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regular with more than sex or one offs?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just a general question for the females / couples, do you prefer regular guys or one offs? Many years ago I would go for one offs.... but as Ive grown old (haha) I much prefer regular! I find the sex gets better and it can lead to sooooo much more fun in the long term with regards to sex,nights away,friendship etc. So whats your preferred choice and why? thanks....Mrsp69 x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to love one offs but they bore the shit out of me these days ,and I need more than just sex finding it though is a different story x"
haha, maybe its as we get older! And yes I feel your pain although there are some great guys on here! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both of us prefer long term friends over a one off meeting we both really like to get to know the other person we are spending time with. There are many benefits
To knowing how each other tick and how to relax and stimulate each other beyond that of a one off meeting.
That also said though in certain circumstances we think everyone has times where their sex drive just seems to peak and lust for that unconnected one off where you seem to just let go that touch more. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a single guy that we meet regular, not just for play but for the social side to, we class him as a good friend, Fi would be quiet happy just meeting with him as she is comfortable.
We are currently looking for couples thou for chat social drinks |
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"Would be ideal to find someone regular for bedroom fun as well as company..
I don't think its realistic however .."
It's realistic as long as 2 people can start off with a decent conversation together. Unfortunately the art of conversation is lost on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have tried looking for regular. But no one replies. Which is fair enough. I bet they get so many messages it’s bard to build up a rapport over messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Much prefer regular meets to one off's. Sex gets better each time. Plus I cannot be bothered having to build countless connections with men via messages, for no shows, and one off meets. I have a life outside of fab! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all the replies....I find it interesting also that 95% of the ladies who replied and want the same as me are also 40 and over. Maybe its as we get more comfortable with our life / marriage etc ha |
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100% regular but as no one ever replies it's kinda hard to get a meet let alone someone regular to even have a social with, as already said though that's fair enough given the disproportionate amount of guys on here. |
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We came here hoping to find a single guy we could get to know have fun and a proper friendship with.
With the thinking that type of friendship could be a lot of fun. Nights out evening in chilli chatting hot sex!
But unfortunately most guys seem to think the friendship and staying in touch is to drop you a message to say they are horny and want to meet! Gets a bit boring with little effort.
So unfortunately we are at the stage where we been put off at the moment.
Just tend to lurk round the forums etc and maybe one day spy a lucky guy!
We will see!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Prefer regular, you can get to know each others likes and dislikes... Plus conversation pre and post is good, and thats always easier if you get to know someone |
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"As much trouble you have finding a regular we are having equal trouble finding a regluar"
 sad really. People seem to have forgotten its a swinging site. Just because we are open minded we are all want prositutes.
To many people here just think it's free sex and don't need to put the effort in!
Swinging in my head is partly about the relationship you build round the sex with the people you meet.
Thinking aloud they should start a sister site call fabsexters or something make a difference between the 2!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe finding a regular FB is the best/
Sex becomes better as you find out what you both like so it can’t really get worse!
Friendship between the two grows and I always find it much more appealing if your friends, socials can happen and then you’ve got a sexual friend for life   |
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"As much trouble you have finding a regular we are having equal trouble finding a regluar"
Wish I was around a bit more at the mo........But hopefully my next placements will get me closer my buddies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular is definitely better however this notion seems to unnerve some men that I’ve met and they seem to think you want something more, so I’ve mostly experienced one offs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of people seem to think regular = committed relationship, in our minds it's just an enhanced friendship with fun attached, the best of both worlds X |
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"A lot of people seem to think regular = committed relationship, in our minds it's just an enhanced friendship with fun attached, the best of both worlds X"
Exactly this, but unfortunately it's quite hard to come by. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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totally agree....I make it clear from the off, I am VERY HAPPILY married (20 years) but love to meet others! And yes that includes lots of fun, meals, drinks, friends, nights together etc. That does NOT mean I want to marry them ha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular is definitely more satisfying. I’ve been friends with a couple for over 10 years shared sexy fun times with them shared family time shared holidays with them but I have absolutely no desire to try and split them up. I enjoy my time as an extra with both. Just wish they were closer and we could meet a little more often  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would definitely opt for a fwb over one offs. I agree sex is so much better the more you get to know someone and the build up to each meet and and trying new things is so much better than just a one off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like one offs as I enjoy the chase, I've had a couple of regulars but having kids and being an adult cock blocks me, A regular fwb is the way as long as the dreaded feels don't surface |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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deffo exists, I find my regular friends much more fun, better than just a quick fuck! I love a chat, coffee etc as a connection is good. And a relationship of sorts for me always helps the sex also ha x |
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Much prefer building regular poly type conscious connections, can talk openly, dive deeper and get more adventurous.
But these have to start somewhere.. With the first meet, when hopefully the chemistry will fly. xx |
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For me my ideal partner is someone who will like me being monogamous with them but they on the other hand can play or see other people.
I suppose because at this time in my life I am not emotionally dependent on a woman is a blessing and a curse in many ways. I have had some long term relationships with couples and they have worked well, I think because I am not wanting her to leave the husband, I just enjoy non complicated fun, which does turn into a more fulfilling encounter where all parties enjoy. But you don’t have that constant need to be or see the people involved.
My issue is I have people to do things with, however I have no body to do nothing with! So a female friend with benefits, or a female of a couple is my ideal scenario. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some really interesting points of view on here. Good post.
I love conversation and getting to know someone beforehand, but I can see how that could irritate some women, as its time consuming. But I prefer to make the effort. It instills trust and anticipation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree that a regular fuck buddy is usually more fun. It's more that one finds familiarity and becomes more confident and comfortable to be themselves once they get to know someone better.
I'm certainly looking for one now....its all about the full interaction and experience |
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