages have you had since this reply? "
same as usual x |
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"This post has obviously stirred feelings in some (probably someone who has been cheated on)
We must however remember the nature of this site and that we are all adults. Slating other folks views isn't helpful. We can all have our views without belittling others or making them feel what they do is 'wrong'. If you don't like that a person has a partner then just don't meet them, same as 'out of age range', 'too tall', 'too short' etc.
Be nice to each other and happy swinging xxxxxxx"
Probably the best response I've read! We're all adults here....get the facts and make a grown up decision! Simples! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well nice read that was yeah honesty is best policy and I have always been that on here. Never pushed the boundaries. If some one doesn’t like me then who cares. Meet a few ppl on here couples and I know few in this forum who have prob no idea that I pop back now and again. No point in telling lies it only bites u in the ass. |
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By *art23Man
over a year ago
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When a mans dick is hard his head is soft!! so I think most men on here bullshit anyway and get away with it most of the time. Women do it much more discrete than men. I agree not all are the same but a majority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When a mans dick is hard his head is soft!! so I think most men on here bullshit anyway and get away with it most of the time. Women do it much more discrete than men. I agree not all are the same but a majority. "
To be fair, there are a lot of ladies on here who are attached too, it's not just a guy thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are many men and women on here for their own reasons married or not.
no one shouts their mouth off at a single person who would like to meet a married person but when they are married and want to meet then they are in the wrong.
Each to their own I say we all take our chances, I am in the married bracket but my wife has said she don't care as long as she don't find out.
I love her and would never leave her I would love to meet a woman in the same position as me who just wants a bit of fun now and then. Apply within. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey at least no ones been called 'scum' yet, that's how people have been referred too in the past if they admit to meeting married people. Happy fabbing people X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Married or attached?
It adds to the thrill and it’s none of my business is my personal opinion. Can hinder availability but as a man adverse to clinginess and jealousy I find it’s a dynamic that works for me as well as any other |
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each to their own I say leave judgement to those who have the right to judge or are you all saints? 
