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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your initial message needs to stand out, women on here get 100’s of messages each day. It all starts from the subject header.
Make sure you send a face pic (there’s an option to delete after it’s read) as you don’t have any visible pics.
Best advice though is just be normal, if you come across as arrogant or a bit of a prick in your messages you’ll get ignored.
And be patient, women can afford to be very picky on here as the ratio is horrendously lopsided.
Happy fabbing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look at older posts from males asking for advice.
My advice is...
1. Go to socials
2. Go to socials
3. Go to.socials
Oh and if your up for it, go to a club. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok thank you both that's a lot of help I'll have to think about what I send then, I'm not arrogant at all just shit at the first message and socials are a good idea cheers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only advice i can give is make sure you read peoples profile. Plus don't get down hearted if your message isn't read its crazy for women/couples on here. Plus, not best to make the initial message a ‘hi, hows you?’ And make sure to include a face pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only speak for myself and apologise in advance if it seems like I'm picky!
I honestly don't look at message titles every time,but if it has something in it that shows me someone's read my profile i am more likely to read and reply. Also if see the starting of the message and if it says something less than 'hi How's you' then unfortunately I don't read coz for me there's only so many times you can reply fine thanks how's you, and the conversation quickly dies. I agree with a pic included, that's your choice to send and like they said once it's seen its deleted for privacy, but, this is maybe where I contradict myself lol but I personally don't like first messages to say have you got a face pic, coz that's like saying 'let's see what you look like to see if your worth chatting with! Again just my opinion, but maybe I wouldn't be like it if i didn't get messages from twats!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no clue what the last three things in your message said?!
But yea I do, I get 'hey what's your face like? Or 'hi I've sent a pic, if you don't send a face pic I will block! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no clue what the last three things in your message said?!
But yea I do, I get 'hey what's your face like? Or 'hi I've sent a pic, if you don't send a face pic I will block!"
It basically means yuck. Fucking hell. What guy thinks that would work with a fem on here. Guaranteed they've got no Veris or just one or two hidden ones/fakes. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you've been on here looking for meets and you haven't been verified at all after about 6 months. There is def some issues. Plus. If you only have a couple of Veris why hide them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You really need some pics.
They don't have to be facial.
Just do a torso pic.
There are plenty of options.
If we get messages with no pictures I will mostly delete.
Good luck
Jo x"
Definitely this.. we don't reply to a silhouette.
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