Just read in one of the forums that some people think if the male has bi curious on a couples profile it reduces their chances of meeting people.
I list bi curious on our profile as mrs b has a fantasy to see me and another guy playing to be fair i'd love to see her with another woman so fares fare. Am very secure in my sexuality so do not feel it undermines me as a man
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Why would it under mine you as a man.? . Its yours and your wife fantasy/bucket list.
Yes there are some singles and couples that won't play with bi or bi-curious men/couples but that's their choice.
My own view on it its just fun, I've met some amazing people on here, as well as true friends, men/women/couples know me for who I am not for my sexuality. Well 80% of the time lol.
I'm not everyones cup of tea and everyone not my cup of tea, that's fine each to their own.
I'm sure you both will find what your looking for on here. |
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I think there's going to be people who don't like it but each to their own. I'm bi but doesn't mean I wouldn't respect another female as part of a couple. And definitely doesn't mean I'd actually fancy her.
Some people get all wound up that if you're bi you fancy everyone and that so isn't true. The way I see it if they don't want to play cause I'm bi, they aren't the kind of people for me in the first place |
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"I think there's going to be people who don't like it but each to their own. I'm bi but doesn't mean I wouldn't respect another female as part of a couple. And definitely doesn't mean I'd actually fancy her.
Some people get all wound up that if you're bi you fancy everyone and that so isn't true. The way I see it if they don't want to play cause I'm bi, they aren't the kind of people for me in the first place "
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I only play bi when Jackie tells me to, dont get me wrong, I appreciate a big ol' good looking dick, but I'm not attracted to guys at all. So I have curious on our profile, but incase theres a hot couple you wanna get their freak on lol |
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I have bi curious on our profile for mrs b as i said she d like to see me play with a guy.
Have never fancied a guy not even while i was playing rugby . But will to go with the flow with the right people |
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Been reading that too and found it a bit depressing in all honesty. Some of the comments I found a bit ignorant, considering we're all on a swingers site. Implying that bi men are more likely to be promiscuous is a bit mental. I myself find it hot when a man is confident in himself that he doesn't mind being surrounded by a male of any sexual orientation. As long as there are defined boundaries what's the problem. However, do understand that it's those couples right to play with whoever they want to. Just maybe wish they were more understanding, as I'm sure they wouldn't like being called promiscuous since they are on a swingers site |
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I'm not even sure the issue is with bi-curious, I have seen many profiles who refuse to even entertain playing with bi men in general. It is of course everyone's prerogative to play with whoever they please, but it is definitely kind of depressing that on a swingers site, there appears to be just as much ignorance as in the vanilla world. |
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"Been reading that too and found it a bit depressing in all honesty. Some of the comments I found a bit ignorant, considering we're all on a swingers site. Implying that bi men are more likely to be promiscuous is a bit mental. I myself find it hot when a man is confident in himself that he doesn't mind being surrounded by a male of any sexual orientation. As long as there are defined boundaries what's the problem. However, do understand that it's those couples right to play with whoever they want to. Just maybe wish they were more understanding, as I'm sure they wouldn't like being called promiscuous since they are on a swingers site "
Try going to gran canaria and spending time in the yumbo.if you be comfortable there you can be comfortable anywhere (john) lol |
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"Why would it under mine you as a man.? . Its yours and your wife fantasy/bucket list.
Yes there are some singles and couples that won't play with bi or bi-curious men/couples but that's their choice.
My own view on it its just fun, I've met some amazing people on here, as well as true friends, men/women/couples know me for who I am not for my
sexuality. Well 80% of the time lol.
I'm not everyones cup of tea and everyone not my cup of tea, that's fine each to their own.
I'm sure you both will find what your looking for on here. "
I agree with apples. It shouldnt undermine you as a man. Its your bucketlist your fantasy. Nobody can take that away from you.  |
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