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How Has Swinging Changed For You ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So Ive been swinging on and off for over 10 years and the scene has changed a lot in that time.
I have my own thoughts on how and why swinging has changed over the years and just wanted others views on how its has changed for them whether they be good or bad  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On and off for almost 10 years myself and it seems more structured now but more hoops to jump through.
Also seems to be a warped understanding of what swinging is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would say the internet side has changed which we'd guess would have something to do with swinging and sites like fab being in the media regularly.
Due to the change on the sites we have pretty much given up with fab etc and have started to visit clubs when we get some rare free time off together. |
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I've not been a long server but I think the the ease of being able to access these sites makes it difficult to meet genuine people. I almost wish you had to accept an invite from genuine and verified people so we didn't have fake profiles all the time, almost luke a secret lucrative club! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its changed quite alot over the years from when I first came on the scene.
I think that many treat the lifestyle as "instafuck" and don't grasp the fact that the social side is just as important than the sexual side.
The knock on effect is that there doesn't seem to be many house party's as there used to as the community is not as close knit as it used to be.
There are many more people using app chats that would have otherwise been on the site chat rooms, and I dont see that changing in the future. |
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By *arrapsMan
over a year ago
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Been on here 6 years, as a single and with a partner . It was easier to meet couples before and I had many great meetings.
Now you have to jump through so many hoops I sometimes wonder if it’s worth it. Even going to socials you have a hard time now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We would say the internet side has changed which we'd guess would have something to do with swinging and sites like fab being in the media regularly.
Due to the change on the sites we have pretty much given up with fab etc and have started to visit clubs when we get some rare free time off together. "
This for us, we no longer meet via the site & often debate the need to keep the profile going. But I hang on more so than him X |
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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago
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"Its changed quite alot over the years from when I first came on the scene.
I think that many treat the lifestyle as "instafuck" and don't grasp the fact that the social side is just as important than the sexual side.
The knock on effect is that there doesn't seem to be many house party's as there used to as the community is not as close knit as it used to be.
There are many more people using app chats that would have otherwise been on the site chat rooms, and I dont see that changing in the future."
This....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I dont think swinging is as laidback anymore for me. To many people playing head games and getting posessive if they have played with someone once or twice. I dont just mean single guys either, some single women can be just as bad especially at one event I go to. |
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By *roggMan
over a year ago
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Long given up taking it too seriously on here but probably stay on for the decent people I have come across. Always more difficult for guys as there are some many of them
Still find that quite a lot of people who have poor attitude on here though |
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"Its changed quite alot over the years from when I first came on the scene.
I think that many treat the lifestyle as "instafuck" and don't grasp the fact that the social side is just as important than the sexual side.
The knock on effect is that there doesn't seem to be many house party's as there used to as the community is not as close knit as it used to be.
There are many more people using app chats that would have otherwise been on the site chat rooms, and I dont see that changing in the future."
Nailed it. |
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Gone are the days when it was exciting to meet people, back in the good old days swing 2 us was the best site to be on, now this site is full of fakes and time wasters, we are now looking for a monthly subscription site and only staying on here for the welsh weekend, which is the best thing we've been to in the past 18 years |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Think its hard work on here for everyone these days but sometimes you do come across a rare gem.
I do like the social side of swinging and have been lucky enough to make some really good friends on Fab who I would stay in touch with even if I stopped swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very slim chance for single men to enjoy regular swinging ..  "
If single men are finding it hard to meet all they have to do is attend social events or chams it does help single males alot |
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