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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi all
we have been going to chams for a while now but still not sure how to have fun with other people without seeming forward or pushy. we would also like to go to a social but a little nervous. any advice would be appreciated
thanks
k&p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a social is just a gathering where we all have a laugh and a natter, its a good way to meet people. Cardiff Social and Swansea Socials are both excellent. Also come and chat in the chat room get to know us in there, you will soon be meeting others xxxx get yr confidence up and you be away and playing xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the cardiff socail is a great place to meet alot off here. We have been going to the socials for a few months now and have met some good friends. We feel the same when in chams never know how to initiate having fun with someone but i think thats something that will come with confidence and time.. well hope to see you both at the cardiff social
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we dont really like the socials that much, but are regulars in chams, and we kind of know what your going through.
what we found is, if your a little too shy to directly ask people to play, then get yourself up to the couples room, and start playing on the bed be it alone, or alongside another couple, things will happen naturally and there is something more exciting about spontaneity |
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We've found so many friends through the socials, and have had some sexy times since we have been going. Its a great no pressure way of meeting foks for the first time. Come along and join the party.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think what martandebz said is spot on. We started going to chams snd if you shy either get in the jacuzzi or go to the couples room and it soon happens.If you stay in the bar all night then not many will aproach you. It can be very nervy first time but its also very exciting. And dont forget to relax and smile lol |
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