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By *rivate hire OP Man
over a year ago
close to ystrad mynach |
Don’t know if it’s just me but I can text chat all day confidently but I’ve been offered a meet and just couldn’t follow through with it as I’m too shy so anyone else in the same position message me if you want or reply |
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By *onbon7Couple
over a year ago
Cardiff |
That won’t go down well on here. If you arrange a meet and don’t turn up you’re seen as a time waster, the people you’re meeting put in the effort, it’s disrespectful if you don’t turn up. We had a single guy not turn up yesterday because he ‘forgot’. That’s 2 hours of our lives we won’t get back! If you don’t have the bells to go through with the meet, don’t start the chat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That won’t go down well on here. If you arrange a meet and don’t turn up you’re seen as a time waster, the people you’re meeting put in the effort, it’s disrespectful if you don’t turn up. We had a single guy not turn up yesterday because he ‘forgot’. That’s 2 hours of our lives we won’t get back! If you don’t have the bells to go through with the meet, don’t start the chat! "
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Start by going to your local group social, it is utterly pointless being on the site if you know you can't meet others, maybe try building up your confidence and then coming back once you can meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah not showing up after arranging a meet literally ruins things for you especially if the person is well known just suck it up and meet them my first meet was at 18 with a 40 year old everyone gets nervous just go with the flow |
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By *arrapsMan
over a year ago
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"The sites saturated with keyboard wankers, love the idea of hookups etc, but never follow through. You've done yourself no favours X"
Hit the nail smack on the head.
It’s difficult enough for us genuine men, when you start messing people about they get all defensive and block all contact from single men.
Either man up and meet or leave this site. |
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By *rivate hire OP Man
over a year ago
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"The sites saturated with keyboard wankers, love the idea of hookups etc, but never follow through. You've done yourself no favours X
Hit the nail smack on the head.
It’s difficult enough for us genuine men, when you start messing people about they get all defensive and block all contact from single men.
Actually never backed out of the meet I was just asked if I was interested and said from the start that I don’t think I’m ready and the couple in question was understanding about it
Either man up and meet or leave this site."
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The adrenaline rush of meeting someone new is often the main reason people are on here.
As said above, try going to a social either a group one or 1 on 1. If you're too shy to meet for a no pressure social then this may not be the site for you. |
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"The adrenaline rush of meeting someone new is often the main reason people are on here.
As said above, try going to a social either a group one or 1 on 1. If you're too shy to meet for a no pressure social then this may not be the site for you."
I think you should have worded this post differently from the start incorporating the fact that you never actually set up a meet in the fist place. I have spoken with others and suddenly they stop communicating and not because I'm an ass lol.
I see you have just had a social with a lady so you're on the right track. Visit a few more socials and before you know it you're on your way. Socials can also be a little daunting if you don't know anyone but hopefully the more experienced people will keep an eye out and drag you into a conversation. It does make it easier if you do know people before you go and you can also chat with other that are planning to go to the socials. This is purely a friendship exercise and they won't be expecting you to drop your pant and roger them upon meeting of even after but you may come away with a few more friends.
Best of luck mate! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And here's me always getting either no reply or deleted messages 
Chin up OP. Just need to build your confidence up a bit. Social interactions etc can be difficult for some, it's normal. Just battle through that anxiety! |
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